Two women explore intense love and whether it's codependent. Speaker B describes a holiday when her partner Justin withdrew, leaving her suffocated until a specific practice restored her vitality. They distinguish between innocent love and awakened love that persists despite betrayal, offering a practice to open the heart and connect it to the yoni.
Sometimes when we love so much, our friends can think we're nuts. Has anyone had this experience? See, a lot of you cracking up. I mean, you know, you call a friend, tell them what's going on, and they just, they just look at you like, are you insane? Have you become entirely codependent? Tragic? You know, like, what's wrong with you? And this is something that happens to the women who do this work and begin to get very deep into it. And it can be very confusing, right?
Because you're like, wait a minute, am I still healthy? Is this cool? Is this not cool?
It can feel like you don't even know if you're on track or off track. I want to really do this tonight for, for the reason of it doesn't get talked about enough in sacred sexuality. I hear this confusion constantly.
But secondly, because over the holiday break I experienced a version of this.
Justin was going through something and I felt the withdrawal of his presence with me. It wasn't even related to me.
And it was, it was like I couldn't breathe, you know. It was like I became dark. It was, it was like suddenly everything in my world had a tinge of like It's nothing's working. And then we did our practice, it melted all the walls. I felt that boom come back, and I felt a little crazy because I, I skipped out of that practice like life was just amazing, you know, from like tragic to elated in one practice.
And you know, it definitely has the scent of crazy. So tonight I wanted to break it down for you through our map to really give you an idea of how you can go there without losing yourself, go there without losing your power, go there because, you know, the child loves from innocence. The child has never been hurt. The child loves at that level of abandon because they can, like they still have this god and goddess named Mom and Dad. The awakened woman, she's been raked over the coals a couple of times. She's been shocked and betrayed. She's been hurt. But she chooses to love with abandon because that's what she's here to do, independent of condition and circumstance. That's what she's here to do, is find that heart, open that heart, connect it to Yoni, and live from
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