A short personal reflection by the speaker (Lori Harder) about relationship dynamics: intentionally allowing her male partner to lead, asking him to take charge of decisions, and resisting the urge to manage everything. She links this practice to maintaining a softer feminine energy and increased connection in the relationship.
Something that I've been really enjoying is allowing my man to lead and allowing myself to just follow his lead which when we are high achieving ambitious women, easier said than done, right? And so something that I've been catching myself do is when I want to just like take care of something when I want to just go ahead and make a decision I like slow down and I'm like babe, I would love if you would just handle this for us. And he loves it and I love it and it's great. It makes our relationship flow. When I try and manage too many things, when I try and kind of be the leader in our family and our relationship and my business, I start to feel like I'm doing too much and I don't feel connected anymore to my soft feminine energy that I want to be in. And so not just allowing him and asking him to lead but actually trusting that he can and not intervening.
