7 Dec 2025 · 26 min
Emily Morse and Menace talk about navigating the holidays solo, from gift-giving to family questions about your relationship status. They share personal stories about what single people actually do when everyone else is coupled up.
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Emily Check 1, 2, 1, 2, check, check. All right, we're on.
How's the camera?
We're good.
We're on. There's no way I could do a setup because.
Can't do the intro.
Can't do the intro because we're already live.
The computer's way over there. I can't do it.
Can't we start over?
No, we're already live.
I wasn't prepared emotionally. Just kidding. Hi, you're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking.
I was about to say, if you're serious right now, it's gonna be pissed.
You're talking about sex, relationships, and everything in between. Today is a free Friday show. So thanks everyone for listening to the show. And we are just chilling today because it's the day before the whole holiday crazy weekend and we didn't have to do a show today, but we wanted to be here and just say happy holidays and thank you to everybody for listening to the show. We are so grateful for all of our listeners and our watchers and our viewers and our peeps.
We are.
And it feels really good.
It Does.
It's been a great year.
It has been a really great, crazy year. I would like to thank the people at Stitcher for giving us a home. S T I T C H E R Download the free app because they let us do a show in their studios every single day. And you can stream the radio show. You can hear other radio shows. Just. Just. Just download the app.
Right, Exactly.
It's free.
Just do it. It's fun. So we like being here and, like, today, I don't know. So I'm. I'm kind of relieved that I don't. I mean, everyone's in the crazy, frantic Christmas shopping, end of the year thing, and I'm grateful that I don't have a boyfriend or anything to buy anything for because that's.
Because you don't want to spend money on that.
No.
Isn't that money just, like, stressful? Like, everyone's, like, stressing what to get, what to get, what to get. Like, I'm so glad I'm avoiding that completely this year. I think a lot of people. A lot of breakups happen because people don't want to deal with gifts, but I just didn't have anyone to break up with. I just don't have to buy anyone a gift except for myself, maybe.
It's my.
And my interns.
It's my favorite time.
And you. Yeah, it's your favorite time. Are you buying gifts for people?
Yeah, just, you know, just my, like, sales staff, the people that.
People at work that, you know, my sales staff, basically what a sales staff is. They convince other companies to say, hey, menace is awesome to endorse your products. So these people work hard all year long to convince people to invest in me as a person to help the product. So I got all of them some bottles of alcohol, of course, and they loved it.
They loved the alcohol.
So I did that. Yeah. And, you know, it's actually. I wish around this time I did have a girlfriend, too, because I love. I love shopping. I love finding gifts for people and getting them that they would love.
Right.
Do I like receiving gifts? No. Because I never get what I want.
You don't?
No. Because I'm really, like, anything that I really want is super expensive, and it's not, you know, I'm not gonna have.
Some, so why would I even try to get. If you would want a bottle of Alco. If I showed up with a bottle.
Of alcohol, it's cool. A bottle of alcohol.
That's all I can think to get you. I've, like, racked my brain I'm like, what, can I get menaced? Well, he likes to drink and he also likes to drink.
Yeah, anything.
But then I didn't know. I don't know.
But everything that I really want that's non alcohol involved is like over fifteen hundred dollars.
Like what, what is even fifteen hundred dollars?
MacBook computers, cameras, stuff like that. That's just. That's the kind of stuff that I really want. But I'm not gonna find anybody to buy that for me, so.
I don't want anybody to get me gifts.
Okay, thanks. It's good to know because you were on my list. But I was.
But I mean, if you find a bottle of like, you know what, tell me. UV vodka.
What is that?
I'm just kidding. That's the cheapest vodka you can ever buy.
I would only get you. I would only get you good vodka. No, I promise. So, yeah. And then the holidays. I don't really know. Like, I was party last night. I didn't go. I'm gonna be around as friends and hang.
Are you gonna go to the party? You're not gonna go to the party?
I'm not. I was gonna go to a party last night, but I was so tired because I was back from la. And then tonight I'm gonna go out with some friends and just get drinks and be chill and be mellow.
That's cool.
It's awesome. So, yeah. What else?
I just. It's just weird because as I get older and older, like my. All my friends, you know, we used to get together for the holidays and we hit up all the old bars in our town and stuff like that and you know, just kind of rage and party a little.
Right, right.
But now almost every single one of my friends has a kid now.
Really?
Yeah.
Yeah. So they're not coming out and now.
They have wives and their wives don't want them going out, you know?
