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Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex.

Eyes that mock our sacred institutions.

Bedroom eyes, they call them, in a bygone day. Hey, Emily, you got a boyfriend, Cuz? My man E here, he just got his heart broken. He thinks you're kind of cute.

A girl's gotta have her standards. Oh my.

The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common knowledge?

What do you mean? Like laundry? It shrinks. Can we not talk about sex so much?

Are you kidding me?

Oh, my God, I feel so drunk.

Being bad feels pretty good. Well, you know, Emily's not the kind.

Of girl you just play with.

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That's a lot of followers, dude.

A million? Yeah.

Where is that Facebook.

Facebook.com sexwithemily how many are mattress companies? Not enough.

Not enough.

Yeah, send me a mattress. No, I do have a Casper Mattress.

No, my buddy, my buddy, he was telling me about all his followers on Facebook. Nowhere close to a million. And then he learned that a bunch of them were mattress companies. It's very odd. I don't know why. Yeah, this was years ago, right?

No, I don't know what they. They're just lovely people who really like, you know, everyone's on Facebook anyway, so they're like, oh, let me get a little.

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Oh, dude. That's another reason to subscribe. It's so easy, too. There's like a button there when you listen. I don't know how you do it.

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Summer sex. Sweaty sex.

Have you. I'm thinking your wife's preggers. I know we don't talk about your summer sex, but I'm just thinking maybe there's not as much sex in the summer for you, but you can maybe hearken back to days of your.

We're keeping, like. Yeah.

Good.

It's like. It's very, very important too, you know, if you got a pregnant wife at home, you got to make sure that she knows she's just as beautiful as ever because she's feeling heavier than she's ever felt because she's got a baby human growing inside of her. So sex is just as important. If not.

It is. It is. I'm sure she is. Yeah, I know, I know, I know you're not gonna talk about it, but that's good. I can't wait to see the little baby.

Oh, the little Anderson running around.

What's the due date?

Mid October.

Okay. Mid October.

Yeah.

That's a good. How have you been? I'm so excited. Yesterday I was like, Anderson's coming in. I'm so excited.

A lot of work on, like, nurseries and whatnot. Part of my soul died yesterday when I traded in my really sweet. Like, I have an art deco, like, Micah covered table, like from a diner and a booth from a diner, like in Hollywood, like Melrose, like Frankie's diner.

I love that place.

Yeah, I had. I have one of their actual authentic green booths in my living room. And I trade. I put that out in the garage and I got my mom's nook, her breakfast nook. It's like wood. And it's very family.

Look at your face. And you can see his face right now.

Part of me died. Yeah, I'll take the booth.

That looks cool. We kind of need some stuff in here. Yeah, I mean, it's a big office.

She's got a big empty office, guys. There's a lot of sex toys, as you'd imagine that hanging around. But yeah, the walls just have giant post its on them with a bunch of like to do things.

I know, it's exciting. We'll take your booth and then you can have it back when the baby's like, you know, 18.

I'm like, here you go, son. 18 year old birthday present.

Boo. Son. Baby, right? A boy?

Yeah, it's a boy.

Oh, my God. Crazy. Well, it is great.

That's what sex does. Makes babies, ultimately.

Unless you use protection.

So sex with Emily is all about baby making?

Not really. Yeah, it can be or preventing baby making.

I'm so excited to be seeing you on a regular basis again. I feel very fortunate that I get to come in here and do the show with you.

Me too.

Your girls and Madison and all that. It's very fun.

I know. And this is a nice, calm place. Besides the Loveline studios, which Loveline studios.

Were filled with vitriol and anger.

Sometimes coming from my coming from you was a vitriol and anger. I was the peacemaker. Although I have come. I admit that I might have sometimes came in a little fluster.

I've not seen you flustered in your new space yet.

I. You know, I'm less flustered. I've been meditating.

Yes. You look good. You seem like you're doing well.

Thank you. I feel. I feel good. I do feel good.

Summer sex.

Summer sex. Well, here's the thing. Well, first we're gonna do a little sex in the news because I know you like that. And can you just guess what I'm gonna have to talk about now?

I have no idea. Poke Go.

Pokemon Go. It's the new dating app.

You know what?

What? Tell me how you feel about it.

I hate it.

Why?

I hate trends.

You hate trends. That's why you hate them.

I just hate. A part of me probably wishes that I could just be like, oh cool, this is what we're into now. Sweet. And like be galvanized with the community and like, oh yeah, I like that too. But I see the followers lemmings and it just really hurts me inside.

But. But it's speaking to people and it's getting kids who are really. Anyone who's really into games, go outside and like run around, maybe get hit by a truck.

They're gonna get killed.

They will get killed. But they also might get laid.

How so?

Well, you know, it's the addictive game that makes users walk around their neighborhood to catch Pokemon.

Uh huh.

It's already. Here's.

That's not sexy.

Listen to this.

If you see a kid out front playing Pokemon Go, you're not gonna go banging.

I'm not going after the 14 year old. But it's already. Check this, Anderson. This is what floored me. It's already been installed on phones more often than Tinder. That's sad. I don't think it's as sad. Well, and it turns out that the 90s nostalgia feels pretty good as a dating app by itself. So it combines the randomness of people meeting at a bar, but adds in a common interest and common memories of growing up with the games and cartoons. So if you look up from your screen, you might run into somebody cute. And now there's, like, stories about pokemen got me a date. And they say walking around town after dinner, they're running into dinner.

How many dates did it cost people, though? Let's be honest here.

What do you mean?

Yeah, I'd love to go out tonight, but I'm gonna be in the bushes looking for Pokemon.

Well, maybe they just say when they're in the bush, they might find someone in the bush, and then things could happen in the bush.

Yeah, you don't want to bang the person in the bush.

That's true. Unless you went into the bush together.

Let me ask you this. I looked at your phone right now. Do a quick little search of your apps. Would I find it?

