7 Dec 2025 · 55 min
Emily Morse and Menace discuss how to communicate about orgasms and ejaculation with partners, emphasizing consent and clear signals before any act. They cover practical etiquette like asking permission for facials and never forcing a partner's head, then announce upcoming episodes and membership benefits.
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They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex.
Eyes that our Sacred institutions. Bedroom eyes, they call them in a bygone day. Hey, Emily, you got a boyfriend? Cause my man E here, he just got his heart broken. He thinks you're kind of cute.
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Isn't it common knowledge?
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You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex, relationships, and everything in between. For more information about Sex with Emily, go to sexwithemily.com thanks, everyone, for emailing me at feedbackexwithemily.com so great to get your emails, and we are getting through a lot of them. And I read everyone. Today's topics include lasting longer in bed, sex between the breasts, giving oral sex, masturbating after doing kegel exercises, asking women out, how to have casual relationships with women, and live cameras. Those are some of the topics. And also, our big sex tip today is all about ejaculation etiquette. You know, it's important to have etiquette around other things. You know, you talk about. What were we talking about earlier in the office? We were talking about.
Right? Well, it's funny because we were talking about ejaculation etiquette, and one of my interns turned to me and said, does man juice one word or two? Is there a hyphen? So we're all having fun over here. So it's like, what should you do? What are the right rules? There's rules for everything else. We're going to talk about the etiquette and also, I just want to give a shout out to my sponsor, Adam and Eve. Adam and Eve is awesome. Any sex toy that you want to buy, anything that you've been looking for, you've been wanting to get into sex toys or you want to get some lingerie, porn, whatever, go to AdamandEve.com Enter Coupon Emily at checkout. It's that easy. You get three. What do you get? You get a lot. You get. They're like, so cool, these sponsors. They throw in three adult DVDs and a free gift and free shipping and 50% off most items to Sex with Emily listeners. We also have a daily poll on our website, which you have to check out. Today's question is, how long do you like an entire sex session to last? So this comes up a lot People are like, you know, how long it. Susan, Menace, he's going to be here in a second. He always talks about like, well, how long do you see, we want specifics from you. Like, how long does a woman want abc? So I want to know, do you think it should last 30 minutes, 15 minutes or 60 minutes? What do you think? What's the ultimate sex? What is the ultimate time that it should last? Or is it 60 minutes? Too much time? Is 15 minutes too short? We want to know. We want you to be interactive on our website. Tell us what you think. So, okay, I've got a lot to talk about today. I had two dates this weekend and I actually kind of wanted to wait till Menace got here. So I'm thinking I might go into some sex in the news because I don't have to repeat this, but I had two dates. You're gonna hear the hilarity that ensued because now I'm talking about the show and telling everyone my stories and what's going on on a daily basis. And I had some interesting run ins that I'll get back to in a minute. Okay. Some sex in the news.
Here we go. Graveyard sex may have caused a tombstone to roll over on a New Jersey woman's leg. So apparently some woman was having sex in a graveyard. You know, whatever turns you on. And it turns out that she was rushed to the hospital, it rolled over on her leg, where she may have been engaged in a sexual act. According to local police, there may have been some extracurricular activities. Captain James Stevens of Hamilton Township told. He added he didn't think the woman was seriously injured in the accident. Okay, so anyway, whatever. She's having sex in a graveyard. I've heard people do this, but that would kind of be a bummer, right? Who knows what rolled over on her, right? We have no idea. But something rolled over on her and hopefully that's the last time she'd be having sex in a graveyard. What up, Menace?
Hi.
How you doing?
Good.
I'm saving some stories for you because.
Whoa.
Oh my God. I just knocked over the camera. Sorry.
It's okay.
I'm running on like four hours of sleep.
It's cool. Well, we had it all set up like perfectly for like. Aaron, can you. It was like we just spent.
You're good. I went to film school.
Hi, Manus.
Sorry, I just come in late and then I knock over the camera right away.
Yeah, that sucks. I was getting some sex in the news. But I'm glad you're here because I have a lot of things to tell you.
Okay.
Okay.
All right. There, my mic's on now. It was on mute, right?
That's good, because you weren't solid.
Anyways.
Hi. Hi.
How you doing?
Good. How are you?
I'm good.
Okay, so I've got some stuff to tell you.
Okay.
I had to wait till you got here.
What happened?
I know you'd appreciate it. All right, we'll go back to sex in the news and ejaculation etiquette coming up. Because men ejaculate. This is what our sex tips are for today. Just to warn you. It's about ejaculation etiquette and. Or what to do with your man juice. Okay, we're gonna talk about that.
Places to put.
But I need to tell you about this craziness that went down this weekend with my dates. So, you know, I talked about. Okay, so on Friday, I had two dates. I talked about a Friday during a Friday show that I had two dates over the weekend. One guy called me five minutes before the show on Friday. I was running into the show and he said, emily, he called me, you know what I did for a living? And I was like, oh, God, I have this. I have a sex talk radio show. I'm about to go on the air. And then I was like, oh, God, he's heard all my stories. He didn't know what I did in that time. You remember where I talked about this? Okay, so. And then you knew I had a date Saturday night.
Yeah.
So I go out on a date with this guy on Saturday to the museum. You can roll your eyes right now if you'd like to.
To the museum? Yes.
Yes. So he asked me to go to the Walt Disney Museum, which is a new museum in the Presidio.
Okay.
So he leaves me a message and he says. He says. Leaves me a voice message. Hey, Emily, this is. Whatever his name is, Bob.
We'll call him. Okay.
Emily. Yeah. So leaves me a voice message. We're going to go to museum on Saturday about three. And my mom's in town visiting. And then another family friend. I thought we'd all go to the museum. And then he leaves me another. And I'm thinking, okay, so I'm going to meet the mom. It's a blind date, first date, whatever. That's interesting. And then he gives me a second message and says, actually, if you'd rather just get tea beforehand, we could do that too.
Now it's tea, right?
So then I thought to myself, okay, you know what? Someone bringing their mom on a date that's bizarre. I'm going for that one. Sign me up for the mom date. Because my mother always told me, look how a man treats his mother. And that's how he's going to treat him. So I thought, well, I can look at how he treats his mother.
That'll be like, automatically think like mama's boy. Like, you're always gonna have to deal with the mom if he's taking you out. You and the mom on the first date. How awkward is that?
Awkward.
I'm. I'm glad that you continued. You didn't say no or I don't know how it went, but I'm just saying I'm glad that you didn't shut it down right away.
I didn't shut it down. In fact, I had the option to shut it down, but I thought, how interesting. Let me see. The mother, let me see. The mom was visiting and he doesn't live here, he lives in la. So he was only visiting for. He was only in town for two days.
