The G-Spot Journey: A Sex Toy Review

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Hi.

Hi, girls. Well, thank you for opening up your hearts, your minds, and your G spots today to the audience we are going to be talking about to our wonderful listeners. We talk a lot about things in the office. But the G spot has been a big topic lately because as it always is for many women, they're like, have I found it? Have I not? Do you have a G spot orgasm? Do you have A clitoral orgasm. Does the G spot even exist? This has been going on a debate that's been going on for a long time. And it's gonna be a good time. I already feel it. I feel the energy. It's gonna be a great show. So we're gonna talk about products and toys and things that have helped us with that. Maybe just fingers. However, we all found our G spot and. Yeah, so a little bit sex in the news first. Anything else you have to say? Wanna have a little meeting here? What's on your minds? We all work together every day, so.

No.

Yeah, you know, I just. I'm really excited to talk about what's going on in Michigan and those crazy kids.

Okay, so this keeps getting sent to me. Here's the thing. The Michigan Senate passes a bill making anal sex punishable by 15 years in prison. What the hell am I gon Thanksgiving? How am I going to have anal sex now when I'm home having turkey with my family? The Michigan Senate just passed a bill that makes sodomy a felony, despite the US Supreme Court declaring such a law unconstitutional. The state's law, which makes anal sex punishable by up to 15 years in prison, is not specifically targeted at gay people, as it's illegal regardless of whether a couple is same sex or different sex. Instead, the sodomy ban is directly linked to a law against bestiality, essentially saying the two are equal. The law states it's a felony for anyone to commit the abominable and detestable crime against nature with mankind or any animal. It's the with mankind wording that creates the loophole to keep the sodomy ban intact, even though 2003 ruling in Lawrence, first in Texas declared unconstitutional. So they sneak this in. No one realized it was in there. It's passed to the Senate, it's headed to the House for approval, which means there is still time to change the wording and keep. Keep mankind out of it entirely. But GOP Senator Rick Jones says an attempt to take that could put the entire bill to protect animals in jeopardy. So, you guys, this is what happens in legislation. They're always putting things in. They're sneaking things at the last minute that you're not going to know that it's in there. But someone, thank God, before it passed, they figured out that they were trying to sneak and say, oh, mankind, we'll just throw it in. Because, you know, these bills are 5000 million pages and think no one's going to find out. So hopefully my peeps in Michigan are Going to be able to strike this down.

Yeah, man. I'm all for not sodomizing animals because, like, those poor things, but you gotta. You gotta let us do what we want to do with our back doors.

Exactly. Because it was unconstitutional. In Texas, we already went through this. I just can't believe it. But, you know, Michigan's got some problems now.

I mean, that's out of control to say that sodomy and bestiality are the same thing.

I know. Well, yeah.

How are they gonna police that? It's gonna pop in and be like, ahem, excuse me. Keep it in the front area.

Like random checks.

Well, this has been going on, I mean, for so long that they, you know, another country. But, like, in Texas, it was legal. And now that they're bringing it back. But I'm glad that someone spotted this out. Exactly. I always wonder how they police it too. Like, how? Really? Like, knock on your door, like, I caught you. Like, what?

To be the one person that actually gets arrested for it. Like, that would be super annoying.

I see that you're having trouble sitting on the bus. Can I inquire what you were doing last night?

Probable cause.

You look uncomfortable. Probable cause to search your answer.

I feel like I should be moved back to Michigan and start a campaign or something. We have to find political roots.

Oh, you absolutely should. I'll make your signs.

Yeah, we could come up with some really fun signs. We could come up with some fun signs.

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Don't be so anal. Or be so anal. I don't know. Okay, but then we gotta talk about penis size.

Yeah.

Cause we gotta do that. Always there was science. This is a scientific study. Science determined the ideal penis size for one night stands versus relationships. Okay, this is where they're spending your money on. Ready? We all know the size of your penis isn't that important when compared to your technique in bed. You can have the world's largest hammer in your toolbox, but if you keep chucking it into the woods and missing the nail by a mile, what's the point? However, that doesn't stop men from being insecure about how big their members are. But don't worry. Science has determined that your perfectly average penis is perfectly average and perfectly loved.

