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They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex.

Eyes that mock our sacred institutions. Bedroom eyes, they call them, in a bygone day.

Hey, Emily, you got a boyfriend? Cause my man E here, he just got his heart broken.

He thinks you're kind of cute. A girl's gotta have her standards. Oh my. The women know about shrinkage. Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean? Like laundry? It shrinks.

Can we not talk about shrinkage sex so much?

Are you kidding me? Oh my God, I feel so good.

Being bad feels pretty good. But you know, Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with.

You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex, relationships, and everything in between. For more information about Sex with Emily, go to sex with emily.com where you can listen to our podcasts. Check out the blogs videos, sign up for mailing list in our RSS feed and I have a new YouTube channel that is going to be launching soon. You can go to YouTube sex with Emily and you can also find me on Facebook. My fan page is Sex with Emily and also on Twitter, Emily Morse. M O R C. You need to promote the app.

You need to promote the app.

I need to promote my 101 sex tips from Sex with Emily iPhone app.

Yeah, I was, I just came from meeting about an app before I got here.

You did?

I just said, hey, wait a minute. Emily needs to talk about her app.

I do. It's 101 sex tips and you can get it on your iPhone or in the app store and it's really popular and people love it because they're easy to digest little bite sized tips. So I'm here with the White Menace and we are doing three shows a week now, as you know. And so we're, we are doing a special show right now on the testicles or the balls?

On the testes. Now you haven't really told me too much about what you want to talk about when it comes to the ball. The testy satchel. The rosin bag.

Exactly. Family jewels. Yeah, Right. Okay, tell me. I actually had some questions for you. Minus. Okay, but tell me, how do you feel about ball play when a woman plays with your testicles?

I'm not into it at all.

Really? Don't like it? Like it's uncomfortable?

Yeah, it's very uncomfortable.

It hurts. What if they do it like lightly and gently?

Yeah, it's uncomfortable. Any anyway. Even with the mouth.

Really?

Yeah.

And how about when you're. Do you ever touch your balls?

Do I ever touch my balls?

Like when you're masturbating. You really don't so you just ignore them?

Yes.

I wonder if you have not had a woman appropriately touch them before.

Like I wonder if maybe.

But I think this kind of goes back to maybe the hand job debate a little bit. Like wouldn't I know how would be the best way to touch my own balls.

But maybe you just don't touch them enough and you don't know how they could feel good if a woman. Like we're going to give some tips here for women and what they can do and for men too. You can share this with your partner, but there's a lot of guys, for example, who I know a story about a guy who never touched it, never had his touch and then he was with a woman who really knew what to do and he's like blown away by it. So it could be this neglected part of your body that you don't even know. You could have all these sensations.

Yeah, but is it like this company by Fellatio again, fellatio is a part.

Of it, but the balls should also be a part of it. You should at least try it out. Here's some tips. Okay, ready? During oral sex, typical. Typically kissing and sucking would be appropriate. However, if this doesn't seem at all like the only thing you want to do, let them know you aren't neglecting by cupping and squeezing the balls softly while you're licking other areas. Feel free to experiment during all positions when having sex. If on top, sit up and reach back to grope and fondle. It's sure to add stimulation and perhaps take them by surprise in a good way. A position just as doggy style makes such touching the testes accessible and stimulating. Reaching behind in between your legs is a great way to give them a gentle tug. Gentle tickle or squeeze. So it's, I mean, for a long time I never touched them like I thought, oh my God, be careful. It's better that the guy just. What if you hurt him and he buckles over in pain? But I found that men, if you're like really gentle, like licking or touching or like with your fingernails, like you lightly tickle that it does feel good to a lot of men. Not you, apparently. But you don't have any.

We're gonna get a thousand emails saying how they love it, you know.

No, I don't know. But honey, you know the hands on debate. We're coming. I mean, in the last few weeks we've gotten a ton of people that side with you, honey. Yeah, it's half and half. So I want to hear from you guys. What do you think? Women and men, do you play with the balls? Do you not play with the balls? Like I had to learn, Like I had to learn this. Like I remember years ago, I was like, wow. I ignore him because I'm so afraid. I'm afraid I'm going to hurt him.