Right. So you're like the single friend.
Especially with me, because I get my friends in trouble. Like they're supposed to be out for like a couple hours and then they come home the next day.
Right, exactly. You're that guy. I think I'm the single girl too, that people are like, really? Emily's still single and you're gonna go out and. Yeah, my girlfriend's like, we're going out with Emily. Right. How are we those people? We've become those people.
Yeah. It's not like I sought out to be that person. That's just, you know, that's just who we are. That's who I Am. And, yeah, maybe next year I'll be all hugged up with somebody.
I think you will be, if that's what you want. I mean, I think that people have to learn, people have to think about if that's what you want. Like, New Year's resolutions, all that stuff. Like, do people have, like, sexual resolutions? Do you have dating resolutions? Do you have things that you hope for in the new year in that realm of your life? So what would you want for, like, next year we're sitting here. What kind of relationship would you like to have going on?
Well, it's not.
You have to put it out there to the universe for it to happen.
If I'm, like, searching for it, it's not gonna happen either, too, though.
That's not true. You have to visualize what it looks like. Everyone do this right now.
What's it like? What does it feel like?
It feels like.
It may happen. Sorry, I'm getting kicked.
No, but what is that?
I don't want to even bring it up. The dog's here.
My dog's here.
You know how I feel about the dog being here.
She's so cute. I should put her on camera.
No.
Okay, so. But what I mean is, it's important for you. Like, I want a relationship. I wish I wasn't single, blah, blah, blah. But would you know what that looks like, feels like, smells like, tastes like, like what? What does that relationship like? Even if you don't know what the person like, obviously you don't know the person. But do you know what you want that relationship to be like? And then you have to go get it, and you have to look for people with those traits and all that stuff.
Yeah. How about you?
Well, I am looking at it, and I think that I need to set myself up more for being open to finding love. I think I am more open. I think I'm more clearer on what I want in the sense of. And what I don't want. So I think I need to talk about. I think I need to talk about. I had a listener email me and say that I actually did. That show did air. With the guy.
With the guy. We never.
Right. So I think we can talk about it, because the show that aired last week, if you guys are. Miss. If you guys missed Friday, if you missed last week's show. It was one of last week's shows. I talked about going to Napa with this guy, and he came on the show because he came in late, and then that show apparently aired.
Okay. Yeah.
Our shows have been out of Order?
Yeah. Our shows. Yes.
Not out of order. Just.
Well, the breaking down people missed it yesterday. We didn't know if we could talk about your Napa adventure, because we recorded it. We recorded the show with this guy, like, late in the evening. So it wasn't, like, normal hours.
It was a normal house.
So we didn't know if it aired. So yesterday we didn't talk about it. But now that we know.
Exactly.
So let's just put it out there. So let's break it down exactly what happened.
Thank you.
So for the people that missed it.
So there's this guy that I. That I've known since I was 10 years old, lives in Michigan, and I.
Sat next to him in fifth grade, and I thought he was really cute. And I always had a crush on him from, like, from young age to, like, you know, 20 or something like that. And. And then I never saw him all these years. Never saw him. Never saw him. And I was in Michigan. Someone's like, you should go out with this guy. He just got divorced. Cause he was married, Right. Like, everyone in Michigan married. I was like, wow, okay. Yeah, I guess we can go out. So we went out in Michigan when I was there, and we had a good date, and then he flew out here to visit me. Yes, yes. And then he came on the show when he landed and said hi. Right?
Yeah.
And then we were leaving for a Napa the next day. Am I missing a whole part about the drinks that we all had?
I mean, we all hung out and had drinks and, like, talked about it. Yeah, that was cool.
And you liked him.
Yeah, I thought he was cool. And then we went to. Yeah, and then we started talking about Napa. And then he's like, oh, I know some people on Napa, but that's all I know. We, like. We parted ways after going out and drinking.
Right. So what happened? We went to Napa, drove up there.
It was really beautiful.
He has never been. And, you know, we don't really know each other, so I thought he was cute when I was 10, but I haven't seen him in years. I don't really know him that well. So it's kind of like we're still getting to know each other. And we went to this vineyard and had, like, an amazing lunch and wine tastings and pairings and stuff like that, and it was beautiful. And we got a little buzzed in the middle of the day, as you do in Napa. And we went back to our hotel room, which we got a hotel room.
And made out heavily.
We Might have made out, but what really happened was we just passed out and fell asleep.