By all, despite any doubts you keep tucked away in the back of your pretty little head. According to the mirror, researchers at the University of New Mexico as well as University of California showed 3D models of erect members to the women partaking in their study and then had them choose their preference for long Term relationship in a one night stand. This is bizarre.

75 women took part in the study, ranging from 18 to 65. They were California residents, sexually experienced, currently in a sexual relationship and had had sex recently. Each were shown three 33 penis models consisting of a cylinder. I wish I had them here. Like visually. Consisting of a cylinder representing the shaft, topped by a dome representing the penis head. These ranged in size from 4 inches to 8.5 inches in length and 2.5 inches to 7 pointes in circumference. 7 inches in.

That's like almost a baby.

It's like a can.

That's seven inches around. That's terrible. I mean, whatever.

Okay. They found the average length woman preferred for a long term. Okay, this is. Okay, I gotta keep reading. Then we'. Discuss. They found the. The. The average length woman preferred for long term was 6.3 inches with a girth of 4.8 inches. For one night stands, they preferred a longer penis with a length of 6.4 and a girth of 5.4. Okay, so 5.5 inches. The researchers wanted to state that the report that while this preference for larger phallus is above the average penis size. Really slightly above the average. Novelty itself contributes to pleasure. So seeking a more novel sized penis may be consistent with the goal to pursue pleasure in one time partners. Okay, but here's my question. If you're in a room and you're looking at all these penises, could you even. How many penis models were there? 33. You're like, oh, that's the one I want. I don't want to call me in the morning. I just. I want that penis for a night. And he'd call me the next day. It's okay for a night, but this is the one that I want to marry. Like, how do you even.

I thought the difference would be bigger.

Much bigger. First of all, if it's one night, you'd want some novelty freak show, maybe penis.

I think I found why this happened, guys. The California residents who are in this study were all currently in a sexual relationship. So it's more likely that they have more average penises that they're coming home to all the time. That they're. So it makes sense that maybe their ideal would be a little bit bigger than average. Because they've already got an average penis in their toolbox. They're looking at other ones being like, oh, this one looks nicer than mine. It's all about the new penis versus the old penis.

But it's 0.1 inches larger.

I mean, Honestly, I don't know.

I think they'd go for the eight, whatever. What was the biggest one?

I think.

I think they should just. I think that the bottom line of this study. What was the largest one? 8.5 in length.

So intense.

So if they. Oh, I mean, like, you'd think that you just would be the one that is double the size that you'd normally have. So I think, if anything, what this should do is make men stop being so insecure about their penises.

Yeah.

Because I feel like it's more. Men are more concerned about the penis than the. Than women are. Okay. Not that we don't have our issues. Sometimes things happen with penises that aren't always ideal. They don't work correctly. They. You can't see them, stuff like that. But that doesn't happen that often. But for men. Just hear this. Women had a choice of 33 penises and they picked it like an average. Slightly above average.

So, yeah, it's just. I don't know about you guys. I have no space, like perception of spatial things, like I can't tell, like measures of length. So I'm just looking at it and being like, my vagina could probably handle that. And like, that's it.

Of all the penises I've ever seen up close.

I couldn't tell you which one was bigger. They all kind of are lumped into the same category of just.

It's a penis. It's a mound of flesh.

Well, I guess I'm a little bit older than you, with a little more experience. I can remember different penises. I wonder if they're. All the penises were in a lineup that I've been with, if I could pick them out. Like, just the penis. Like, oh, that was Bob from 2006. He was a good one. But it is funny when you're with the penis, you can only remember that penis that you're with. But I can kind of remember. But there wasn't any that stick. There's other things. There's nothing that stick out. I'm like, oh, God. That penis of 06 was, you know, 04 was amazing.

I guess there was like one hella small one.

Yeah, that one sticks out.

And then one like.

Or doesn't stick out that I can remember.

But all the other ones are.

They're penis. Right. And they're fine. Right.

Oh, they're great.

But do guys sit around and think about, like, oh, but her. Her. Libya was.

