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Bedroom eyes, they call them. In a bygone day. Hey, Emily, you got a boyfriend? Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken. He thinks you're kind of cute.

A girl's gotta have standard.

Oh my. Do women know about shrinkage?

Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean? Like laundry? It shrinks. Can we not talk about sex so much?

Are you kidding me?

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Being bad feels pretty good. Well, you know, Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with.

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You're like. You're the young, hot Dr. Ruth.

I keep getting that. Yeah, I mean, it's nice.

The young, hot, thin, non accented Dr. Ruth.

I could do her accent. You put the penis in the mouth? No, that's. She kind of talks that way.

It's pretty close to that.

I met her once. She's like 4:10 I interviewed.

What did she. What did she say to you when you met her?

She was sweet because I'm Jewish. She's like really into the Jewish whatever.

Oh, she's Jewish?

Yeah. Dr. All Jewish, all mo. Okay. Most of the sex educators are Jewish for some reason.

What is that? What's that all about?

I don't know.

I've tried the sponsor.

I've tried to explain, like what they.

Like the svonces over there.

I don't know what it is. I think that we don't have a lot of hang ups around it.

And like the schmegma.

The what are you talking about?

Like circumstances. I'M just trying to think of Yiddish words that I know.

We're just open. I don't know. I do know Yiddish words, but nothing's like, what else?

You know what else you got?

I've got. Oh, my God.

I've got schlep. They like to schlep the penis into the vagina.

Penis in. It's such a nice. If you use all these sex toys, you got to schlep them in the house. And then. Okay, what else do I know that I heard a really funny one the other day that was so my friend used it. I was like, oh, kibitzing. So do you know kibitzing?

Kibitzing, yeah, you gotta.

Over there kibitzing. Raven.

That's what you guys were all doing five minutes ago.

Kit, I love.

Let's do the goddamn show.

I know. They're the best. So we were kibbiting and then another one. Do you want here? Okay. So when I was younger, people can watch us on you stream right now. I mean, if you're watching Emily's topless.

Emily's topless.

I'm topless tonight. Because, you know, hey, I just. Anything to get more.

She needed the nips to breathe.

But what I was gonna say is, so when my legs. Like when I was a little girl and I'd be sitting on the couch and my legs would be spread open, like, not like naked spread open, but not like a lady. Like, with my legs together across. My mom would say, look at you, your unger sprait. And that means your legs are wide open.

So what's the ungus and what's the sprite?

I don't know. I can't break it down for you word for word, but it's like some kind of Yiddish iteration. And she might even be off about that. So how are you, Anderson? It's great to see you. Because we weren't here last week because I was attending a series of a bazillion.

But before we move on from the Yiddish. So when you're receiving. For when a female is receiving the schwants, the Angus spritz must be unger spritted.

I was just saying. I was. It wasn't lady.

She was saying that your legs were akimbo. Okay, I got it.

You know, this is my other favorite one. If you waste money on something like money down the drain, she says, eis kefarfa ni gelt. And gelt is money. I know, but it's like you don't know the.

You don't know the first part.

Eischfarf in the gelt or something like that. It means you threw money down the drain. What a waste of money. Okay.

It's very unjewish. Okay, go.

Okay. So Anderson.

Oh yeah, you were at Sheen, you were at AVNs or what?

Oh my God. So awards. It was friggin insane. The last like 12. I realized for the last 14 days I've had sex related conferences every night. And I know that sounds super exciting and some of them were the porn awards, but I have to tell you, it was non stop every night because some of it was like business. So I'll tell you, I'll tell you how it all broke down. Okay, so because January is the big month, right, for like sex conferences and porn awards. And when I say sex conferences, it's like all the toys and the products. And so I. First thing I had X Biz, which is the xbiz.com they're like the trade journal for all the sex industry. They had a big dinner, right? So the dinner. They had a dinner for a lot of executives in the sex world, which is myself, I'm an executive.

Do they get cute with the menu or do they just serve straight chicken and beef?

They said chicken and beef, but speaking. So guess who hosted the after party?

Ron Jeremy.

He was there. Our buddy, Mr. Skin.

Oh yeah, awesome.

So usually I go to these things, I'm like, I have a huge week, I've got, you know, not only did I have a conference two days before that, which I don't even want to tell you about because it was just. There's too much to talk about tonight, but I had my she conference. So anyway, I'm like, I'm not gonna stay, you know, I wanna see Mr. Skin, say hi. And sometimes these parties seem like they're gonna be. It was at the Andaz Hotel rooftop. It's like in West Hollywood. It's on Sunset or whatever. And so it's like after the dinner it's like people are going. A lot of people are kind of, you think people in the industry, everyone's kind of crazy, wild. But people are executives like selling toys and doing their things. And then all of a sudden Mr. Skin's thing starts and there's like naked women, like paint, you know, hey, wait.

A minute, go back. What's the Mr. Skin thing?

So it was an after party. So we have a dinner from 7 to 9. It was like a very formal dinner. And then it's a Mr. Skin party. And he shows up. It was great to see him. And then like they put up all these, you know, like, posters and like all these, like, movie posters of like. But really it was like Mr. Skin's face in it. And you could pose next to different celebrities. And then there's a whole outdoor area where there was all these by the pool, but there was all these covered up lounges, so you could easily, like, tuck in there. And like, people were like. There was porn stars. So people started coming in in droves. People were having sex or the girls going down each other. Bondage. There was porn. There was male porn stars, female porn stars. A lot of guests that have been in the show. Like, Mia Bella, do you remember her? She's like transgender.

Yes, I do remember. Yes.

Male porn star. She's like, let's see if he's really that big. She, like, grabbed his penis. I mean, it was.

So they're at an after party.

Yes.

