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Of girl you just play with. You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex, relationships and everything in between. For more information, go to sexwithemily.com where you get all your sex information that you need that you want for the new year. Yesterday's show, we talked about sexual resolutions. What are your sexual resolutions? It's important to make them because you know. I know a lot of you are listening to the show because you want to improve your sex life. You want to have Better sex and this show is the way to do it. So we hope that you all subscribe and become friends with benefits members. This year it is $4.95 a month. You get four first month free. And it's the best deal in town because we are going to tell you every single thing that you need to know about improving your sex life and your relationships. And that's what we do here at Sex with Emily. So today's show is one of my favorite shows that we do. It's intern sex toy review day and we've got some great sponsors of this. We've got AdamAndEve.com and we also have Jimmy Jane. They make some of the best toys. Adam and Eve sells a whole host of toys, lots of different brands and Jimmy Jane makes their own exquisite creations of toys that we're going to show you in a minute that you're just going to love. And if you want to buy any of these toys, if you go to adam andeve.com you put in coupon code Emily at checkout you get 50% off most items and you get the Kim Kardashian CD. I mean come on, how good is that? You get the Kim Kardashian sex tape. You get free adult gifts and free shipping. And then at Jimmy Jane, if you put Emily 25 at checkout, you get a discount for orders over a hundred dollars. So today we're going to be talking about that because it's hump day and it's a great day to use a vibrator. And we are also have a new poll up. You got to go vote on our poll. It is what do you want to accomplish in the bedroom in 2012? A threesome. B I want to try a new sex toy. C get tied up. Maybe a whip to D mutual masturbation or E other Let us know. Email us. Feedbackextwithemily.com will also be reading your emails. Some emails that you sent to feedback comm. You can always email me there. And we try to get to most of your emails if we can. And also my app Kaggle camp is doing amazing in the itunes store or people are loving it. So kegel like talk. Everyone's got their new exercise program for the new year. You're going to the gym more. You quit smoking. Whatever you're doing, you should be doing the best sexercise. It's the most important sexercise that you're not doing. Kegels help women have longer stronger orgasms. They help men last longer in bed and they're really easy to do a few times a day, and my app walks you through it. You set timers, and you can remind yourself do it throughout the day. So it's super fun. So we. I've got a whole host of toys sitting in front of me on the table here. If you're watching the show. As you know, you can watch or listen to the show or do both. And I've got a bunch of toys here that my interns have all graciously used their own bodies to test the toys, which is awesome. And we've got some other stories for you, so we're going to get into that. And I guess. And I just want to say that there's, you know, there's a bunch of different kinds of toys. And a lot of times people who don't use toys or have fear of toys, you might be the person who needs it. Because only 30% of women can actually have orgasms during penetration, during intercourse. And so a lot of times, most women need clitoral stimulation. You need something on your clitoris to help you. To help you orgasm. Sometimes your. Your finger or your partner's fingers will not be enough. So you can use a little vibrating bullet or you can use these mini massagers. They're awesome. And for men, a lot of men, this is kind of. I hope this has changed. Okay. I've been doing the show for a long time, and I know that there's this. This. This thing that a lot of men. There's a stereotype that men are afraid of vibrators. They're afraid, like, once you get the vibrator in there, she's no longer gonna want my penis. And I'm gonna tell you, I you that once and for all. That is so not true. I think that men should be embracing vibrators. They could be your new BFF because they do the work that you don't have to. The work that you're trying to do, and you're not getting her quite there to orgasm. Vibrators will send her over the top. And a lot of men have reported that the vibration feels amazing to them as well. The vibration on their penis, on their balls feels great. So we're going to talk about all of that today. So don't fight vibrators. Just join them. Right? Okay, first up, we're going to talk to Kelsey, my assistant, actually, and she's gonna come on over. Right, Kelse?

Yes, I'm coming on over.

Okay, come on over. We can move the camera back. You can now see Kelsey And I in the camera.