Oh, okay.
So there was no sex.
I went up to Napa with a guy that flew cross country, and there was no sex.
Wow, you're such a tease.
I'm not a tease. We both were, like, really tired. And you might think you can analyze and be like, well, you should have. You're really into each other. But I think we're just getting to know each other.
You're taking it slow.
I'm taking it slow. And I always say that people should put sex on hold. Don't rush into sex. Ironic coming from me. You think sex with Emily, but really, I believe that there's no. And I've changed this as I've gotten older. I think that, like, you just. There's no reason to rush into sex. Like, you can always have sex.
It will be there.
Why not prolong it? Why not just kind of get to know the person before you have sex with them? Because when you get. Second. When you have sex with someone, you get attached to them. And when you get attached to them in this different way, you get attached to them, like, sexually. The chemistry in your body, like, you're attached, like, physiologically, then you don't see the other things. You don't see the other things in the person. So if you take sex out of the equation, of course I sound like a Mormon or something. Right. And you don't rush right into it. Then you just appreciate everything else.
So do you think that when he flew out here, he thought he was gonna get laid?
I don't know.
You don't know?
What do you think?
I mean, me, personally, if I flew across the country to go hang out with some girl, I. And she was, like, in on it.
Right.
You know, excited.
I agree that it's shocking. I agree. It's shocking.
I believe that I would probably have sexual intercourse with that person.
Right. No sexual intercourse.
If I. If he was just, like, in town for other things and then we were just hanging out.
It was a weird. It was. It was an interesting. It was an interesting little excursion and.
Yeah.
And it was growth. And I feel like it was different and it was mature and it was cool.
That's cool.
Yeah. It's so not sick, crazy, raunchy sex story. But maybe I'll come back over the holidays with some good stories like that.
Yeah, that'd be good. Because, you know, the holiday parties, people are just, you know, looking for some.
Some love.
A couple extra martinis.
Exactly. I gotta drink some more Martinis over the holidays. And I have to also.
I'll drink some champagne. You know, champagne's my favorite. I'll drink champagne over.
What's your favorite champagne?
My favorite champagne?
Yeah.
Well, course, I mean, Cristal, but that's like 300 bucks. But the, the. The lesser costly one is the one with the orange label. I always forget what the name of it is. Or then there's Moet, too. Moet's really good. And then do you know what? If anybody lives by a Trader Joe's, Trader Joe's has a sparkling wine. Yeah, that's like $6.99. And it's so good.
Wow. Oh, my God. I'm gonna get it.
Yeah, just look for Trader Joe's $6.99 sparkling wine.
I'm gonna totally.
Go ahead. It tastes just like any champagne out there. You won't even know the difference. But my dream one day when I become rich and famous is to get a bottle of Spade champagne.
Where do you get that?
You gotta go to a special place to get Spade champagne. It's like a minimum, like $400 a bottle.
Wow. Yeah, yeah, yeah. One day you'll just be drinking those for breakfast. I know that's gonna happen to you.
There's this guy. There's this guy, he's like a hide roller. You can google him in Las Vegas. And his name is Don Johnson, right? Don Johnson is. It's not the same guy, right? Don Johnson is a famous actor, right? But this guy is such a high roller. He's like part of some tech company. So every time he rolls to Vegas, DJs will notice him in the club and they'll stop the music and they go, give it up for the real motherfucking Don Johnson in the house. Because this guy, like, parties like hardcore all the time.
All the time down in the sh. Yeah.
So he. He buys the bottles of Spade champagne. And I saw. I read this article where he bought. There was a. Like those oversized bottles of champagne. You ever see those? Well, there was this like giant one and it was. It's worth like a hundred and twenty thousand dollars.
Oh, my God.
And he bought it and he was partying like fuck in spraying it in the air and shit. I'm like, wow, must be nice.
That's crazy.
So I give it up to the real.
I wouldn't want to hang out with that guy, though.
Oh, what? He sounds like a party.
I know.
And I heard a rumor. I don't know if it's true, but like, this guy, Don Johnson he's super into old, like classic rock. And he. He play. He paid deadmau5, who's this like international huge dj electronic music. He paid deadmau $5,000 to play like Bon Jovi in the middle of his DJ set. Just because he wanted to hear Bon Jovi.
Wow.
So he's like, here's 85 grand. Can you see?
How does he have so much money?
Because he's part of. He owns a tech company.
Oh, okay. Got it.
Yeah.
That's interesting.
