A YouTube transcript excerpt in which Lori Harder explains that adopting 'feminine energy' in romantic life is an energetic way of being rather than a checklist of actions. She contrasts masculine pursuit (doing, chasing, achieving) with feminine magnetism (leaning back, being the 'honeypot' so partners are drawn to you), and emphasizes presence and being over procedural steps.
A lot of people that want to get into the feminine energy world and work, they go, what do I need to do? It's like the masculine way of approaching it. Give me a list of things to do. I'm like, mel, just send me something after this. Send me a checklist of things to do and I'll do them. And then I'll be in my feminine, right? I'm going to be so feminine after I do more, it's going to be great. It's the opposite, right? It's about an energetic shift. Instead of being in that masculine pursuit of, like, I'm coming to you, like, I'm going to get the job done, I'm going to get you to do what I want. Because this is what has made us successful in our business, right? Is pursuit and the chasing down of goals. When it comes to romantic, your romantic life, your relationships, the opposite is true. When you lean back, when you are in your own energy, when you are in your own magnetism. And I like to say, when you are the honeypot, the bees will come to you, right? So this is something that you can do, but it's not about doing, it's about the way that you're being.