Okay, Only because. Only because six minutes ago I was like, madison, I should just download it. And she's like, yeah, I don't have it. I'm like, I gotta understand it. But I literally downloaded. But then I didn't have time to look at it because I gotta start dating again.

There should be a sex one. That'd be fun.

Because from the way I understand is, you hold it up. Like, I could hold it up in this room right now and I might find little characters.

Yeah, there could be some here.

Hold it up and, like, it puts, like, little dicks on. On people's crotches and stuff.

That'd be funny. Or boobs on the Pokemon.

Like, you can hold it up to, like, a girl and, like, it'll. It'll make it look like you're seeing her boobs. Like, they put the. It puts the boobs on her.

Yeah.

Yeah, that'd be sweet. We should do X ray vision.

Right?

That's what I.

This guy. I mean, X ray vision. I know.

Don't we all like the app that makes it seem like you do. You know what I mean?

Well, it probably could do that. Some kind of like 3D thing too, right?

Yeah. What would we call it? Pokeydon?

Pokey Dong? Yeah, we could, but probably not Pokey anything. Although Pokey is very sexually pokey poke. But it's funny. Like, I just think also the thing that I hate, which I thought you were going to go into, rather than just hating anything that's popular trends, rather than like, like, loathing anything that's the.

Biggest thing since Flappy Bird or whatever it was, right?

Yeah. I mean, it's crazy. And it came out like a week ago. Like, you blink, you missed it coming out, and you're like, oh, wait, what's happening in the world? Like, it's trumping, like, the whole, you know, movement right now. The, you know, blacks matter movement.

Perhaps it's all like, oh, Pokemon is way more important to the majority of people. It sounds like, yes.

Well, it shouldn't be. But that priority happening prior priorities with our. With America. But Pokemon, Pokemon.

Pokemon matters.

Pokemon matters to many people. But what I'm thinking is that why. Also, it's like, I get Pokemon's already established. But, like, why this one? Like, why is this all of a sudden come back?

How much do you get? Not to get all psychological, but how much of it is actually because people actually really like it. And it's. It's naturally, organically just getting downloaded because it's so great. And how much of it is just because people are like, oh, I got to be a part of this. I don't want to be left out.

I don't know. Tail wagon, the dog. We never really know social media, do we know, what do we think?

I think it's 90% because they see it on the news. So I saw a new story just last night. Some woman, she's saying that Pokemon Go helped her save some kid's life because two bullies were making this kid run around, a little kid run around in this park, and it was like 112 degrees. The kid collapsed, and she. The only reason why she saw it is because she was in the park looking for Pokemon characters.

Otherwise, she wouldn't have noticed the kid.

Fainting and the bullies ran off. You could only hope that they may be collapsed as well after they ra. And she called 911 and they got.

That is a beautiful Pokemon story. I wonder how many marriages.

I just wonder if she actually got the character before she turned off the app.

She's fainting, but I'm about to kill a poke. Get a Pokemon or whatever you do. You catch it?

Yeah. I'm never gonna play it ever.

I don't know that I'm gonna play it. I did download it, and I might delete it. That's okay. You know what? I believe you. I believe that you never will.

I think I need to vape while hoverboarding and playing Pokemon all at the same time.

Vape your vape.

Yeah. And I put hoverboards no more. Goodbye. That was a quick trend.

Why? I saw two guys out in the neighborhood. I was running. Do they. Yeah. All of them? No, just one.

A bunch of them blew up because they're made in China. They don't really care about standards, apparently.

Yeah, they're not really. No, Everyone. Not every single model was recalled.

They're illegal. They're pulled off Amazon.

Really? Yeah, really, as you would say.

Really?

I love the Anderson. Really?

You know, what I'm doing there is. That's just Lycus. I'm just imitating.

Oh, it is Tom. Lycus is Tom Lycus. Really? You're right.

But I've kind of brought it on and made it my own.

It is your own. I didn't even know it was Tom. Like us. But it is what Tom likes. Did I ever tell you about that time? I think I did that he came on you.

Was he drinking red wine?

We did talk about this. He came into my show Always. I was on Free FM in San Francisco. It was like my third night of doing Sex Without Me live. And they're like, oh. Because they were promoting this station and they're like, tom Lycus is here.

Let me guess. He came in with his giant belly and his sunglasses on, drinking red wine. Yes.

Yeah. And I was so.

It was probably late at night.

It was like 11:30. What are you doing? Tom? I was at 11, too.

Every time I'd see Tom, and because we worked, we shared studio space for years. Every time after a show, I'd see him in the. In the common area. He'd be on a computer. Doing what? Every single time, Emily. Probably 30, maybe 50 times, I saw him surfing the web, reading articles about him. Tom Lykis.

Really?

Every time.

Really? Really? Tom, like, is. I do not. He said he had a show and he said the same thing.

I think he's on the Internet now.

He's on the Internet. I think he has a wine thing. Okay. But that's not important.

No, we're moving on. He doesn't have sex. Let's talk about people who have sex.

He talks about having sex, but he doesn't have sex. People who talk about sex are probably not having sex.

Except for you.

Except for me.

Yeah.

But we'll get to that in a moment. Okay. We'll be right back. But let's give a shout out to our sponsors. And I just want to thank everyone for always supporting our sponsors. It's amazing and I love you. And we'll be right back.

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Yeah.

Yeah, right.

I'm way too hot. You can't touch this.

Can't touch this.

No, I wasn't saying like that. No, like depends. I think a lot on your BMI and your present weight probably has a lot to do with it. You know what I mean?

Okay.

Like if I'm, if I'm feeling a little chubs. If I've packed on a few, like right now I'm a little bit heavier than I would like to be. Yeah. I'm not feeling too sex.

I don't see that.

And especially when I'm sweating.

Nah, nah, that's exactly.

But if I was all ripped and sweaty pretty tight.

