7 Dec 2025 · 36 min
Emily Morse discusses sexual wellness and relationships with guests including Menace. The conversation covers seduction techniques, personal stories, and Bellesa product promotions.
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Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex. Eyes that mock sacred institutions. Bedroom eyes they call them in a bygone day. Hey Emily, you got a boyfriend? Cuz my man E here, he just got his heart broken. He thinks you're kind of cute.
A girl's gotta have her standard.
Oh my. Do women know about shrinkage? Isn't it common knowledge?
What do you mean? Like laundry? It shrinks.
Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me?
Oh my God. I feel so good.
Being bad feels pretty good. But you know, Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with. You don't. You don't just play with her.
You don't just play with her. You're listening to Sex. Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex, relationships and everything in between. You know, if you want to talk to us, you can call us men. Can we launch that thing?
Oh, yeah, I gotta turn that on.
It's our Number here is 415-992-7392. And you can call up and you can ask us any sex Question, relationship question, comments on what we're talking about. Whatever you want. Call us, say hello. We have a good time here. So if you want also. Okay. We're having this Facebook event which is awesome. If you want three months of sex with Emily. Three free months of sex with Emily. All you have to do is like the sex with Emily Facebook page. And every day one person has been randomly selected to win a free sex family membership. If you're already fan, you're still eligible. But we love, we love, we love to give you away some free sex with Emily. So go like the page now sex the facebook.com sex with Emily. We are friends with benefits member. You get 30 minutes free of Fire TV, Fyre TV, which is like the Netflix of porn. I think it's even better than Netflix. To be honest. I was watching Netflix on a friend's TV the other day. I don't think that. I think their user interface is even better. It's 30 minutes free of porn. Any kind of porn you want. And we'll give that to you. And today's show we're talking about, we've got some finishing up to do. We were doing a show on cheating and we were moving through some really important points I think we have to finish. And we're also going to be talking about the art of seduction. Plus we'll be reading your emails. And some topics include going topless, ejaculating quickly rediscovering the single life, and orgasms during foreplay versus orgasms during sex. What up, Menace?
What's going on? How was your weekend? It's Monday.
I know. Monday, Monday, Mondays are tough sometimes. Why? Historically, I think I'm sort of trained, like a lot of people. Like Sunday night, like, you're having a great weekend, everything's good. And then Sunday you're like, oh, I gotta do with Monday. And then there's a lot going on. And then your brain sort of like, I'm really good at shutting off sometimes. So I think I sort of shut off. And then today I was like, whoa, it's Monday. There's a lot to do.
Yeah, my co worker was trying to get me to jump out of plane this weekend.
Why didn't you do it?
Hell no, I'm gonna do it.
Why, are you scared? You?
Hell no.
Wow.
Where?
Like up in Napa or something?
No, Santa Cruz. I don't go to Napa.
I always think about people jumping out of planes in Napa.
Yeah, not going to happen on both going to Napa and jumping.
Not going to do It. Okay, so what did. Did you do anything?
Yeah, I did do. I saw. I went to a. I felt very hip.
Oh.
I went to a show. This new artist I'm really excited about, her name is Doe eye. So google Doe Eye and you can check out her music. She's really good. She had a show at an art G gallery.
Oh, my God. They only had white wine. What did you do?
Oh, no, no. They had champagne, which I love.
So that's champagne, right?
They had champagne, strawberries and all that kind of stuff. But they had a bar that I like around the corner. And I'll tell you how classy I am because I didn't know that there was an opener for the show.
Right.
And the opener was breaking the rules.
Okay.
When you're an opener and not many people know your music, right, you have a short set. Your set should be like 25 minutes at most.
Totally.
The set was like, you're the opener. The set was like an hour.
No one tells them. Is there like rules? Like if you're the opener, like you.
Only no one's going to stop you in the middle of it. So then me and my buddies, because we're classy, there was a liquor store down the street. So we went to the liquor store, bought some bottles and then, you know, do the. Do the classic. Take the 1 liter Coke and pour it halfway out and then pour all the alcohol in it. So like in high school, I was being very classy up in the art gallery and drinking a large amount of alcohol.