And they decide to all go to work. That'd be like going to a plumber. Big, you know, plumber bash. And then they get to the party and they're all in the bathroom, like, working on the pipes.

Exactly. Right. Because you think that why. Because, like, why would they come to a sex. Because you think they do that?

Because it's like, why do they got to do work stuff? It's like, they're off work. They're supposed to be partying. They should be partying.

They were partying. They were. They're porn stars banging. It's not work to them always. Apparently they do like sex. And it's funny that you. So that was that first night. And I ended up staying till 2am so every night I was gonna go home early, but every night there was a fun party. So that was the first night. Mr. Skin, of course. I'm like, okay, crazy.

I do love that guy.

And I did invite my friend who's kind of like straight up and never been to anything. I'm like. I think. Cause I'm sitting there going, this is actually kind of a good party. And not just because people. But there's like. You'd walk in one room, like people having sex. But then not like it was a sex party. And they were outside, it was private. But then inside there's like people doing bondage and just people dressed up crazy. Just, you know, porn. Fun stuff. But then, funny you should mention that about the plumbers, because the next night was the X Biz Porn Awards, Right. And I was presenting. So those are like huge awards. It was at the. Some hotel downtown and I was presenting. Which hotel? Sorry, Some big Marriott. I think it was the Marriott or something.

Some big hotel downtown, you said.

Okay, some big hotel. And these are the awards for, you know, there must be a thousand people there. These are also the XBIZ Porn Awards. And so I was asked to present an award.

What's your word?

I was presenting the award for best sex toy of the year, and also, like, most innovative design of the year.

Oh, that makes sense.

And then I got to go up on stage with another porn star who's like the MILF of the year porn person. And it was just really funny. And James Dean was the host. So I was backstage with him.

He's a surprisingly normal, nice guy.

He's like a nice Jewish guy from, like, the valley. He's super cool.

Got a big giant schwantz.

And I have to say that. Oh, oh. And then not the MILF that I went up on stage to present with, but later on, I was talking to this milf. She was nominated for, like, five awards with her husband. And they were full on. Like, we were talking for a while. I was really interested. Cause she was nominated for so many awards. She's like. And then he starts rubbing my leg. And I think they were trying to have a threesome, but I was like.

Probably not into it.

Gotta get a part.

Usually just rubbing someone's leg when you asked for me.

That's awkward. I'm like, so you guys are swingers? Okay, gotta go.

What were these MILF's names?

You know, I wish I could remember.

I bet your listeners will know who they are.

Had the blonde. You know what? It wasn't even her real name.

It wasn't the nailing Palin bitch, was it?

No, no, no, no. Oh, God, you guys, I'm so sorry. I'll tw.

What her name was. Okay, so here's the thing, though. Oh. But the best toys. That was exciting on stage. Got to give them away. To best toy for Fleshlight. I was honored because, you know, I love the Fleshlight. And then the revel body, which is this really cool new toy that. You know the Sonicare toothbrush.

Oh, yeah.

So it uses that technology, and it's like an orb and has, like a suction, and like, you can put it underwater and, like, sucks on your clit, like providing you oral sex. But you can use it in all these different ways, and it was cool and it won, and that was fun.

Retrieve golf balls if you're exactly.

You could train it. So that was, like, super fun. But I had to go home early.

Because I had, like, what do these awards look like. What are the statues?

Oh, you got, like a big statue. It's glass, has your name on it.

Is it classy looking?

I mean, you know, it looks phallic, but that's appropriate.

You could have used a flashlight on it. Could you have.

You could have used a flashlight on it.

Sure.

You could use a flashlight on anything. And I met Mr. Fleshlight.

Oh, there is a Mr. Fleshlight.

Yeah, his family started. I mean, I've known. I met him once before, but it was just really cool to like, meet all my, like, Fleshlight people. And all the vaginas that are molded as fleshlights. But here's the best part. So it's this huge conference, right? And you can tell there's, like, people. And meanwhile, the red carpet. It's every porn star you've ever heard of. And it's, like, miles long to get on the red carpet. So afterwards, I'm leaving because I really do have to rest for my big conference this weekend. I get down. I'm going down the escalator, this big escalator with my friend Michael from Crave. He makes those. The vibrator necklace that I love, the vesper. So we're going to the elevator. And then he's like, well, let's just go in here and talk real quick, get a drink. And there's a convention going on, a bunch of dudes. It's called the Beaver Convention. And I saw the sign when I came in that said beaver Convention. And I'm like, is that a play on porn convention? I don't know, but it turns out it's for contractors, like construction workers contractors. And so they're all, like, from Dallas, like, a bunch of white guys, like, like. And they thought I was a porn star because I was dressed kind of slutty. And I came in there with my friend, and not like, they assumed, like, are you part of the. We hear there's a convention going on. And they were all freaking out. And I gave them, like, my red carpet. And they go upstairs and they were watching all the women. It was. They were like. It was the best thing they'd ever seen because they're like, at a frigging construction convention called the Beaver Convention. That, to me, was hilarious.

That's pretty great. I bet a lot of people made a mistake and went into the Beaver.

Well, the Beaver. At first I literally, I was like, at a crossroads. I'm like, beaver convention. Point Rhodes. I don't know what to do.

But real quick, fuck all those guys. How about that? They're all in there laughing and talking about how they rip everyone off. Oh, yeah. And then I tell them two weeks. But really, I know it's going to be a month and double.

I mean, they're not the kind of guys I want. I do that too.

No, that's. That was the guy talking to me.

No, totally. But they were just like, saying it was like the best night of their life because there's a porn convention. Okay. So then the big thing was the SHE conference. You know, I've been talking about it for months. Sexual health Expo.

How'd it go?

