Justin Patrick PierceYoga of Intimacy · Relationship Consultant

Yoga of Intimacy: The Missing Link In Getting What you Want Sexually

Name: Yoga of Intimacy: The Missing Link In Getting What you Want Sexually
Uploaded: 2023-01-04T19:21:21+00:00
Duration: 1 min 20 s
Channel: Justin Patrick Pierce
Description: In this monologue, the speaker argues that sexual satisfaction does not depend on a partner magically knowing one’s desires. Even a willing, capable…

4 Jan 2023 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker argues that sexual satisfaction does not depend on a partner magically knowing one’s desires. Even a willing, capable partner will fall short if the individual cannot clearly articulate what they want or guide the partner toward it. The speaker emphasizes that the listener must first understand their own sexual desires deeply, then learn to communicate those desires and use their body to teach the partner how to fulfill them. By reframing sexual pleasure as a personal responsibility rather than something the partner must provide, the dynamics of intimacy shift, preventing the common cycle of frustration, shutdown, and disengagement.

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So much of the time we think like, if I have the perfect partner in front of me and I say what I would need is, they're just going to be able to give it to me perfectly. Not the case. You could have a totally willing partner ready to make love to you to the best of their ability, and your inability to correctly guide them is actually the limiting factor. That you don't know what to say or how to respond that actually gets your partner to give you the thing you're desiring. And because you don't know how to ask for it or how to respond in a way that really begins to bring that quality through, you become frustrated with them. You start to shut down. They feel you shutting down. They shut down. Game over. Sound familiar? Your partner is not a mind reader and they never will be. You must understand what it is that you desire deeply in your sexuality.. And you must learn how to communicate it and use your body to inspire your lover to be able to bring it through theirs. You are their teacher, teaching them how to open you sexually. The moment you make that reframe in your mind that your sexuality, your sexual pleasure is your responsibility, the way you show up to love as an intimate partner changes dramatically.