Because I'm out of San Francisco, guys. I've dated them all. So, anyway, so, okay, so we go to the museum and I meet him at the museum. And we're walking through the museum and I get a text. Oh, sorry, back up. As I'm driving to the museum, I get a text from my 7:00 clock date saying, would you want to go with me to the SF Momo Museum at 5:00 clock tonight instead? Or before our first date? Right. The guy I've been dating, he's like, hey, Emily, 5:00 @ the Momo. Can you do that? And I said, I gotta let you know. Let me, let me, let me know how the rest of my afternoon goes. I'll let you.
Know. How much stuff do you need to pack into one day? You should have said, I'm already.
Busy. Well, because we were going out at 7 and he just wanted to know if I could make it to five. And in my mind I'm going. I haven't been to the MOMA in a while. I should go to the SF moma, which is our, like, beautiful museum in the city. And I'm rushing to get to my first date. He's my second date and he wants to change plans. I'm like, let me get back to you. I'm running into the date. So I meet the date, his mom, and I meet his mom and his family friend and we go. We're going around the museum and then I go to the bathroom. I get this text. Okay, I get A text from my 7:00 clock date saying he had been. He says to me, I had to write this down. Irony, question mark. So you're on a date at the museum, but asking to wait until after your date at the museum to tell me if you can go with me to the museum. So he had listened to Friday's show where I mentioned that I was going on a museum date, and he had listened to my show while I was at the. On my.
Date. Oh.
No. So does that make.
Sense?
Yeah. He listened to my show where I was talking about going on the date with the guy, so he knew that I was already at a museum. And I said, let me get back to you. He's like, so you're basically, you're waiting to see how the date goes to let me know if you're available at.
5. You should say you're no longer available. That's when you should have just put the foot.
Down. Exactly. I should have just said no. That's too many museums, too many days, too many guys, too many.
Things. I'll talk to you.
Later.
Boom. You would take the power back right.
There. I know. I messed up. So anyway, I.
Thought. What did you.
Do? I just. I just said no. I actually wanted to go to 4:30 yoga. I don't really want to go to the museum at 5. I had nothing to do with the date because I knew I'd be out of the date by 4:30. Anyway, it was really about yoga. It wasn't about the fact, do I think this guy's my dream lover of life? But I said no, really, it was about yoga. So that's true. So that's what happened. So anyway, the guy was great. The date. I liked him. And I got to tell you, having the mom on the date, she was amazing. She was so cool. We had this great conversation. We got into like, deep stuff about therapy and who we are. And it was. It was interesting and so really.
Cool. It sounds like a blast. I wish I was there.
Yeah. Anyway, it was.
Fun. You should cut off the. The. The listening to the show guy.
That's. Well, he never has listened to the show before, so he's dead. He's never gonna listen again because he doesn't want to hear about. He said that was the first and last time he's listening to the show. He's like, irony listening to your show for the first time. And I know you're on a date right.
Now. I don't know. He could be totally awesome. But I'm just saying, I don't know. You keep on bringing up bad stories on, you know, the thing. The awkward situation at the party. And now it's like listening to the show and being all butthurt about, like, how you're at some other boring museum that day, you.
Know? But he knows that I'm not. We're not exclusive so we can date other people. He's like, you're not doing anything wrong. I just think it's kind of funny and whatever. Of course I'm not doing anything wrong because we're dating other.
People. Sounds like he has too much time on his.
Hands. I know. Why are you sitting home on a Saturday listening to my show anyway? So it was just very confusing. I thought you would find that amusing. How was your.
Weekend? My weekend was jam packed. My. Finally, my. My busiest week, one of my busy. I have two busy weeks of the year. One is towards December and one is in the first week of June and it's finally over. It was amazing. Got to hang out with the Strokes. Love the Strokes. Linkin Park. Got to hang out with all these amazing.
People. When you say hang out, Menace.
Like we're hanging out backstage and talking.
Be like, hey, what up? Like, having a beer.
Cool. I got to go on stage in front of 20,000 people and say, you know, this is. This ban and all that kind of.
Stuff. Right? That's so cool, Menace, you're so big to.
Me. It's very weird because, you.
Know. Did you get stoned with Snoop.
Dogg? Snoop.
Dogg?
No. I wish I.
Did. I know. I saw that on your tweet.
Bummer.
Sure. He was baked, right? Isn't he.
Always? There was, yeah, there was people enjoying marijuana.
There. There was some marijuana intake. We're in San Francisco. Who we kidding?
Right? Yeah. So it was. It was a really good time, but I'm very happy that it's over and now I can get some rest and focus on other.
Things. Good. Well, I'm glad that you are here right now. Menace is not a.
Camera. Yeah, I'll be like a little screen in the corner, right? I don't want like, you know, full on.
Screen. No.
Why?
No? Because it's tan thing.
I'm just gonna buy you like a tanning boots. I know, I understand. Don't.
Worry. But I did get a haircut. You.
Didn'T. I know, I didn't.
Notice. No, no, no, it's.
Cool. No, no.
No. I totally noticed my.
Haircut. No, I did, I did, I did. When did you get it? When'd you get.
It? Like, right before the.
Concert? Yeah, I did.
Notice. It looks.
Great. No, it.
Doesn'T. You look.
Fabulous. My. My assistant was. She was.
Me.
Why? Because I didn't have time to, like, do it.
Up. What, like gel? Yeah, I think it's better when men don't have time to do their.
Hair. Because I, like, slept from. Sorry. People are watching on the show, watching the show on the Internet, and now they're calling me. But anyways.
I only, like, slept for hours. So I was just like. I just got up and went straight to.
Work. I'm calling. I just called you by mistake. I'm calling you right now. Don't.
Answer. And she was making fun of me. So then I. I got her. I got back to her. I was like, oh, thank you for putting on some makeup this morning. And then she, like, totally shut up. It was.
Funny.
Okay. Because she. She also went to the.
Concert. Oh, right. How many? Were you guys out, like, partying all.
Night? No, it was about till.
11. I was gonna bother you about something.
But. Yeah, it's so, like. Believe me, I've seen enough emails. You bothering me and people. So I've been really. You don't need to call.
Me. I'm really trying to cut down my email time. So it's like trying to compile all my thoughts into one email so then I can send them out rather than one email time because people don't like.
That. I've.
Learned. Yeah, people would rather get one email from me a.
Day. I love the emails, too, that tell you things that I've been telling you for years. It is. You never listen to me, ever. And then when somebody else says it, you're like, okay, I get it.
Now. Because you're a.
Menace.
Telling you for five years the same.
