Lori Harder discusses when to end a relationship. The hosts recommend couples counseling every other week for ten months before deciding. If you've made that effort and still feel the relationship can't be saved, that intuition is your signal to leave.
we are seeing a lot of, especially women, leaving their relationships and/or their marriages.
I'm going through this with quite a few friends. What were some things that you did in the finality, or that you both did together, or the questions that you asked yourself around, how do I know I've given my all and that this really is the end and we can let this go?
I think that is such a beautiful and valuable question to ask. I needed to know and feel it in all of my being that I had gone to the ends of the earth to save the marriage before we made any decisions. For me, that looked like a commitment to couples counseling. We both showed up for that every other week for 10 months. And I think that when you know, you know, like, I hate to sound esoteric like that, but it's, it's a matter of following your intuition.