Oh, that's good.
And that was fun. And then the next day, I never really go out in my neighborhood too much.
You have a great neighborhood and come.
To find out there's tons of bars and beautiful women.
I know right down the street from where Polk Street. I was like, what the hell is this crazy?
I didn't really want to give out the streets where I live, but I.
Know that's not near you, but that's like the closest neighborhood.
That is the closest. Yeah, that is the closest. Like going out and you had no idea.
It was like, oh, my God.
Oh, my God.
This is amazing. Crazy, right? But interesting.
No, but do you know what I did do? I saw this guy. He was. Because in the area that I live, it's very. It's very white. Very white. You know, Abercrombie looking dudes and all this stuff. But then I saw that are like super fit, right? On this. All these things. And then I saw this one guy, he was like.
He was like really heavy set. But he had, like. He had this, like, really going out, you know, his personality was really outgoing, right. And I could tell him. And he was just macking all these chicks. And then so I ended up going to the bar, getting a drink right next to him, and I was like, hey, man, props, dude. I see you macking all these chicks. He's like, oh, thanks, man. So I, you know, helped him build up his confidence a little bit. And I saw him walking off, talking.
To more chicks like, that perfectly ties into what we're talking about today is how to seduce a check.
Yeah, he just had, like, this.
He had the vibe, he had the energy. Some guys can nail it.
Yeah.
Some guys can't. And that's what we're going to talk about today, how people can be that guy at the bar that you're like, wow, why are all those chicks attracted to him?
Chicks were just. Just coming up to him like crazy.
And he wasn't particularly. Or was he really attractive?
He was. I mean, I don't really look into.
His looks, but, you know, he. He didn't look like every other guy in the bar, let's just say that.
Okay.
And he was just macking.
So I had macking, like, picking up, like, lots of chicks were around him.
Yeah, he just, like, kept on, you know, talking to girls, and girls were just talking for a long time.
Right. It's about having, like.
Yeah, yeah.
He had the vibe. He had it going on.
It was. It was a good time.
It was a good time.
And then I told myself I. Maybe I should go out a little bit more.
You should.
In this area.
You totally should go on that area. I went out in.
Went out in my area on Friday night, too, which is really fun. I didn't even go home from work. I went for drinks because I was having just like a. Kind of a stressful day. Like, lots of changes, lots of things going on. And I was gonna go in first, I was gonna go to the gym. And then this guy that I've been seeing would ever call me. He's like, I'm in the bar in the Mission with some friends. And then I met him and some friends, and we just drank and everything was better. I felt less stressed, had some alcohol and. And then we went to a bunch of other bars, too. And all in all, in the Mission District, which was fun. Like, I can say my neighborhood. Cause it's not really my neighborhood. It's near my neighborhood. It's a bunch of hipsters walking around. It was a nice night.
Yeah.
Everybody brought My dog with me. And the mission allows you to bring your dog into every single bar. But by mistake, I attached her to a chair that the chair was too light and I wasn't paying attention. And she was walking all over the bar with a chair attached to her.
How, you know, everyone's taking pictures of that stuff.
Thought it was funny. And then I took her to the beach. I don't have her today because I took her to the beach. That was Friday night. And it was fun, and it was.
You lost her at the beach?
I lost her. I did lose her at the beach twice. Three times. So she didn't know her way around. I took her to the beach. My friend has a beach house at Stinson beach, which is beautiful up north from here. And.
So she was playing with a puppy right in front of the house, and she was fine. And everyone's like, emily, you better watch your dog. You better watch your dog. I'm like, I'm watching my dog. And then I went inside to get something. I came back out, she was gone. So I had to run up and down the beach. Like, I couldn't. It's like miles and miles, this beach. But finally I found her three houses down. She was in, like, some neighbor's house, just hanging out. So I almost lost my puppy.
Should have.
So she stayed at the beach. Because then I had a party to go to Sonoma. So I was at Stinson Beach. I drove an hour to Stinson beach, went to a friend's party. We all hung out. Guys, girls, fun.
Oh, you know, just hanging.
