A woman used the "done energy" principle to attract a romantic partner, combining visualization of specific scenarios like cooking and dancing with rapid tapping and belief work to calm her nervous system. After moving to the countryside in September and renting a cottage, she felt the manifestation align with her intention.
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Can I really manifest the man of my dreams, right? Yeah. For me, the answer was no. For a long time, I found myself visualizing and imagining to the very detail the feeling of me being with someone who treated me well, was emotionally available to me, even to the point that they were a public speaker, they worked in a certain sector. I did a list. It was so specific. And I would do my testing, you know, I would do my rapid tapping. I would check in, do I believe this? How much do I believe this? How can I debunk some of the story? How can I bring that up? And done energy was the principle that if I said it at that point, you know, I have this wonderful, beautiful relationship with someone who inspires me and is ambitious and nurtures me and allows me to be all that I am. Did I believe it? No. Hmm. So the done energy principle was like, I know that my body is trying to keep me safe here. There is a predictive pattern in place and I've noticed it. And that's okay. There's nothing wrong with me. It doesn't mean I can't have it, but I'm gonna lessen the psychological threat. I'm gonna lessen that nervous system response that feels stressed about having another man because it could go wrong. And so that was hard for me, but I kept at it just a little bit every day. And I would always visualize this scene being in the kitchen cooking. I love to cook. Yeah. And he would be pouring us a wine and we'd be dancing around, music on. We love music, chatting about our day. And it was very clear to me, you know, I would do this over and over again. And I was feeling it and I was debunking every single imp as it came up, debunking every story as it came up. And I was just getting ready with it. I didn't know all the detail because obviously we don't know all the detail, but I was getting certain with the feeling. And I kid you not, brilliantly, the very date— because I like dates, I kind of like that as a target, and you can shift them, but I kind of like it because it gives me a litmus test if I believe it— it was around September. Didn't really make sense, but I stuck with it because September I'd just moved to the country and I was— and I'd sort of like gone and In the first instance, I sort of rented this cottage. It was pandemic and like 20 people looked at this place and I was like, I'll take it. And I got it inexplicably. In September, I ended up, my friend actually reminded me of this who I told, said, you know, you've just put an offer in on a house that you told me about in your done energy principle.