Thing. I know because sometimes I turn my head from the mic and then you can't hear me. It's like this. That's.
Weird.
Sounds so much better now because one other person said.
Something. So that's how it is. Like your parents tell you to study. They tell you to do something, tell you to sing. But then someone else tells you. It's like you can't listen. You're like my parent in a way. Okay. I think that. Oh, here's another thing. So my blind date that I went on on Saturday, he did not. Okay. Apparently I made a decision. You know Facebook. There's all the Facebook security controls. Can someone see your pictures? Can they not see your pictures? So I changed my profile recently so people can see my pictures who are not my friends, because I Had it blocked before. Mm. What do you do with that? You probably leave it open to.
Everybody. I leave that open, but I don't let people see photos that I've been tagged in because 95% of the time, the photos, I don't like them. Don't. Because, you know, tag yourself. Yeah, but it's already went into my feed and already.
Told. Oh, I got it in a photo.
Okay. And I see the photo and it's like, you know, I'm drunk. Passed out somewhere right the middle of the street. Like, I don't want people to.
See. No, no. So you probably.
Shouldn'T.
Yeah. Be getting drunk in the street.
Anymore. So I. I think that's pretty much the only thing I.
Block. Okay. So I made mine open, so I had mine all blocked. So it was like, you got to my page. You got to my. My home.
Page. It's very.
Welcoming. I don't want everyone to see my whole.
Life.
Yeah. Because my life, my personal page is my fan. It's like I have fans on the page with whatever. But he's like, I'm really glad you didn't block your pictures, because that's how he looked me up because we were set up on a blind date and I was like, is that a good thing or a bad thing that he was able to see all my pictures? Like, I almost wish that I didn't. I wish that he. With the part that he missed was the sex with Emily. That's my profession. He's like, didn't look at that. Like, love dudes. What a dude. No, he didn't know. He didn't know. He's like, I did not know that you did a show. I just went right for the pictures. Which kind of makes me feel like, didn't he want to see that I was a well rounded person and look at my interests? Don't you want to see what television shows I like? No. Picture, picture, picture, picture, picture. And didn't notice sex with Emily. But.
Whatever. Visual. We're all visual. I know guys are.
Visual. He's like, well, it's a good thing you didn't block him. So if I had blocked him, what I'm wondering is, what would he have? I guess he would have googled me. I did not google him, by the way. Anyway, it was an awesome date and we're gonna go out again whenever he's back in town. It was fine. It was.
Good. And the mom Disney.
Museum. Cool. The Disney Museum is awesome. You should go there. Do you like.
Disney? Yeah, I love.
Disney. Oh, my God. It's really cool. I didn't get to. We'll.
Go.
Okay. We have so many.
Plans. All.
Right. No, but I thought it was amazing. It was beautiful museum. It's in the Presidio of San Francisco. It's all about Walt Disney and his life and his, like, life in the beginning of time when he was born from a baby till. Till he.
Died. I think that's weird that it would be in San Francisco, but that's the.
Thing. But it turns out that his family is in San Francisco. He's got some family here that decided to build the museum. Everyone thought it should be in la, and there was some controversy about it, but.
It'S. But I think you would have. It would go. It would be lost in all the cheesiness of Los.
Angeles. Yeah.
Exactly. It would be.
Appreciated. It's a really classy, well done museum. So anyone comes San Francisco, add that to your list of things to do, and it's a good first.
Date. So anyways, so wait, how did the first initial thing happen when you met him? It's like, oh, hi, nice to meet you. By the way, here's my.
Mom. Yeah. So I'm pulling up in my car, random friend in my little mini. And I'm pulling up and I get a good spot in front, but she comes up to my window and she says, we parked over there and I didn't know who it was. And she knocked on my window and I was like, hi. And she's like, oh, hi. So I met the mom before I met him. And she was like, we parked over. Hi, I'm. I'm. I can't remember her name. I'm so. And so's mom. I don't like telling people's names, but so then I said, oh, thanks. I think I'm just gonna park here. And then we all walk inside and it was completely easy. Flow of conversation. She was just lovely. You can tell a very warm, wonderful.
Person. Sounds like.
Party. It was a party. And we all walked around and we talked and I got to know him a little bit. And he says that all the women that he's dated in the past get engaged right after he dates them. So if I'm looking to engage, he could be a good guy today. Oh, but I'm.
Not.
Movie. Yeah, it's like the.
Movie. There was a movie like.
That? Yes. And I don't know if I. Yes, it was good luck, Chuck. Yep, exactly. But he actually. Can I tell you.
Something? Yeah, go.
Ahead. I think I can say this because it's public knowledge. Although now you're gonna know who he is, so forget it. I'm not gonna say it. I can't say.
It. Okay, I will not ask. I'll ask.
Okay? I'll tell you after the show. It's a good.
Story. Oh, you can't do that to.
The listeners, God damn.
It. So don't tell.
Me. Okay? Wink, wink.
Wink. Can I ask you something.
Else?
Yes. So maybe I should start a new thing where if I go on a date with a girl, I'm like, yeah, we can go out, but only if your dad comes along and hangs out. Yeah, maybe you're starting a new.
Thing. Maybe I'm starting a new trend. I felt. No, honestly, the way my mind works was okay here. I listened to two messages. One was, come to the museum with my mom and the kid. And then a minute later calls me back, says, you have the option for out. And in my Emily, twisted mind, I'm like, meet the mom. See him with people, see him interact. Why have a one on one? I'm so tired of that. Who do you. Where'd you go to school? What do you do? Why not see him in action, See the family, see the thing. And like my mom said, look how a man treats his mother. That's how he's gonna treat you. And he treated his mother very well, by the way. And why not meet someone's family? So, yeah, you know, I. And I was telling a friend about this, and I'm like, what do you think about this story? She goes, would. She goes, well, I go, so do you think that's interesting? Would you have done that? I would never go on a date, a first date with a guy and his mom. So I guess some people would think that's insane. And I.
Thought. But I'm very happy that you.
Did it, because it's good. It's a good story.
Come on, give me that.
Okay. It's really.
Good. Awesome. All right, let's go back to some news, because you already started some sex. And I wanted to wait and tell you my dating stories because I knew that you would need to. Need to hear.
Them. Sorry, I'm trying to get here, but I'm very. I'm very proud of you for being able to start up everything. Well, my interns together. You put all your minds together together. And you got the technical stuff working. That is.
Amazing. I know. I love my interns and love, love, love them. Okay, so the other thing is. Is that. Yeah. Sex in the news. But then what was I Just going to tell you.
Emails.
Emails. We got the technical stuff. I don't.
Know.
Okay. Distracted.
Me.
Sorry. I distracted myself. Not blaming you for my own distractions.