Okay. Kelsey, my darling, you've been here a while. You've tried out a lot of sex toys. So where would you like to start? We've got a potpourrif toy.

I would say that I would start with the form three.

Form three. Form three. Okay. So this is from jimmyjane.com and Jimmy Jane. Their. Their toys are. First of all, they're award winning. They're like the iPhones of vibrators. Okay. They worked beautifully. They're the kind of toys that you can leave out on your nightstand. No one's even gonna know that it's a sex toy, which. Not that it matters if you have no issues with that, but they're beautifully shaped. They're. They work really well, and they are just my favorites. So let's get into the form three. So here's the form three. I'm holding it up to camera. Now, if you were looking at us, it's a waterproof, rechargeable vibrator, and it kind of looks like a tongue.

Yeah. And it's super cool because you can put your finger. And it's, like, really thin, but it still vibrates, so it kind of feels like you're masturbating actually with it.

It's like a masturbation tool.

Yeah, exactly. So it's not like this big, bulky thing. It's like this really small, adorable. Mine's pink. And you kind of just, like, get to, like, put your finger into it and, like, find the perfect spot, which is really cool. And what I liked about it, too, is it's, like, really quiet and discreet. And I actually was able to use it during sex because it is, like, so, you know, it's so small that it's, like, not a big deal if you're, like, first starting off with someone and, like, I mean, you've never had a vibrator in bed before. I would suggest doing the form three because it's, like. It's a good way of, like, having a vibrator in bed, but not, you.

Know, it's not a big obtrusive thing. Like, we're gonna talk about the Hitachi magic wand in a minute, which is a big vibrator, but this is, like. It's very discreet. It's cute. It's pink. You, like, want to play with it.

It's really cute.

You want to take it for a walk?

I leave it on my nightstand. It's adorable. And it charges, and it has, like, a bunch of different, like, speeds and stuff.

Right. You can do different speeds.

You can do the. Yeah. And the thing where it goes, like, Right, exactly.

It has different motions. So it's not just the. It's like. Or the.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Different.

Not just one thing. It's like a bunch of different vibrators.

A bunch of.

It's like a bunch of different vibrators in one. So you use it during intercourse. How was that? It was good.

It was fun. It was like. It kind of fits nicely. It's like a little heart. So it. It was. It was a lot of fun. It was really. It's great because, like, whenever you're having sex, like, most of the time, you're not getting enough clitoral stimulation.

You are not. That is a problem that a lot of women have.

I mean, it's like the same thing as if you were like to, like, rub your clitoris during sex, only it's a lot better.

It's a lot better because it's vibrations and it's steady and you don't have to worry about it. And it's like, again, it's really lightweight. It's quiet. That's a big complaint. We hear about vibrators, too. It's like, how discreet is this vibrator? Because if you've roommates, you don't want them to hear in the next room. They know exactly what's going on. Do you want your roommates to know? No. And you don't want your boyfriend either, your partner to be like, what is that? It's like, distracting. But this vibrator is not distracting. And it's waterproof. You can take it in a hot tub.

Yeah, it's super classy. I mean, I feel like all Jimmy Jane products are kind of like that.

You know, they're very high end.

It's a way of making like, you know, a sex toy. It's not a sex toy, though. It's like a product or a vibrator designer type thing. So, yeah, it's really cool. I love it. It's super cute. And it goes in perfect contrast with my other vibrator.

Okay, let's go to the other one.

I actually have the Hitachi Magic Wand, which you can also get at Adam and Eve. But this is the magic massager, which is like.

It's the magic massager. I'm holding this up to camera as well. You can get it@adamandeve.com use coupon code emily at checkout. And yeah, it's like the Hitachi. So real quick on the Hitachi Magic Wand. The Hitachi Magic Wand is an infamous vibrator. It's been around for a long time. You plug it into the wall and it is like. They call it the. They call it the Mack truck of vibrators because the vibrations are so intense and they feel. It's not for insertion. It's just for clitoral stimulation. And it's one of my go to favorites, I gotta say. Really great. So what was your experience? And again, you can get the Hitachi or Adam and Eve. You can get the magic massager. And they're the same. It's the same thing. So talk to me about that. Kelsey, what was your experience like with the magic massager?

