Relationship Advice | How Your Feelings Become a Gift

So how do we master feeling? And by mastering feeling, I do not mean controlling it. I mean being skillful as a feeler such that we're bringing it as a gift in relationship. Number 1, we stop controlling. We get very used to allowing what's here. What's here? How does it move? What is it telling me? Right? You want your intuition to come online? Allow your feeling to come online. And then ask yourself, what is this telling me? What is this showing me? What do I need to know? That's where you're going to find out all of the needs that are not being met. That's where you're going to find out all of the desires that are forgotten. That's where you're going to find out all of the stuff that's going to just light up your moments with him. So first of all, stop controlling, start allowing, stop judging, and stop identifying, and instead witness and move. Find your river, let your seer Oh, I see this is moving. Hmm, let's see where it goes. And then you allow that feeling to move through you. You breathe that full feeling breath down the front. You unguard your body and you become curious and you let yourself become alive. You experience the divine union between your seer and feeler such that no matter how he holds that feeling, you're not going to be abandoned in it. And by that, you don't get smaller, you get bigger. You don't get fragmented, you get coherent. You don't get lost, you get found. And by this, with all of that power, can you just imagine how much Omega power is present in that posture, in that yoga? You can turn to him and show. You can turn to him and have compassion for what's coming up for him as you have compassion for what's coming up for you. You can be so present in the right now moment that your feeling becomes this huge gift to him. This is what gives you the courage and capacity to become truly masterful with feeling, where feeling is no longer the enemy, feeling is no longer something you objectify yourself with. You know, so often we're trained that we have to be happy, horny, and grateful to be pleasing in relationship, to be something that he's willing to make room for. And we scratch that record at this group and we say, no, he's there for our color. And so there's room for you to be that 5D full-color unicorn of feeling because you are in so much command of your flow. You are so connected to your river that he actually feels the gift of the river rather than pushed away by it.