No. No sex on my part. Although my friend, who has not had gotten laid in a really long time, I'm really happy for it. Some guy came that she had sex with, so that was really good.
Oh, that's cool.
We were really excited about that.
Did you high five it?
We totally high fived it. And then I had a party in Sonoma, which I'm sure you would have loved. So I drove from Stinson beach for another hour to Sonoma without my dog, who was still at the beach right now. She's loving it. She doesn't run away.
Yeah.
And yeah, I had another friend's birthday party in Sonoma. It was outdoor. It was like a fly fishing party outdoors.
Fly fishing party?
Yeah. Mostly people were just drinking and listening to music, but there was. At a fly fishing ranch.
Okay.
Yeah. There was, like, alcohol and that's cool. Performances and it was super fun. Yeah, I had a great time. And then yesterday I just, like, hung out and worked and, like, sat on the couch and it was awesome. But my brain. I didn't feel great. And my brain sort of shut down. And then today it wasn't as open to.
Business.
Open business much.
To do a show.
Yeah. But we're here. We're doing it.
We're totally doing it. I just wanted to tell you that. So. Yeah. So things are good. And that was my weekend.
How much porno did you watch?
I didn't. I. I did not watch enough porn this weekend. I didn't watch porn. I watched some stuff I had to watch for school. I heard you were by sex school. What?
Oh, your sex school, though, makes you watch weird stuff.
Weird like people having sex with horses and stuff. But not really. I mean, sometimes.
I'm eating soup right now, by the way, everybody.
Is that what you're slurping? Yeah, it looks really good.
I don't. You want a bite of it?
Not really.
Okay.
I already ate it. I don't feel that good. I mean, my stomach. I'm not really. Yeah.
I.
Never get to eat lunch until like 10 minutes before.
I know. I love that you come and you're. Because you're so busy and you got so much going on. Okay. We could do some sex in the news if we feel like it. All right. I think it might be fun. Okay. Coming soon. Hysteria, the movie. So do you know what they call female hysteria? Like, it's about the female orgasm and the advent of the vibrator.
Everyday life.
Female hysteria. So back like the time before. For a long time, they were talking about when women had sexual issues. They were like. It was called Hysteria. And it's all about the female orgasm and the advent of the vibrator. And it stars Maggie Gyllenhaal and Hugh Dancy.
Maggie Gyllenhaal.
Whatevs. Can't ever say it. She's gonna be in it. And it's really important film because Hysteria was this big thing. Everyone. She's not.
So I probably won't.
Doctors used to masturbate. She's not hot.
No.
Not at all. I never know with you who you're gonna think is hot.
Maggie. Jingle. Gyllenhaal's not hot.
She's hot.
Or Jennifer Barker.
Who's that?
I mean, Parker don't know.
That is either.
Jennifer. No. Sarah Jessica Parker. I'm sorry.
Oh, right. You don't think she's had either.
I can't believe that they put her on like. Well, see all these fashion shows.
I know.
They put her. Oh, she's so amazing and elegant and blah. I'm like, do you see what she looks like?
I know. Did you ever think she was attracted.
Hell, no. But, dude, you know what?
Sometimes.
Sometimes she has her moments, like.
Like a brief fleeting moment, like for.
Like five seconds, and then I realize who it is. And then.
And then you're like, I'm so not down with that.
None of my guy friends think she's hot.
I know, it's weird. I think she's.
What do you mean, it's weird?
I think chicks think she's hot and cool and like the whole Sex and the City thing and she. Cute clothes. But maybe she's not sexualized by our society.
She is not.
People are not masturbating.
Jack and Sarah Jessica Parker or Maggie Gyllenhaal.
Or Maggie Gyllenhaal.
But they're like, maybe her brother.
He's hot. I saw him once in la. He's so hot. I almost left my date. I was like, really? I'm gonna be right back. I was with this guy that I was. This was probably like a long time ago. Some guy who ended up hating me after we dated, but not that happens all the time. Eight years ago, probably nine years ago. And I saw him and he just. He was dating someone that he broke. Who was he dating? I can't remember. But he wasn't with her. And we had made eye contact. I swear to God, we had this moment and I was like, I'm dumping this guy right now and going after you. Let's go.
