Lori HarderFounder of glōci | Bestselling Author

How to Deal with Online Hate

9 Mar 2026 · 1 min

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In this segment of the YouTube video "How to Deal with Online Hate," Speaker B asks how to cope with the inevitable criticism that comes when one achieves success and puts themselves out there. Speaker A responds by reframing online hate as a sign that you are making an impact, stating that being talked about means you are "ruffling feathers" and doing something right. The core advice is to embrace the criticism, view it as validation of influence, and respond by working even harder—continuing to create content and push forward despite negativity. The dialogue emphasizes a mindset of perseverance, using hate as motivation, and maintaining self‑care by focusing on purpose rather than the detractors.

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When you grow to where you want and when you put yourself out there and when you're making the money that you want, you inevitably are going to get people who are going to talk shit about you. Oh, for sure. They're going to go against you. How have you dealt with that? Because I know it's absolutely happened to you. Oh, 1,000%. Like in a major way. How do you handle it? What do you focus on? What's the self-care?
Where do you go? You're either the person that talks about people or you're the person that people talk about. And I would rather be the person that people talk about because that means that I'm doing something right, that I'm actually making a wave. I will get worried when people stop making videos about me. Then I'll be like, I'm not doing enough. I'm not ruffling enough feathers. And the best thing to do that those people will hate is to just keep going even harder.