Really. That's what everybody's body image. And it's true. Like people, that's like one of the biggest killers of our sex drive is our self esteem. We're not feeling great. I get it, I get it. But you know What? You can do some things here to make it hot this summer. So here's some ideas.

Some sexual hot tips.

Yeah.

Summer hot tips.

Yeah. I do you know what I love and I don't do it nearly enough. I need to find someone. Road trip.

Road trip.

Road trips in the summer again. I'm trying to give you things here. They don't have to cost a lot of money, but they're like kind of a staple in the summer. You go on a road trip, get out of town. They remind us of being young, carefree. Yeah.

I feel like everyone. If you've lived in a place for a few years, you should know what every. What everything is when like a two hour radius all the way around your house, every direction. You know what I mean?

Okay.

Unless you live on the coast.

I know two blocks radius.

Yeah.

You need to so bad. And I've lived. And I keep saying I just moved here, which is a lie now.

You mean Joshua Tree in two hours right now.

I didn't know was that close. I'm. I was just going to say I'm dying to go to Joshua Tree.

Go two hours.

That's it. Yeah, I know you. My chronicle, they're like for like I went there once.

Not with my Corona, but it's beautiful.

What's the place you went?

Death Valley.

That's like four and a half those confused.

There's. There's so many cool places in California. One of the best things about living here is this. Everything's like within drive two, three hours.

But when I live in NorCal, short for Northern California, I Ella. I knew it all. Ella.

Hella.

Oh dude. Do you know that that was my biggest turnoff when I moved to Northern California from Michigan.

You don't like the trends either.

If people guy, dude, it's hella rat. I was like, oh my God. People say that and just thought they were dumb.

Yeah.

Immediately I wouldn't sleep with the guy who said hela.

Right.

But I think menace says hela and then I just kind of got over it. Not that I would ever want to sleep with them, but I was like, I get. People say that hela.

Do you say hella so you forget. Oh no, no.

What is that?

It's a no.

It's a no.

I say it with pride too. Like yeah dude, that's hella messy. Everyone knows that I'm. I'm from no Cal because I say hella.

Well I just thought it meant you just weren't very bright. Yeah, but I'm with you. It's so funny. It is a northern. It's not a Southern thing, but what's a Southern California thing?

No, we're just like, bro, what's up?

Yeah, I think I am very. Like, my mom used to make fun when she came out from Michigan. She'd be on my friends. They're like. She's like, it's so funny. I'd sit there with your friends, and they're. What'd she say? We said, we're like, she made fun of us.

Or afterwards, you probably got guys that probably talked to the Valley girls.

I think I do. I think I do.

Totally.

Yeah, I think I do that now. I don't know where I picked that up.

I text Valley girl.

That's how I did, too. I'm like, totes. But I think she was like. She said, we all talk. Like, yeah, that's cool. No problem. Yeah, man. It's all right. I'm like, we don't. And then I realized that, oh, I do. Sorry, Mom. Mom. But my man's the best. I know. She's. She's rad.

She's radical, man.

She's coming out here to visit. So anyway, road trips. So I. The thing about road trips is that, like, first of all, it's a great time to, like, get away. I mean, yeah, you're gonna bring your cell phone with you, but it's a good time to have good talks. I always say it's a great place to, like, talk about sex and your relationship. When you're in the car, it's a.

Great place to know if your relationship's going somewhere. Not part of the pun, but, like, if you are not talking or you just can't wait to get to your destination because you don't like being around your significant other, that's a sign. That is, if you don't travel well with her or him, that's not a good relationship.

Right? That's true.

I think that's totally true.

In fact, you could probably test it. Do a little road drive, road trip tester before you, like, buy the trip to Mexico or something for the trip and do a road trip. But I think there's just, like, sexy and fun, like, getting. Stopping at the. I don't know, you take your shoes off and you can turn around.

You can, like, check one of the cheap airlines. This is a little tip that the wife and I did. We loved it before we were married. You'll find a cheap little airline like Southwest or something that flies somewhere for, like, 80 bucks. Bucks. And then you rent a car and then you just do a big circle so you can fly to like a different state and then do a circle. Everything is new. And then you like a three or four day circle, like, you know, 2,000 miles or whatever if you're insane like we were. And then when you get back to the airport, you turn the car in. You've stayed in like three or four different little motels.

Sweet. Hit a few nationals ever?

No, I don't talk about those things.

Ah, damn it.

Might have got pulled over by a female police officer. And I thought, hey, this might be hot. But it was not, because it wasn't. She was butch.

Okay, got it. Well, car sex, it might remind you of prom. I, I, I'm trying to think. If I had car sex in high school, I must have. I like groping sex.

You grew up in Michigan, I'm sure you. Yeah, truck sex, probably.

I did. No, yeah, I did have car sex. I had car makeouts and stuff like that. In fact, I got busted by the cops. I remember because I was making out in my high school. Okay. So I went to the quintessential all American high school in Michigan. And it was like our, our high school was, I don't know if I ever talk about this, but it was, it was state or the state football champs every year. And like, that's a big deal. It was like the football players were cool and the cheerleaders were cool. Like very stereotypical, very American, like all American. And I was like, went with a boyfriend and we were making out under the bleachers. We got out of his car and the cops came and told us to come. I didn't get arrested. But here's the thing.

Did they take you aside, make sure that you're into it?

They're like, you don't look like you're really into the sex. Into the sex. Oh, Like I was consensually making out with him under the bleachers and.

Yeah, yeah, because I got caught in my school parking lot in the, like late at night, like 10 o' clock at night. Because I was the only safe place to go with my girlfriend in high school. And we heard dog barking out. We're in the middle of this parking lot, empty parking lot in the middle of nowhere and late at night. And then we heard a dog barking. And it was a canine unit rolled up on us and he made me stay in the car. He pulled her out of the car and made sure that she wanted.

Do you want to be giving him a blowjob?