Cool. You blame me for everything. It's.
Fine. I do blame you for everything. Reese Witherspoon, Slam stars who make sex takes. So the MTV Music.
Awards. I guess she's gonna come out with.
One. Yeah, you're right. It's always like. Yeah, it's always like, the repressed gay, like, Republican, who's the one who's actually the one who's, like, anti gay, who's the one who's actually getting blowjobs from his. His room, his boyfriend, his legislative aide in the Senate. So. Okay. Rhys Witherspoon, Slam stars who make sex tapes. So I guess MTV Awards were last night or the last few nights. And Paris Hilton, Kim Kardashian might have been blushing as they watched. Reese Witherspoon at Sunday night's MTV Music Awards accepting her MTV Generation Award. She slammed stars who have appeared in sex tapes and nude photo sex scandals, telling them they should be ashamed of themselves. So she said, I get it, girls, that it's cool to be a bad girl. The mom of two told the crowd, but it is possible to make it in Hollywood without doing a reality show. If you made a sex tape, you were embarrassed and hid on your bed. When I came to this business. So she's talking about then Gossip Girl, because Blake Lively, these pictures came out saying, like, did she do a sex tape? And then Reese says, and if you take naked pictures of yourself on your cell phone, you hide your face, people. You hide your face. Which is why we.
Say.
She was saying that when she was accepting an.
Award. Yes, she.
Did. No way. That's. She must be saying that when she was.
Presenting.
No. What was she accepting the award.
For? Generation Generational Something. She was accepting the.
Award. Oh. For being.
Like. And that was her message. Like, some people get up and they, like, protest the war. Some people get up and they talk about, you know, whatever. The writers strike. She got up and talked about girls.
Who. Reese.
Witherspoon. Yeah. Because her man cheated on her and left.
Her. Well, I'm sure she's moved past.
That.
Yeah. And she. Probably for better. She's with her age. She married her.
Agent. Good. Keep it in. Keep the business.
Going. Exactly. I want to marry my agent because my career would just be. If I married my.
Agent.
Yeah. My career, the focus. He'd be like, you're. I'm all about you and your.
Career. There's A lot. There's a lot of women that will. They get with their agents and they marry them. And then once they. The career starts, really get going. That's when they dump.
Them.
Yeah.
Yeah. Oh, my God. You just painted my whole future. So I'm not gonna marry my agent. Okay, so I won't marry my.
Agent. No. I need you to progress in your.
Career. Oh, man. Okay. I am progressing.
Honey. Just for a year at.
Least. So sleep with them for a.
Year.
No. Let me tell you the one thing about the mom being on the date. Can I go back to that story for one.
Second?
Yeah. The mom asked me if I wanted children. And that's kind of the.
Question. That's kind of.
Crazy. But she wasn't asking a press in a sweet way like, oh, do you want kids? And so that's usually something that you have a conversation with when you're dating someone, like later on or early on, the older you.
Get. You got hit with it the first.
Day. The first day. And she was like, how old are you? Oh, do you want kids? And I was just like, we don't really talk about this on the first date. But I did answer the questions and the answer was, I don't know. I don't want to talk about it now. But I just wanted to share with you that those were some awkward moments. But it really, all in all, was an amazing date. Loved it. Okay. And then my 7 o' clock date was good, too. And he. And another museum. No, we missed the museum because I was in another museum. And then I wanted to go to yoga, which really, I was not blowing him off. It was yoga that I wanted.
To. How many people in your yoga class have.
Ponytails?
None.
None.
Awkward. Why you think all yoga people. So wait. Okay. So, Menace, you're attributing ponytails to swingers now and.
Yogis?
Yes. Not yes. No one has.
Ponytails. How many younger guys are in.
There? Some, actually. I just met a yoga guy with a ponytail, but he actually had his hair down. You could tell he had previously had a pony. Like, he had the scrunchie from his hair had been in a ponytail, but he took it.
Down.
Yeah. Not a good look. I'm not judging, though. There are a whole genre of women who love the man with the ponytail. Not my.
Luck. More.
Power. Okay, students can be expelled for sexting under new California bill. You might want to stop and think before sending those naked pictures of yourself to your paramour. Especially if you're in California. There's a state Senate bill As passed to make sexting an expellable offense in the state. So you cannot sex anymore if you are a teenager. Thank God. But do we really need laws about this stuff? Can't the parents put some kind of control on the phone or.
Something? I mean, I think kids are actually sex at that. At that.
Age. Yeah. But they're sexting more than we are. I don't know. I.
Guess.
Yeah. Just gotta be.
Careful. Yeah. It's. You just can't be sending photos. You gotta just really say, look, this stuff is gonna get out. If you're gonna. If you're gonna. If you're gonna send this stuff, it's gonna get out at this age. Your whole school's gonna see.
It. Everybody. I remember when I kissed a boy in school, like, the next day. The first time I'd ever kissed a boy, like, in seventh grade. And everyone knew the next day, like, everyone. Kevin talks about stuff. And then I didn't kiss anyone again for years because I was so afraid that everyone's gonna talk about.
Me.
Yeah. I think that we should get into some. Well, okay. Coming up. Coming up. Which is very exciting. We are going to have ejaculation.
Etiquette. All.
Right. But first we should get into some.
Emails. My favorite part of the.
Show. I know.
Okay. I like how. Right. On the website, too. It's very clear on how to, you know, interact with the show on the.
Website. It is, right? I mean, you guys understand. Still work in progress. It's a beta site. We're still making changes. But you can directly write me an email right from the.
Site.
Yeah. And we're going to be answering your emails on the site. And what were you going to say about it? What else do you like about.
It? I just like how it's really easy to interact. There's even polls that you can answer on there.
Too. Oh, I. Earlier. We have a poll up there right now. Everyone go answer the poll because we'll be reading the results tomorrow. And the poll question is. Approximately how long do you like an entire sex session to last? 13. It's like 30 minutes, 15 minutes or 60.
Minutes. I would say four.
Hours. No, you wouldn't. What is your. I bet you. And then. Yeah. What would be your ideal.
Menace? I don't know.
Honestly, I don't know. It.
Depends.
Okay. Depends on my energy.
Level. Thanks for.
Nothing.
What?
Okay. It varies. If I'm like, you know, I have a full night's rest and as long as I can go, okay. You know, but if I'm tired Then, you know, maybe a minute or.
Two. Speaking of, as long as you can go. I think I'm gonna start with this letter right now because it has to do with your infamous sex tips. I try to give, like, clinical sex tips. Menace is the kind of ghetto gift. Thank you. Thank you. You.
Ready?
