Man Up Friday

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And there's live video every single day.

Live video every day of this show. This show is live video 1 to 2 Pacific Standard Time Monday through Friday except Wednesdays. So we're so happy to be here. It's Friday. Happy Friday. Yay.

I know.

I'm so, so happy.

So excited. Are you so happy? It's Friday.

So happy.

Let me guess, you're gonna rest and not do anything all this weekend.

No, I've got a huge weekend ahead of me. Yeah, I'm going. I'm going to a wedding tomorrow night. One of my former interns is getting married. And that'll be fun, I think. And then I'm going to my party on Sunday in Golden Gate park. And then I'm going sailing on the bay.

Sailing on the bay.

Have you ever done that?

No. Because it's freezing cold.

Exactly. I'm kind of like nerve friend asking. I'm like, yeah, sailing's like a great idea in theory on the bay, but it's so frigging cold in San Francisco. Even if it's hot, it's cold on the B. Yeah. So that's what I'm doing.

Can you believe where I'm going on Saturday?

Where?

I hate to admit it.

Oh, my God. Wine tasting.

Not wine tasting, but I am going to a winery.

But how did I know?

Okay, the only reason I'm going to the winery is there's a music festival at the winery and it's not in Napa. If it was in Napa, I would not go. It is in Livermore.

There's a winery in Livermore.

There's 50 winery.

Oh, I knew that. That's right, Livermore. Sort of like a mini wine country.

Yeah. Wow.

Well, maybe you'll have some nice Merlot Adam Chardonnay.

25 bands.

Sounds awful. It'll be warm there, though.

Oh, no.

So that's what you're doing?

Yeah, I'll be there Saturday. I'm gonna go to Pixar tonight, watch a movie. Yeah, I'm gonna see Contagion.

Oh, yeah, I was just reading about that. Really? Yeah, it's supposed to be really good. Did it come out yet or.

I don't know.

I think it. I usually get it. It's one of my new section news stories. Talks about.

Really?

Yeah.

Yeah. I don't know. They usually get movies beforehand, so it's probably not.

Did you go by yourself without me?

Sometimes.

I know you never.

Wait, you want to be my plus one?

I always want to be your plus one. How many times do I have to tell you that I want to be your plus one and you never plus one me.

Next time I have a plus one.

Next time.

Blah, blah, blah.

Thank you. And if I invite you, you better not be going to some stupid wine tasting, new restaurant, opening some. My friend is at some weir orgy crap like that.

If I'm your Plus one, I'm your girl.

If I invite you.

Yes.

You better freaking go.

Of course. All right, Menace. Done and done. Okay, everyone, listen. Today's show, you can call us at any time at 415-992-7392. However, you can't call us from Skype, so that will not work. Use your phone, use your phone. Use your cell phone.

Use your home phone.

If you've got one. 415-992-7392, we can answer all your questions or we can take your comments.

And there's a thing one of my co workers remind me of. When I used to do my night show on the radio, I used to do a thing called Man Up Fridays.

Okay.

I like to bring that to this show.

Okay, do it.

Be a man. Pick up the phone and call us. Don't, you know, try to talk through the computer or anything like that. Don't be a puss. Just call us up.

Just call us.

Your freaking crash. In your comments, what's a tip that.

You can give about being a man? What do you think?

Be confident. Be confident, be confident. Don't be wishy washy. Don't say I don't know what to do and grab me and throw me against the wall sometimes and have sex with me. Oh, hey, hey, ho.

Is that right?

Is that. It's that easy?

Yeah.

In the confines of your home?

In the confines of my home. Not like on the street when I'm walking away from here, it's only one o' clock in the afternoon. Good tips for men. God, I feel like I give them all the time, but I think that's some of them. And I would say don't. If you like someone, ask them out. You've got not to lose. You're just gonna sit and pine for some chick if you like, or ask her out the second you meet her. Whatever. Like, just do it, go for it. That's what I gotta say. Just go for everything if you're a dude. Okay, today's show we're gonna. It's Handjob show part two. We gotta finish up the hand jobs from yesterday. We're also gonna talk about how to become a better kisser. Because you know, if you're a bad kisser, it can be the kiss of death. Your kid can be. Your kids can be the kiss of death to the relationship. And that is a friggin bummer. I have a friend who just got back. I told this yesterday, but she came back from a date, she was really excited, third date. And she always Waits to make out on the third date. And she's like, I know we're gonna make out tonight. I'm so excited. He's hot. He's all these things. And she was really attracted to him. And he comes in for the kiss, and it was like this sloppy, awful kiss. So we're gonna teach you how to correct that, what not to do, because your kissing might be ruining your life, at least your relationships. So we're gonna get into that, and then we're gonna be reading your emails that you sent to feedbacksexwelly.com. so I want everyone to email me feedbackexwithelmily.com or, well, oh, it's free Friday too. Hello, Free Friday. This show is free to everybody. So thanks, everyone for listening. Free Fridays. Oh, love it. You have to email me feedbackexwithamily.com I will answer any of your sex, relationship, dating, marriage, love questions that you have. We will do that. And if you're friends with benefits, member, we answer your emails first. We answer them right away. You get priority. And that's amazing. We totally appreciate that. So happy free Friday to everybody. And then we've also got sex in the news and the emails. Some topics in the emails. It doesn't even say here what the topics are. So I'm just gonna tell you, surprise you with the topics. And we've got our poll.