Yes. I mean, a lot. I'm not gonna lie to you. A lot of Them do. Like, I have heard discussions that have just made me want to, like, curl up and, like, roll away because I'm like, please stop talking about it. It's not nice. Like, we don't sit around and, like, talk crap. I mean, some girls do, but we don't sit around and like, talk about guys. Penises in, like, a mean way. But guys are super critical of vaginas. And it's because of porn.

It is because of porn.

It is a hundred percent because of porn. Because they compare everything they see in porn with, like, real life.

It's true. That's absolutely true. Just like the. You're right. And that's why women are so many insecurities. I think are like, mine doesn't look like that. Why? What's wrong with my vagina? But we're all, you know, we're all beautiful. All of our vaginas and all your penises are just fine. But it's funny because my friends were in town from Michigan. I had little Miller Reunion, and we were walking down Third street and there was. They were like, what is this? We walked past a waxing salon and it had like, the sign out front of what they're doing. It says anal bleaching. And they were like, lab. We were going to Jones on Third. And they. They're. Emily, Emily, come here. Come here. Emily knows the answer. Come on. What the hell is anal bleaching? I was like, funny you should ask. We just did a show about, you know, how women also think they need to bleach their anuses, and that all comes from porn. My friends in Michigan are not. There are not anal bleaching stands in Michigan on the street, nor are they having anal sex. They might not have anything anal in Michigan. Let's just say that. Okay, so, Shreem, are you ready to talk about your G spots?

Let's do it.

Okay, so let's just break down. If you're not sure about the G spot. There is still debate. This comes up all the time that people signs still unsure if the penis. If the penis. The penis exists. If the G spot exists. But a lot of women, solid amount of women out there, around 30%, report being able to have deep, intense orgasms from vaginal penetration alone. The G spot, kind of like the ozone layer. Was this you, Madison, talking about that?

Yeah, it's kind of like the ozone layer. There's a lot of doubt about whether it exists. We can't really prove it's there, but some of us certainly feel its effects.

Exactly.

Not Republicans, but Right.

Not the Republicans. We don't want to talk to them about our sex. So it did come from. In the late 40s, the gynecologist Ernest Grafenberg described the rodinosome in the front wall of the vagina. And that's why it got the name as the G spot. And he said it's a. You know, it was. Studies revealed a complex blood vessels, nerve endings, and remnants of the female prostate gland in the same area. And it showed that for a minority of women, particularly those with strong pelvic floor muscles. Do your Kegels. Stimulation in this area could trigger powerful orgasms without the clitoris ever being externally stimulated. This marked the beginning of the great G spot debate. And so while some people say that it does, it doesn't exist. Some people say, well, it's all related. The clitoris and the G spot are all one. What does it matter? You know, call it whatever you want. Like, there are different sensations that you can have. Maybe they are. All the tissues are all connected. People think the clitoris is just a little, you know, button, but really, it extends deep down inside. So whatever it is, here's where the G spot, truly, this is where it is. I believe that it exists. I know it exists. Two inches inside the vagina on the front vaginal wall, there's a cluster of tissue roughly the size of a bean, resembles a texture of a walnut. And the size and location might vary from vagina to vagina. Menace. I used to joke that we wanted to get, like, a G spot locator app. Like, if you go like, doot, doot, doot, doot, doot. There's your G spot. We haven't invented that yet.

It's called your fingers.

Right, Exactly. And truly, the best way to find your G spot is with your fingers. And also, we're gonna talk about some toys today. But truly, if you've never found it, use your fingers. Use a partner's fingers. And also, when you become aroused, I always say, knock out a clitoral orgasm first or have just get warmed up with your partner, do foreplay, watch some porn. Whatever it is that turns you on, the more aroused you are, the more likely you'll be able to find your G spot. And because the tissue walls swell and they become much more sensitive to the touch. So how do you find it the best way? Explore with your fingers or have a partner do it, like I said. And it's that whole. Your palm's facing up, and it's that come hither motion. Like you're, like, begging someone to come towards you. And you will find this ridged area, which means that you're on the right track. And you stroke it. So it's not like, so much, like, in and out, like a second, like you're pounding away at it, but you're, like, stroking it with this motion with your fingers. And use your index and your middle finger. I'm doing it right now, but, like, no one can see it because you're not watching me. But you probably. I guess I feel like that people have been doing this for years. We'll Snapchat it.