Yeah. Hi, I'm Leah Menis. I've been listening to the podcast recently. Here's my take on how men can last longer in bed. I tried a few things, from thinking about things I have to do today to analyzing the situation just so I can take my mind off the moment I must. And this I don't even want to read. I don't even want to read. But I'm going to read.
It. It's.
Emerging. I must agree with Menace on alcohol. Yes. This time I've been able to last the longest by consuming.
Alcohol. Oh.
Yeah. I don't drink before sex for that reason. I just know that if I have sex after I drink, it's pretty much easy to last as long as I want without a.
Condom.
Yeah. My fiance and I laugh about it. We haven't given it much thought to why it happens that way. I just want to give my input on one of your previous episodes.
Joel. But you can't just be drinking every single.
Time. No. And don't listen to.
Menace. No, but.
It'S. No, it's. Sometimes it.
Helps. Like, if, you know, if you want this session that lasts a little longer that day, then, you know, have a. You know, have a cocktail, a little nip or something. You know, something.
Good. Right? I love that. I give all the advice, man. It's like, I tried everything, man. This is right. I'm just gonna get wasted. No, don't. And you actually can't have. You can't. You won't be able to.
Ejaculate. It's hard. Alcohol, people do not drink beer because you're gonna feel like crap. And don't drink that crappy wine. Like wine. And like Emily does. Ugh. It's like bark off a tree. It's.
Terrible. Madison, you just got a developed, sophisticated.
Palate. Oh, I do have a sophisticated palette. It's called Captain Morgan and Patron. It's.
Delicious. Captain Morgan and Patron. Is.
That. No, it's like one's Captain Morgan. That's a.
Wrong. I just learned about your spiced.
Rum. And then Patron is a tequila that I.
Know. Okay. Right. Yeah. And.
We. And Cabo Wabo, which I like a.
Lot.
Yeah. So they need to be a.
Sponsor. They should.
Be.
Yeah. Yeah. Okay. We're always looking for sponsors. If you're listening to the show and you want a sponsor, you can email me and maybe you can sponsor it. That would be awesome. Hey, Emily Menis. Want to say thanks for giving a free month subscription gift. I signed up today to see how the new site goes since I do not live in the Bay Area anymore, moved to Michigan last summer, and I can't buy you a beer or a sandwich. I may just keep subscribing after the month. I love the show. Jeff, that was from.
Facebook. Wow. Thanks.
Jeff. Thanks, Jeff. You're.
Awesome. Spread the good.
Word. Yeah. Everyone tell your friends. It's a good gift. You can also subscribe for three months. There's a three month option. There's a one month option. And I think you're gonna get addicted and you're just gonna have to do it all year long because it's daily and awesome sex.
Tips. There's. There's another thing that I want to promote. On the top of sexwithemily.com, you can Facebook like the actual page itself. And I know some people might be afraid to Facebook like the page because it says sex in it. But, you know, here's a little. Here's a little secret. I'm gonna just share it between you and.
I.
Okay? Everybody has sex. So don't worry about letting other people know that you like a webpage that has sex in it. Don't worry. It's not a porno site. There's no pornographic material on there. I apologize for the people that are looking for pornographic.
Material. I'm.
Sorry.
You know what? You can enjoy your porn and listen to the show at the same.
Time.
Exactly. It's all.
Good. It's all good. So like sex with.
Emily? Yeah, like.
Sex. And we appreciate that. It all helps. Okay. I was delighted to hear you read a message from another listener about sex between the breasts. I too, would love that if I had a partner to do it with. I would also love the woman on top position for intercourse so I could play and lick her breasts. From Collins. He writes this all the time. So you brought up sex between the breasts, didn't.
You? No, no, it was a. It was a. It was an.
Email. Oh, it was an.
Email.
Yeah. But then I thought you had something to say about.
It. I said that? You know, I try. It doesn't really do anything for me, but I do know people that really enjoy.
It.
Right?
Yeah. Okay, cool. Thanks, Colin. I love when people love.
Stuff.
Wow. I sometimes, Emily, just listening to the show where the woman was complaining about her man being stingy with oral and was wondering how she could get him to give her more. Since we're very results oriented, all men should know that the great. That great oral combined with some good foreplay can completely transform the way the woman feels inside. Plus, it's just plain fun to watch your partner have a great, crazy good orgasm from the oral you give her if her man isn't doing his job in the oral department, that he doesn't know what he's missing. Paul, I love a man who knows about good oral, that it's important.
And you can learn.
It. You can learn it. If you don't know it, you can learn.
It. So make your, you know, make your man like a delicious.
Dinner. That's not gonna do it. Then he's gonna be full and be like, I'm not really mean for sex. Can you watch.
SportsCenter? Oh, he'd be like, you know, this is how you can pay me for.
Dinner. I think some men just don't like it and don't understand and don't know what to do. And that's what we try to tell. Give them tips every day. Yeah, I do think that. Or they don't. They don't. They haven't experienced that feeling of connection with a woman when they're really performing oral sex on her. It feels amazing. She's having orgasms. She get back what she gives. She gets what you give. You're all giving to each other and it all feels good. But people don't understand that reciprocal relationship. Like, if you perform on her, she'll give it back. What goes around comes around. Sexually, everyone should be giving. Be givers. Hi, I've been using the Kegel Camp app. I would like to know if it's normal to masturbate after doing the exercises. Okay. So I have a new app called Kegel Camp you can get on itunes. I did not mention it today. I don't believe.
And I'm getting amazing response from it. And it helps men and women. It's the most important exercise that you're not doing. You want to know which one wants to masturbate after doing exercises? Sure, why not? I think that's. I don't like to say that anything is normal or abnormal, but there's. I can tell you that there's no problem if you masturbate. In fact, it does kind of turn you on a little. It can turn you on doing your Kegels. Like you're focusing on that area and you're practicing Those peace stopping muscles. Tense, relax, tense, relax. And that could naturally lead to wanting to.
Masturbate. And how do you get the app again? It's in the itunes.
Store. Itunes store?
Yeah. If you search sex with Emily, it pops up.
Right? It pops up. Yeah. I've got two apps, so. But 101 sex tips and Kegel camp, and you could download them all and you could review it, and that would be.
Awesome. It's so funny that you could give it five.
Stars. That would be even.
Better. I didn't even think about how you have the app, which I apologize, but I was listening to Dr. Drew last night on the radio, and he had a caller that a girl calls up and says, can you overcake? Because she said that she might have been Kegeling too.
Much. Oh, really? I'm sure you can. You can over.
Anything. Yeah, she's like, super short, and her man's like, you know, like six, seven. And she's like, I think I'm over Kegeling because it's. It just becoming. It's hurting too much. And he goes, well, you know, maybe stop.
