Two people explain how couples can align on their future. Set aside 2-3 hours outside the home, somewhere quiet. Each partner shares their vision for the next year, then you make concrete plans together.
What would we tell other couples who are struggling to find common ground on growth goals?
Schedule a time, a long time, like at least a 2 to 3 hour block, ideally away from the house. You could do it at the house, but ideally if you get outside the house at a restaurant or a cafe or somewhere nice and quiet and just reconnect with where you are, where you'd like to be a year from now, or kind of in the perfect vision of your future and get on the same page and understand like, what is it that she wants? What is it that he wants? And then start to put together your plans on how you can make that happen together.