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Hi. How you doing?

I'm great. How are you?

You forgot to tell people there's a daily blog. There's.

There's a daily blog.

Every single day. Every single sex. Emily.com. and get new information.

New information. It's like your daily sex newspaper.

Yes, it is.

It is. It is. Today's show, we will be talking about a few things.

Sex.

Oh, my God.

Totally. Sorry.

There are our sex bucket list. You know what a sex bucket list is?

Yeah.

The things that you want to try before you. What?

Can I just give away one for a man?

Yeah.

Threesome. Boom. Top of the list, number one.

Okay. It's in there. It's actually a book called the Naughty Bucket List. And we're going off that. We're going to talk about what's on your bucket list and how you can achieve it. And then we've got your emails and we've got sex in the news and we've got a lot going on. That's our day so far, man. What?

It's.

Already a long day.

It's already. I agree.

How about you?

Oh, my God.

I'm in at 1 o'.

Clock. I'm sorry I'm late to start the show. Well, we were having some issues with our hole puncher, so.

Stop the show for a hole puncher.

Well, we had to get everything punched and put it in my binder. And then we just had a lot going on, so. But I'm here.

What did you do yesterday?

Yesterday I.

Went. I worked pretty late. I was at the office till like 9. And then I went to meet some.

Oh.

Cause it was Halloween. So then I went to meet some friends in Potrero Hill, which is really cool neighborhood in San Francisco. And there was tons of people outside, like old kids, big kids, everyone in their costumes. And we ate some sushi and watched all the people and it was really fun. But I did not dress up. And I feel kind of sad about it. Cause I missed it.

I didn't dress up either. I went to that party that I was supposed to go to for work. I went for a half hour.

Oh my God. That's record timing for you. Why? You were done.

I was just stunned.

Were you Tinky Winky?

I wasn't Tinky Winky. I was.

You weren't even Tinky Winky.

I walked in, said, what's up to a couple people, took a bunch of photos, put them up on my blog, went home, went to sleep. I was in bed by 8 o'. Clock.

I feel bad because Halloween is like this national holiday in San. It's like the holiday in San Francisco.

We've been celebrating it all week.

I know, but I was in New York so I missed all the main celebrations. So yeah, I have to say that next year I'm gonna bring it hard. This year I sort of failed on Halloween, but I did get to check out everyone. I mean, this city goes off like adults and kids were just like roaming the streets and, and it was fun.

I did.

Book a trip to Vegas though.

Why?

For Thanksgiving.

Oh, that sounds nice and homey.

It is.

Why?

Because I, I have this hotel, these hotel rooms that I need to use up before the end of the year.

Who are you going with?

And no one.

Shut the fuck up. Who are you going with? Which girl?

This, this a friend of mine. Don't even worry about it.

A friend that. What do you mean worry? You're gonna boner there. You don't bring a friend to Vegas.

Yeah, you don't, you don't. I'll give you more details when, when it happens. Yeah, but I'm going to Vegas for Thanksgiving because.

For how long?

I like to give an excuse. For how long? Just two days.

Oh, okay.

I, you know me because my family's divorced. I know they're all over, they're separated all over the country. I'm like, look, I've been telling them for years, let's go to like Las Vegas, right, And meet up, right, and have a good time. They don't want to do it. You know what? Stay in freakin Idaho and Washington in the freakin snow.

So what the hell is happening in Vegas over Thanksgiving now?

What's. It's.

I don't know, isn't everyone eating turkey.

Seven days a week?

You're right, you're right. It's like Disneyland.

You know what I had last year for, for my Thanksgiving dinner?

What?

Sushi. And it was delicious.

Yeah, you're right, Thanksgiving's overrated. But for me, for a lot of people, it's my. It's my family's big holiday. We all go home for Thanksgiving, so I'm going home to Michigan.

Oh. But I do enjoy the big turkey. Family. Sit down. But, yeah, my family's just so spread out, and they're not.

I know it's hard. It's hard. I got the divorce thing, too. But this is, like, what my family does. We all get together Thanksgiving, so I'm gonna be gone for almost a week.

It sucks, though, because you're like, can you just, like, for one day, Thanksgiving. Can you all just stop being assholes?

Your family. Yeah.

And just hang out and just eat.

Why can't we all get along?

Yeah.

Yeah. Well, my family, we get along. We have a lot of fun together. We go around the table and say what we're thankful for.

I want to go one year to your Thanksgiving.

Come this year.

I'm already booked for Vegas with some whore. You already. You already. I brought this up many times that I wanted to go, and now you're saying, oh, come. Because I already booked my trip to Vegas.

That's why I'm jealous that you're going with some girl to Vegas.

I think it's getting fun. Dude, I hooked up the. I hooked up the intern.

She just got her 21st birthday. Look how cute she is. I didn't get to hear about it.

Can we get her on the mic and share some stories? Yeah, she was sharing some pretty interesting stuff.

Do you want any, Lauren?

I have a. I have a buddy. I have a buddy in Las Vegas, and he's, like, the man, like, every.

Everyone who's watching, Check out my adorable intern Lauren, who just turned 21 and went to Vegas.

Grab the microphone.

Grab the mic.

You're gonna have to stand, if you don't mind.

Okay.

I have a buddy in Vegas that, like, hooks everyone up all nightclub. So anytime any of my friends are going to Vegas, I tell them, talk to this guy. He'll hook you up.

Okay.

So it's your 21st birthday.

Happy birthday.

Happy birthday.

How'd it go?

It went really well. It was so much fun. It was exactly like it should have been.

Tell me some highlights.