Are you, are you into this.

Do you know how to please yourself? Did you tell him that you want your clitoris touched?

Oh, he wasn't you.

So, anyway, let me just do a car session. Okay.

The cop was like you.

Well, when you.

Officer Emily, I love it.

I should be. But here's the thing. I want to make car sex. Because here's the thing. Yes, it's illegal. Yes, you're. You could get arrested for it. But. So here's how to make it better. Find a good parking spot.

Yeah. Make sure you're parked.

Pull over.

Yes.

Because moving car. Major. No, no, make sure the spot is secluded because it is illegal. Public. Public. Dec, here's a tip. Don't hop to the back. You can recline the front seat. The passenger seat. The front passenger seat. Recline it. Woman on top. It's great because you can use, like, the seats as the leverage.

The passenger side. Don't get that steering wheel.

Passenger side. You don't want the steering wheel thing. So that's fun. That's just a great way to tell you. But you don't want to bounce too much either, because the car could be shaking, and then you could get arrested. Exactly. So I'm just telling y' all to pull over. Also, you guys, I know water. Everyone's drawn to the water. In the summer, you're like, oh, sex in the Jacuzzi. Sex in the hot tub. You want to get a little wet.

Yeah.

Do you know what's your face. Not so bacteria. Here's the thing. I don't want to be a buzzkill because, like, oceans, lakes, pools, Jacuzzis, all that. You don't know what's. Yeah.

Oh, you're giving examples. I'm giving lakes, pools, rivers.

I'm giving examples of bodies of water that you might want to frolic in. But there's stuff floating beneath the surface, like bacteria and all this stuff, and people think, oh, you're already wet, and it can be great. But the truth is, it's not so good.

And it cuts down on lubrication.

Like, overall, it does. You're so good. It's true. So we think wetter. Better. It's gonna be wet. Wet. But it's not. You actually lose your natural lubrication in the water. So. And there's harmful bacteria. So I say just you can make out in the pool, in the water, in the. In the oceans and the. Wherever.

But in the river.

But when you want to get it on. For reals? Yeah. Take it on land.

And if you're having sex or. Or Getting hot and heavy in the ocean. Be careful of riptides. You don't want to like, you know, look up from all the heavy petting and realize that you've drifted out to sea during bad times.

Yeah, that could happen, right? You're really into it.

Beach sex. What do you think of that?

Well, I think that the sand, it's awful. Yeah.

Yeah. Well, sandpaper sex.

Yeah, that's the thing. It's like. It's Rome. Here's the thing about water sex is that it's very romantic, I think. And the idea of it, while it still can be. You can start a little making out, foreplay, go skinny dipping, watch each other, undress. You know, the whole thing about beach sex is that the sand can go in places you don't want it. So you can have a towel, have a bottle of wine, heat. Yeah, yeah. But like actually, like in the sand, you just get it everywhere. So be careful about that. And I would also see fleas.

No good.

What?

Sea fleas.

Oh, yeah.

They glow in the dark so you can see them.

Right. But they bite you and stuff. Because of that, you don't want them.

In the crotch area.

No. You want nothing like that in the crotch area.

The idea of beach sex is so great until you do it and it's just like. Oh, yeah, right.

Well, if you ever. But even if you have the blanket.

It is always sand because you're usually having a few drinks too. And you're sloppy. Sloppy.

Okay. So I say do a little skinny dipping, do a little makeouts, but when it's time for the in and out, move to the Chase Lounge, the pool deck, you know, a chair. So that's why I gotta stay out. Water sex. And I've made those mistakes before. I think everyone has when I was younger, like Jacuzzi. And now I realize, oh my God, the bacteria and all, that's not good. So I don't want anyone getting any UTIs for the summer.

Plus a chance.

Short for urinary tract infection.

It's not your Jacuzzi. You're bangin. Think of the poor people that have to come in after you.

Exactly.

Yeah.

Yeah. Coronation doesn't kill it all.

Be a place here, right down the street. I think it was called a wet spot or something. It was awful. They used to always have some dating. Reality show would always go there for the date, like the blind date. And it was just like a. You could rent a Jacuzzi for like an hour and people just go in there and bang. I remember I drive by that place and feel like I was getting dirty.

I remember those places. Like they don't have them any money. They had them too.

Too. Well, I think they're just called like Turkish bath houses in San Francisco.

Maybe. But they did have a place that you. I would think that would be gross. I would never want it. And then the people know that you're going in there to bang bang in water.

And they don't change that. Water.

No.

We're in a drought.

I don't want to kill everyone summer here though. So I think if you want to get wet and you're hot and sticky and you want to cool off. I'm a huge fan of shower sex and outdoors.

Shower sex, but also outdoor sex at night because it's nice and warm. You're not freezing your buns off.

Exactly.

In the summertime time, it's very sexy.

If you're like camping and stuff. Yeah, I like camping. I used to camp. You could do camping. You could do it with like. But I know I would want like a fancier camping. Like I'd want like an air mattress or something. You know what I mean? I don't want.

Air mattress is fancy.

Not air mattress, but like a.

You want an air mattress?

Is that what I want? That's what I want. Fancy. No, but I used to rough it. I was camping all the time. Camping. There goes my Michigan accent. Because that's where I did it. But shower sex is great because for. Let me tell you what, why limited space. You can get creative with your positions. Cleanup is minimal. You can be all sweaty and then you jump in there and you like cool off. And it also heats up your sex drive. Did you know that when you're in the cold water of the shower, like, it gets you like more turned on. It stimulates your circulation. Your blood will flow easily to the places that you want it to.

But there's shrinkage. Unless you're in the pool that's in your open.

I know that is my trinkets.

Your trinks.

That was a great Seinfeld.

So it was a great one, right?

Yeah.