It's been really, really great.

She didn't come to work for a week after she got it. I was sort of upset, but then I'm like, okay, well, you know, it's sex with Emily.

Yeah, it's really awesome. I could have, like, eight orgasms in a row.

Eight orgasms in a row.

Those are, like, good nights, though. Those are, like, special.

Right? Because it keeps coming. It's so intense. It makes me want to have one right now. I kind of want to whip it out.

Yeah. I actually used it the other night during sex as well, which was a little more difficult than using the. The Jimmy Jane vibrator because, like, I could only do it, like, doggy style and I couldn't move at all.

Right. Plugged into the wall.

Yeah. I'm like, I can't move at all that. And it's just like, so big and bulky. If you move it all, then you'll get it off the. Your clitoris, so. But it was awesome.

And how'd your boyfriend feel about it?

He loved it.

What did he love about it?

He loved the vibrations.

It felt good to him. See, that's what I was saying earlier is that a lot of men think, oh, it's for women, but the vibrate. I've had so many men say that the vibration actually feels really good for them and their balls and their penis. They're not used to vibrations either, so why, if it feels good to us, why wouldn't it feel good to them?

Yeah. And plus, like, it makes. It's easier for, you know, a woman to orgasm using a vibrator while having sex. So it really just makes you seem like you're super awesome at sex.

Exactly. And we're not saying, oh, it was the vibrator, not you. You were there, buddy. And we're not taking any credit away from you or your penis or anything you're doing we're just saying this is a nice little enhancement and a. To the whole sex experience, especially doggy.

Style, because that's like one of the most like deep penetration positions and you're getting like this super intense, like.

Right.

So it's pretty awesome. And then like, it's just fun too, like doing the thing where like they watch you use your vibrator.

Yeah.

And.

And you said that your boyfriend had a really positive experience. He never used.

No, he.

He has his own vibrator collection.

Oh, he does. Okay, well, that's another story. But. But he was down. He was like psyched. He was like, oh, my God, Kelsey, this is really cool. Okay, great. And then. And then we've got. And again, you can get that at Adam and Eve. Use coupon code Emily at checkout for discounts at 50% off. I think most items. And then. Kelsey, do you want to talk about your Venus butterfly experience? I'm holding this up to camera. It's called the Venus Butterfly, also from Adam and Eve. And it's a remote. Removable bullet, adjustable straps. How does it goes around your legs?

Yeah, it's really power. It looks kind of awkward on.

But you're supposed to wear it underneath your clothes, Right. Or you can. Yeah.

I mean, what I did is I got a skirt. This is my recommendation. A skirt with like high waisted skirt with pockets. So I can put the remote control in it.

Nice.

And it doesn't look like you have a penis and balls, so that's awesome.

I love that.

But it's.

And it has remote control. Which you could also give to your partner, right?

Yeah.

Have your partner do it. But you wore it yourself. Yeah, I did.

It was a little experiment. I wore it on public transportation and it was fun. It was a little awkward cause I got all. I felt like people could hear it.

Right.

And I thought the public transportation noises, like the bus noises would be louder.

They'd be drowning out your vibrator because, you know.

Yeah, people are giving you strange looks.

But I'm sure that no one's thinking, what's that strange noise? Oh, she's got a Venus butterfly on her crotch. I mean, that's probably wasn't happening.

And it made going to work that day, the commute a lot more fun.

I love that you did that. That is my favorite story about I.

Did not get off on the bus.

You didn't get off a bar. It's hard. I mean, it's enough. It's enough to, to even do it. So that's cool. So anything else you want to say about toys and how you feel about you? Like, it's been good for you, right?