So that was. It was really cool because it was the first of its kind expo for individual. I go to these things. Like, not open to the public. But this was for, you know, I've talked with this for weeks. People can come in off the street, learn about sex education taught by sex educators. Would be two days. It is. It was two days at the Sofitel. So they asked me. Amazing. Here's the thing. They expected like four to 500 tickets. 2,000 people showed up. So if that doesn't show you how many people are, like, craving for sex.

Education shows you the power of M. I think of me.

I did bring a lot of M. It's true. I was on Kevin and Bean morning show and talked about it the morning.

Never heard of it.

Okay. So anyway, the best thing was that, oh, the seminars were packed, the rooms. It was crazy. People sweating. I mean, there was sex toy booths everywhere. I mean, you know, like, cool things. And people were like, I want to learn. I want to learn. And it was very inspiring, empowering. Because my favorite part of it was that I got to meet. I don't often get to meet. Like, remember your after disaster live show?

Yeah.

I was so impressed at the improv. You sold out. People were like, buying your T shirts, like, you know what I mean?

Lining up for autographs. Yes, lining up for autographs.

I don't go out that much. Like, I'm like in the radio. I'm home working. Like, it's not cause I like to have sex.

It's really cool to meet the people that support you.

So I met all these fans who were there because I had a meet and greet. It was just so cool. And there were so many people that came in just to meet me and to go to the conference because they heard about it. And I must have met like five different women, which was interesting. Or like one woman was like, you know, I was driving the car listening to your show and I thought I wanted to be a physical therapist always. But then I realized I want to be a sexologist. Like, how do I do it? There was like five women who were like, I want to do what you do. And I think that's interesting to warn them. I'm like, well, you won't make it now.

I said, yeah, with the competition. Get out of it.

No, you know what? I'm so supportive of anyone who. We need more sex education in this world. So I feel like, you know what? Good for them. And that was amazing to me.

Good looking crowd over there.

Really good looking crowd. Not sketchy crowd, not creepy crowd. Like a high end crowd who was just like, yeah, I want to learn about this stuff. This is hot. And so. And then I had an Emily and Tony Booth there. So people. Oh, here was another thing. That was great. Oh, first back up. Got to meet my fans. It was really cool. I love them. And then also it was funny because you realize they really listened to the details. And Madison was there. You know Madison, citizen producer, she was there.

Who's Madison?

You know Madison? She works for me. She's my sister sitting behind me.

Yes, yes.

And then people were like, oh, and Madison, you told that great story about the Fleshlight. Like they were so specific and they knew it and it was a good time. So then we had an Emily and Tony Booth. And the best thing is I've been talking about my candles and my down under comfort for so long. But until you accept experience it, you know, it's the kind of thing like I'm trying to explain to you guys.

Very hands on.

Yeah, but people freaked out. They loved it. We sold candles. The whole thing was amazing.

And I slid right out of the.

My peoples, Madison and Kimber and my intern Julianne. Like they. I have the best team ever and I rocked it. And I just have to say that it was very gratifying and it made me very inspired and have a renewed passion for what I do.

It's very nice. Thanksgiving was two weeks ago. Two months ago.

What happened then?

Oh, no, you're just thanking the people around you like people do around the holidays.

But I love everyone.

I'm more than great. They're very, very pro positive. I like these people.

Okay.

Also, and Ruby as well.

And Ruby.

Ruby.

Oh my God. Ruby kicked ass. Ruby always kicks ass. But she wasn't the conference. But she kicked ass prior to the conference. She did everything.

Do they like take one for the team? Like if there's a stalker type listener fan there that really wants to bang you do like Will they take them away?

There was a stalker there.

Will they take them away and they'll service them?

Yes, there was a stalker there when I first walked in and he was like. I was on CBS News. They did a big. They're doing a big piece on it. And he was like, you're Emily. Like he was kind of stalkerish. And then a few people pointed out that he'd been there like all morning waiting for em. Yeah. So we kicked him out. No, I don't know.

Was it Ruhn, our video?

I think it was. Ruhn was there.

Rune was there.

Rune was there. Yeah. I didn't. I don't even. I feel like I've been talking about this for. I could tell you guys so many more funny stories, but I had to give out the awards. Another award show. And Rune was there for that performance.

What was the award that you gave out for the other award show?

It was the she award. So they also had an award show and I gave out the awards. I was presenting them all.

All of them. So like what kind of awards?

Ok, so like the best again. Sex toys, sex per. Best sex educator, best lube, best new product, best technology, you know, all that stuff. But you know that the Magic wand won for best toy. Not a surprise. And jju, you know, I love my mirror. I love your best design. So it was pretty cool. And then I got to. Yeah, but I had to. What happened was a lot of some of the people who won awards weren't there. So I had to be like, oh, magic wand, congratulations. And then I jumped in. You know, they were like, how do you feel about it? We feel great. People love our. I was like playing two people.

Oh, you were like actually presenting four other people?

Yeah, I was like pretending I was them accepting the awards. It was a good time.

Did you take. So you have like nine awards on your mantle at home?

I do. No, I didn't get any of them is the truth. But. Okay, now onto sex information because I know that's why you're all here and. Wow. Been talking a lot. Okay. I mean, I always talk a lot. Okay. Women across the Internet. Internet. Defend their orgasms with not pee.

Have you heard about this whole squirting debacle debate?

Yeah, Squirting is like really big right at this moment.

Well, squirting is a new anal. I've been saying that that people have.

Been squirting around for a long time.