Like, upside down quotation marks.

Upside down quotation marks, exactly. You're stroking it. Thank you. That was good. They say if you have to pee, you know, a lot of people have this urge to pee and they stop. But that actually probably means that it's working. And sometimes, you know. Yeah, use your hands. It's great to use some lube. Be warmed up, be relaxed. And I have to say that I'm going to be honest here about my G Spot expiration. It took me a really long time. Like, I did not find it through intercourse. And I even bought at Good Vibrations when I moved to San Francisco. I literally got off the bus from Michigan, and I walked into Good Vibrations, and I was like. I just figured I hadn't really even had any kind of orgasm, but I bought a clitoral vibe, and I bought, like, the Pocket Rocket, and I bought the G Spot book, which I still have, and I bought a Rabbit vibe and the original Vibratex rabbit. And I. And I never felt like I. You know, me, Like, I didn't finish the book, like, halfway through, and I tried. I had a boyfriend. He was. We never found it. And I gave up. And I had a lot of sex. I had clitoral orgasms, but I didn't find it. And it wasn't until I was on my own and. And I started doing my Kygles that I really started doing them. And it was probably years later, like, not even till, like, probably by five, four, five years later, that I really just realized that it was about those muscles and how I did it. But it was. It took me. What I'm saying is it can take you time and practice and energy. And for a lot of women, it doesn't happen during intercourse, and it's gonna take some work. But once you find it, then you're like, oh, I know how to move in that position. Like, I know how to do it. So I'm curious. I'm gonna go around the room here. Madison first or Madison? I'll talk to Jamie first. Madison's busy preparing her G spot speech. But, Jamie, tell me, when have you discovered your G spot?

Yes, I have. I definitely didn't discover it through intercourse. It was definitely. I was with my boyfriend for a while, and I had clitoral orgasms a lot. But I was like, there's something not happening, and I don't know how to do it. So then one time, just went to the bathroom while he was laying down or whatever, and I was, I'm just gonna go to the bathroom. And I just kind of, like, found it on my own. And then I was like, oh, my God. Okay, there's a spot right here. And I was like, okay, so how am I. Because I. At the time, I was, you know, wasn't super experienced, so I was like, how am I gonna explain how old.

Are you at the time? Because you're still.

Well, I was. I was 19 at the time, so I was.

How old are you now?

I'm 22. I'll be 23 soon. But, yeah, so I. I love when you're young.

You're like, I'm almost 23, though. Like, when you're older. Like, no, I'm really 10 years younger. It's so cute.

I'm about 25.

Yeah. No, but I was like, how am I gonna explain this to him? Like. Cause he probably thinks that he's found it already, you know?

Right.

So I was just like, I found it. And then I was like, okay. So I went back to the room, and I was just like, okay, let's go around for another round. And then I was kind of just like. Instead of like, I was like, how about we just do, you know, no sex and just foreplay. And so through, like, him fingering me, that's how I was actually able to have my first G spot orgasm.

So how did you even know that something was missing?

Because I was just like, I feel it. You know, when your clitoral orgasm, you feel it, like, you know, on the outside of your vagina, but you don't really feel it, like, deep within.

Right.

And I was just. I was like, well, what's the whole point of sex? You're going in, and I want to feel something good.

That was very, very smart.

Yeah. So that's why I was like, okay, I'm just gonna, like, find it on my own. Cause how am I supposed to tell him something if I don't even know where it is? Like, we're both just, like, searching with no map.

Exactly. So Then. And now during intercourse, when you have sex with a guy, can you usually have a G spot orgasm?

G spot orgasms are definitely.

They're harder. Right.

They're difficult to have. So it's hard. I mean, definitely. If I have a clitoral orgasm first, it's easier to get one. But it doesn't happen all the time during sex. But I do have them kind of often.

Okay. And then is it a certain. Can you only have it in one position?

You. It depends. Like, if I'm in, like, a missionary type position, I have to, like, I raise my hips a lot.