I'm gonna be in LA on Thursday.
I know. Are you excited?
I am excited.
What are you saying?
I'm staying in West Hollywood. Hollywood. At a friend's house.
Okay, cool. And it's like, get all dressed up.
And stuff for the VMAs, you know, I don't really. I mean, I'll dress better than I usually dress, right? But I'm not gonna wear a tuxedo or anything.
What are you gonna do in la? Are you gonna, like, run around and be crazy or do you really have to work the whole time?
No, this time actually, I don't have to work for the first two days that I'm there. So it's gonna be very interesting. So every time we go to la, so many things happen in one day.
I know, it's crazy. So you're going Thursday morning? Are you driving? Fine.
Thursday evening? Driving.
So you'll be here Thursday? Yeah, Just. Just need to know. Okay, so this is. This is interesting. Menace. This article on. New story on Swinging, I thought you'd appreciate.
Oh, yeah.
Swinging so successfully, are swinger clubs stealing sex market share from prostitution?
So researchers are saying that Internet access increases swinging and increases the demand for single men who wish to participate in swinger clubs. What does it mean for society when swinging has become so destigmatized that swingers don't feel the need to hide? So basically, they're saying that the Internet is making it a lot easier for people to swing now. And so they're no longer going to prostitutions, they're no longer going to prostitutes because they can swing. That it's becoming much more norm.
I saw prostitutes for the first time in a long time today. I mean, not today. And over the weekend.
Did you go visit them?
No, but they were hanging out on the street corner by this bar that I was at, and I can't believe that. It's just so blatant. Yeah, it was amazing. They called it the Tender Knob. It's like, that's where you were. Tenderloin and Knob Hill meet each other in San Francisco. Yeah.
Yeah.
There's a lot of them.
Always.
And it was. Yeah, it was so crazy to me. One time I got dropped off in the wrong area. I thought I was somewhere else.
Right.
And I was left in, like, the hood.
Right.
And it was all hooker trannies.
Awesome. San Francisco. You never know where you're gonna find it. Amazing.
I couldn't believe, like, I was in such a bad area that there was hooker trannies. Like, you think hooker trannies would be in certain other parts of the city.
Right.
Not in, like, they're all over in the ghetto.
Yeah, no, they're. Yeah, that's. Especially in the ghetto.
Yeah.
Yeah. It's a good town we live in. There's just never so diverse. It's so diverse. Huck or Tranny's. Okay, so it means. So back to swinging. So one economist says the answer is this. It means more swinging, more radical sex for swingers, and an economic bite out of the prostitution market. So basically, yeah, people are swinging. They think that the studies are showing that people are swinging more because it's easier to find a swinging partner.
Yeah, but I thought you have to. To get into that, you would have to have, like, a significant other. It can't be just a single guy. You want to jump in.
Yeah, just be a single guy. If you want to be a swinger, you have to have a partner. But. But. But it's just. They're making it easier. Like, you can find a partner that you're sleeping with and bring them to a swinger party or something. Like some casual thing. It doesn't have to be like you're a couple.
I wonder if this is going. I mean, what areas of the country and the world where swinging is just rampant, you know, of course here. Because we're a bunch of wackos here in San Francisco. Yeah. But I want to know, like, you know, Missoula, Montana is Michigan.
There's like rumors that, like, in this town that my brother lives, like, everyone's swinging. Like everyone. They get to a certain age and they're all swinging. There's always rumors.
You never know if it's really going down, though.
Right. But I want to know we'll get more swingers on the show. We haven't had a swinger lately. People love swingers.
Do they? Or do you love the swingers?
I love the swingers. We're gonna have more.
Email us feedbackexwelming.com if you love the swingers or call us.
Call us.
Yeah. What's our number?
Oh, I just Forgot the number.
415-992-7392.
All right.
Jane Fonda says she used testosterone to enhance her sex life.
Really?
Yep. She used testosterone. She says she 73 year old Fonda admitted she discovered testosterone about three years ago. I'd be afraid, like, I'd start growing hair and weird places. Yeah.
I thought that that makes you family.
