Justin Patrick Pierce explains why men misread women's anger as irrationality when it's actually a compass for the relationship. The real work isn't understanding sacred sex teachings intellectually, but living them: learning to stay present and aware instead of fixing or avoiding your partner's emotions.
A lot of times men will hear me talk about feminine emotion and how there's wisdom in it, and a lot of men don't have any idea what that means or how that could possibly be true, because when there's an angry woman in front of you, all you see is madness, as if it's irrational. Unjustified, a nuisance. But it is for the reason that I just read that your woman can essentially become your compass, your bullshit meter. But that only works if you're capable of meeting her in the presence that was just described. If your heart closes and you become angry, if you attempt to see her emotions as a problem and fix them, if you collapse and go inwards and turn away and hide away and leave, it's not possible to create this kind of relationship in your life. It's impossible. It doesn't work that way. But that's how most people are approaching relationship. In those ways. That's why the point I want to convey tonight is that what I just read in this work, this sexual yogic work, it's not a philosophy. You can't read it and have anything change about your life whatsoever. Nothing will change. It's a yoga that must be practiced and experienced in order for any of these changes to take place. And the bowtie of this teaching is that when we learn to rest as consciousness, to recognize our successes and failures are going to ebb and flow with the currents of life, Everyone realizes that. There's times where a relationship is going to be amazing, sex is going to be amazing, business is going to be amazing. There's going to be times where it's very much the opposite. But what Data is pointing to and describing is a man's capacity to rest as being, as consciousness, despite whatever is arising in his life and in his woman. And that's the test or the measure of his capacity. His capacity to hold the feminine is a perfect metaphor, synonymous with his ability to— his capacity for all of life, of nature, including the woman in front of him, his passion for that.
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