Now. What do you do with them?

Well, that's a good question. Thanks for asking. I thought you'd never ask. He just put his feet up as if, as if I'm going to entertain you with my ball stories. I gently will like lick or he's looking at me like I lick or you put them in your mouth, but really, really carefully. You like put, like you suck them and you lick them or you just cup them. So if you're performing oral sex, you like, I like cup them with my hand and just, like, gently move them around. Like those. Like those balls that you get in Chinatown or whatever. What are they?

Yeah, the stress balls.

The stress balls. And you gently move them around. Like, never too hard. But I feel like men are never like, ouch. Like, they're. Cut it. Down with it.

Now, do you add any, like, maybe kind of lubricants or maybe something that you can taste? Maybe some chocolate?

No, not chocolate, but you put saliva or lube is always helpful for any sexual interactions.

Okay.

Yep. So it's not all the time. Like, I'm not, like, every single time.

I don't make, like, a banana split or anything.

No, but that's not a bad idea. And I'm so hungry right now. I just had some M and Ms. Okay, so here's some more tips, so don't forget about the perineum either. This is the area between the scrotum and the anus that is sensitive and full of pleasure. Perineum.

They don't call that on the street of the.

Yeah, they do.

They call it the taint.

The taint. It's the taint. Lightly massaging this while cupping his testicles during oral sex will be the icing on the cake. Lick, fondle, suck, hold, kiss, squeeze softly, tug, motivate. The possibilities are endless.

I don't know if I'm gonna recommend to women to pleasure the taint. No, that's not the most cleanliest area.

Well, shower first. But it could feel really good. I don't think you've ever had a woman really play with that, have you, Anya?

Yeah, I've attempted, but I just don't like it.

He doesn't feel good.

Yeah.

You're like, ouch.

It hurts.

Really?

Yeah.

I just wonder sometimes if men are just kind of like, oh, he's going near my buttock. I don't want anyone near there. So I think that it's the kind of thing when you talk about expanding your sex life and growing your sex life. It's the kind of thing that it's just. You should just try it. You should just really let, like, take deep breaths if a woman ever goes there and just see how it feels. Because you might be. I'm telling you, you're never. You're never done expanding sexually. Like, you're never just, like, I know all the sexual sensations right now, and so I am done. I mean, this is the point of sex. And this show is hopefully, I'm giving you reasons to expand your mind and expand your sexual repertoire every week. So I'm not saying that you have to go out and do everything every day, but there's little things you could do that people constantly are growing. Their sex life, and it's getting better and better and better. So you might be surprised.

Can I ask you something else?

Please. Shoot.

What type of grooming do you prefer?

That's a great question. I prefer, you know, I'm not that uptight about the grooming and the men. I think that it's nice if they trim, if it's, like, wild down there. But I don't know, maybe I'm just old school. Like, I don't want him to have spent too much time pruning down there either.

But what about if you're doing something orally? You really want hairs? Because guys do grow hair on.

I mean, I guess it's nice. It's nice if they take care of it, but doesn't really bother you.

Don't want a bear.

It doesn't bother me.

Are you serious?

I'm totally serious. Wow. Doesn't bother me. I'm totally down with whatever. I know men. I guess I am a little old school. Right. Because kids today, like, what, do you shave?

Yeah.

You shave your balls? How often?

Yeah, when I have time. But as much as possible.

Right.

Yeah.

I feel like men mostly do these days, but I'm not, like, freaked out. Like, how a man would be if he saw a big old 70s bush on a woman. Like, I don't freak out about it. Yeah. Any more questions? Really?

Yeah. Now, have you found any guys that have pushed you off from attempting to do any of that stuff?

No.

Okay.

I've never. I've had guys, though, who have said they don't like their testicles. Play with it. Like, doesn't feel good. But mostly I feel like when I have ventured into that area, they, like, groan, which I think means they like it.

Now, have you had a guy that wanted you to step on his testicles? Like with some high heels or something?

Yeah. Never.

Have you haven't?

No, I've never had a guy who wants to.

I've heard about that kind of stuff.