Cakling.
You probably are over.
Kegeling. And you always forget the best part of the app. Your voice.
Guides. Right. I guide.
You. It's not just for women. It's for men too. Right.
Right. Men should be doing the exercises as well. And I do. And I do narrate you through your Kegel.
Experience. Yeah. It could just be a masterboard. Master Berry.
Tool. A masturbatory.
Tool. Yeah. Sorry, guys. I'm running on four hours of sleep. I'm trying my best to get a second.
Time. Yeah. Good.
Though. Thank.
You. Okay, so, dear Emily, Amen. This is my second time writing in, so this time I just want to bring you some good news instead of a.
Question.
Okay. I love. Okay. I love when you follow up with me that we gave you advice and you like it because it's. It makes me feel good. It makes us feel good. It's a good ego boost. Right. And it makes you feel like, thank God I'm giving good advice, because, you know, I'm like, I'm trying here. So this is my second time writing in, I thought. I just want to bring you some good news instead of a question. Before I do that, I want to tell you how attractive you are. It's so great to listen to a beautiful woman's advice. You talk a lot on your show about guys who don't ask girls out. Well, I saw this attractive girl at work a couple months ago, and I Struck up a conversation with her. We got to talking and I asked her some trivial things like what her favorite food is. My friend and co worker turned out to be a cook. So I felt like the conversation we were having was going to be a success. I asked her out on the same day I first started talking with her. She told me the next day she had a boyfriend, but that didn't get me down. We are pretty good friends till this day and hang out all the time. Thanks so much for what you do. People in my city never talk about sex. Andrew, 18, from Canada. So I think he's referring to the fact of an email that he wrote in where I said, just ask women out. Like, don't overthink it. Don't think, oh, she might say no and have a boyfriend. It doesn't matter. Just the second you're thinking you want to ask someone out, just do it. Yeah, because then you delay and then you fall into the friend zone and she's not going to want to date you. Like, women appreciate a guy who's like, I want to go out with.
You. My favorite thing to say is like, if she says no, you're not going to die. Nothing's.
Wrong. Nothing.
Wrong. Nothing's going to happen all the time, daily, probably every moment of my life. Yeah.
Kinda. But yeah, nothing bad is going to happen to you. You're not going to be injured, Right. Maybe it might hurt your ego a little bit, you might hurt your feelings for a second. But you know what, it's just on to the next.
One. Right? And you're exercising those muscles of just asking people out. Literally it's a muscle that you didn't get more comfortable. Like there are guys who just asked me out walking, hey, do you want to go out? And those are the guys that have practiced and they're getting used to the rejection. You can transcend it. You can transcend those, those feelings. Like the first few times it might be really bad, but otherwise then you just, you become pro at it. It totally helps. I'm wondering. Okay, I think I'm going to move on to some sex tips.
One more email. Where we.
At? Yeah, we're.
Good. Okay. Hey, Emily. Hey. I love the show. Listen, sister, all the time. So my question is about relationships. I got out of this show. I got out of a two and a half year relationship with a girl that I was living with four months ago. This is the first girl I've ever lived with and we thought we were soul mates. I've been living, I have been in Many long term relationships. But this time my heart was broken. In the past, I've always bounced back quickly from failed relationships. But this time it's different. I like going out and meeting women and I love connecting with them and making out. Making out and hooking up. Here's where the crux comes in. Problem. My problem is the women understanding that I am not looking to get involved in a serious relationship. I really like hanging out with them, but I don't want to lead anyone on. I just don't want to come off as an asshole because that's not who I am. Is casual dating possible without someone getting hurt? This goes back to the whole friends with benefits question. I know that if I say to a girl when I first meet her that I don't want a relationship, she will not be interested in talking anymore. How can I be honest about this and not be hated? I'm just not sure how to do that without feeling guilty about it. I really enjoy connecting with girls mentally and physically. But the next day all I can think about is trying to meet and connect with a new girl. I would like to take a few girls, date a few girls at the same time. But I don't know how to do it without leading them.
On.
Help. Thanks, Rob from down South. Okay, Rob, here's the dealio with this. I think that you have to be straight up with these women. Tell them that I'm just dating right now and I'm not looking for a relationship because honesty is the best policy. And you're thinking that they're not going to want to date you. I think they're going to, honestly, the way it works, they're going to want to date you.
More. A lot of times I think it's 50, 50, 50. I think half of them will stay and half of them.
Won'T. Half of them, yeah, exactly. They might be in the same position you're in. You shouldn't make assumptions that, that that's not okay with them. You're already assuming like doing these predictions into the future that these women are going to be upset and they're not going to want to date you. They might just appreciate the honesty. I know whenever a guy's honest, a guy is honest with me about like he's like, hey, this is just, I'm not ready to get in a relationship. I'm just getting over something. I'm just looking to date. And you're honest and you're straightforward with a woman then that she can make her decision. But I think that there's Nothing wrong with that. And you'll actually find that it'll be easier to date. You'll feel that you're being honest and you're not leading him on. If you tell him on the first date, this is what I'm going to do. This is what I'm looking for right now. And I'm just looking to date and have fun and not commit. And then you can weed out the ones who aren't. Right. And there'll be a lot of women who might be in the same.
Position. You don't want to go through it and not tell them, because then you're just going to have more problems than straight.
Up. I mean, I've learned that, like, in the relationships I've gotten in now. Like, it's just, you know, I have a.
Talk. I'm like, you get text messages about, you know, double dating on the same.
Day.
Oh, my God. I just want everyone that I date to not listen to the show. And then my life a lot.
Easier. This weird. You keep on going back and forth about this because you're like, I wish they would just listen to the show and then they would know.
Everything. I. I want them to listen to the sex tip.
Part.
Yeah. So I can have better sex with them. I don't want them to listen to who else I'm dating. I want them to fast forward to sex tips that I give, and they could learn a lot from the show, but I don't. I want them to skip the beginning. You think I can do.
That? Sounds like a.
Plan. That sounds like a good plan. I want them to selectively listen to the show. Okay. I think we're gonna move into some text tips now because I'm really excited about ejaculation etiquette, and I thought you might be.
Too. I think men and women might have different opinions on.
This. I know, which is why I thought this was the perfect time to talk about.
It. And of course, the woman's opinion is totally wrong and the men's opinion is totally right. But I'll hear you out.
Anyways. Okay. Madam, did you even know that you had that There is an etiquette there that goes along with it. That.
Jacket. Is there, like, a book somewhere? Where do we. I wrote it down about this.
Etiquette. We just found.
It. You found.
It? We talked about it today during. Yeah, but was it.
This. Is this a thing on the.