Yeah, I love them. I'm super. Like, even though I'm in a relationship, I still use a vibrator often, and I think they're great during sex. Especially if you can't. You have problems orgasming during sex? Like, it's amazing.

Yeah, it'll get you there. It'll get you over the edge every time. Pretty much. It's a sure thing.

Thank you.

All right, I appreciate it. Kelsey, anything else we have to add? Any other sex K's or anything? Okay, thank you.

All right.

All right, so those are from Jimmy, Jade, and Adam and Eve. Okay, next up, who would like to come talk? Lauren. Yay, intern. Lauren, come over here. Let's talk about your sex toys.

Are they here or. They're not all here.

Let's see.

Did you have the form form 2? Form 2. This is also from Jimmy Jane. Okay, this is epically amazing. Hold on, let me get it out of the box. How do I get it out? Okay, let's get it out of the box here. So this is the form 2.

It is powerful, flexible vibrating ears, dual motors, high performance lithium polymer battery, Digital vibration modes. It's waterproof and bath friendly. And it's got what I like about this vibrator. And then you're Lauren's gonna get into in a minute. Is that the form 2? It's kind of like, you know how everyone loves the rabbit? The rabbit vibrator is like the infamous vibrator. It's sort of like just getting the ears of the rabbit. And it's like, good. You can put your clitoris and then see how it has these two little prongs here. You can put your clitoris in the middle. And I don't even want to tell you how amazing that feels. But, Lauren, tell us about your experience with the Form 2 from Jimmy Jane.

Okay, so.

As you may know, because I've said it before, I only usually have G spot orgasms, and I've probably.

Lucky bitch.

Anyway, I've only had, like, a handful of, like, clitoral orgasms. I guess you can say I brought this bad boy home and I charged it in the office because I just wanted to use it right away.

I know everyone. The day that the Jimmy Jane package arrived, like, everyone was like, all the outlets were used because everyone was charging their vibrators. So funny.

So awesome. So I live in this, like, little cramped San Francisco apartment. You can barely hear it, like, under the covers. When it's on, like, the highest vibration. And it is amazing. Oh, my gosh. I probably have used it, like, out of the last, like, 30 days. Like, 25 days.

Are you serious?

I love my.

Oh, my God. That is awesome. So. And it's such a great one because you can travel, you can charge it, and it stays charged for a while, right?

Yeah. I've only charged it twice now.

Okay. That's amazing. That's really good to know. Okay. And the charger's so cute.

It is. I keep it on my nightstand and my roommate doesn't know what it is.

Right. You can't tell what it is. That's the thing. A lot of you are like, I gotta hide my vibrator in this box under my bed. And it's like, these are really pretty. You can just like, keep them out, no problem.

Yeah. This has definitely become my favorite. I have a collection now, thanks to working for Emily.

That's one of the perks.

Yes.

So that's great. So you would recommend this? And how do you use it? If you put it against your clitor, do you use those little. The little ear things? Yeah, the prongs.

I literally, like, you can just, like, hold it down there and put, like, one of the vibration modes on and just, like, keep it down there. And it does, like, basically all the work. Like, put your clitoris between the two little ears. And Heaven comes.

Heaven comes. No pun intended. And she's used it 25 out of the last 30 days. I love it. Okay, so that's a form, too. And again, if you want to buy any of these $25 off purchases of over $100, go to Emily's Pick page. It's. If you go to my website, sex with emily.com youm'll see Emily's picks for Jimmy Jane. And you click on that and you get. You put an Emily 25 at checkout, and you can get one of these bad boys vibrators. And they're great for Valentine's Day too. Great gifts. Okay. Did you use any of these other ones, or is that what we got for you?

I got this Kama Sutra dvd.

Oh, talk to me about that.

From Adam and Eve. And we started watching it in the office. You weren't here, but we, like, just started watching in the office. Then I watched it later that day, and I used some of it.

You did?

Like, what did you learn from it? Kama Sutra.

I was actually seeing positions I've never seen before, and I was like, oh, that's my favorite. And There was the wedge in there, too.