It's crazy.
They're crazy high rollers out there. There's crazy people doing crazy things.
Vegas is in real life, you know?
I know, I know. We still need to do our Vegas show. How come we're never. How come that never happens?
I want to do. Because you are just not ready. I'll go do it anytime.
I'll go, I'm there, we'll do it. And I want to say it's nothing.
To fly there from here.
Honestly, it's like 100 bucks.
We could easily do the show anywhere.
Yeah, it'd be cool.
I don't see why we don't take it on the road. We're sitting around this room. We love stitcher and all, but there's so many other places we can go and so many things we can do. So did you have to buy any presents? Because I want to give a shout out to our sponsors.
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It's so funny because we were talking off. Off there. It's crazy how much knowledge I know about the Kardashians, right?
Yeah, it's almost crazy. Like, I can't believe you're going on this whole, like, thing earlier.
I was talking earlier about Kris Jenner and Bruce Jenner and, like, their backgrounds and all this stuff earlier before the show started. I won't bore you with that, but the sex tape thing was brought up just recently because, you know, Barbara Walter, she does the 10 most fascinating people of the year or whatever, and she did the Kardashians, and she's like, I've never had so much backlash on choosing somebody, blah, blah. But then her interview was really good with you.
Who was it with?
It was all the Kardashians. All the female Kardashians.
Okay.
Except for the really younger ones. And she was, like, blunt. She's like, how do you. How do you feel about being so sexful, so successful without having talent?
Right.
All these things. And she's, like, going in, she's like, you know, the sex tape is what really made you famous.
Right? Wow. So what she say to that?
She. She said that, you know, it was a situation, and we just ended up just turning it into a positive thing. And it could have just been, you know, totally negative. And then we just.
Then I made $65 million, and it feels really good. And I'm ready for my sex tape number two.
No, I don't think she'll be coming out with any more sex tapes anytime soon. But, yeah, it was. It's. It is crazy how they turn that one sex tape into.
Giant business and every single family member taken care of in their own different way.
Right.
It's. It's insane.
It is insane. It's smart. It's the mom.
Yeah. Oh, the mom is amazing.
That's what I need, someone to manage all my. All my happenings. Yeah.
I think the mom is. She gets a lot of crap.
Why? Because she's.
Because she's the mom manager, and she's always, you know, making the money and getting them to do things and all this stuff, and. But one of. They were bringing that up in the interview, and Kourtney Kardashian which is the oldest sister said, you know what? We give her a lot of crap for giving her 10% and having us do these things. But at least it's going to the family.
Right?
We could be paying somebody else.
Exactly. You might as well. That's what you pay your manager and your agent for. Totally. Yeah. So there's that and then.
Okay.
Did you buy any gifts for anybody or anything?
Yeah, I'm gonna do it all. I got my interns gifts. I just got gift certificates or whatever. But I didn't have time. I'm gonna go today. I'm just feeling really. It's been a little crazy and. Well, it's been a little crazy. So I'm just. Today I'm gonna go shopping. Isn't that crazy? On the day before or two. But I'm not gonna stress about it. I just. There's a few people that I want to get things for. It's a little late, but I'm just gonna do it today.
Yeah, you'll be fine.
I'll be fine. I'm not really worried.
I mean you'll wait in a couple lines, but that's okay.
Yeah, it's gonna be kind of.
How.
But if you are. So we're both single for the holidays. So we have some stuff here about if you're single for the holidays, what you can do that are non traditional activities to meet people.
What would that be?
Okay, you could.
And you could. Okay. Non traditional activity. You could go to a movie by yourself. An action flick will do the trick.
A movie by yourself? How are you gonna talk to anybody?
Did you start talking to people? I don't know.
You can't talk in the movies.
Meet new people. Ask your friends to invite you with them and their co workers and grab drinks and offer to reciprocate. It's a great untapped source for singles. I think that's so true. Everyone meets through their friends. Like I go out with friends with. And their friends from office drinks. Like I love doing that. Because you're meeting a whole new. We're so insular. And how often do you say yes to your friends who invite you out? Are you ever like, no, I don't know them. I won't know anyone. You gotta just start saying yes like the new year. If you are single, it should be about just saying yes to every opportunity that comes your way. Every opportunity that's safe that comes your way. Like an invitation to whatever. Just go.
Yeah. The holiday parties and stuff like that.
Yeah. I mean they're almost ending the holiday parties. Well, there's still more holiday parties.