No, it's been around for a long time, but porn has made it this thing that 10 years ago when I Started the show, it was all about anal sex, and now it's all about squirting. However, listen to this study. A recent study published by the Journal of Sexual Medicine claims that there's a difference between female ejaculate and squirting. Female ejaculate comes from the skene gland in the vagina. While squirting is just pee, women, women all over the Internet have been outraged and have started the hashtag, hashtag not pee. They feel this study is embarrassing women who squirt. These women are afraid to let go and orgasm because they think they are urinating. The study is not helping them. And the study was done with only seven women, so it's suspect. Here's the thing. Seven women does not a study make. That's like me talking to, like, seven of my girlfriends at dinner and, like, publishing, like, a journalist something in the journal. Oh, you guys all had sex last night. That means that seven out of seven women have sex on a Tuesday night. Stupid. Okay, so the story's been blowing up the Internet because everyone's talking about it. And, you know, it's controversial and there's always been a debate about it. There might be traces of urine in it, but there it is different. There are, there are. It's like the male prostate gland. It's the skene gland. What? You know, people are just like. And my thing is, well, I'm going to get in this to get it. Get into my thing in a minute because we actually have an email about it, coincidentally, that I'm going to tie into this. Watch this. Hi, Emily. Just wanted to say I love your podcast. I listen to itunes all the way in New Zealand. My question is, when I climax, a large amount of liquid comes out and I feel anxious about it when having sex. And although the sex is good, I won't let myself climax because of it. I recently read an article that it is urine, and now I feel even worse about it. Please help me. Is this normal? Thanks. Slightly embarrassed female. Okay, so this is the concern that women are now like, oh, it's hot. My boyfriend. I think it's hot, you know? No, it's. There's nothing wrong with some liquid coming out. You know, you have to be with someone who find, you know, who's comfortable with it, who finds it a turn on as well. If there's someone that you're with and you're like, oh, he doesn't like it, the sheets you thought it was, then don't be with that person. If it's something that. Because it Feels different. It's not like we're like, oh, I'm pissing on this guy. I mean, just because there's traces of it, there's no reason, reason why everyone's gonna be like, oh, I'm not into squirting anymore, right? And so I feel like, don't stress on this, my friend from New Zealand, because if it feels good to you again, you gotta be with a partner that supports you. And here's what you gotta say. Ready?

Women should not feel self conscious about it. If you're like. And like 10 to 54% of women squirt, okay? So tell your partner next time. Hey, you know, if you're embarrassed or you're like, oh, God, I'm worried about it now, just, hey, guess what? This is something that happens to me from time to time. And it's. It. You know what it means? It means that our sex is that amazing. And so let's throw down some towels and throw down.

But no one actually has been upset with her, right? She's just speculating.

She's. Now she's worried.

Yeah, but this is so funny because we hear this all the time on Loveline as well. And it's, it's, it's if women only could. I guess you guys have heard it, but just believe us that if the more you produce, the better. There's not a guy out there except for the occasional, like, freak germaphobe. Most guys are looking for squirters. They want you guys to do it, but all of you across the board think that it's a bad squirt because this.

Well, first of all, people already were concerned about it, but now this study, this study that I think has no validity is saying it's.

Well, there's seven full people.

Yes, seven full women said partially it was urine. So, you know, even if it was urine, you're not gonna die. No one's gonna die from being killed.

Urine, sterile.

And it's true. And it's always, you know, been known to have partial urine in the female jacket. So it's a lame.

I'm sure that semen has partial urine in it, you know?

Exactly. Well, I don't think so.

I'm sure it does.

But why is there a debate about female sexuality by men? Is what I want to know like, you know, they always want to know, like, is the G spot exist? You know, is it a clitoral orgasm? Are we really squirting or not? I mean, who cares? We don't sit around and go, was that really Precom. We should study. Maybe that wasn't precom. Maybe it was pee.

Like, maybe it was pee.

But, see, these are. It just pisses me off. Like, let us just take care if we're all having a good time. Why the hell do people care?

Care.

Let's spend your money, like, curing cancer. Thanks.

That's how I feel about that. Okay, back to sex the news. What? How do you feel about it?

No, I think it's ridiculous. I think the fact that so much time and energy and money is spent.

I mean, Dr. Drew talked about it on HLM. I'm going on his show tomorrow on his radio show to talk about it. Like, people are freaking out.

It's just the way that the news is set up. It's just the flavor of the day, and everyone's gonna talk about it for a week. They're gonna forget. They're gonna move on and talk about something else.

They're just gonna keep on squirting on squirting on. Keep on keeping on.

Pisses you off. I get it.

It does.

I get it. Pisses you off. I get it.

So, okay. It pisses me off, people.

We had to squirt her in here. Who? She squirted all over Mike.

Joanna Angel. Let me tell you about that.

She. I was in that room, and I was shooting the video, and I heard her say to her friend, thank God, I have to pee. Right before.

That's hilarious.

That was pee.

Joanna angel wants to come back on and do it again.

Come.

So it was called, like, the Squirt a Thon or something. And Mike was wearing. This was a few years ago, and Mike was wearing, like, goggles.

It was so, like, radio.

But then Drew was like, oh, my God, we can't put this on the radio. I need to le. But then. Right? But then. But then Joanna. I said, oh. So Joanna angel has a new line of toys by Kink Lab, I think. Oh, I'm gonna get this right. Can someone look this up? Joanna Angel's new toys.

Do a little fact check.

She gave me the coolest. Like, she's. This bondage gear. It's got, like, a whip and, like, it's really high end. Beautiful stuff, bondage. Like, restraints, a whip, a paddle, a blindfold. And she gifted to me, which was so sweet. So everyone, if you like Joanna angel, she's been on the show a bunch and go buy her toys because they're cool. I have to find someone to use it with, but it's on my list. Okay. Sex the news. Women on top Is the most dangerous sex position. More scientists conclude. Seriously, can we cure other things here? Scientists claim the cowgirl position is responsible for half of the penile fractures during sex.