They were showing how to use the wedge. She's got a wedge from Adam and Eve. She's gonna review that on the next show.

I'm so excited.

Which is the wedge that you use for sex to kind of prop yourself up. You put it on your butt, your back.

The Liberator.

The Liberator. The Liberator. That's an awesome gift, too, because that's a couple. That's a good gift for couples.

It's gonna be interesting. Walking through San Francisco with a giant wedding.

She's gotta carry it home today. I'm like, sorry, honey. You gotta walk home with the big vibrator. With the big liberator. So, wait, so what'd you learn about Kama Sutra? Cause that's kind of elusive to some people. They're like, what's Kama Sutra?

Yeah. So it was really into, like. They were teaching you the importance of foreplay, what you can do to enhance the foreplay. Like what? Like, if you're not really into it or if you don't really. You're kind of clumsy about it. How you can make it smoother and how. How it can be more of, like, a seductive. Like, just as important as, like, actual penetration.

Okay, got it. That's cool.

Yeah.

It's called the Commissures Kama Seizure dvd.

Yeah, I think it's like the guide to Kama Sutra. We can post it on the.

We'll post it on the. We'll post it on the. We'll post all these toys on the blog when we get back.

And it wasn't awkward to watch either. It's actually pretty. Pretty well made.

Okay, that's awesome. And that's. That's good. So you. And then. What about last night? What happened? Sorry, this is just a vignette. Lauren came in today and she was like, oh, my God. Last night she had some fun.

That's why I look kind of grungy right now. So last night I had some fun. I had some outdoor fun, actually.

Outdoor fun? I didn't know this. What do you mean?

Well, like, we couldn't go back to my place, and we couldn't really go back to his. And he walked me home, and, well, there was this nice little back part of my backyard area.

Did you have sex outside?

Yeah, we did.

You did? Oh, my God. In your backyard?

Yeah.

Okay. Why not in your backyard? It was good.

It was really good.

Outdoor sex is a good. That's a good resolution for the new year. If you've never done It.

Yeah. And I've just been using my vibrators lately. I haven't been getting much action.

Except for last night. Except for last night, she was still on time for work, which is awesome.

Time for work. Oh, and I was gonna say something about how boys and men should not be intimidated by briberators. Like my ex boyfriend was.

Oh, was he?

He was very much intimidated. And I told him, I was like, we're gonna do this right now. I whipped one out and I was like, and you're gonna enjoy it and.

You'Re gonna like it.

And he was like, I don't know. Like, why don't you. Why can't you just have me? And I was like, it's two different experiences. Like, you can't replace a man with a.

No, we are not replacing you. We are enhancing you. We are attributing it to you. I mean, don't worry about it.

After we used it the first time, he kept suggesting that we used it again.

Are you serious? See, that is a good story. Most men are. You're intimidated. We're all intimidated by what we don't know. We have fear around things we don't know. And I could see if I was a man, I was like, okay, so I've been having sex with her for six months, and she had an orgasm, and then she brings in this toy. But, like, why not? Like, why not look at it as your. As your ally, as a friend?

He loved that I had sex toys too. He loved it so much. And like, well, afterwards, before, he was like. Like, why are you using it now that you're with me? I'm just like, it's two completely different things.

Exactly. So I love that. That's good. The good transgression, maybe. Transgression progression. So maybe this guy, the new guy next time if you guys ever get inside the house. Or you could just throw this bad boy in your purse. I love the form too, because it's so little. I've traveled with it. I traveled with it to LA a few weeks ago and it was like, boop. Threw it right in my bag. No one knows what it is.

The fact that I think he'd be really into this is, like, such a turn on. I feel like he'd be really down for it. I'm just like, cannot wait.

Oh, my God.

Cannot wait.

That's great. Okay, Lauren, I love it. Thank you so much for that intern review. We've got more coming throughout the coming months. We're bringing you lots of new shows, and I know we've been a little lagging on shows the last few weeks just because we had some technical stuff happening. But we've got plenty of new shows. Okay, Tiana. Lovely Tiana. Intern Tiana, you're up. You are up on deck to talk about your sex toy review. All right. We are. Intern Sex toy review day. Talk to me.