We'd basically gone to every club without waiting in line, without paying. I probably spent $100 the whole time.

Oh, my God.

No way. See, it must be so nice being a chick. Yeah. Hot chicks, a little bit closer.

So, yeah, it was on, like, taxis, doing food, right? Which we really didn't pay for because we ended up, like, finding these guys, and they ended up paying for us.

That's awesome. That's what we do. We find the guys. So did you meet any guys?

No. They were all like, 35.

Yeah, but it's cool. They can pay for all your meals and all your drinks. That's fine.

Totally.

Gold diggers.

God damn. No, we're just hot chicks who get stuff paid for. Oh, oh, oh, honey, you'll never be a hot chick. And it's just. You don't know what it's like. So, okay, what was the highlight?

Creepiest line ever at Drake's birthday party at Tao, which we got into after one o' clock in the morning, too, which I guess the doors closed, but he comes up to me and he's like, you think I haven't been watching you? But I have.

Oh, creepy.

Oh, creepy. And I was like, okay. And he's like, well, we're leaving right now, so if you want our table. And they were just pouring us Grey Goose. Like it was our table that we paid for.

Oh, my God. Well, that's nice. Yeah, but it was a creepy line. But you're, like, really creepy. You're creepy, but I'll drink your vodka.

Yeah, it was like, I could go to the table, but I'm like, five feet away from Drake.

That's free alcohol. Free alcohol is good. So what?

Women love Drizzy Drake. Do you know. You don't know who Drake is?

Women love Drake.

Women love Drake.

Who isn't?

He's a singer, actor.

Oh, cool.

He's mostly rapper.

Yeah, yeah, he was on Degrassi.

Yeah, got it. So did you be you? So most guys were older. It is kind of an older thing in Vegas.

His entourage was there, and this guy had this, like, bedazzled necklace and chain. You know that it was all real.

Do you think that. Do you think that's hot, though?

No, no, it's, like, gaudy.

Yeah, but guys, they will rock that don't bedazzle.

Yeah, they all.

They'll wear, like, $300,000 chains. But I always thought. Do women even think that's attractive? I mean, the gold diggers. The gold diggers must, like, brings them in.

Is it real? Like diamonds?

It's real. It is real.

No, I don't find that attractive.

But I like, Lil Wayne wears, like, probably like $2 million worth of jewelry.

Holy moly.

At the time.

Wow. No. Did you find it attractive?

No, but if I was a gold digger, I'd be like, Target right there.

Right? Exactly. You'd be like, just give me one of those necklaces, please. So you're 21 now. How does it feel?

I feel old.

Did you make out with one of your friends in Vegas?

Oh, my God, she did. She made out with one of her friends.

Totally did. Oh, my God.

She paused my friend. Like, we were, like, dancing, and we ended up, like, just, like.

All the guys around loved it, but, you know.

Oh, my God, you're so hot. So. Of course. So you made out with your friend. Had you ever made out with her before?

Oh, we didn't make out, but.

Oh, you just kissed.

Yeah.

You packed. That's good. Whatever. Who doesn't do that? That's so fun. So. And you're 21 now, and you can drink finally. I keep trying to take the interns out to drinks, and I'm like, Lauren's like, I can't go. But now she can.

Yeah. So exciting. So much wine in your life will be coming soon.

I know. That's gonna be awesome. Thank you so much.

Last night she was like, do you want to come watch, like, Hocus Pocus with me? Because I was taking it. I was like, not really. She's like, I'll bring the wine.

And then you're like, I'll be there. Oh, that's. It's exciting. I'm trying to remember back to how exciting that was. I remember it was exciting. Turning back, it's exciting.

Oh, today's Tuesday, right?

Yeah.

Guess what I ordered. What did I tell you yesterday?

No.

Maybe I specially ordered Justin Timberlake's tequila. The 901.

Oh, you did? For what?

Because it's so hard to buy it in the San Francisco. It's, like, not available. There was one liquor store that was listed on their website, and I went there to go buy it, and they didn't even know what the hell I was talking about.

Oh, my God. Just came out, right?

No, it's been out for a couple years.

Okay, so whatever. I don't know what I'm talking about. You ordered it online?

No, I went to a special.

Oh, the one place that has it.

Yeah.

Can we. Can I have some maybe? Yeah, I want some tequila. I want to make you that special drink again, but I can't remember how I did it.

Which one? The tequila. Yeah, it's good. I remember how to make it.

Okay, good. We're gonna do that again. We need to drink more.

Yeah.

Especially with Lauren being 21. Now we all need to drink more.

I know. Well, I'm disappointed you didn't get laid, but it's cool that you made out with your friend.

Yeah, that's cool that you kind of made out with your friend. No dudes, though. No one. That's fine. It's not all about the dudes. Okay. Well, I'm glad you had a great time. Thanks, Lauren. I love it.

I mean, I do love Las Vegas.

I know. I know. I like it. I like it for two days. I don't like it for two, but I've had so many. Like, I guess I've never had a major hookup in Vegas, but I've gone with boyfriends a lot to Vegas over the years. We've had a blast. But, like, after two days, you're just, like, exhausted.

You're just like, yeah, I'm just going two days in, real quick, out. I'm done.

It'll be fun.

Yeah.

There's a lot of sex that goes on Vegas. Like, I know. All my guy friends are like, yeah, I hooked up with a girl in the elevator, and I met a girl going up to my room, and she just came with me. Like, there's so much crazy sex going on.

And I'm staying at the Cosmopolitan, which is one of the newest, fanciest hotels. So I'm really excited.

Cool.

They spent, like, $3 billion on the hotel.

Every hotel, they spend, like, a billion dollars on there.