Although I would like a penis for a day.
A penis for a day.
I would love a penis. I don't think you were a penis, though. But yeah, it helps you with your sex life and all that. She admitted to using testosterone. Testosterone. I think a lot of women do. Yeah.
They use.
She's 73. Yeah. Like it's part of their process. They start losing their sexual desire.
So it doesn't make. It make. It makes them more aggressive.
Huh? Makes them more aggressive. Exactly.
Like aggressive sexually. Like they really desire.
Yeah, yeah.
They want to pounce on men.
They just want. Yeah. Okay. Study came out. I don't. They made a study about teens who have sex and committed relationships are less likely to be delinquents. Which I guess makes sense in if you're committed as a teen, you're less likely to be a delinquent. But teens who are sexually active and in relationships are less likely to show antisocial behavior when compared to those who are not having sex at all. Teens who are involved in casual sex out of relationships are more likely than either to be an antisocial behavior. So they're asking, like teens to commit now and saying that if you're. This was. I don't know if this is like some kind of Christian message or something, but teens are committed, are less likely to be juvenile.
Oh my God. I was watching the worst story last night on Dateline NBC.
Okay, what was it?
It was about these two teenage girls, right? You know, always honorable or, you know, really succeeding and blah, blah. And then they started dating this thug guy for a year and they know that they're dating the same guy, so all they did was argue over the Internet for a year straight. And then they started getting braver where they started meeting up in places and running into each other. And then just one night, this chick just shows up to attack the other girl and then the other girl stabbed her and kills her.
Come on, what was it? Where was this?
It was on Dayline NBC and it just. The, the people are just insane out there.
I know, it's really scary, but when.
It gets, it gets me thinking about the teen relationships and the teen moms, man. It is. I need you to get cable. That's the bottom line.
I'm having an. I'm getting it this week. For real. It's on my list.
Yeah.
What? The Teen mom show. And I did watch that once.
Oh my God.
How do they keep finding more and more teen moms? Is it true what they say that these moms that teenagers are watching, they're.
Just making that up.
So there's just always a 16 year old teen to put on? Of course.
In middle America, dude, there's so much white trash out there. And they're amazing. I mean, they're just out of their mind. And I tweeted and I got a lot of responses over the weekend after watching that. And I go, are they going to realize when they go back, you know? Well, when they go like 10, 20 years down the line and they go back to watch this video, are they going to realize that they were assholes or just out of their mind? Or is that just going to really affect them so much that they're not even going to realize that they were that insane?
We all evolve over time. And you go back, like, if I look at something in my twenties, I wonder what I would think of myself. I was different or 16, my teens. I mean, you're not evolved. You're not.
Yeah. And now they're taking care of kids.
And they're just arguing and they're terrible parents. Like, that's so sad. The kids, like left out in the car and stuff. Do they do stupid, like that.
No, but they're just constantly arguing in front of their children.
Parents. Yeah, like the 16 year old parents.
This one chick, oh my God. I was watching one where.
She was so mad because her baby daddy started cheating on her two weeks before she gave birth and then left her to go hang out with this other girl and be with this other girl. So she was so upset because their relationship continued him with this other chick and now she always gives him crap saying I don't want her around my baby, blah, blah, blah. And then they just kind of same thing with social media started going back and forth. The new chick would take pictures with the baby and, and put it online. All this stuff.
That's torturous though if you're a mom and you the new girl. Woman. I have friends dealing with this now who are like have divorced and have like the new parent coming in. But this is like young kids. Yeah, that's.
Yeah. And she was just like, I don't want her around my baby. This isn't. You know, but you have to kind of get over that because this guy doesn't want to be with you. And then she, she was saying, oh, I'll be perfectly fine. Everything if she was, if he was with me and all this stuff. So she's just jealous and you just.
Get sucked into this. This is the. 16 and pregnant.
Yeah. It's just, it's just unbelievable.
That's why you're like mouth is a gape. You're like, watch. It's like watching a train wreck.
I feel so bad for these people.
No, me too.
Because they're not in the right mind.
No, they're. But are they on drugs and stuff or they're just.
No, they're just, they're just six having.