Right.

With a pillow underneath you?

Yeah, if I have a pillow. If I don't have a pillow. Like, because I used to do martial arts, so I, like, can be in weird positions.

That's helpful.

I, like, raise my. I just raise my hips up on my own kind of. It's kind of like a back bend. Ish. But like, half my back is still laying down.

It helps because your pelvis.

Yeah, it just hits it more.

Makes sense.

And it's just like, is. They don't even have to go that deep because it's super shallow.

It's a great tip.

Jamie. How are you not, like, married or, like, wife at this point? I'm, like, hearing you be like, oh, like, I can twist in all these crazy positions.

Well, now she will be. Holy crap, Check out the website. She's adorable.

Find Jamie on Instagram.

Yeah. Wait, half of us are single. I'm single, Jamie. Okay. You have relationships. Okay, Madison, I'm saving Lori for last because I have no idea.

What, you don't know.

We'll get into Lori. I have no idea. Lori is just the loose cannon here.

I think I've, like, accidentally experienced G spot orgasm once or twice. Was kind of like with a boyfriend, having sex, always on top. Always. Like, I used to have a lot of sex in cars, so always in the backseat of a car with him sitting and me kind of like straddling him. And I'd be like, whoa, what was that? And not really think about it, but I'm pretty sure I had a G spot orgasm before. I really had a clitoral orgasm. Just like I said, on accident. It was like, what was that? That was nice. Okay. Anyway, and it wasn't the first time I had one where I knew what it was. Was the first. First time I had sex with my current boyfriend. And again, same position, him sitting straight up.

That's why I don't like him so much.

Honestly. That's probably part of the Appeal of it is that I didn't know sex could feel as good as it felt until I started having sex with my boyfriend. Like, I never knew. And it's because we waited a long time and we were like, connected and all of that.

I'm just kidding.

But I mean. No, but a big part of it was just like, his penis fits my vagina perfectly. Like, we talk a lot about penises, but like, I mean, it's just finding like that lock and key kind of situation. Cause like, I have like a, you know, I have like a tilted cervix. He rocks. A slight curve. So I think that works out.

Yeah, that should be a new dating site actually. The curved penis and Tibus Holmesis.

No, seriously, it was like.

Yeah, you're not alone.

It was like a puzzle piece.

Swipe app. Just show your cervix and your penis. Is it like a lock and key? This is brilliant. Okay, delete this because I don't want anyone to hear my idea.

Yeah, but, yeah, so it just. It worked out. And ever since then, you know, it's not guaranteed. It's not every time I orgasm, a lot easier clitorally. But I can have a blended orgasm anytime. I'm consistently being stimulated internally during oral sex, for instance. Like, I can have that. And I recently found out during my research for this, I read that generally G spot orgasms take about 15 minutes of consistent stimulation to happen. And that's why I wasn't having them very often during intercourse. And I realized one time when we had the sensual sex, it was because we were going really slow and we were doing like the same movement over and over again. You can't see my hand motions of us banging.

Right? The sensual sex of 2000. Was it 2015?

Yeah, it was.

No, it was earlier this month.

It was 2016.

Yeah, it was recent.

Yay.

But yeah, like, it was, you know, we were going for a long time and like, it happened and I was like, oh, okay. Cause it was just so much deeper. It's like your knees are weak afterwards.

Yeah, she needed the fifth to slow. She's like, get it over with. And that usually.

Yeah, I know. We just had a show with Celeste and Danielle, the Somatica experts. And they were talking about like, quickies. Like a woman who wanted a quickie versus the guy who wants slow, sensual sex. And I'm the girl who's like, I know I got shit to do. I gotta. I gotta sleep.

Like, you like the woman eyes or the one minute orgasm. But no, I get so that's true. You need the. It's not. You just need the constant. On the same spot.

Yeah.

Is that what you're saying?

Exactly. It was finding that spot and, like, hitting it just over and over again. Not, like, violently, just kind of, like, rubbing against it. Also, I was telling Lori about this that it's super shallow. It's way more shallow than anyone thinks. I'd have a conversation with Wes. I was like, dude, you don't need to, like, knuckle. It's shallow.