Really?

From television, movies. Not real.

Step on a statute. Everything on television is real.

Yeah, well, people like television is real. Yeah, it is. No, like, people like torturing that area because some.

Some men are really into that could be a fetish that. You want a woman to, like, step on your testicles. Sure. But I've never had a guy ask me to do that.

Yeah.

But thanks for asking. Okay. Sucking on his testicles. Can make for an incredibly sensational experience. And you'll double his pleasure if you simultaneously fondle his shaft. So it's shaft and balls. Next time you're giving him south of the border oral action, take a sexy detour and move your mouth from his main member to the rest of his package. Swirl the tip of your tongue around his scrotum, the loose sack of skin that surrounds his testicles. Then lick his balls with long, sweeping strokes as if you were savoring a delicious ice cream cone. Mix it up and intermittently purse your lips and suck softly on the skin. Or take each testicle all the way into your mouth. So that's what I was talking about. You take each one in separately.

Where is this information posted, and how do women find it?

They listen to Sex with Emily.

Okay. Yeah, I'm just. You know, I'm trying to figure out.

If a woman licked your testicles like an ice cream cone, But I'm. You think that would hurt?

I just find it crazy that women are out there actually studying this. The women that didn't hear about it on this show, they're actually out there.

Or they're talking to each other.

They're finding this on the Internet, studying it and then applying it.

Remember you were giving me. You were giving me.

What's the word? I was gonna say shit but crap.

About any other word, but then.

But then I said it. Yeah, exactly. I try not to swear, but you're giving me crap about that. About what women talk about. And it's like, my friends, we talk about sex a lot. Like, I know how all my friends orgasm on top or the bottom or what they like or what they don't like. I think we learn from each other. Or you just go on the Internet and Google testicles and see what comes up.

I just find it crazy. That women are doing this?

That women are touching men's balls?

No, that they're researching about it.

Yeah. How do you think we get better? We talk to each other. Experiment. I mean, I think I learned by doing too. You know, I'm like, I'm gonna try this. And it, you know, I don't know. I just wrote.

I believe it more that you guys are talking about it than women going on the Internet and studying about it. That's all.

I think people go on the Internet and study everything.

Right. You said just on Entourage that there was the thing about.

Yeah, but I don't know. I just. Yeah, but that was the guy doing it, Right? Obviously, guys do that.

So you Google sex. Sex acts No, I don't. But God, how do you know the guys do?

Because I hear about it. That's the like just in culture that's, you know, it's always the guys.

You look out there, it's like, you know, nerds like reading up. It's never. You find women in movies or in television that they're online studying about sex acts or anything like that.

Yeah, I do it all the time. That's why I am who I am.

Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

Exactly. I'm not having sex right now. I'm just studying sex. Okay, so here's a little bit more about the testicles. So, okay, once you've worked him into a frenzy, switch back to centrally licking his penis as you gently manhandle his balls. Some guys like a little rough, but this can be a super sensitive area. So find out how hard he wants to be touched before applying more. More muscle. One tactical trick is to be. That's going to send him reeling. This is just a suggestion. Use your finger to gently rub his perineum. That's the. What we talked about earlier, the nerve packed patch of skin between the scrotum and his anus, which is also known as the taint. And you're likely to launch him into orgasmic or what we said earlier. So yeah, these are all, these are all tips that you can do with the. Yeah, I think that you should explore if you're a woman, play with it. Because I literally for years just kind of forgot about it. I was like, men, I'm afraid to hurt him. And I think we're not touch them. And then when I started learning more and studying and reading about balls on the Internet, I started to learn that men know but that. That some men do like it. And I think you'd be surprised, men as I think that you would be into it too.

All right, okay. You ought to see and find that lady that's. Read it. Read up on it.

Exactly, exactly. Or listen to Sex with Emily. Okay, everyone, thanks for listening to the show. We really appreciate it. You could find me on, you know, Facebook Sex with Emily fan page or Twitter Emily Morsemorse. And what else? YouTube and sexwithemily.com sex with emily.com thanks so much for listening. Was it good for you? Email me feedbackexwithemily.com.

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