Yeah, you gotta see this one. This one, like, and you're bringing a check. This one, like, Tron, dude offline.

I need to know who she is.

Why?

I just need to know. I tell you everything.

So you're really gonna go to Michigan?

I'm jealous.

Are you really going to Michigan?

Yeah, I'm really going to Michigan. I have to go. I go.

Who are you gonna make out with in Michigan? Isn't there, like, some old potential?

I wish there, you know, Most of them are married, but now some are divorced.

Oh, yeah.

So maybe I could hook up with a divorcee.

You don't want to do that. You want to tease them, though, because you know what? You had your chance back then. Now you want to try to get with me now? Because I miss sex with Emily.

Yeah.

Yeah, you should totally, like, maybe get a free meal here.

There's this really. Yeah, exactly. There's this really fun party that happens every Friday night after Thanksgiving. And everyone I've ever met in Michigan shows up, and it's like, we all go crazy and drink and party and stuff. But I've never hooked up in Michig, not in years, because, like I said, people are married or. I just. I'm not interested.

How long's the flight?

Forever. Five hours. That's why I don't go home that often. It's a five hour flight and there's only one airlines that flies. So it's kind of a nightmare.

And you don't go anywhere fun.

I hang out with my family, my nieces.

That's cool.

I'm obsessed with my nieces, so it'll be fun. We have got the results of our old poll in. Where is your favorite place to have a quickie? 3% said airplane, 4% elevator. 7% alleyway. 42% in the car and 44% in the bathroom.

In the bathroom? In the shower.

In the bathroom. Yeah. The shower's hot.

Okay. At a bar.

Yeah. Well, I'm assuming when people say bathroom, it might be. It could be anywhere. It could be at a bar. It could be like, you know, you're at a friend's house and you at a party and you go up to the bathroom.

Oh, I know. Bathrooms you could totally have sex with. In. In San Francisco.

In San Francisco. Right. There are some amazing.

I can tell you a perfect one right now.

Okay.

Okay. For visiting San Francisco, go up on the top of Knob Hill.

On top of the mark.

Top, not top of the mark, but it is international Mark Hopkins. It is that hotel. Okay, walk in, straight to the elevator, hit third floor, get off on the third floor, go all the way to the left, you're going to hit a wall to the right. There's gonna be a bathroom there. It has a full door and it's like a big room. And then there's.

Have you had tax in there?

I haven't, but it's a perfect place to make it happen.

Okay, good to know.

It's a very empty space. So there you go. Hooked you up, people.

Perfect. The W Hotel Yukon, not the W. The Cliff hotel has some good bathrooms too. I once hooked up with a guy at the Cliff Hotel in San Francisco in the bathroom. In the bathroom.

No way.

Yeah. Is that bad? I was a little drunk. We had a first date and we hooked up and then I never talked to him again.

But now we have all these mutual friends and every time I see him I'm like, oh, he's talking about the fact that I hooked up with him in the bathroom. Probably.

Probably.

I'm a whore.

So on the top of. On the top of California street, and I've told you this before, when you look down, you could see the Cliff Hotel, right? And for a while the F went out. And I'm not even joking.

What do you mean F went out?

So on the top, it's lit up and it says Clifton.

Oh, it just said in the F word. Clit. Yeah, I love it.

Clit hotel.

When was that?

This was.

I want a picture of that.

I'd say about five years ago.

The Clit Hotel. I bet you that reservations would just go way up. Yeah, the Clit Hotel. Okay, we have a new poll. Okay, let me tell you about it. How did you. Because yesterday's show was about cheating. So how did you find out you were being cheated on? A, looking through their email or phone. B, heard from a friend. C, caught them in bed with someone else. Or D, I've never been cheated on. Or at least that I know of. So go to our website and vote on that poll and let us know. We want to know about your cheating life. Have you been cheated on? Have you not? Have you not? Have you been cheated on?

Have I.

Can I say that I was being cheated on? I consider it maybe there wasn't any, like, physical action going on, but there was definitely a transition from me to another person.

Okay.

It was so bad. Can I tell you the story? I'll try to get through it really quick. I apologize. I'm really bad at getting through things quickly. Anyways. Here I am being a radio dj, like one of the most popular morning shows out there. Right?

Right.

I'm in love. I have a girlfriend. Totally cool, right? But I don't know why, but I decide I'm gonna walk into this Old Navy. I'm gonna walk in the Old Navy, and I see this jacket I'm gonna buy, and I. I'm buying it, and then she sees this guy that she went to high school with who's working security at the Old Navy. Right.

Okay.

They kind of talk. Well, I didn't know during this time when they were talking, like, catching up, that they exchanged numbers.

Okay. Right.

Because I was trying. Trying on my clothes. So she starts talking to this guy, and then eventually.

She breaks up with me and gets. Gets with the dude. Right. But then that dude, like, within like. Like two weeks, was already, like, hooking up with other chicks while he was, like, seeing her.

Oh, my God. He's pretty guarded.

Yeah. And then she was trying to get back with me, but. Ain't gonna happen.

No, you don't.

But let me tell you something weird about that jacket. Ever since I bought that jacket that day, every time I would put it on, something bad would happen to me.

Oh, third way to throw it away.

So I threw it away. I used to keep it in my closet for a long time as a Reminder.

Right.

You know, don't trust them hoes, but.

Like, don't trust them hoes, but on.

A cold day, I would try to put on the jacket.

And then you got hit by a bus or something.

Yeah, they're like something would happen, like I would dent the car or something. So there was times where I put on the jacket. I'm walking and it's cold as f outside, and I'm like, wait a minute, I'm wearing this jacket. Something bad is gonna happen. So I would go back inside and take the jacket off.