Baby and why not? Yeah. Use condoms, everyone. Condoms are important. Birth control pills are soon to be paid for by the Obama administration. New health care plan. Just everyone should start using birth control so we don't have to watch you on television.
What brand is Obama going to go with?
For condoms or for birth control? Both. I don't know.
I don't know if there's a birth control brand.
There's a lot of birth control brands.
Oh, like for women that stick out?
Yeah. No, I don't remember the name. I don't remember the names. But there's lots of different ones. Whatever your doctor subscribes to you. And usually it's like 30, 40 bucks a month, but now it'll be like free. Hell. Amazing. I know. So maybe we won't have these television shows anymore. But I guess we always will. Okay. A man super glues condom to penis to save unsafe sex.
What?
The 43 year old father of five told doctors he's wife to want any more children. Their obvious solution was to start using condoms. But the condoms, the condoms Nicolay Pop Popovosi's wife bought were a bit roomy. The coupled solution for the small problem was not to buy new condoms that did fit, but to make the big ones fit one way or another. They used super glue to glue the condom onto the man's penis.
Oh God.
This not. This did not only solve the size issue, but they could also reuse the condom. So they thought after sex, the couple realized the condom was stuck and wouldn't come off. Make a TV show about these people.
Yeah.
After trying everything they could think of, Nicole went to the local medical clinic for help. He even said that he thought the condom could be used several times and he wanted seconds penis so he could use it. These people are. These people are dumb. You super glue a condom to your penis and that's a good idea. Just go and buy smaller condoms.
I would love to have a camera on these people.
Me too. Oh my God, that's so dumb. Condoms. Yeah. Okay. Lust for sex depends on size of brain. Australian scientists have found out what part of the brain is responsible for sexual attraction between people. The bigger that part of the brain is, the faster, more tense a man's excitement is. What about women? It's about men. Part of the brain has the size of an almond. When you feel sexual irritants, the amygdala will respond faster than any part of the brain. So it was already believed it was responsible for attraction between animals. But after examining 45 epileptics of the part of the brain that the bigger the amygdala man, they were more likely to be attracted towards women in your brain. I studied this in psychology.
What? That's weird.
Stupid.
Yeah, but it's true.
I mean, every man is attracted. I mean, hetero heterosexual man.
But. But if your brain, if this part.
Of your brain is big, you're extra horny.
So you're gonna look for Magdalene.
How big?
My. Can we look it up?
How do. How can we.
I don't know. I know how big yours is. Oops. You know what I mean?
We have to walk down the street and say, just look for a guy with a giant head and say, excuse me, sir.
Exactly.
Are you actually horny right now?
Yeah. That's like I for sex in the news.
It's Good.
Yeah, it was good. It was really good.
What's up with the sex of the news in your life?
No, nothing. How about you? Yeah, I mean, just like fun. Having fun, trying to figure it all out. Like not wanting to commit.
Just leaving your options open.
Not really.
Not putting it on Facebook.
Not putting my status on Facebook. No. There's always. No, not. I don't believe that both people in a. In Facebook part, in the Facebook party both want to post their status. I believe that it's either one of the others like reach time for us to post our status. Do you think that they both want to do it? Doesn't sound like there's.
People are like in love with each other in a relationship, then. Yeah, they want to put it on.
Okay.
Yeah. I mean, why, why do you think it's one sided?
I just do. I just think there's one person who's insecure and really needs that to be posted out there.
Anyway.
I don't agree.
Okay. It's okay. You don't have to agree with me. Okay. Emails. Some of the topics include going topless, ejaculating quickly. We've been getting a lot of emails about ejaculating quickly. I wonder if it has something to do with global warming or something. I don't know why everyone's eagle.
Well, we talk about ejaculating a lot. We were talking about the distance, how some guy can ejaculate 18 freaking feet. Like, what is that?
It's amazing. Amazing. Yeah, I know. Rediscovering the single life and orgasms during pro play versus orgasms during sex. But for some reason, like, there's trends in emails. A lot of men are ejaculating quickly and you always say everything in global warming, so I don't know if I need to do that. I just wanted it.
