Chasing someone else's version of discipline cost him everything. Success on the outside means nothi

So I had a friend and he had it all on the outside. You know, he was married with kids, you know, fancy red sports car. He was in great shape, he had a great business, he had a beautiful house. And then, you know, one day I saw him entering one of these like three hour a day discipline challenges. But, you know, one day he stumbled across, you know, something on the Internet that said, oh, you're not disciplined until you do these seven things every single day. I was like, what are you doing, man? Like, you got this family you're super busy with, you're already disciplined. And I don't know where he got the time from it, but it certainly wasn't the business because I was keeping him busy. And it was probably his family, but he didn't need the external validation. He had everything that somebody could want. And then he did it again. You know, he did the challenge once, he did it again, and then his wife walked out on him with the kids. And, you know, there was probably a lot of factors in there, but that was one of them that he was spending so much time devoted to, you know, being disciplined, you know, and whose ever definition it was, he was chasing someone else's definition of discipline and chasing someone else's dreams, and he sacrificed his own dreams.