Oh, no, there's still. I. Yeah, I met somebody through a holiday party a few years ago.
A lot of people meet. We did a holiday party, a sex show once on holiday sex parties. Do you ever hook up with anyone at the holiday party? Like in the back in the closet?
Not at the actual party, but I mean, I met somebody and then hooked up with them later.
Right. Good. I'm sure you did.
Okay. And then make a holiday resolution. The New Year's resolutions are coming up, but plan to do something over the holidays that you've always wanted to do and follow through. Recruit a friend to join you if the holidays have gotten you feeling lonely. So these are people who are alone. Make a resolution, something you want to do differently. I'm gonna be alone for the holidays, but I don't really mind. What's up? I can be alone, but no, I'm gonna be with friends. I'm not alone. I'm not alone.
So who are you gonna kiss on New Year's?
I don't know what I'm doing on New Year's myself. What are you doing on New Year's?
I haven't made any plans yet. I haven't even had a chance.
I haven't even thought about it. I'm not a big New Year's person. It is sort of JV night. Like really, or amateur night. I just don't like the. I like hanging out at friends houses. And we always have a big New Year's Day party. That's sort of the tradition with my friends. We like, party all day on New.
Year's Day after the night.
Yeah. Well, we go out that night, sort of. But usually we get up early to have this day party. That's so fun. It's our own little tradition.
Yeah, I haven't. I haven't had an amazing New year's night.
Since 2001.
Wow. Are you serious?
No, no, wait. No, no.
2002.
What happened?
It was just. Just crazy because there was still like, back then, there was kind of like the dot com boom and a lot of people spending money. So the radio station that I was working at at the time had a tour bus with our radio station logo on it. Like decked out tour bus.
So it drove you everywhere and you can get drunk all night.
Yeah. And I, you know, it was just me, my best friend, who wasn't even the radio, and we had this tour bus and a driver. So we're just going club to club. We're just like inviting people in the tour bus.
That's really fun. I've done things like that on buses in the city and go all around and you don't have to worry about driving and you can go anywhere you want at a whim.
Yeah. And it was. It was really cool. We had like four clubs at night. We had like all these hot chicks with us. We brought them all back to the radio station. We're like making out with them and stuff. And it was like. It was one of the best new years I've ever had.
That's amazing. I can't even remember my last. Nothing were bad. I just. Nothing sticks out.
Yeah. There's so much pressure too in New Year's when you. You're with somebody too, to make sure.
I know. I hate that. So just don't do it. Don't pressure yourself. Just have fun. Like, people shouldn't make it such a big thing. Like just be with people you like.
Yeah.
Surround yourself with your people, your friends. That's what I learned later in life. Like, I don't have to like go to a fancy event or buy a ticket or whatever. Like just friggin hang out with people you like.
There's like four parties I can go to, but I just don't want to.
Go to any of them. Parties you can go to. I know. I don't want to do anything either. But I'm going to rejuvenate and I'm going to do a lot of writing and I'm going to work on my next book. I have a whole week off. Like really, like I'm come see you and do the show. But like I'm not working in the office.
Yeah, we're gonna do the show from the old. The place where we met.
Yeah, the sound will be great next week.
And the sound is not because of Stitcher. I'm telling you right now, it's not because of Stitcher.
I know. It's all of our fault. I feel like. I'm not saying. I don't really have anything else to say right now at this show.
You're done.
Well, like, I feel like I didn't bring. I just wanted to really. I wanted to just say thank you to everyone for listening and guarantee.
2012 is gonna be amazing.
2012 is gonna be amazing for Sexual Emily. I grateful for everybody. Thanks to everyone who becomes subscribers and friends with benefits and supports the show. And I just want to say that I couldn't do without you and I'm very grateful and I love hearing from everybody. So thanks for emailing me@feedbackextchwithemily.com I read all your emails and we'll be answering more next week for sure.
Yeah. And just again, like I feel so bad because we can't we at the moment where we can't divulge like what has. What the hell has been going on exactly. Long time and why the shows have been all like out of place and all crazy. But I guarantee you the show is gonna be crazy awesome in 2012.
Exactly. It's gonna be go through the roof. You guys are gonna freak out. So I just want to say. Yeah, it's true. That's it. That's what I got. But we'll do this later. So anyway, I mean next week, but happy Holidays and Hanukkah and Christmas and whatever else you celebrate.
Kwanzaa.
Kwanzaa.
Whatever it is.
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