Well, the Form 6. This makes my clitoris very happy.

Makes your clitoris okay. This is also from Jimmy Jane. Okay, here's the Form 6. It's purple rechargeable vibrating massager. And it's also. What else can we say about it? It is. I think they're all waterproof, but I'm not sure.

It's my bath toy.

It's your bath toy, actually.

Any bigger toys? I like also the Adam and Eve one. They're my bath toys. Any waterproof ones?

You know what I love about this one is the charging mechanism. You charge it in a box, right? And then the box plugs into the wall, and you can't even see what's in it. It's really cool. It's just like. Again, it's very discreet. Everything about the Jimmy Jane brand is very discreet. So you don't have vibrators sticking all over the place. It's like.

And it's travel ready.

Travel ready. Travel ready to go.

You can take it.

So it made your clitoris happy.

It did.

And it has different vibration or, you know, different levels of vibration.

Right.

There's, like, different what mood you're in and.

Exactly. It's really quiet. It's travel ready. There's warranty and. Have you ever used a vibrator with a partner?

No.

Because men get freaked out by a lot of toys.

You just bring it. You just say, dude, we're using a vibrator.

I want to meet a man that already has toys that he just, like, whips them out of his, like, dresser.

Yeah. Really? But a lot of guys don't. I know. They need you to. Because they needed the women. Women. You need to bring the toys into the bedroom. You need to do it. I don't. I think I know what you're saying. It'd be nice to have the guys do it all.

But they're like something. Like, something fun. Like, they don't. There's nothing kink. Like, nothing exciting.

Right.

They just have condoms.

Right. That's so boring. Well, they could have. Well, you know what they could have. Oh, my God. Well, let's talk about that in a minute. Okay?

So.

Oh, and then do you want to.

Talk about the yeah, the Sienna.

Okay. The Sienna is awesome. Okay. This is from Adam and Eve. It's recommended by Dr. Laura Berman. And you can get this@adamandeve.com, use coupon code Emily at checkout. It's just like your typical vibrator, really. It's straightforward.

It also has different vibration or different levels, different speeds.

Okay.

Smooth, traditional shape. It's great for internal or external stimulation. And it's got a sensual shape and feel.

Yeah, it's awesome.

It's awesome. You loved it, so you used it.

You used it. I mean, they're both similar. Like, as in, like, the size.

Right.

And like the. You know, they're both really powerful is what I liked about them.

Oh, that's good. They're both powerful.

They're both powerful.

Okay.

So would you think you'd use them with a guy? Now? If you're with someone, would you be comfortable whipping it out?

I think. I think men get freaked out by toys because they don't know what to do with them. So once they know what to do with them, then maybe they're a little bit, you know, down.

Right. Right. Or we can show it. Women. Step it up and show them what you like and how you do it. I think they're still. And I think we're chang this. I think we're changing it by doing the show, and I think we're changing it because it's just out there and public. For public consumption. Sex toys are everywhere. But, I mean, it should be the thing that we're all. I mean, everyone's embracing. They said last year, so they came out, that half of all women have used vibrators. So it's healthy.

Masturbating is healthy.

Masturbation is healthy. It needs to masturbate. You need to do it. Okay.

I do. All the time.

I love it. Okay. So now let's talk about this massage candle, too. This is also from Jimmy Jane. This is, like, my favorite. One of my favorites. And it is a. This is great for men and women. It's a great gift. Smells amazing. They have a bunch of scents. This is pink lotus.

That one smells. That's awesome.