Next most dangerous is doggy style at 29% of penis fractures. The least dangerous, of course, is the boring missionary. I'm just kidding. It doesn't have to be boring. With 20% of boner breakers, Men on top helps the man control the movement during sex and minimizes the risk of breakage. Women on top has women with all their force on the penis, making it more likely for more breaking. What abs. How many penises are really getting broken a year? And a lot of women are more likely to have an orgasm if they're on top. Does this mean that people are gonna stop having sex on top now? Really?

I'm knocking on as I say this, but, yeah, most people who are. Who are breaking their. Their penises over there, they don't know how they're. How to do it. They're being too vigorous, and you just got. You got to calm down. That being said, I really hope I don't break mine. I've heard it's incredibly painful, and I can see how.

Honey, I hope you don't break yours. Dude, I have no. No. No one.

But most. Most people that break it, I think they're just getting way too into it, and they're thrusting their. Jackhammering. You know what I mean?

Yeah.

And then they. And then it pops out, and then it pops in. In a weird angle or hit something else, and next thing you know. Broken. Yeah, but it's not. And a lot of people. You'd be surprised, Emily, how many people think there's actually a bone in. In the wiener, right? There's not.

No, but you can fracture.

Most animals have a bone in their penis, but not. Not the human man.

And it's funny because we call it boner, which is my favorite.

It gets hard as a bone.

But it does get hard as a bone sometimes, we hope. Okay. Condom purses promote safe sex and break down stereotypes. So. Okay, this reminds me a funny story. So there are these condom purses, right? So remember, we've been talking for a few months about how, like, do women carry condoms? Do they not? Why don't they, like, you know, you know, you're gonna have sex with someone, but women don't want to be seen as, you know, whatever, forward. But I think women. I think this is brilliant. Like, why not have condoms with you? Because, you know, you're gonna get in the moment, and you're like, oh, I don't have one. Oh, I don't have one either. Let's just do it and you're drunk or whatever. You should always use protection. People, I feel like they just. They don't use enough protection. And I feel like condoms are an easy thing to throw in your purse. And now there are condom purses. But the funny thing was, the other night, after she, Kimber, Madison, who work with me, my loves came to my house and we were having dinner and I was going to have sex with someone and I was like, oh, God, I don't have condoms. I was after dinner.

Wait a minute. Wait, wait a minute.

This guy that I have sex with sometimes.

Okay, so was that a scheduled sex date?

Well, it was more of like, let's hang out.

Because just it sounded like it was gonna be either Kimber or Madison the way that you said that I was.

Gonna have sex with him.

We're all, My house, we're having dinner. I'm about to have sex with someone.

Oh, my God, I'm jumping around. No, we were all talking. We were hanging out for a few hours. We had dinner. We were laughing, having a good time. And then this guy that I knew I was gonna hang out with.

What time did he. Oh, it wasn't like 8:30, 11 o'. Clock. And he started texting you?

No, no, we're friends. Like, I knew we had plans. FWBs. And I knew that he was out of condoms because I, like, I provided. So. I love these condoms. They're. They're called Skin, S, K, Y N. And they're not latex, they're polyisoprene. And they like, if you have latex allergy, but they're super thin and their whole thing is like next to wearing nothing. But it really does feel that way. But you. It's strong. It's not gonna break. So anyway, I was like, you guys, I don't have any condoms. And they're like, what do you mean you don't have any condoms? I'm like, because they did. Lifestyles, who owns Lifestyles and Skin, sent me, like, literally, I have a thousand condoms in my house, at my office, but none of my house. I'm scavenging around. I don't have condoms. So I have to bring some home from the office. And now they're in the front seat of my car. I thought it was a funny story. What are you confused at? Condoms? Yeah.

I don't know why you wanna condom.

Because I think I brought them all. No, because I think because I did and then I brought them all because when I moved to my new office, I brought them all there. I just usually I don't have sex at my house. I have other people.

Here's what you got to do. Your front door at your house.

Yeah.

With your Russian landlord. You gotta, like just plaster condoms like all over your front door. Like decorate it like wallpaper.

That's not a bad idea.

It'd be kind of cute.

Like used condoms.

No, not used condoms, Emily.