Okay, I'm glad you got rid of that. Crazy.

Yeah, but I no longer have it.

Okay, good. I'm glad. It's good to clear out. I've been doing that a lot lately. Clearing out my closet, getting rid of stuff. It's good for you. Like, cathartically clears the energy in your life and you get rid of clutter. I've been doing that too. But that means I need a bunch of new clothes too, because it's all gone now. Okay, we can get into some sex in the news.

Okay, what do you got?

All right, this is what I got for you.

Kim Kardashian.

No, there's really no updates. Do you know why?

What?

Because she's gonna sell the story to like Us Weekly or something like that? Yeah, so that's why everyone's like tight lipped about it.

Really?

Yeah, Just make money off it. Who cares?

She's making money off the wedding, off the divorce. Yeah, she's smart.

It's all good.

Oh, God. Okay. A Zimbabwean claims prostitute turned into a donkey. A Zimbabwean man found having sex with a donkey sensationally clean. The object of his affections was actually a prostitute who mysteriously metamorphosed into a hot piece of ass. According to this report, 2228 year old Sunday Moyo was cuffed after a cup of cops found him in the act in his yard some 180 miles outside of Harare. He fessed up but explained. I only came to know that I was being intimate with a donkey when I got arrested. I had hired a prostitute and paid $20 for the service. I don't know how she then became a donke. The magistrate was unimpressed. He ordered him to remain in custody and examined by two psychiatrists.

Maybe it's just taking some lsd.

I was just gonna say, what drugs was he on? He must have been tripping balls. If he thinks that she turned into a prostitute turned into a donkey. That's a bad excuse.

I mean, I've had. I mean, I've definitely had some. Something to drink and then later on they've turned into a dog. You know what I'm saying?

Beer goggles. It's called beer goggles.

I don't have that anymore since I've had the Lasik surgery though.

What?

Remember I tell you when I. After I drink a lot, like my eyesight.

Oh, your eyesight was bad?

Becomes super sharp. No, the highest, highest definition television you've ever seen before in your life. I don't know what the hell happened, but after my Lasik surgery, the more I drink, the sharper my eyesight gets.

Okay, so you don't have the beer goggles.

I don't. And it's weird because it's like when I'm sitting at the bar and I'm looking at a girl, I can see the pores in her face and like the cracks in between my teeth and I get scared.

You get scared? You're like bionic man or something with your eyesight. That's crazy.

They're no longer hot to me.

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No, but you're showing the wing. Go down. He said he just couldn't ejaculate. Right?

Right. Or can't ejaculate because. So maybe guys should start.

Nah, he probably masturbates too much, right?

Watching porn.

Yeah.

Yeah. So maybe if guys are.

Did he say that he was masturbating a lot?

Well, yeah, they're watching porn. So the guys who are watching porn so much have a problem. Ejected, they become desensitized and it's harder for them to have regular sexual functioning when they're with a woman.

Maybe her vagina was too big. Maybe she got around.

Where do you come from?

What? Maybe she was like maybe with a whore.

No, it was a study of a lot of men.

Sensitive enough.

Oh my God. Please. Okay.

I'm sorry. A classy lady. Sorry, he wasn't with the classy lady.

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I can't wait for you to actually have the app when you get your iPhone.

I'm getting my iPhone this week.

I know.

Will you help me do shit with it and set it up?

Yeah.

Okay. Awesome. Okay. Accidental nymphos.

Accidental.

Accidental nymphos. Let this be a warning to all you, we fit users out there. A 24 year old. 24 year old UK woman claimed that an injury called by her caused by her we turned her into a raging nymphomaniac. Amanda Flowers was playing with her Wii Fit one day when she fell off her board and pinched a nerve that triggered a disorder that doctors call persistent sexual arousal syndrome. After the accident, even the most minor of vibrations like the one from her food processor caused a twinge down below that surged through entire body and built into a trembling orgasm. That sounds kind of awesome.

You want it? How do you get this injury?

Oh my God. Somebody like have a blender on. I'd be like, like I. I mean I'm sure it sucks because she can't get it.

I mean after a while it gets played out, right?

Okay. There's More of these. Beware trolley riders. In San Francisco in 1964, Gloria Sykes was injured after the cable car she was riding on malfunctioned and careened down a hill.

Oh, no.

After the incident, she filed a $500,000 lawsuit against the city, claiming had triggered a demonic sex urge, causing her to have sex with over 100 men, as many as 50 in one week. She ended up winning the case, even though the public opinion was a time that it was bogus.

Oh, man.

Oh, my God. These are accidental nymphos. It's so funny. Here's another one. 2005, Heather suffered a massive brain hemorrhage while gardening. When she recovered, she was not expected to, which she was not expected to. She was a changed woman. She was a nymphomaniac. I woke up in a hospital and was just consumed by the need to have sex all the time. I'm not the sort of person who propositions men in the street and invites them home for sex. She said even though she cheated on her husband with more than 50 men, he has chosen to stick by her understanding that her urges are out of control. I want that man as a husband. I'm sorry, honey. I had to bone 50 men. Yeah, couldn't help it. I was gardening, I was pulling weeds, and next thing you know, I'm boning 50 guys.

I have nothing bad to say about that because it was a. It's a medical thing.

Can't do it. It's a medical thing.

It's just a na. It's not a natural, you know, cheating whore thing.

No. Right, Totally. It's like she has to do it. So that's what I got for sex of the news. Unless we got anything else from your life.

Anything else in my life? No. Oh. I'm going to Disneyland this weekend.