Internet? Yes, on the Internet. But we also added our own points. And I have a room. There's four women.
What?
No. I'm in A room with four women. And we're like, okay, how about when a guy ejaculates and doesn't clean it up after? Or he ejaculates on your face in the mask or he ejaculates in your mouth. Yes.
Ready?
Yeah. And this is just. I want to hear what people have to say about this. May, you're totally allowed to disagree.
Agree.
Disagree.
Ready? I'm.
Ready. First Manistee. Are you taking notes? Ejaculation might get her permission before climax. Okay. You might. You must get her permission before climaxing anywhere besides in a condom. So don't just assume she says she's on the pill, whatever. Don't just assume that you can ejaculate anywhere. I can't tell you how often. Even. And even if you're on a woman down the pill, you should still be using condoms. Okay? So everybody should be using condoms. However, I know, I live in the real world. I get it. Sometimes you don't want to use a condom. Okay. But don't whatever you do. I've had this happen with friends. They've been dating guys for a while. And the guy, she's like. And he just came inside me last night and he didn't even. He knew that I'm not on the pit. Like, whatever. You just. You have to double check. And don't just ejaculate without asking. Since it comes from you. It's your. This is. Now, this is not just me. This is like what I found as the. Is common sense wisdom about ejaculation wisdom. So in etiquette. So you can let me know. You think since it comes from you, it's your responsibility to clean it.
Up? What? No, I can, like, hand you something to clean it.
Up. Why can't you clean it.
Up? I guess I could, but I just not used to.
That. Okay. What do you. Who cleaned it up.
Then? They cleaned up. They just asked for, you know, a utensil to clean the situation, and I give it to them, and then they clean it up and it's all good. So you never said. I've never had. Somebody asked me to clean it.
Up. Right. She's waiting for you to. Exactly my.
Point. Yeah, but why do I need to do.
That? Because.
It'S. I already did my work. I made this situation, you know. You know how much effort that.
Took. If you ejaculate on a body, don't rub it in after the.
Fact. What do you.
Mean? I don't know. Don't rub it in. But I think some people might Think it's hot to rub it in. So I. I don't like saying don't to anything. I don't like saying that. Don't. So I'm just saying this is. But. But don't rub. I mean, you could rub it in if she found it hot and you found it hot. Why is your.
Head. No, I'm just. I'm taking this all.
In. You're taking a.
Nap?
Yeah. Women do not pay attention to how much. Okay. Oh, this is great. We added this the interns. We do not pay it much. We do not pay attention to how much semen you ejaculate. So we're not measuring. We don't have, like, a Dixie.
Cup. That's a lie. Because I know girls that.
Do. Well, I don't know what kind of girls you hang out with, but.
We'Re not, like, upstanding.
Women. Yeah, I'm sure. So, anyway, we're not. I know. Because we talk about a Jackie Lloyd. Like, that pill that you can take that increases your.
Load. I want to Google.
That. And look, we don't care. We're not paying attention. Like, out of the survey of women, ask, like, we're not. We're not like, oh, that's so impressive. He has a lots of coming. We're not measuring it. We're not paying.
Attention. But I think guys like having a lot.
Though. Yeah. Yeah. So this is more of a man thing, but it's not a women issue. It's a man thing. Like, you want to be able to produce more because it seems more. I don't know what. But we're not, like, measuring, like, God, the last guy was a teaspoon, and this was an entire cup. I mean, we're not. We don't.
Know. No, But I swear, I know women that.
That. That.
What? That, like, a.
Lot.
Right. And not women that I have sex with. But they told me they're like.
I like it when there's a.
Lot.
Yeah. Okay. Nothing. Yeah. I mean, I'm not saying that you. Some women don't like that, but we're not, like, obsessively focused on it. So many things that men are obsessively focused on, women could care less about. So I'm just saying this is one of those things where we're not, like, I really liked him. We had amazing sex, but there was only a teaspoon of semen, which I find pretty kind of controversial. And I don't know if this is a deal breaker. No, we're not doing that.
Okay. Make sure to get an idea of where she draws the line when it comes to your climatic fluids. Just a tip, just make sure you just know like. Okay, the end result of guy's pleasure includes. Okay. The end result of guy's pleasure includes a mess to clean up. This means you should have an ejaculation etiquette plan that includes where it goes, where it doesn't go, how it's cleaned up and how it's disposed of. Much of this is dependent on your partner's likes and dislikes. So make sure to get an idea of where she draws a line when it comes to your climatic fluids. So I think it's like you need an ejaculation plan. Just like you have an earthquake plan. You have like, you know, tornado plan. Like, you know, earthquakes. You need like your earthquake prepared.
Kit. Okay. When does this discussion happen? It's. It's right before, right? You don't. Before.
You. No, no, no. Not even. I'm gonna get into that.
Now.
Okay. Because I'm gonna break this down for you with the condom. When using protection, the condom should be removed before you lose your erection. This will prevent any sperm from escaping getting on her or on the bed. Tie the end off so nothing leaks and place it in the garbage, not the toilet or the floor. Okay. Adequate reminder, don't ask her to take the used condom off for you. That's your.
Responsibility. Yeah, I never done.
That. You've never taken it.
Off? No, I never had.
Them. She never take it off because you can like kind of tell, oh, it was kind of a messy whatever. So this is just what they say. They insider. First get our permission and understand the birth control situation beforehand. This option does not allow. This option does allow for less cleanup on your part, but you probably head to the bathroom and clean up there. If you're using the pull out method and your partner is not comfortable being ejaculated on, then be prepared and grab a towel or something. You don't mind getting a bit dirty.
Don't tell her that you won't ejaculate inside her and then do it anyway. Don't ever do.
That. Yeah, yeah. That's.
Not. You're like, you got that okay. In her mouth. Ready? First of all, find out whether or not she would like to swallow. This is really. We've never gotten this much into.
This have wegging it because we had the FCC and we couldn't talk about this kind of.
Stuff. I love no fcc. Ok. A wrong assumption could result in her not wanting to perform oral sex on you remember. It's nice to let her know when to expect your orgasm. So she can either prepare to swallow or switch to a different method of stimulation, like using your hand. You don't have to make a big announcement. It's just simple. Like. Like it's time would do. Like it's time baby would do. Or you could agree on a subtle. A subtler. A more subtle signal that you're about to erupt. Okay, etiquette reminder. Do not hold her head so she has no choice but to swallow. What some dudes do that they might not. Guys that I know that I'd never be with again or whatever, but.
On her butt or breasts. This has been one. Oh, no, no. The next one is your favorite. Some men like the idea of ejaculating a woman's breast or butt. But some women think it's sexy too. Again, this should be established beforehand because it's possible that it could gross her out and that would be bad. Ejaculation etiquette. If she's into it, then go ahead. Don't rub it in afterward. Don't spread it around with your hands. And don't collapse on top of her so the mess is squished between your.