Okay, so this is the whole thing about the condom purse is that you're about to get lucky. Are you covered? World's AIDS Day, which happened on December 1, serves as a reminder that carrying and of course using condoms can be a life saving decision. So fashion designer Maggie Kirvik and Lifestyle Condoms want to show you that being protected can be fashionable too. So they teamed up for a line of vinyl bags made to look like skin condom wrappers. Part of the I'm covered. Oh, skin. See, they love them I'm covered campaign. So I'm just saying it's a great conversation piece. And women, you should carry your goddamn condoms and so should guys. Okay, when we come back, we're gonna dive right into your emails because I love hearing from you@feedbackaxwithmily.com but first, a word from my amazing sponsors. Okay, everyone, if you've listened to the show the last couple months, you've probably heard me talk about a unique product called the Womanizer. 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The Womanizer is really in a category of its own and I suggest you check it out for yourself. Go to sexwithemily.com and click on the Womanizer banner for more information. Okay, let's get into some emails here from the people that we love. So thank you for emailing me. Feedbackexwithemily.com I love it. Dear Emily, my wife of seven years has always been very conservative in the bedroom. Recently, I brought a vibrating penis ring to spice things up a little. She had never used a vibrator of any kind before and she loved it. Now I think she's addicted to it and suggests using it every time, which is fine by me. I love the increased pleasure she gets from it. Also, you discussed a penis extension toy that you gave as a gift in a recent episode, and I've been thinking of getting one. The thought of her experiencing something bigger is exciting to me, and I think she'll enjoy it as well. My only concern is that she may like it so much that going back to just my penis will be less than satisfying. Do you think I'm opening a can of worms by introducing her to a bigger experience? Thanks, Mike. Okay, Mike, here's the deal. I love to hear that you and your wife have seven years. You're opening it up, you're trying new things, and she's been conservative. This is great. She's not addicted to the penis ring. Okay? And the thing is that I really hope we've come this far. That again, 10 years ago, when I started, I always had a preface every talk about the sex toys or like, no, guys, don't worry, she's not gonna leave you for her vibrator. You know, it's fine. It is an enhancement. It adds to the experience. So while she likes having sex with you, it's like putting sprinkles on your Sunday or something. It's like, why you could have the whipped cream and the chocolate sauce, but you're like, oh, that's really good. So it's not that your penis wasn't doing it for her, it's just a different experience. And great sex is all about variety, switching things up, which is exactly what you're doing. So I think, Mike, you're doing everything right. How amazing that after seven years together, Seven year itch. A lot of couples are like, eh, we're not having sex anymore. It's over that she's trying a penis ring. Good for her. They're really fun because they go on your penis and they vibrate like the Mio. The Jae Joo Mio is one of my favorites and makes it even more orgasmic because it hits her clitoris And I'm sure the vibrations feel good for you. So if you're really worried about it, I say go sex toy shopping. Go to a store near you. Go to Good Vibes and get some more toys so you can add in some diversity. Maybe you get her like a G spot toy that you can insert. Or you get like one of these wearable Vibes, which is like, there's all these new technology now where you can actually control them. Remote control via Bluetooth, like the. Oh, my bod makes it. And Jaejoo's coming out with one. So, like, try new things. I think it's amazing. And don't stress on this. The next thing, penis extenders. Okay. He's talking about the big black penis extender that I gave as a joke to my Catherine Loveline. You remember that Anderson? So my.

Yeah, because it floated around from studio to studio.

He, like, carries it with him to, like, parties and stuff. So it was a joke because he sort of has an obsession with black penises, like, googling them online. But so I gave him one. And it is a penis extender that slides over your penis and it can make your penis larger. Like a big dildo. Like it's silicone, but with more girth. Again, if you want to try one of those. I actually never. I've never tried it. I mean, you might want to just. I mean, maybe if you could. She'll like that and you could try it. You could also just try using like a vibrator, like a, you know, like a G spot insertable one. Like, if you go to Good Vibes and you put like, the. Just inserting into her and see how that feels. But again, just because this penis extender that you put on felt different to her, we're talking different, not better variety. You could try one. But let me just be clear here, that when I say penis extender, there's other things. There's these penic extenders that are like stretchers, and you go online or like, oh, extend your penis. You know, it's like, you know, length and girth, and it's safe and it's natural, non invasive. It's like. And the closest thing to penis surgery, it basically says that you're gonna. That your penis is gonna grow. That stuff is bs. So I think you're talking about the one that slides over your penis, but, you know, you're already tripping on. See, here's the thing, Mike. I feel like you're too concerned that she's gonna, like, leave you for all this stuff. You guys are together seven years and she's having better sex. I feel like all, like I'm giving you a thumbs up and all roads point to your sex life exploding even more. So keep on doing what you're doing.

Okay. Dear Emily, I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now. Things are going great and I love her. I recently found out how freaky she's willing to get in bed and I love it. The thing is, I know some things she's done that I haven't experienced yet and I would like to try them with her. But she now has the been there, done that attitude. How can I talk to her to let her know I'd like to try these things? Sign Dave.

Like what does he give examples?

Well, he doesn't. This is why we have to start taking call or like, what a bitch. I feel like a lot of this is the other thing. Okay, if you email me feedbackextlme.com with your questions, tell me your age always and where you're from. I would just. That would help me. And also the kinky things like if you give more details but don't make it longer. Just give me some details that would.

Help me with these concise and to the point.

And then what I think we're gonna start doing is actually scheduling some of these people to call into the show and ask the questions or we'll start taking callers again if we have.

Yeah, I think the new studio might be able to do that.

But anyway, here's the deal. Good for you. Also, Dave, trying to trying new things with your girlfriend. I love that she's willing to share your experiences with you and you're not judging her because think about it, Anderson, a lot of couples can't handle hearing about their partner's past.

Yeah, we always say on Loveline, more mystery, less history.

Exactly. And I actually typically advise against it because you know, guys are never going to forget. Especially the number conversation. Like if you said you had sex with 12 guys, all he's thinking is like, those 12 penises were inside.

I don't think girls have any idea. Like I used to obsess about it. Like I knew way too much about every single guy. With some of these girls, it was, it was disgusting.

They told you too much without asking.

I'm ashamed of myself. No, usually, like, then it would be like a tooth that I kept, you know, messing like a sore tooth. And I kept going back and asking more details and looking for stuff.

I was like watching a train wreck. A train wreck?

Yeah. Like, I was a detective. It was bad, and for no reason. It did no good. But I was just like, crash.

What do they say, like, watching? Like a trait.

Like, I was gonna say a sexual Sherlock Holmes.

Yeah, No, I get it. So why do we all. We all want to know. I mean, I understand if you're in a healthy relationship with someone who can handle it, you know, that's great. He's actually inspired by it. But there's a lot of people who. I just think sex is not something you want to talk about on the first or second date. Like, I did this.

Well, he didn't say that necessarily.

He doesn't say they've been together. No, they're good over a year now.

Yeah, but she knows she's been down some kinky road, so obviously he probably heard about it.

No, she told him. So I think it's great. She's willing to share experiences, and they excite him. So I think that's cool. He's not judging it and freaking out. But just because she's been there, done that doesn't mean that, like, she's done with it.

And he's like.