Why?

How my buddies going with my buddies? They just for fun. Well, they work. They work for a division of Disney, so they get to take. They get to take them plus four people for free whenever they want, like each employee. So it's gonna be like 15 people.

Fun. Are you driving down?

Yeah.

Oh, I love Disneyland.

Yeah, I'll go.

I can't.

There's no way.

Before you rejected me. I already pulled out.

Okay, good.

Okay, good.

I already checked. There's no room though.

You checked for me? You've got like a full on girlfriend now that you're taking to Vegas.

Don't have a girlfriend.

So exhausting.

You always try to pin me down saying that I have a girlfriend. I don't.

Well, who are you taking to Vegas? What the hell?

Well, it doesn't matter. I'll tell you when it's around that time.

Okay, got it. Okay.

Who are you hanging out with?

Nobody. I'm clean. Slated right now. And I'm gonna start dating online. I'm gonna start getting fixed up. I'm gonna ask a guy out.

Did you check into the Dating on Demand?

No. We posted some on the website though.

Okay. Yeah, just a recap from yesterday.

Recap.

For some reason it popped into my head and I haven't thought about it in years. But there's a thing called Dating on Demand. It's on Comcast cable and people go to events like a bar and they say, oh, we're taping Dating on Demand videos. So Emily would like, you know, sit in front of the camera, talk about herself and how wonderful she is. And then somebody at home would go to Dating on Demand and they would see Emily on the TV and there would be a number. And then you go to the website and that's how you can contact it.

I'm gonna do everything to find a date now.

Alright.

Okay. Topics. These are some emails that you sent me to feedbackexwithemily.com where you emailed me through my website, sexthelmy.com, however you do it. Just send me your questions. Dear Emily, I heard that women are able to ejaculate. Have any tips to get a woman so wet? My wife and I have tried a lot but haven't been able to make it happen. Please help Dennis from Delaware.

Okay, here's the deal. You can teach a woman how to ejaculate. There's been lots of studies. We've had guests on the show have talked about it.

It's usually through the PC muscles. Some women can ejaculate fluid when they orgasm, giving them great pleasure. Stimulating her G spot with your hands is a good way to make her ejaculate. So start with your hands and work her G spot. Don't try to do it during when you want to start. It has to with your hands. She'll have to relax deeply in order to release the fluid. A woman's ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place where urine comes out. And although studies have found that the clear liquid is not urine at all, it's urine, it's not the juice is released from the sklened glands or urethral sponge. If your girl doesn't have complete control over PC muscles, there's a chance she might actually pee.

It's ppe.

This is another reason to do your kegel exercises. Download Kegel camp on your iPhone right now. And throughout the day, it's my voice leading you. You can do it three times a day. You'll do your kegels. You will be able to ejaculate.

It's a golden shower.

Okay, but be cool if it doesn't happen. It's normal for her to feel as though she's about to urinate when she's about to ejaculate. So it's just like orgasm. Sometimes you feel like you're about to ejaculate. You feel like you're about to urinate, but really you're about to have an orgasm. So anyway, G spot. Play with your fingers. Play with her G spot and she will be able to ejaculate. Might not happen the first time, but you should play with it.

It's yellow lava.

It is not yellow lava, dude. It is real. I've ejaculated.

How was that for you?

It's awesome.

What position were you in?

I was having sex.

Okay, good.

And with my vibrator I can ejaculate. That's weird.

It's weird how you answered that question. I go position were you in and then you're like, I was having sex.

I think I was on the bottom of the top.

Okay, that narrows it down. 50. 50.

Okay. Hi, Emily and Menace. I'm a 30 year old divorced mom and I've been dating guy for almost three months and things have been going pretty good. He recently called because he wanted to see me and in the same breath asked if I had $20 for gas.

Hell yeah. Winner.

This was a bright red flag for me and has made me take a step back. When did men start asking women for money? Especially if he has only been dating her for two to three months. Am I overthinking this? Michelle from Baltimore, Maryland.

Two to three months?

No, no, Michelle, here's the deal. I don't know. Like, was it, did he forget his bank card at home or was he like, it's time in the relationship for you to step up and give me 20 bucks. Like I can understand if he was like, oh my God, babe, so sorry, I left my wallet home. Can you, can you lend me 20 bucks? But if he just called and said, I I need 20 bucks for gas phone to take you out tonight, that is a red flag. I think that's just not cool. Well, I don't borrow money from my friends. Why would you borrow money from some woman you're just dating like it's your car. I think that's a red flag. And I would be annoyed unless he said I left my wallet at home or I'm waiting for a big check to clear. But even if that's true and you can't get your hand on 20 bucks, I think that's lame. It's like that email we had a few months ago from the guy who was like, can you bring over some wine on our first date? You know, can you bring over two bottles of wine? Like, dude, pay for your own gas. I think two to three months. I don't know when men. So I've never had a guy ask me for money. I don't think that's cool. And you're not overthinking it. What do you think, Menace?

Yeah, I think the relationship has to go a little bit longer than that before you start evening. Evening the playing field a little bit. That's the only really traditional thing about me too, is I. I try to pay for as much things as I can to a certain point. But if we are been together and hanging out for quite a long time, then, yeah, you gotta start. You gotta start chipping in here and there.

Yeah, yeah. And I always do chip in. But like asking me $20 to gas is.

Yeah, you chip in by cooking all those dinners, right?

Yeah. Cleaning the house. I'm learning to cook. My friend Idina is a chef and she's actually gonna teach me how to cook.

I'm a better chef than your friend. I can teach you how to cook.

She's a gourmet chef and she cooks for the stars and she wrote a book about it.