And the other thing is. Okay, so lube. Here's the thing about shower sex too, is that like we said, it washes away women's natural lubrication. So you need lube in the shower. You can get a long lasting silicone lube to pick up the slack. Like Joe premium silicone lube, which is available on my website because now I've got a store.

Oh, Joe, I've never. I've not Heard of this one?

Okay. It's amazing. And we just got a whole box of it. If. Okay, I know you're not gonna say it now.

Is Joe a guy?

Joe is Jojo. Joe. Just Joe Jo. And let me just tell you this. We've got a lot of lube here from Joe. And if you'd like some for the road for the summer you suggested, I'm.

Gonna hammer one out in the road. On the road.

I don't know what, but we've got a lot of lube here. I'm saying we got like 25 pounds of lube.

I would love a few hundred ounces if I could. Oh, you like lube? What? What are you talking about? I don't like lube.

No. I've given you Lou before.

Anderson, a little goodie bag.

I have a drum of lube. Don't need a drum. I use it to on Stanley's nose when it gets dry in the summer.

Do you know that you say Stanley and I, I, I get warm.

Stanley's my little dog. Just to be clear here for those of you who might not know him. And then his nose gets very dry in the summer, so I lube it up.

You do? I'll give you some loop a little. Do you? Thanks. That's what it's for. Whatever you don't tell me. But also here's the amazing thing. Sport sheets, they make a great line of toys. It's all like Velcro bondage stuff, which you can also get on my website if you've been wanting to get into that thing. They also brilliantly have a line of toys called Sex in the shower. So they help prevent you from taking like a tumble like mid coital in the shower because there are some risks.

Got suction cups for your knees and stuff.

Literally. Suction cup, like restraints. Oh yeah, suction cup. They have a dual suction locking handle for leverage. Suction handcuffs.

I've seen the, the suction cup handles on Mission Impossible. Yeah, well, Tom Cruise used it to like climb up the side of a building.

It's just like the same thing. Yes, yes, it's just like that.

So like in his like behind the scenes, behind closed doors, that's what he's probably using those for. And then he's like, hey, I could use these to break into that high rise.

Tom Cruise is really into shower socks. So it was actually his idea.

I can see that. So the lube that you take with you in the shower though, they make it very like recognizable by touch the bottle wise. So you don't get it confused with the shampoo. When you're not looking, I hope that.

You just would be able to open your eyes just to make sure you're not putting the shampoo on your penis.

When the coitus is going on, the eyes are closed and.

Yeah.

Kind of reaching for things.

Good question.

Because you don't want the shampoo, but.

You could tell because it's silicone. So it's slicker. But here's the other thing that they make. I forgot to say this. So when I first met the sport sheets people, they gave me this vibrating. It's a. It's a. So I use a. One of those mesh sponges in the shower, like the poofs you put. You know what I'm saying? Maybe your wife uses one, you feel like a poofy washy thing. And.

Yeah, the bacteria collectors.

I wash mine. Okay.

I haven't seen one of those for years because I haven't dated anyone that's used them for years. But, yeah, I know exactly what you're talking about.

I use them, but they make one with a vibr. So here's the funny thing. It has a little bullet vibe in it. And so I have a bunch of them in my cabinet. And I just pulled one out one day in my cabinet and I brought in the shower and I realized it was the. The vibrating one because it looks just like my other ones because you can't tell there's a little vibrator in it. And I realized I never used it until then.

Until then.

I was like, oh, I'm in the shower and I gotta test it. And it's rad. I mean, you could get it all wet.

Radical.

So I can get all soapy and then a little.

You gotta be careful. The soap. Gotta be careful in.

I wasn't putting in my. I was soaping up like my other. Not my internal parts, my external parts. But then I used the little bullet and it's brilliant. A bullet in a mesh sponge. So anyway, I love all this.

Somebody was thinking like they're doing it in there. Anyways, we all know the ladies are in there doing it. Why don't we give them a little help?

I thought it was smart. Okay, so the other thing, once you get out of the shower, you can still take a shower on a staycation. Sometimes you just need to change the scenery. What? You hate that word. Word. You do hate that word. I know you so well.

That's where you stay at home, right? You have a long weekend instead of leaving town. You stay at home.

You can stay at home. You can get an Airbnb in your neighborhood for like 50 bucks. It doesn't matter.

That's kind of cool, right? Because you never vacation in your own city.

Yeah, you don't cool. It is cool. You can bond, you know, it's fun being away from home. You got, like, an unfamiliar place and, like, when you can, you know, again, Airbnb, great idea. You can mess up someone else's place and you just kind of disconnect. And I think if you do take a weekend away with a partner, I think you should put away your cell phones and just say, we're going out into nature. Have, like, turn off your phone, your tablet, don't use a tv, and take some time to experiment. If you're going away, like, this is a good time to, like, bring out the cuffs or whatever you want and try and, like, have your summer bucket list ready. Be like, I love my bucket list concept. I'm telling you, I can't say enough.

When you're, like, short term.

Yeah, but like, be like, this summer, what are the two things that we want to try? Okay.

Acupuncture and meditation. Oh, you're talking sex.

Sex. Okay, so what do you want to try this summer? Oh, I want to try that sex in the shower Emily talked about. And I want, you know, to have some outdoor sex. So just, like, make some plans, you know, if you want sex in the balcony. And the other good thing about going away is, like, you don't. If you do want to experiment and you're somewhere else, like, you don't have to worry about the neighbor seeing you.

Yes. You could be strangers. You could do a little role playing program. You can do the role playing outside your own home. It'll help you get into your role, I would think, especially if you're method now. Something you. You could probably attest to, Em, is you ladies, when you guys go out of town, away from your own house and familiar surroundings, you tend to loosen up and do things that you normally.

It's true. This is what I'm saying. Have you found that with the ladies?

I found that, like, if you're. If you're on vacation and you're out of town and they're not around the things that they see every day. When I'm saying they, I'm talking the ladies, Right? They. They tend to be more willing to try new and experimental things. For sure.