You're really into polls.

I love our polls. We do two polls a week. What are you really into, huh?

I like hearing from the people.

The people.

I like the feedback. I love people emailing the show.

You don't like the polls, though?

I like the polls.

You hate the polls?

Sometimes.

Why do you hate my polls?

Because I didn't make them.

Dude, you don't do anything.

What? I can't make you a fool.

But I.

You don't want to be on right now if it wasn't for you.

Dude, nothing would be on right now if it wasn't for you. I get it, Menace. I get. I get what you contribute to this world, to the Sex with Emily world. So I just got interviewed. This is something that stresses me out from my hometown paper, the Detroit Free Press.

Oh, my God.

How embarrassing is this gonna be for your family?

It's gonna be embarrassing because she interviewed me for an hour about why I'm. My sex life. And I mean, not my sex life, but how. How's a nice. What's a nice girl from Michigan doing with a show called Sex with Emily? Like, how does a nice girl from the Midwest get into Sex. And so it was like questions about my childhood. And like, I told her I played a lot of with Barbie and Ken dolls and she was like, I'm like, well, actually it was Barbie and GI Joe because my brother had GI Joe and I thought Ken was kind of a pussy. And she said, well, did they have a good relationship? What kind of relationship was Barbie and Ken? Like, she was getting into my psyche. I was like, I don't remember. Like they went to the beach in the Barbie beach bus. Anyway, it was intense. So then she's interviewing my mom and my brother and she's doing profile pieces. Because my book's coming out. Everyone, I've tell you that my book is coming out October 11th. It's called Hot Sex. Over 200 things you can try tonight. And you can buy it online right now. You can pre order it if you want, but we'll be talking a lot more about that.

Preorder the hell out of it.

Preordered the hell out of my book. I know.

You tell me nothing.

I know. It's on Amazon. You can buy it or Simon and Schuster. And it is a frigging awesome book. I'm really, really proud of it. And also, yeah, that's what I got. So it was a little stressful because it's like talking about yourself. Not that I don't like talking about myself, but for like an hour and getting into like why I am the way I am and what are my parents think of what I do. So she just talk to them and ask them. Good times. Maybe I'll talk to you. But you have some nice things.

I would say nothing but nice things. I'd be a sweetheart.

Oh, you are sweet. You are sweet. Okay, I try. Yeah. So what else? Anything else that you need to share?

Nothing.

You were gonna hang out last night. You were gonna set up my dvr.

Yeah, I went to bed really early.

I know. And I was working till 7:30.

I know. What the hell?

What the hell? I was on a very important phone call, which I told you about.

Oh, okay.

Yeah, it went on and on and on, but. And then I just, yeah, went home and worked some more, which was super fun. But this weekend I'm feeling like I'm like chock tonight's friend's birthday party. So I'm not gonna sit home and work all weekend and be lame. Lame.

Are you gonna hang out with any dudes?

A little bit maybe.

Yeah, maybe a little sprinkle.

Little sprinkle of guys. Sprinkle in pepper and some men here and There don't really know. Don't really know what's gonna happen. And then we have a contest going on. We've gotten amazing responses to this, so everyone keep it coming because we'll be picking a winner on Tuesday. The contest is what would you give.

Up for amazing sex?

What in your life are you, like, God? Okay, I'll give up my iPhone for amazing sex. I'd give up chocolate or I'd give up whatever. What would you give up for amazing sex? We've gotten some funny answers. You can tweet me, tweet it to me. Sex with Emily, or Facebook or email me feedbackexthemy.com because you'll be winning a special prize from AdamAndEve.com and it vibrates and it's phallic shaped. That's all I'm gonna tell you.

Okay?

Okay. It's phallic shape, it's phallic shaped, and it vibrates. You'll be so psyched. So then that's what I gotta say about that. And then Monday show, we'll be talking about crazy sex accidents. They're hilarious. I can't wait for my show. I can't tell you, okay? I can't reveal my sources. Thanks everyone for listening to the Sex with Emily highlight clip from today's episode. To get the full episode, go to sexwithemily.com and become a Friends with benefits member today. There's so much happening at the new sexwithemily.com, we've got daily shows with live streaming video. We've got polls, we've got blogs, we've got giveaways. There's so much happening at the site and we just hope you all join us and support the show. So go to sexthemily.com right now and and you can listen to this entire episode. Thanks everyone for supporting the show.

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