Whatev.

Well, you've never offered to cook for me. You've never even invited me to your apartment.

Yeah, I don't want to have you over there.

You've come to my apartment?

Yeah. Okay. I'll cook you something. I'll cook you something delicious. Do you like pizza?

I love pizza.

Delicious pizza.

Okay. Although I've been gluten free lately.

Oh, God, you're such a hippie.

It helps with clarity and focus.

Does it?

Look how focused and clear I am.

You're not very focused today. I mean, you're better than normal. You're a little off, a little more than. But you have been really focused lately.

Gluten free. Gluten free. Why today am I not focused?

I don't know.

Which part of this show have I not been focused?

I have to rewind it. I'd have to rewind it.

I disagree. I'M on message.

You're on message.

I'm going. I'm moving. I'm going through the motions. You are not. I'm very focused today.

Okay.

Laser beam. Okay.

I'm sorry that you got so offended right now.

Well, because you're, like, today, you're not focused.

Not as focused as you have.

I did have some crackers last night that were not gluten free.

See, now you're unfocused.

I know. I honestly think that that's why I'm doing it. I'm not doing it to lose weight. I'm not doing it for anything else. It's like I'm avoiding gluten, which is like breads and wheat and all that stuff, because my friend's been doing it, and she said it made her super clear and focused. And my biggest challenge in life is clarity and focus.

So how does that even work?

I just eat stuff like bananas for breakfast and eggs instead of, like, a scone in the morning. Like, I used to always get this muffin every morning.

You love that muffin?

I love the muffin. No, I miss it, like, every day. I want the muffin. But now I'm just in the habit of not. And that's what happens. And clarity and focus, and that's what I need. Okay, let's get into the bucket list. This is our topic for today. Everyone has a life bucket list in some form. Things they want to accomplish in their lives. Why not do the same for your sex life? So there's a book called the Naughty Sex Bucket List, and it has done most of the heavy lifting for you and come with a collection of 369 sexy dares to do before you die. This ultimate list of sexy suggestions dares you to break from your mundane routine and experience new thrones of the bedroom. So we're going to go through some of them today. Here's the book if you want to check it out. It's the naughty bucket List. Can you see it on camera? I gotta move it back. Naughty podcast. Yeah, we can see it. It's by Courtney Jason. Okay, so here's some things that came up in the. We're just gonna discuss him, but why the eye look?

Oh, no. I was just trying to see the. I was trying to see the COVID a little bit more because I was interested. I'm like, I never heard of somebody having the last name Jason. That's all.

Okay, got it. So.

Some naughty bucket list things that we pulled out. Wet T shirt contest. Do you think it's degrading? Or liberating?

Do I think it's degrading or liberating? I'm not really. I'm not really interested in the wet T shirt contest. I don't care about that kind of stuff.

I almost did a wet T shirt contest once in spring break in Fort Lauderdale a long time ago in high school. And I actually ended up doing the tanning contest instead. And I won. I was the most tan, but I've never done a wet T shirt contest.

Where are these tanning photos?

I should post some pictures from when I was 18. I was doing a red bikini and I was the tannist.

No way.

Yeah. And at the time, that was a.

Really big accomplishment, especially in Florida.

I think I've peaked there, and I hope I've accomplished things since then. Okay. Another thing. Naughty bucket list. Have a friends with benefits. This is a growing trend. But usually, of course, I mean, I went through a. A series of time where I was getting tons of emails about friends with benefits, which is basically when you're not committed your friends, you're sleeping together, and you're also sleeping with other people, which can be tricky because oftentimes one person wants more than the other one. But this is something else on the bucket list. Friends, benefits. And we've both had that, right, Mattis? You've had a friends with benefits?

Oh, yeah, of course.

That's like. I almost thought you have.

That's pretty much all my relationships.

I know. All mine, too. I realize it, like, lately, like most my relationships are friends and benefits. Okay, another one. Sex in the rain. Do you think this is wildly romantic or just slippery when wet?

I think that's cool.

I think so, too.

I'm looking at a lot of these in here already, and they're actually some pretty cool ideas. I never even thought of.

You know, sex around the bleachers. Never did that. But, you know, that was a big thing that people would talk about in high school and you only see. I mean, when you go out in the burbs outside San Francisco, you always see empty bleachers somewhere. You can just do that. Just check it off.

I did that once after I graduated. I was back in Michigan and I was hooking up with some guy and the cops came. I was at my high school bleachers and we were having sex or about to have sex, and the cops came and kicked me out.

Really?

Really.

Oh, it has rotating bed. I don't even know where to find a rotating bed.

Like Vegas, probably.

Probably in Vegas. The famous landmark is weird for the famous Landmark for some reason. I know this is kind of cheesy. I don't know why, but I. I went up to. What is the thing here? Coy Tower. Coy Tower in San Francisco. It's a lighthouse that's on top of a hill right here. And I went out there with a girl once, but I didn't kiss the girl. And I've always wanted to kiss a girl up there at the light.

Yeah. I've never done.

I didn't even think about like full on boning, but just like maybe just kissing.

Yeah. Like a landmark. And there they have the Eiffel Tower.

Have you had sex at a landmark that you can think of?

It's hard to remember. I don't think so.

No landmarks, I think.

No.

That's weak. I would expect you to like, you know, because I wish you've traveled the world. It would be like somewhere in Rome.

In front of the. Right. Exactly. In the Coliseum or something. I. I've had sex. No, I think when I was traveling through Asia, I had sex in a lot of random places, but I don't think any landmarks.

Have you had the walk of shame?