I think we all are. I think, like, once we get. Because a lot of couples, you know, they talk about My relationships gotten so routine. It's gotten kind of stale.

Yeah.

You saw, I'm just trying to give you ways to get out of your. Because it's in your same zone. And that, that sparks creativity. It sparks sexual energy. And give a crap what anyone thinks.

Fear, even if it's just like overnight, it's just like spontaneous. Just like it does so much good for a relationship. It renews it refreshes it.

For sure. I know.

And if it's just like, you know, it's like 11 o' clock in the morning on. You're like, you know what, let's throw a few things overnight in the bag and hit the road. Don't even know where we're going.

I know. I'm totally gonna do that.

And you can do it cheap. You can do it on cheap.

Totally do it.

The new I don't want to like, you know, Motel 6. Actually, the new rooms aren't bad.

Really?

Yeah, they've redone everything. Hardwood floors in those babies.

Really? Motel 6.

Every. Every place, every little town has a Motel 6. They got the new hardware floors so there's less bacteria in those carpets. They. They let you have dogs.

Carpets. Okay.

Have dogs.

They do, yeah. Stanley could go.

Stanley comes.

Stanley and I should take a little road trip.

You could do that.

I love it. Okay, so that's a good idea. And I do like the stranger thing because people laugh the suggestion, but stranger. It's fun to like show up, pretend you just met.

Oh, the role playing thing.

Yeah, it's fun. So I just want you all to take advantage of the summer. And I'm just trying to inspire you here because summer months are upon us. Go have some great sex.

Yeah. Last summer I didn't even realize it was over till it was over. And it kind of sucked.

I know.

You know those summers where you're just doing stuff and you can forget that it's even so war.

Hat worm was battling the heat. I know.

Doing that kind of. This summer. I want to. I want to. I haven't even put my hammock up in my backyard. I got to take in the summer.

I want a hammock. Can we talk about hammocks after? I know I'm going to get a hammock. Okay, so that's what we got for you. Happy summer. So let's move on to the emails.

Emails.

Okay, so thank you for emailing me feedback at sex with emily.com. you can now leave us a voicemail. We've got a new voicemail feature. People have been leaving Messages, we're going to start putting them into the show. It's 818 Ask Swe1. That's 818 Swe1. It's also on our website, so check that out.

Swe stands for sex with Emily.

Thank you. And also, we like your name, your age, where you live, all that stuff. So this first email, make sure you.

Say hello in your email.

Say hello. So I gotta read this email. I don't know if I should give this a preface, but this is. This is related to our last show. I want to read this email that we just literally got before you woke in. We're like, you know what? We're putting this in the show. Show. So here we go. Dear Emily, John C. Here, you and Anderson answered my questions about starting to see people again after my wife died.

Oh, no.

Remember this? Yeah. It's okay. It gets better. Okay. Just because Madison and I cried before the show when we read it. It's okay. I hope that this message is not too long, but I've been thinking a lot about what you said on the program. Well, let me just give you a preface that. Well, he gets into it, but his wife died and he was trying to get back into it.

We covered this. It was just last week, right. And unfortunately, I was looking up horrible things on. On my phone, not paying attention to Emily at all. And the timing couldn't have been worse. And I. I thought. I felt bad about that. Like four days later, I was thinking about it.

Let's keep reading because I think you should feel better now. Your comments are very kind, and I'd like to thank you once again for addressing my question. I think your suggestion that I go a little slow to get a little slow in getting back out among other people dating and possibly finding new relationships was very wise. It didn't occur to me that I should try to make new friends and build a new community of friends, male and female, as a beginning. I don't have to jump right into the dating game right away. Julia and I were very alone by the time she died. And I've been trying to recover largely on my own. My closest friends live 100 miles away. I have to find some ways to develop a circle of friends near me. That's a step because I still. I am pretty much shattered because I cry so often when I think of Julia. I think that dating needs to wait. They were married for a very long time and his wife died. You said. You also said that you hoped I'd done some things that people can do to heal after a loss. I don't think I've done all I could and I've decided to look for a bereaved support group, so that has really helped. It's my doctor who suggested. Months ago, I signed up for Internet dating sites to meet people and got me thinking about relationships. And I guess that got me thinking that I should get into dating sites, but not too seriously. At this point, like you said, I'm sending a separate email to poor Anderson. He apologized so much last night about doing fact checking and not hearing. When you read my question, I want to tell him that to me, he has absolutely nothing to apologize for and that the whole interaction was a little funny. I'm also going to subscribe to his podcast, Cinematics. Ah. See? So you have nothing to worry about.

So sweet. Thank you.

Best wishes to you and thank you for your help again. You were very kind and compassionate, and I appreciate that very much. I hope you and your friends have a great summer in Los Angeles. Cheers. John C. Ah.

Why did terrible things happen to good people? Because that guy's obviously. I know.

He's so sweet. Madison. I were like, we had tears come. So, John, you've very much touched us, and I'm glad this was helpful for you. And thank you for listening to the show. And Anderson feels.

Thanks for letting me off the hook.

He's been upset about it ever since, so. Really have had to read that.

I told my wife and she was. She gave me some daggers.

She did.

She's like, what? You're such an idiot, Anderson. I'm like, I know, honey. I know. Thank you, John, for letting me off.

Thanks, John. He really needed it because he was not going to rest again. Okay. Hello there. I was wondering if you could help me, please. This afternoon, whilst having sex with my boyfriend, who is the Brit it is, he introduced me to the word.

C U N T cunt. Thank you. At first I was shocked, but then I became excited. Later, I phoned my best friend and told her of my discovery. She burst out laughing and said that all girls use this word during sex. Well, I never have embarrassment, I suppose. Could I ask your opinion on the word and its usage? Please thank sue from the uk.

Yes. She's. Wait a minute. So he introduced it to her.

Yeah. And she didn't know what it meant.