We mean, it's not. It's not way down deep inside. Like, you don't. Like, the tip of the penis isn't gonna find it. It's more like in the inner wall. The, like, just two inches inside.

Yeah. I have small. I have little, small fingers. And, like, my fingers can, like, just reach it, and that's how I know about how deep it is. So I think a lot of guys are overshooting when they're doing it. They're, like, trying to, like, get it all the way into their knuckles. And it's like, dude, you don't need that.

You're like, ouch.

No. It's just like, come hither.

Digging for change.

Come hither. Okay. Thank you for that, Madison. Okay. Lori. I barely could sleep last night because I really was up all night wondering. Lori surprises me her goal. We all made resolutions this year, and her goal for 2016 was to finally have a G spot orgasm.

Yes.

And I'm wondering, what have you been doing to achieve these goals?

G spot orgasm is like my Everest. Like, I've been really, really focused on it. And I've been having clitoral orgasms almost daily since I was 7. So to change up, like, what my brain thinks about an orgasm has been like, a journey.

I spent, like, almost all day today masturbating. Like, I.

You looked kind of tired when you walked in.

Yeah, no, I Woke up at 8, and I was like, it's gonna happen. And I feel like I have definitely today reached a new summit. Everest. But I wouldn't call it a solitary G spot orgasm. I definitely think I had my first ever blended orgasm.

Oh.

Because I could. Like, I. Every time before that I've ever dually stimulated. I couldn't have either type of orgasm. Like, it was too. Too much going on. Like, kind of spread bit of nails for me. I couldn't have a clitoral or a G spot orgasm if I was using a rabbit or if I was stimulating my clitoris and my. With my fingers at the same time. Couldn't do it. Today, however, I was actually. I had, like, the Raven Nova, like, both right next to me, and I was going back and forth between them.

Nice. And.

Oh, man, it was.

We're gonna talk about these two toys that we love, these new G Spot toys.

I was, like, really working the G Spot hard. And I know that I located it because I felt. It felt like the roof of my mouth.

Right, right.

That was the best way I could describe it.

That's what it feels like. Like a wall in that roof of your mouth. Right.

It was, like, rough, and I felt it, and it felt good when I touched it. And it was totally different because when I tried to look at it before, look for it before, Never had Kegeled in my life, you know, and then now I've been, like, doing Kegels all the time. So it was a totally different feeling, like, searching for it this time, found it, located it, started using the G Spot toy, the Rave, to try to stimulate it. It felt really good. So I was like, oh, it's gonna happen. It's gonna happen. It's gonna happen. And then, like, right at the point of when I thought it was gonna happen, I switched to the Nova just to kind of aid with the clitoral stimulation a little bit. And I. And I came, like, from having something inside me.

Oh, good.

First time ever.

Yeah.

So that is a blended. So maybe. Did it feel different, though? Did it feel more intense?

It did feel different. It felt totally different than afterwards when I was done. The way that my clitoris usually feels after coming is how, like, the inside of me felt then.

I think you did. No, blended would be.

I mean, like.

Yeah, that's it.

I feel like that kind of lets me get closer to no.

But I feel like most of mine have. Well, they've kind of been bled. I feel like it is sort of a blending. Do you know? I don't know, but that's good. That's close. That's good.

Totally different.

It was different. That's amazing. Congratulations. We've all been working on this. That's good.

Yeah, it was. You know, I had, like, four or five regular clitoral orgasms beforehand.

So you knew. It was discernible difference between.

I was. I was looking stuff up, and I was like. I had, like, porn on one laptop, and on the other laptop, you had.

The Rave and the Nova, which are the two products that we're talking about. That is. I love it.

It's great.

Yeah.

And, Lori, if you've been listening to the show for a while, you Know that before we did our last. Was it our last review show couple ago, a couple ago. That you hadn't had a multiple orgasm. And we talked to you that night before the show and gave you some tips and came in. You had like five.

Yeah.

Oh yeah. And so now you had the blended.

That was amazing. I had the blended. I listened to.

I'm so happy.