So good. And what happens is this. It's a pretty candle. So fine candle. But what happens is you light it and it turn. You pour the wax. After you light it, you let it heat up for a few minutes, and it creates a pool of wax, as candles do. But this is a little different. It doesn't burn as hot, and you pour it on your body and it's. It's made with natural ingredients. Jojoba, shea butter, vitamin E and aloe. And it turns into massage oil. So you pour the liquid on your body. It's not too hot, and it turns into the most delicious massage lotion. Massage oil. So it's not, like, waxy, sticky. So it's really hot. To give your partner massage, drip it on their back or on their front, and then just massage them all over. So it's like a candle setting the mood. And then you pour the hot wax. It is my favorite. I buy it for everyone. Like, it's. It's my favorite toy.

It's pretty awesome. And it totally sets the mood. Like, if I just, you know, I like. They don't know what it is. They just think it's a candle.

Right.

And then you kind of just like.

Take it, and you take it and you pour it. It's amazing. And it's massage and skin care. So it's really, like. It's for your skincare. You light pour the massage into the skin so it smells really good. And all of their scents are out of this world.

And it's one of those, like, kind of breakers. Like, you know, you don't know how to, like, initiate the first move. Yeah, it's the perfect.

Like, I think guys should buy it. I think it's a great. Like you were saying that guys don't have toys.

They need to buy that every guy.

Needs a candle by his bed. So you light this candle and you're like, hey, baby, let me give you a massage. And guys have been using the whole massage trick for. Since the beginning of time. Like, let me massage you, because they're hoping that you'll get turned on and have sex with them. So this is a great starter for guys. It's a big tip. Get this massage candle.

Start with the massage candle and then.

Work your way up.

Exactly. And then this is another one of my favorites. This is the iconic ring. It's like a vibrating cock ring. It is a vibrating cock ring from Jimmy Jane as well. And this one's just, like. It's stretchy, so it fits on most. One size fits most or all, I would even say. And the amazing thing about vibrating rings are they've been around for a long time. A lot of men use them to maintain erections and that they still work for that. But the amazing thing about this one is that it has a vibrator at the tip so you can hear it. It's very discreet. I'm playing it in the mic right now.

It's Awesome. I love cock rings.

And the key to it is that she. You have it on your penis. The vibrator hits her clitoris so she's getting a vibration while you're feeling the vibration as well. And it just, it feels amazing and so it's great. Couple gift again. Great for Valentine's Day or just. It's a good gift any day. Hump day. It is hump day right now, so it's a great gift.

I gave my guy friends cock rings.

Did you? That's a great present.

And they actually, they liked it.

They liked it.

Yeah, they told me they liked it. It's definitely. I feel like it's more for the female because it hits.

Right. But it feels good for men too because it helps them maintain erection and, and it also helps them and helps the woman. Like they're just like every guys could whip this to you and you could.

Do it in the shower. It's water friendly.

Waterproof, water friendly and it's awesome. It's called the usual suspect's iconic ring that you can also get at Jimmy Jan. That's great. Anything else you'd like to add about your sexual experiences?

No, I, I just recommend, I definitely recommend the Jimmy Jane and the Sienna. They're awesome.

Cool. Thank you. All right. I think we reviewed them all.

What emails? Everything. Well, that was. The email was about the. I think we're good.

What were you gonna say? Okay.

So there's also. I just want to say another really popular toy that I like that I didn't bring in is a pocket rocket. If you're just starting out, they're like mini massagers and you can get them in Adam and Eve or Jimmy Jane. They're little mini massagers and they're great for clitoral stimulation. And I think it's a great starter vibrator. It's called a pocket rocket or they have different names as well. And you can also. What else was I going to tell you about the mini massagers? We talked about the Hitachi magic wand penis rings. I think we're good. I think we covered it all. So again, if you want to find any of these toys. Adam and Eve coupon code Emily at checkout. Jimmy Jang Coupon code Emily25checkout. So thanks everyone for listening to our Toygasm show. This is our special Wednesday show. We don't usually do a show on Wednesdays, but since we've been gone, we wanted to bring you lots of love today. So thanks everyone for listening to the show. Was it good for you? Email me feedbackexwithemily.com there's one overlooked mineral.

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