Or how did he use it, I wonder. Well, yeah, I'm really sticking that into your.

Yeah. I can't even. I don't want to say it, but. Yeah. I mean, I think it has to do with the region because apparently the C word is much less offensive and used more conversationally in the uk.

Oh, for sure.

So they're like, hey, my Britsixing bros. Like my bros and I. My C and I. I can't say.

It just rolls off their tongues. They say it's. It's a lot of the time it's, you know, a little more the punk rock crowd that. That says it. But what's the, what's the accent that they got down there that's like really thick? It's like pigeon, but it's not pigeon. Whatever. I'm drawing a blank on it. It's what they use. It's what they use in a clockwork gorge. Ah, but anyways, when they like Sex Pistol, Johnny Rotten, like the way he talks. What is that anyways, when they say it, bro, The Australians. The Australians, I don't know, say that's cunt very well.

Is. Yeah. They say it like mates, right? Yeah, like me and my cousin.

Oh, he's a. He's a good old.

All right. I'm not sure that everyone's using it that way. It's not uncommon. But it's raunch. I don't know, maybe in the bedroom. He's like, I'm gonna f your.

It's weird. They'll say, but they can't say bloody. It's a weird, weird language thing down there.

They can't say bloody.

Bloody is really bad.

They always say bloody that. Bloody. Hell.

I know. It's when they're like, you're watching R rated stuff.

Oh, okay. Well, here's the thing. When you're.

You don't say bloody at the dinner table. That's very upsetting.

I didn't know that.

My. My father in law. Law is British.

Didn't know that either.

Yeah, I'm gonna try both cunt and bloody.

Goes like a Christmas.

Let you know which one upsets them more.

Exactly. Let me know, please. So I think, sue, when you're in the bedroom, it's all about what you're comfortable with, what makes you excited. If you find it bothers you, let your partner know. But she got all excited, so I don't think it's a problem. But here I think again, if it was using context, like I like dirty talk, but that might even startle me, I think. I don't think I've ever. I personally haven't had a guy use that word, word in bed. But, you know, it's all about what makes you feel comfortable and what makes you feel uncomfortable. So if it Turns you on, Sue? I say fine. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. He's doing dirty talk, so it worked for him. I don't think it's a regional thing. I think people say it here in America.

I need to know how he used it, though.

Well, she didn't get into it, but he used it and then she got excited after because maybe just. What?

I wonder if he's like, you're being such a stupid.

I don't know. Or if he was like literally saying like. Like using it as a slang for vagina. I don't know, but I. I mean, she wants to know. I think about my. On. Its usage is very, very. It's varied throughout different regions, but I'm assuming he was using it for dirty talk purposes. And I don't care if whatever words he used, if it turned you on, I'm fine with it. If you're fine with it. Just the bedroom. You guys can do what you want.

Do what you like. I love her friend's reaction.

I'm totally cool with it. Yeah, yeah. Your friend laughed. You felt good. So here we go. Next thing here. Anderson. Hi, Emily. 23 year old female with a. I'm 23 year old male with a female significant other. We've been dating for a year and a half and our sex life is great. My question is, how do you feel about a man coming on your body and then cleaning it up himself?

Cockney is the accent that I was looking for.

Oh, great.

Cockney loves to say cunt. All right, let's get back to the cleanup.

I have had fantasies where I will finish on my significant other and want to clean it up. Tasting myself and. Or sharing it with my significant other.

We have talked about me trying my own cum. I'd like to say Jacqueline, but we've never gone through with it. We're both open and willing to try most things. Any advice appreciated? Love the show, Patrick.

He hasn't tried. If he's this curious that he's gonna sit down and form an email and send it to you, he hasn't tried it in the comfort of his own private home.

Home. Dude, have you been listening to sex this People email me first because they know.

Does he know what snowballing is?

I don't know. Tell him.

I don't like to describe it. It's when you finish in the woman's mouth and you make out with her deeply before she. Deeply before she. She swallows. It's called snowballing. It's very upsetting.

Yeah.

Why? What if.

Hey, there's also cooking with come. You guys could do have a little cooking.

Dude, wasn't that dude on Love Line?

I don't think we was on. He was on level Line. We brought it to the show, though.

Okay, so here's the thing.

Here's the weird thing.

Anderson, let me just talk to you about this ejaculate thing. This is one of those questions we've been see, we've been seeing a lot more of lately.

I want to taste my come more.

Yes. In the past few weeks. Yes.

That's a new thing. Like, that's like pegging was 2015.

Yes.

Tasting your own 2016.

Yes.

What is 2017 gonna be?

I don't know. I don't know. What is it gonna be, dude? I'm afraid. No, but this is fine. Like, here's the thing. I just love that in this show we can kind of gauge what's going on, actually, because these are the questions we're getting.

Right?

Nobody asked about.

That's what I miss most about Loveline are the questions. Interaction with the listeners.

It happens here.

I'm getting a dose of it.

Don't you feel like you never left Loveline? And we've got water and snacks for you.

Thank God.

But listen, here's the thing. Patrick, everyone, the tasting semen thing. Like, it's. It is coming up, we've got, like, a bunch of emails. Nothing wrong with. With it. Everyone has their own sexual proclivities. It's not unsafe. It's not going to hurt you. And I'm kind of thinking it has to do with porn. Maybe guys are tasting their cup more than porn. I don't know. Or who knows what it is, but it's a common theme in, like, dominance mission play. Making the sub drink their own fluids. But lots of women, so I don't have a problem with that. If your partner's cool with it, like, taste it. She can taste it. You can put it on a hot veg Sunday. I don't care. Like, you're not gonna die. Yeah, yeah, it's fine.

But the ice cream will melt by the time you're done.

I don't know if it's by the bed, but it is summer. If you got air conditioning, I don't know, but I. I think that you can just drive.

Speaking as the only guy in the room.