He's insecure. Like, she's. Oh, she's been. I don't even know I had kinky sex. She's been tied up in a dungeon.

He says that she's giving him that vibe that, like, she doesn't want to.

But I don't think it's true. I think that's his. Men. Men and women are very insecure about sex, as we could see. Like, you're insecure that you're not. You're already insecure that you're not going to perform, that you're not going to stay hard, that you're going to ejaculate too quickly. And now you're concerned that she's like, oh, yeah, been there, done that. But I can tell you, if she'd been there, done that, and she enjoyed it, she definitely wants to try it with you. So continue the discussion, because the discussion. Because this is such a good way for couples to, like, expand their sexual bucket list. So say, hey, you tried that. And then I think that you, Dave, should tell her some things that you've been wanting to try and just open up the conversation. Are there things that you haven't done that you want to try together so you can experience new things together. And then regarding the things she's already done, you can let her know that. God, you know, when you told me about being tied up in that dungeon or whatever, you Being tied up and blindfolded. That sounds so hot. I'm totally doing that to you Saturday night.

I don't know, though. Do you want to, like, take her back? Because now she's going to be thinking about the last time she did it with that other guy.

It's not exclusive. Just because one guy did something doesn't mean you can't do it again. And it's different with every partner, right? Like, every time you got a blowjob, was it different?

Yeah.

Okay, snowflakes. But what I'm saying is she's been.

There, done that, but not with him.

So now she can never be tied up or have anal sex again or had sex outdoors because it was kinky.

Like, it'd be like. Like she went to Disneyland with her ex boyfriend. She's like, I already been at Disneyland. I don't need to go again with you, dude.

I've been to Mexico with every single boyfriend. I don't care.

That's Emily's Disneyland Mexico.

Exactly. So if she's already done, you know, I believe she. And they know, like, okay. No two sexual experiences are alike. So I think if you want to educate on some more kinky stuff, you know, watch porn together, go shopping, listen to my podcast, buy my book. Okay. Hot sex. Over 200 things you can try tonight, which I never talk about anymore, but it's a really beautiful book. That. And I say beautiful because the illustrations are. It is a beautiful book, but it's not intimidating. And you can just. I keep saying, literally, what's the word on Loveline that we basically. Basically. Okay. Literally, you just open it to any page and be like, we start that position tonight.

You stole that from me.

Why?

I told you that's what I've done with that book.

Oh, you did do that. No, but I've been saying that. But what page did you open to?

I'm not getting into details there, Ems, but what you do is you just have the book on your coffee table. You're like, all right, who wants to cut the deck tonight?

Right? And pictures are. We took. Like, the pictures are beautiful illustrations. Yeah, they're central, but they're not creepy.

They'd be creepy if they're framed on your wall.

I should frame them. Well, in my wall, my office, if.

I went to a guy's house and, like, his. Like, he had those framed on his wall, I'd want to leave his house pretty soon.

Yeah. Well, it's a very inviting book, and if you buy it, it's like, 13 bucks.

I love that. Book. It's a great book.

Oh, I'm so glad. Buy it from my website. Click on the banner on my website, because then I get like, 5 cents. Maybe just help me support what Doing what I'm doing. Okay, so I think you're all done.

It's so insecure. No, no. I did buy it on your website because it helps support. Maybe you can make another book.

You could buy it on Amazon, but you could also buy it on my website. Yeah. And I do want to make another book. And people do love it because we had it at the show on our. My table, and people were like, oh, my God. And it's just like, you know, you write it. Well, you don't know. But write a book and your publisher promotes it, but, you know, they move on. But the book has been very successful and it's beautiful. Okay. That's why I got a slur about my book. Dave, you're all good. This is interesting because the last two people are insecure about.

What their partners are going to think about their performance. And I just have to say that, you know, they're with you because they're turned on by you. And sex, again, should be expansive. And you guys can learn this together. And no woman is sitting there going, God, I hope he doesn't let me down tonight. He's really letting me down. She's just thinking I'm turned on, so don't worry about it. Sex is fun. Sex is fun. Sex is fun. Okay, another email from the community.

Let's do another email. You got time for another email?

Do I really? That's so awesome. Okay. Hello, Emily. I'm an older man, and porn really gets me in the mood. I love my wife. We've been married for 20 years. But the sex isn't as good with her as it is with myself when I watch porn. So I'm wondering if I should stop watching it.

It.

I view it once a day, and I use it to masturbate. When I've. When I have sex, the climaxes are not as intense as my masturbation orgasms. During intercourse, it takes me more than 20 minutes to orgasm, and my erection lasts for up to an hour after sex. Thank you, Will. Well, you just presented the other thing on everyone's mind besides wording, and that's this. You know, the impact that porn is having on men right now who are. You know, we've always had porn since the beginning of time, and now it's everywhere. And there's so much of it that people keep raising the bar and your brains are actually getting rewired to like the images that you're seeing, the graphic images that you can never replicate your sex life because there's not going to be 18 hot women with amazing makeup and fake boobs giving you a blowjob at once. It's probably just not going to happen or whatever it is that you're into. So it's a great question. And so I just think that what you got to do is how was the sex with your wife before the porn? And you know, so was it good then? Because you asked me if he should, he asks if he should stop watching it. And I want to know, would she be interested in watching it together? Because I often suggest that for couples that, you know, there is female friendly porn, there's lots of different sites that she might be into and you could watch it together. And also, what if you introduce some new things? Because a lot of the porn is like the adrenaline, the excitement of watching new things that you're getting stimulated by. And so that's turning you out of more. But what if you, you know, tried some toys in the bedroom or tried a massage candle or tried talking dirty? I mean, I know you're like 20 years get over the part that it's awkward that you've had sex the same way over and over again. Because it's not gonna get any better than that. I mean, it's not gonna get worse than where you're at now. It can only get better. So I think if you really believe that the porn watching is becoming a problem, you're no longer as hard that you should try to masturbate without porn. And also cut back on your masturbation time so you can get back to feeling of craving sex with your wife, which is what you want. And so, you know, it's like mixing things up. It's. It's like people ask me that about sex toys or when they masturbate. Like, is it okay that I use this toy? I mean, sure, it's fine if you get off that way, but it's like cross training. You know, you cross train at the gym. You're like, oh, one day I'm gonna work on my shoulders and I'm gonna work. You gotta work different muscles, different exercises. Like, don't. If you run every day, you won't be in good shape. So if you only masturbate the same way, I mean, you'll still have an orgasm, but. But try tempering down the porn and then with your wife bringing some of that into the bedroom, so cross train sexually. That should be my next book.