Yes. So the walk of shame is the best post Halloween morning show to watch. I think. I have done the walk of shame many times. I've gone to my coffee shop in the morning in full on black, black, black tie outfit, like nice formal gown because I was coming off from a guy's house and every morning I go to the same coffee shop and one morning I showed up with like black mini dress and heels. And I've done it. They're all like, hey, like you're all dressed up but like makeup smeared down my face. I've done the walk of shame.

I'm sorry, I'm. I'm just looking out of the book. I know you have a schedule.

No, I.

This is the one I like. And you never, you never support it.

What?

Scheduled sex.

I totally support it for couples.

Like it's schedule. You're like, oh, you don't have to get on schedule. It has to be more spontaneous. No.

You get kids with couple kids with babies.

No, but let's say forget the babies and all that stuff and you're married. Forget all that. The schedule of time. Because the anticipation.

Right. All day long you're flirting like, I can't wait to get your penis in my mouth. Right.

So that's good. Have sex with a cowboy. Not gonna happen for me, but how about you?

I've had sex with men with cowboy tendencies, but not an actual Cowboy.

Let's see what we got here. A washer. Have you had sex on a washer?

Yes. In my house.

I don't remember if I've had.

That's actually a page in my book. Having sex on a washer and dryer, huh?

Giving a hickey.

I've not given a hickey, but I've received hickeys.

I have done that on purpose to be an asshole.

You do it to be an asshole.

Yeah, but this is one back when I was like 20 something years old. Oh, here we go. Topical Thanksgiving Day sex.

Yeah, I've had Thanksgiving, in fact, in Michigan the last few years.

I actually did hook up with my ex, who's also from Michigan, but he lives in LA and he happened to be home for Thanksgiving.

Is he LA Guy?

Yeah, LA Guy is from Michigan. Yeah.

You never told me this.

Oh, yeah, he's from Michigan.

So you have to get married with LA guy.

So we would. When my parents went to bed, we would. He'd come over and we'd have sex like two years in a row after Thanksgiving dinner in my mom's house.

Wow, you're classy. I'm a classy neighbor. Have you had sex with a neighbor.

In college, but not. No, no, no, no, I haven't. That's tricky. Then you got to see him when you're walking past.

Yeah. I was dating a neighbor.

We met and this is the girl that I met at the laundromat that I always think about all the time. I like her, she's really cool, but just not for me. Disco ball. What is this? When you have sex while reflecting lights of a disco ball are surrounding you?

Yeah, I've done that.

You have?

I mean, there's been. I have friends who.

You've been in cheesy guys houses where they have disco balls.

Yeah.

You hang out with the cheesiest guy.

No, I did date a guy who had disco ball in his room and we had sex.

I just see you always dating the yoga guy, the disco ball guy, the BMW slicked back hair guy.

Dude, you've never. Anyone I've ever dated.

Cheesy guys.

You're terrible. How am I wrong?

Dude, you don't.

Because every time I mention a guy like this, they're like, oh, yeah, I dated a guy like that.

Well, I've just dated a lot of guys. Let's just say I've done my work.

All right, what do you got? Do you got anything on the list?

I've got some more. I've got Magic 8 ball sacks. Let the Magic 8 ball. Decide your courses on tonight's sexual menu.

Okay.

Like, if it says go for it or not tonight, let the Magic 8 Ball do it.

They have DJ Booth in here. And I wasn't having sex, but I was making out with this girl while her friend was having sex with my buddy in the DJ booth while our other friend was DJing.

Oh, okay, so you've had sex in DJ booth, essentially.

No, I've made out, but I. I'm only. There was people having sex.

Okay, I don't think I've had sex with. How about in your childhood room? Would you reenact those teenage fantasies?

I have had sex in my childhood.

Mine too. Me too.

Yeah.

Yeah.

At a hospital.

No, no.

I'm too weird out. Like, ever since I've seen that movie Contagion, everybody, I am freaked out by germs.

Really?

Yes.

Yeah. I'm never in a hospital. Usually you're at a hospital because someone's sick.

Have you had sex with a bartender?

You know what? I don't think I have.

I have.

I have. Sorry. In college, one of my boyfriends was a bartender.

Actually, two bartenders.

Yeah, I did in college, but does that count? Yeah, totally counts. In college, he was a bartender, I was a waitress. I was a cocktail waitress.

Yeah, you work together. That's co worker. I'm just. It can't be co worker.

Like, did I ever go into a bar, order a drink, and pick up the bartender and take him home? Yeah. Or no. No. But that seems like a fun thing to do. But bartenders just seem like they sleep with everybody, don't they?

Yeah. Yeah, they do.

So that wouldn't feel very. Like, I like. Ooh, got the bartender. It's like, how hard was that? Like, he slept with 10 girls this.

Week, but no bartender.

Sleazy.

Well, I don't. I don't worry about chicks, because usually bartender chicks, they're super. And it's hard to get them to.

Like you because so many guys are hitting on them all day long. They're like, swatting. Yeah.

So you do get a trophy if you sleep with a.

A girl bartender, a female bartender.

April Fool's Day sex.

And.

What? You ever.

You pulled a prank and ended up having sex with somebody? Nope.

Never done that.

VIP room. Of course you've had sex in the VIP room. You.

Yeah, I've had sex in a VIP area.

I've been in so many VIP rooms, but I've yet to ever have sex.

In a VIP room. Really?

Because I just. It's just not on my mind.

How about a celebrity lookalike who's on your celebrity to do list? Have you ever dated anyone who looks like a celebrity?

Yes, but not. Not had sex with them.

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Oh, God, there you are, promoting all the time.

I love sex toys.

