Lori Harder left her marriage and quit her job to start posting coaching videos on YouTube in her SoulCycle clothes. Friends thought she was crazy. She argues that real success requires the kind of courage most people won't take.
If you are thinking differently, if you want to actually be able to think different and have a different outcome than everything you've ever seen, sometimes it's extreme. I could have never been who I knew I could be in that environment.
They're not really supportive of the evolution of you because you are now showing up as something different. My version of breaking free was not just divorcing a guy that looked good on paper, but burning everything to the ground, leaving my job, leaving my industry, starting over. and starting to publish videos on YouTube in my SoulCycle clothes about coaching and happiness. My friends started to say things like, are you crazy? And you look terrible. And this is a really, really bad look. And do you need any money? With pity. But you have to have that audacity. You have to have that courage. 'Cause especially in this game, no courage, no success.