You got a pregame, fellas. I gave you the combination. You know, have a couple sips of this, couple sips of that. Maybe make love to yourself before you go on a date.
Right?
Treat yourself to, you know, nice steak dinner before you go out. Do all that. Be kind to yourself and then maybe it'll last longer in the. In the bedroom.
Exactly. Okay, let's see. Let's see what we got to say about that.
And another key. Maybe I noticed. Or that never.
What?
If you're gonna make love to yourself, never think about the person that you're gonna be going out with.
Okay? So during your masturbation session, during your pre gaming session, don't be masturbating about the chick that you're about to see mast baiting. Really? Why?
Because when you actually get to the act, you'll be too excited from the thoughts that you had before and then you're gonna become a one member.
So. So who do you think about the one from?
I'm not saying I do this. It's just tips that I would give.
You should write a book.
The art of free gaming.
Exactly. I love it. Okay. Hey, Emily. I want a three month Friends with benefits membership from Facebook. Thank you. I'm loving being fwb. I'm wondering if you've heard of Go Topless, of the Go Topless movement. Sunday is Go Topless. Have you?
I heard it just. It's having. It already happened this weekend.
Sunday is Go Topless day and there are rallies around the US including San Fran Derek from St. Paul, Minnesota. Minnesota. It's a. Go Topless is a US based organization that claims that women have the same constitutional right that men have to go bare chested in public. As long as men are allowed to be topless in public, women should have the same constitutional right. Or else a man should have to wear something to hide their chest. What do you think about this Go Topless movement? I remember being a young girl and not understanding that. Why I couldn't go topless, like if my brother could. I remember being like 7 or 8 on my bicycle in the summer. It was really hot and I was in Michigan. I was like, I'm just taking my top off. I was like, can't do that. I remember not understanding that.
I mean, I would love.
I'd love to see. I would love to see women's breasts, don't get me wrong.
But.
It'D be distracting. You can't just all of a sudden have women walking around topless right now.
Yeah. It just can't happen. I was at a concert recently and we're in this like VIP area. There's a bunch of kids running out. You know, I go VIP all the time and this girl just decides to take her top off and this feels that she can just walk around in the vip and then suddenly like there's. There was thousands of people around just all staring at her like, are you for real right now?
Like in the middle?
It was a. It was a nice, warm, sunny day.
Yeah.
And don't get me wrong, she. She looked good topless, but I just didn't think it was appropriate.
Right.
And I'm not trying to keep women down or anything like that. It just.
I think it's a little late to Start this movement.
You guys have a little extra versus the men. You know, it's true. No one finds men's men with their shirt off attractive.
You know, sometimes. Sometimes. But that's not what we're looking for.
Yeah.
Okay. I came across your website on iTunes. An iTunes application by coincidence, but you can't imagine how much I love it. I listened to your free show on Friday and then immediately signed in and became a member. I'm sure that I would listen to your podcasts and videos on a daily basis.
Love that.
I'm a guy in my late 20s and currently don't have a girlfriend, so I often have sex with escorts on call visits.
Previously, I used to have sex once a month, but in the past couple of weeks, I'm feeling that I need to have it every two weeks. I'm not sure if there's something wrong with my health or body. Also, when I have sex, I usually have normal erections, but the problem is that in the first shot, I usually ejaculate quickly, like in three minutes. I usually favor the problem. I usually favor the doggy style. So in order to delay the ejaculation, do I need to change the position or do I need to see a doctor? Also, I usually take a Cialis pill when I have sex since it helps me have another shot an hour. Should I stop these pills or does it matter if I continue using them? I look forward to your answers. Thanks. Hoda show from New York. He's a premium member. There's a lot in here.
Yeah.
