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Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex. Eyes that block our sacred institutions. Bedroom eyes, they call them in a bygone day.

Hey, Emily, you got a boyfriend?

Cause my man E here, he just got his heart broken. He thinks you're kind of cute.

A girl's gotta have her standard. Oh my.

Do women know about shrinkage?

Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean? Like laundry? It shrinks. Can we not talk about sex so much?

Are you kidding me?

Oh, my God, I feel so good. Being bad feels pretty good.

But you know, Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with.

Sex. You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex, relationships, and everything in between. For more information about Sex with Emily, go to sexwithemily.com where you can listen to our podcast, sign up for our mailing list, and do all that cool stuff at our website and today's show. I'm so excited. We have a guest here. It's Jalen Ricks. He's the gay sexpert.

Hey there.

But not only we can talk about gay stuff, which we are.

Yeah, okay.

We can talk about everything.

Sure.

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Good to be here.

How are you?

Welcome back to the show.

Yeah, my pleasure. Thank you so much for having me.

Oh, my God, it's so good. So let's talk a little bit about you and what you do. So your website is the gay sex, not the gaysexpert.com, which I love www.gaysexpert.com.

Right.

And when. When I use that term, I mean, it's clever and I like it, but a lot of people think that that means I'm only specialized in gay sex, but that's not true.

That is so not true. He's a sexologist. We went to the same school, which I haven't finished yet, but he. Yeah, yeah.

And I've been trained and educated in all forms of sexual practice.

Exactly. So, yeah, good. So you've been trained. So we're going to talk about everything today, but there was something specific that you wanted to talk about, really? We wanted to start that we were about anal sex and straight men.

Right.

Because it's funny. On a show we just did a few days ago, Menace was talking about how he's like, why do I keep seeing in the media women with strap ons? And I'm like, is it. He's like. All of a sudden he's seeing women with strap ons. A lot of straight men do like to be penetrated, and some are afraid of it because they think that they'll mean that they're gay.

Right, right, right.

Or they just don't think there's any sensations there.

Right, right, right, right. And it's about the prostate.

It's about the prostate. Right, let's talk about it.

We don't get to get a lot of stimulation there because it's so far up in there. But it's a very tight muscle. And when you pee and when you ejaculate, that's the muscle that relaxes and allows for all that experience to happen. So to come in the back door and know where to find it and be able to stimulate it. Oh, my gosh. It is very, very pleasurable.

So isn't it sad that lesions of straight men are not experiencing it?

I think it is. I think it is. And I know that to them, like, if there's a strap on them, they think it means that they want gay sex. But actually it's not so much that it's a penis as much as it's a prostate stimulator.

Right.

Think of it that way. Even though they kind of look like dicks, but, you know.

Right.

It's a pizza prostate stimulator. And then men can have actual, like, what does it feel like?

That's like saying, describe an orgasm, right?

Yeah, it's like. Yeah, it's like describing orgasm. But I have to say it's a very deep. A very deep orgasm. And I don't know if that makes. I mean, because I think women, probably, they kind of sense their orgasms much deeper on a regular basis anyway. But men, you know, usually it's the outside. You know, you stimulate your dick and, yeah, you feel it deeper down, but this is really deep. And that usually is kind of attractive to feel a very, very deep orgasm. And a lot of men, when. Especially, like their first times, when they get stimulated well on their prostate, they can come without even stimulating their shaft or anything.

Really.

Yeah. And Lord knows I did a few times.

You did the first time?

Yeah. Now, you know, I'm older. I'm kind of used to it.

Right, right, right, right.

But it's always a very deep. Because it's that muscle just stimulating, it feels like. Oftentimes for men. An orgasm for men, not for women. Sorry.

Right, sorry. We do have the clitoris, though, with thousands of nerve endings.

Exactly, exactly. I kind of, you know. And that's why they kind of sometimes call that the men's G spot, because it's hard to get to. You kind of know where it is. But, you know, you think that. But once you touch it, you know, once you push that button, you're like, yes, that's the spot. And it's really, really.

So why don't straight men understand this?

Well, you know, there's a lot more.

Straight men that do that. Don't talk about it.

Yes, exactly. That have experimented a little. Put something up there, please. No, like glass or anything like that that could break or anything like that.

No glass. Right. What would you suggest then? For a man who's starting out, wants to explore his prostate, how would you start? What if he doesn't have a partner? Whatever. Get a toy. What kind of toy?

Yeah, like any kind of dildo that I especially. There are some out now that are specifically shaped to kind of stimulate your prostate so that once you put it in, you know, and they're really thin, so it's not like this giant, you know, fire hydrant or anything.

Right.

It's on stage.

But once you put it in and you squeeze your sphincter, it'll kind of tap the prostate.

Oh, okay.

And so then when you actually come, you know, your sphincter kind of contracts too. You have all those spasms and it taps the prostate.

That's amazing.

I don't know offhand what they're called, but it'll say specifically male prostate.

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