Uh. Oh. This is what you gotta do. Have sex with an intern. You might have to have sex with interns.

They're all girls, pretty much, except for one of them, and he has a girl and he has a boyfriend. Although Lauren makes out with her friends, so I don't.

Yeah, you got to check it off the list, dude.

Sex with an intern. No, I've had sex with someone who works for me, but not an intern.

I.

Sex with a surfer.

Yep.

Have not a lot New Year's Eve sex. Now, that is always tricky because for a girl, New Year's Eve, like, for some reason, is, like, almost bigger than Christmas.

Yeah.

There's so much expectation for a girl on New Year's Eve for it to be perfect, awesome night, and so much pressure on a guy to make that happen.

I know.

And usually, you know, it's hard because you can't. She can't get too drunk, and then, you know, she's walking around barefoot in the city and crying in her. In her dress. Because that happens 80% of the time.

Yeah.

And then so you got to find this equal level. And I mean, I've definitely had sex on New Year's Eve, but there was.

It wasn't fun.

It wasn't, like, an amazing thing.

I've got flashlight sucks when the power goes out. Get it on in your own spotlight.

How about in the mud? Hell no.

In the mud? No, in the snow.

Not even for me, but I would just be afraid to get mud in her vagina.

Right. Mud in the vagina is not good.

So don't do that on a rocking chair.

Sounds familiar, but maybe not. I wish I documented everyone I've slept with.

You should have.

I know. Because then I could be like, I could have it sorted by where we were, who it was, and then you could ask me these questions. It could be an Excel spreadsheet. I'd be like, yes, bartender, you know, whatever.

Oh, Ferris wheel.

Oh, no. But I made out on a Ferris wheel.

Everybody makes out on a Ferris wheel.

Oh, whatever.

In a tent.

Yes. I've had sex in a tent.

I haven't had sex in a tent.

Have you ever gone camping?

Yeah, I used to go Camping all the time when I was a kid. And now. That's why I want to stay at the W Hotel all the time, because I'm burnt out on it.

Oh, no, no. I've had sex. Intense. I love having sex outdoors.

I just want to keep on reading this book. Can we go a little bit longer or you gotta go?

Yeah, I'm hungry, but keep going.

I love this. At a car wash. Oh, that'd be awesome.

Oh, when we're going through.

Yeah, I mean, that's pretty quick, but why not? Dude, that's good. I like that one.

You got, like, five seconds, though.

I have friends that own car washes. Maybe they can slow down the.

Slow it down till your car gets really cle. Yeah.

President's Day sex. Who cares?

All right. It's a dryer. Sorry.

I really like this book, honey, you can have it.

Hotel room, balcony.

Yes, I've done that.

Really?

On the balcony? Like, leaning over. And he was from behind.

Why would you do that? Wouldn't you be afraid of people?

We're on the top floor. I've done it several times.

Twice. Several times. Wow. Skype sex. No.

No. I've never done that.

Somebody will hack my WI fi. I will not do it.

I will not do Skype sex in a basement.

Yes. Yes, In a basement. Dude, I've had sex. Oh, my God. I want to tell you where the basement was. I'll tell you off the air.

Married sex. No. Hasn't happened for either of us.

Doesn't happen to married people either.

True love sex. Yes. I have actually had that, Emily. Unfortunately, probably not.

No comment.

Beanbag chair.

I'm sure I have. I mean, I feel like all this is like. But this is a good book. I know.

You should put a red mark next to the book.

I know.

And then you should ebay it.

I should.

Somebody could figure out which ones you've done in a closet. Yes.

Yes.

I don't want to read that one.

What? Read it now.

Childhood crush.

Yes.

Yes.

A guy who I was always in love with. We finally boned.

Yes. I. That's good. That's. It feels good.

Yeah. You're like.

Yeah.

And it doesn't. You don't ever have to have sex with them ever again. No.

No. But you're like, I fantasize about you for years.

Drunk sex. Never done it, but I want to try it.

Menace. That's all Menace has had is drunk sex.

Whipped cream. No cares. It's dirty. It's nasty. I'm afraid of getting this.

Don't put it in the vagina. Don't put it in the vagina. Never put anything sugary in the vagina.

Morning. Some of my favorite. In a limo. Yes.

Yes.

Frat house. Not me. You.

Yeah, for sure. In a frat house. I was a sorority girl. I had sex in a frat house. And, like, he had, like, roommates in his room. It was like, not one of my finer moments.

Google sex. Oh, this is interesting. Google. Google sex and phrases and see what pops up and then do it. I kind of like that.

That's like my book. 200 paid things. You could try tonight. You've got to flip open to one page and try it. Okay. We got to wrap up honey bunny.

Oh, Jesus.

Let's do more tomorrow. But. But we gotta go.

Okay, let me just do one more. And it better be good.

Okay.

Roadside on the side of the. Because you're. See, I'm all about the receiving fellatio while driving. And you're like, no, you gotta pull over. It's not safe.

It's not that safe. But I've done it. But it's not that. Roadhead. Not that safe. Weak.

Anyways, I like this book. It's naughty. The Naughty Bucket List.

I know. I think you should take it and do some things with it.

Should I?

Yeah. Okay, everyone, thanks so much for listening to Sex with Emily. I hope you all have fun with your naughty bucket List. Was it good for you? Email me feedbackexwithemily.com we're gonna talk about our sponsor, Emily and Tony, which is actually my candles that I make. I have a brand called Emily and Tony. You go to emilyandony.com and if you've never heard of a massage candle or used one, you're gonna want one because it is.

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I love the down owner. The down under Comfort. It is awesome.

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