Like, left hand on the screen.

Damn, I just gave it away. So, yeah, right hand, right hand, left hand. What do you think?

I mean, hanging upside down off the couch.

That's why I always talk about the flashlight. Cause I'm like, dudes, you guys do the same goddamn thing all the time with your masturbation.

Now when you get the fleshlight out there.

I know.

It's always different.

Exactly.

Hey, it's gonna get worse, too, this whole porn thing.

I know. What are we gonna do about it?

I mean, they got the virtual reality thing. This is, like, right around the corner.

Oh, I saw some things of the show. Yeah.

There was a movie from the 80s that freaked me out. It was supposed to be the future, and it was. Christopher Walken was in it. And this guy actually died because he was doing the virtual reality thing. He just had it on a loop, like for the part where he actually climaxed. And it killed him. And it freaked me out. It scared me. That was before the Internet, too.

Exactly. Well, now it's just like. It's just that the levels guys are like, God, I could never watch this. And then they. Right. And then it keeps suggesting more. And then you keep watching more and more PO and your brain changes what turns you on.

I think it might be kind of good, though, in the long run. Might thin the herd a little bit. People might stop having so much sex and, you know, populating the earth.

Dude, just use protection. Are you serious? That is so everything I'm against.

I know, I know. But still, it's kind of true.

It's not true at all.

Oh, if people work. I didn't. Protection. Okay, I'm sorry.

No, but I think that. Yeah, you're worried about the population. It already is dying. I feel like people are having fewer children than they used to, if that's really your concern. But the porn thing is not gonna die down. And my concern about porn, too, is that, you know.

That that is how a lot of young people are learning to have sex now.

That's, like, where they're first seeing sex. I mean, I'm.

That's why everyone's.

I'm a lot older. That was the first time I ever saw sex was porn.

Right. And that's how you thought you should have sex. And I think I should just say this. Every show that technically, because of what you see in porn, which is mostly geared towards men, is made to visually stimulate what guys want to see. So the way he's pounding on or doing if you look closely, it's like nowhere near her clitoris or her hot spots. It's not the way you should technically learn to do anything. I mean, you might be inspired by some things, but it's like, how is she screaming an orgasm when his penis is like 10ft away from her clitoris?

It'd be like if there was a basketball channel. And it was like people just running with the ball and smashing into each other. And it was like, tackle basketball. And no one dribbled. It's like, that's not how you play. It might be exciting to watch it that way, but don't learn to play basketball.

I'm so conflicted. That's why I feel like kids, you know? Also, Scarleteen is a great website if you want to learn, like, technical sex education or listen to my show. But I'm not gonna, like, go off on porn. Anti porn.

Hey, let me ask you a question.

Sure, go ahead. Anderson.

First time you ever saw sex, was it your vagina or was it somebody else's?

I don't even remember. I'm sort of. I was very repressed. The first time I saw it was, I think, important.

Yeah, see, I've never thought about this before, but, like, you know, I was born and raised in Southern California, so I can't remember the first time I saw the ocean. But I talked to people that moved out here in their teens and they talk about how it was like such a. An amazing experience. I can't remember. It would be really cool if the first time I ever saw sex was, like, me, but it wasn't. It was Strangers on a Two Dimensional Screen.

Exactly. I mean, ruined. I know. I don't remember the first time I saw. I think it was some kind of, like, sketchy. It was one of those when they used to have an HBO and it was those, like, Emmanuel films. They were like, fuzzy. You couldn't really get them.

Yeah. Where it's like wavy porn and then if you wait like a freeze frame for like a half a second. Yeah, I saw a nipple.

Another thing I want to say about that, something that you just brought up was porn. And then.

See. Oh, the first time I saw the ocean, I was in Florida when I was seven. And I remember and it was a very moving experience. And I love the ocean. Just getting back to that. Okay. Okay, everyone. I love you. Anderson. How's your podcast this week? Film Vault? Anything that we need to know about it?

Yeah, it was a really good one. We did a little preview for Sundance. Every year we talk about Sundance Sundance is going on actually right now, this weekend, and we kind of highlighted some of the bigger films that are. That are showing up. There are more interesting films that are showing up at Sundance. Yeah.

Cool. That's a good one. Okay, and pretty oddcast Rune Kincaid, who also is working the ustream here. You got to check out his podcast and that's what I got for you, everyone. Follow me on.

Yeah, I think his last one was actually about the sexual health episode.

Oh, he came.

That's why he and Lindsay were there. It was not only to try and get it on with each other or other people, but to learn stuff.

We do a podcast already. Maybe that should be their next podcast. Okay, everyone. So please, if you, if you want more sex information or just want to, like, laugh during the day and have a good time, follow me on Facebook and Twitter and Instagram, which is all sex with Emily. And yeah, that's what I got for you. Thanks everyone, for listening. Was it good for you? Email me feedbackexwithemily.com.

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