Bodies. Who is rubbing it in? I don't get it. Who are you talking.
To? I don't know. This.
Is. Where is the.
Safety? This is. This is from. This is from. This is from Universal.
And I don't think. Okay. And here's another thing. There's nothing. But I don't think. I think that solve. Sex is beautiful. Like the fluids. And what happens. I'm not saying don't rub it in. Like if she might. If he finds it's hot and she finds it hot. Rub it in. Make a soup out of it. I don't care. I'm not saying anything. Yeah, do something. I don't care what you want to do with your Steven. I was thinking you should hold up on what was I saying the other day. Like all the con. No, that's gross. But if you kept the condoms. There was an art exhibit like that once with all the used.
Condoms. I don't go to art shows because they're.
Ridiculous. I went to two museums. No, I only went to one museum. On her face. This is a big topic. Yeah, Menace and.
Honor. Who doesn't like.
That? A lot of women don't like that. Some women really get off on the idea, but plenty of others think it's disgusting. And some even find it degrading. So it's essential to get her permission before you shoot anywhere near her. Near or on her.
Face. Well, you got to blame pornography, because that's all it.
Is. Yeah, I mean, I think it's pretty much existed for a while, but you see that in porn a lot. And a lot. As we know, porn is not the best teacher for what feels good to a woman. It is not. It's usually. It's a visual thing. And this thing, this position looked great on camera, but doesn't necessarily mean that that's what feels good for a woman. So you have to be mindful of that. So it's essential to get permission before you shoot anywhere near her face. This includes the neck. So don't give her a pearl necklace without giving her the go ahead. First etiquette reminder. Do not get in her eyes. Avoid her hair as well as possible. Sex should be fun and, well, and sexy. Don't ruin the mood by crossing the line. So I don't know. That's just some tips. What do you think about that? You're, like, horrified by all this, but men, sometimes there's.
Something. No, but yeah, you definitely have to talk it out first. You can't just run wild and, you know, shoot your bullets all over the.
Room.
No. You know, right. You have to. There has to be a discussion. I don't think there has to be discussion.
While, I mean, before you have sex, maybe in the middle of having.
Sex. And it's.
Just. It just gets some feelers out.
There and see the bottom line. Exactly. The bottom line is just saying, like, letting your partner know when you're about to have an orgasm so they can make the decision in that moment where they'd like to be positioning.
Themselves. But if they don't like the face, then when you're done having sex with them, like, don't call them again. That's definitely a thing that you.
Should do because that's what you.
Like. If you have different opinions, though, you should email.
Feedback.
Feedback.com.
Yes. Yeah. And you should also email us if there's any, like, topics or anything that you guys want to hear. We're getting into every day. We were doing sex topics, and then tomorrow, tomorrow's topics. I'm not. Don't even remember what it was, but it.
Was. But they're gonna be excited to be here every day, Monday through Friday.
Everybody. Every day, Monday through Friday, 1 to 2. Should we explain this again? Does everyone get a Friends with Benefits.
Member? They might just be tuning in now. And we apologize to. To the people that are listening later that we're repeating this, but it will slowly die.
Down. Slowly die down. We're going to be sending out emails and explaining this all, but basically now we would love you to register as a Friends with Benefits member. As a Friends with Benefits member, you get. You get On Demand podcast. So today, every day, one to two, anywhere you're at in the world, you can stream live and watch Sex with Emily, which is awesome. Soon you'll be watching Menace as well. We love that it's free. Then it becomes an archived podcast. We've already got 11 live shows that are archived in podcasts, and you can access all those if you become a Friends with benefits member. Plus special videos, plus Q&A, plus, I'll be doing forums and interactive webinars and stuff with our listeners, and we'll just be getting a lot more. You become a Friends with Benefits.
Member.
Yeah. So we hope you'll sign.
Up. Is there a special one where if they pay a certain amount, I'll have sex with them? Eric, can you set that.
Up?
Yeah. What.
If.
Whatevs. It's all for the benefit of the show?
Is it like a grand prize? How much do they have to pay? I'm just.
Kidding. Yeah, because we have a donate button on the.
Site. If they donate a hundred thousand dollars, I will have sex with them. Really? How about that?
Really? That.
Cheap? If there's.
Any. Yeah, there. You have lots of fans that are hot for.
You. Yeah. Gentlemen, I can't take your offer, but don't Discriminate.
Magazine. You never know. You're still young. You don't know what you're into. Who knows where you're gonna be in a few.
Years? I know what I'm.
In. Who knows who you'll be sleeping.
With, but I'll have got. I'll have other guys sleep with guys for 100 grand. Okay, I'm. I'm sure I can hook that.
Up. Okay.
Cool. I know.
People. You know people who know people. And this knows everyone. Okay, everyone. Well, I think we're good here.
Right?
Yeah. Thanks, everyone, for listening. Anything else you have to.
Add? No, that's.
It. Let me just tell you that this week. That this week, these shows. This week are going to be awesome. We've got some great topics lined up. We've got some guests lined up. Yeah, and one guest. Special.
Guest. Special.
Guest. She's over here. But we're gonna have to announce tomorrow to make sure she's really gonna do.
It. No, you gotta tease.
It. Okay. Can I tease it? Can we do it? Okay. My cousin you didn't even know. This is my.
Cousin. I.
Didn'T. This is my cousin.
Liz. Hi, Liz. How you doing?
Good. Not last name. She's in my last name. Liz is a.
Lesbian. All.
Right. Liz is gonna come on and talk about lesbian sex, and she's gonna get into it and she's gonna get into the details and she's gonna share it with me for the first time because we've never gone there. We're cousins. We love each other. We never get into the details, though. We get into a lot of details. We've actually never had this conversation, which sort of surprises me. I.
Know. That's.
Awesome. We've never. So my cousin and I, who we've been cousins our whole life, we have never talked about sex. I mean, I've known she's lesbian or whatever. I know. Know her. Meet her girlfriend, fine. But we're gonna get into her sexual life.
Tomorrow. That's awesome because, you know, I have lesbian friends, but they never discuss their sex life. Me neither. They will. I don't know why they won't do it. My gay buddies, they will tell me every detail there is. But it's gonna be.
Interesting. I know. I love.
It. I like.
It. So I'm excited. That's gonna be tomorrow. Yeah. All right, everyone. And we'll be here all week long, Monday through Friday, 1 to 2. Thanks, everyone, for listening. Listening to the show. Was it good for you? Email me feedbackexwithemily.com.
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