I. I question the validity of Patrick's email.

Why?

We've gotten five emails about it.

Here's why. Why most every guy has. By mistake.

It's gone There he's saying, I want to do it with her. Like, I want to taste.

So. Okay. He wants. So he has. Tasty. Okay. Let the record show that Patrick.

Patrick.

Has mostly tasted your comment by a mistake. Tasted his own.

I'm gonna challenge your by the mistake thing.

Mmm. It happens.

It just. What? You come. And there's a drop in my mouth.

Hey. Young boys do it a lot, and it flies out a lot, and it goes everywhere. And sometimes it hits your mouth. It might be open.

What do you think of how it tastes?

What?

It's not too bad.

Tastes like bubblegum.

Oh, it's, like, salty. It's fine. Okay, so Patrick. And So we're fine with it. Do it with your partner. I mean, I think it's however you want to do it. I think it's fine if she's cool with it. Sounds like she's down, right? Doesn't he say she's down? Yeah, you guys are fine. What?

I could see her thinking, he's a freak.

No, no, no. He says here that.

She said, we talked about it. We talked about it, but we've never gone through with it. So maybe right now, while listening to this, he's waiting for me to answer it.

Emily's talking about.

Here's the other thing. Lots of women are. Let's go to the ejaculate thing. Lots of women, 100% fine being ejaculated on. And some prefer it. They love it. And I think you asked about cleaning it up. You know, I think it's great. I think you should go around and clean her up. I don't have a problem with a guy ejaculating on my naked body.

Just don't clean it up with your mouth.

No, I.

Right.

Hey, Kill two birds with one stone. Why not?

Because that's killing, like, the main bird, which is him. Don't do that.

Well, I don't want a guy licking me up. But here's the thing. I wouldn't mind, though.

Would that be weird? That would freak you out. Music like Stanley finishes on your stomach.

And then, you know when dogs. Like lit.

Yes, but here's the thing.

However you wanted to inject. However you want to inject it. I'm fine. But you know what? I love Anderson, which I don't think this hearkened back to days of yore when men. Not a man I've been with lately, they'd be like, get up. And they would get a warm washcloth, and then they would wipe it off. And I thought that was very gentle.

Like, you're actually at a massage parlor.

Yeah.

Very nice.

Like. Like a nice massage parlor. So I like. I think that more guys need to do that. Like, I don't want to lie there with. I mean, I don't. You're semen. Like, you just ejaculated. Like, get up and when. A warm cloth, a damp cloth. That was for Lori. But I think that. I think that all your fantasies sound natural and sounds like your partner's on board. So what are you waiting for? Anderson's cool with it too.

I hope so. So cool with it. I just. I think he might come off as a serial killer if he does it in the wrong fashion.

Come off and come with.

Try and do that to him.

So easy. That was so easy.

Dipping his fava beans in his own combo.

There is a. There is a website for cooking with come. I don't want to. Like, I've knew. They're not my sponsor.

No, they're not.

Okay. But that's all we got time for.

Neither is Motel 6. But, you know, when.

When it comes, I feel like I want the Four Seasons to be my sponsor because I'd like to go there a lot with. I've been to some hand guys jack on me with warm.

Been to some decent Motel six, some nice Motel Sixes. Check in the motel. Check out motel.

I'll say, okay. So I would say, yeah, we're good. But, Anderson, it was so good to see you. Tell me what's going on in your life.

Good to see you, Emma. Things are actually happening. They're rolling. If you. Here's the only thing that I'm gonna plug, other than cinematics, which is the show that I put my heart and soul into every week.

Podcast.

And yeah, it's. It's movies coming out this week. We just did Woody Allen's new movie. We got into the controversy that is Woody Allen's new movie, Cafe Society Dynasty. It spent a long time talking about, should we even be talking about this movie? Because of the allegations and things that look to be true about Woody Allen. Dude, Woody, what's wrong with you, buddy? And we also talked about the new Bryan Cranston movie, the Infiltrator. But more important than all that, to me anyways, is if you go to groupersthemovie.com groupers the movie dot com. That's my website for my feature that I'm starting to raise money for here very soon. It's gonna be my first feature. I've done a lot of shorts, as.

You know, and they're all awards in. They've all.

They've all been to festivals.

Yes.

And this is gonna be my first feature. It's way out there. It's crazy. It's insane. It's probably going to be upsetting to some people, but it's all about sexuality. It would not exist without Loveline, without me working on Loveline for all those years. I was definitely influenced by that. It's all about homosexuality and bullying and it's called Groupers. And if you go to the website, Groupers, the movie, right now, all that's there is just a place for you to put your email so I can have your email, so I can send you guys emails and keep you in the loop for things coming up. So if you've already sent me an email to my website, I gotcha. But now it's more official and John.

C. Sending you a separate email. I'll tell you it's okay.

Thank you, John C. For letting me off the hook. But Groupers. Groupers, the movie dot com.

I'm so psyched for you.

Yeah.

And all your success. Okay, great. Thank you, Anderson.

Thanks for having me.

What I. Oh. What I gotta say is I'm gonna be in New York for the She. I knew you.

Damn it, I screwed it up.

Sexual Health Expo. Yes, it's September 24th and 25th. Madison in New York, something like that.

Great place to get your bang on.

It's amazing, you guys. It's gonna be in Brooklyn, actually, and I want all my east coast people there. And if you could check out my website, there's a banner and it's gonna be amazing. Sexual Health Expo. If you're new to the show, we've got like the top sex experts from around the world come in and they speak. And these are people that I super. I super admire. I admire a lot. And we've got like top products and toys. Just check it out on my website and I'd love to see you there. All my east coast fans, you're always saying, let me know when you're coming to town. I'm letting you know. Come see me. I love you all. Thank you, Madison, Lori, Jamie and Anderson, of course. And thanks for. For listening. Was it good for you? Email me feedbackexwithemily.com.

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