Okay. First of all, okay, Cialis can help men. So, yes, Cialis is like a Viagra can help men get an erection right after. So I get that you're taking that, but I was wondering, like, there might be some other things that you could do to. You could pre game. Like MENA says you could also buy a book called the Multi Orgasmic man, which is a great book that really helps men with premature ejaculation. It's like, I think it's the best book out there. You could probably buy an audiobook of it and it helps men with premature ejaculation. It doesn't sound like. Yeah, so it sounds like you're cool that you don't have a girlfriend and you're seeing escorts. And I'm wondering what that's about. If that is thwarting your pro. If you want a girlfriend but you keep seeing escorts. I know you're not asking for advice on this and you're sort of stating it, but I'm just Wondering if that's preventing you from finding girlfriends. Because if we're filling it up in another area, you might be less likely to find someone. But I would also work on these issues. I don't think there's anything wrong with you. But also, if you favor the doggy style, in order to delay the declaration, you need to make sure. Yeah. So a lot of men ejaculate during doggy style position. So if you know you're gonna ejaculate that way, maybe I would have woman on, you know, have her on top. There's. There are certain positions that do delay ejaculation. So.
Yeah. And then, you know, keep on practicing without a lady around. Maybe. Build your build. Build up your tolerance.
Exactly. Develop your tolerance. I have my orgasm retreat this weekend, by the way.
Yeah, what's up with that?
So.
I'm going to be touched by touched by strangers.
Strange men that you don't even know are gonna be massaging your vagina in a cabin next Monday.
We'll be sitting here talking about my clitoris and what happened last weekend, which will probably be the most I've talked about it ever. My personal clitoris on the show. I'm just looking forward to it. I just got sort of. And not at all.
I'm not looking forward to it at all, actually.
Okay, Emily, I just discovered your podcast and have a lot of catching off to do. After 15 plus years of monogamy, I found out my wife was unfaithful to our vows. Whore. It was like a. It was like a stake was driven through my heart. Skank. Sorry, but I'm getting over it. A stake was driven through his art. Bitch. I'm going. I'm coming around. To see the goodness of non monogamy, even in a committed relationship.
Skank.
Lately, I've enjoyed re entering the dating world and rediscovering that most women, at least the ones that are fun in all caps to hang out with, desire sex just as much as guys. And for most, it's just not. It's not just about sex. When there's a spark, it's a thrill for women to chase, be chased, tease, be teased, and have the attention of a strong man. By the way, I think I'm becoming addicted to your voice. So hot. And you and the white menace have terrific chemistry on there. Are you sure you two have never gotten it on? Ha ha. Sign w. They wish. You wish menace. So it was like a stake driven through my heart. Okay. I love.
Is he still with that?
No, she was unfaithfully left her, and he's having fun, and he's 86 that bitch a lot of times. So if you're with one person for 15 years, imagine, like, right now you're breaking up. Like, a lot has changed.
Sounds like a nightmare for you, huh?
Women. What, the commitment part?
Yeah. 15 years.
I should already have been married and divorced by now.
True. Then you'd have a steady, steady income.
Right? I would have married a rich man and I'd have a steady income. I feel like I should have done that already. But whatever, it's fine. So I think that it's amazing, like, to be with one person your whole life, and then all of a sudden he's saying, like, I'm realizing how much fun I'm having because he's been. He's been having sex with the same person, which is what a lot of people do. But he's out there and discovering most women are fun to hang out with. And then women want sex. And I think in the last 15 years, it has changed. It has become more.
Yeah. Banging. It's not even.
Women haven't become more sexually confident.
It's not even that hard anymore.
Hard? What's not hard? To bang a chick.
Yeah. When you. When you get older, it's a lot easier. It's a lot easier when you're a little. When you're, like, a teenager, you're like, oh, my God, I. You have to bend over backwards and do so many things.
I know.
Pray and do, you know seances and stuff.
I know. Now you give some shots. Tequila. Yeah.
You're like, hey, there you go.
It's easier.
Yeah.
And you're older, like, successful man. Women just throw themselves at you, right?
Oh, yeah. All the time. Uhhuh.
Hi.
When I decide to talk to them.
When you decide to talk to him. Why are you so surly? Why do you not want to talk to him? What about that chick that was, like, stalking you on Twitter or whatever?
Which one?
Exactly.
No. Apparently she called the radio station over the weekend. I got a text message. I posted it online on Instagram. If you guys follow me on Instagram, I'm White Menace. It's a photo sharing app on your phone. And she called. She called and said she told one of the other DJs that there's one.
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