All of your tips. Like I kept my hips up, I kept my legs together. I was kegeling.

We were like last night. We're like, Lori, we're like a team. We're like, you do this. Have you tried this?

But I did. It was all like right at the top of my mind and it.

Do you love. That's our homework.

I love it.

That's your work. I gotta take home assignment tonight. I gotta work all night finding my G spot. It's really tough around here. I'm sorry.

It was good though. I feel like if I just keep doing this, I'll be like a G spot expert by the end of the year.

I feel like by the end of the week, I mean, you're so close. Okay, we're gonna come back to how we like how we get there with our G spots and some more information about that. But first I'm gonna talk to the guys for a minute. I don't want you to feel left out. Cause we're talking about the G spot. There is a way for you to mix up your masturbation routine as well. The number one sex toy for men is the Fleshlight. It's a masturbation sleeve that you solo or with a partner. And it simulates sensations of real sex. It looks and feels like the real deal. Like you are having sex as it special material invented by NASA and it's, you know, patent material that feels like you're in a vagina or a buttocks, if you will. Whatever you're into. There's the Fleshlight stamina training unit. Helps you practice lasting longer during sex. There's the discreet Flight. The Fleshlight. Go. It's more compact. There are so many flashlights for every needs. Your favorite porn star might have molded her vagina after one. You might want to get that flashlight. There is the Quick Shot. That's an open ended male masturbator. It's around the size of a hand. Madison loves the Quick Shot.

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Yes.

So you guys have heard me talk about the we Vibe for years. I mean they've been around probably about 10 years, I think since I started my show. I remember they did the We Vibe. Just the We Vibe, the couple's toy, which is the number one like toy. It's a tape, like a c. You wear it during intercourse and it still is like the top couple's toy. And they're really well known, this brand for making high quality body safe and powerful pleasure products. And they have the great clitoral. Actually Lori's five orgasms came from the we got touch, right? I think that's right. Keeping the touch. And so now.

They never had a toy though their toys were all clitoral based. But they never had a toy that the sole intention. These are good people. These are good people. Their sole intention was to make the G Spot more accessible with these new toys. So the Raven Nova, the latest additions to the we Vibe collection, they are both. They're made of smooth, silky, body safe silicone. They're eco friendly, USB rechargeable, simple magnetic charger, which I like. They've changed up the charger on the new models. Did you guys notice that?

So much better. Very fancy.

It's really cool, 90 minutes of charge time, but it lasts up to two hours when it's charged. It has 10 vibration modes which we're gonna get into because that's a lot like. I think all the toys now are all about these buzzes modes and different levels. And you, you're like, what, like, how do you navigate it all? But we're gonna get into like what that means and why you should try them all out. It has a really. And the thing about we Vibe is they have these like rumbly vibrations, but they're really quiet, so it looks like a different kind of vibration. And they're both designed to help women find that elusive G spot. So let's start with the Rave. This is like the G spot whisperer. This one meaning my G spot. The other one we're gonna talk about is the Nova, which is more like a dual stimulation. But we're gonna start with the rave. So do you wanna talk about the rave?

Yeah, sure.

Yes.

So Madison, the rave is, you know, there's that big eggplant trend going around on Instagram. Well, the rave is literally a skinnier eggplant. It is purple, it is long, it is expertly curved. And you're looking at it, you're like, why is it curved that way? It is so you can hold it better when you're trying to find your G spot. Because if you've ever had one of those straight toys, your wrist is at this impossible angle. And you're just, like, down there trying to contort your hand to make it go. Not with this one. You just hold it like you would anything really. Like a penis almost. And you kind of work it in. And its asymmetrical shape is designed to lead you straight to the G spot because of the way it's curved. So all you really need to do is get it in there in a comfortable spot and kind of move your. Twist your wrist around, and you're gonna stumble upon it because of the way it's shaped.

And I have to say one thing that you guys might not know, but they actually modeled after laid. You guys have seen those laid toys in the office. Laid. They bought the company because laid make these great dildos. Dildos don't vibrate, but they, you know, dildos are toys that help you find your G spot. And it is such an amazing toy. These laid products, like, well, we're gonna buy them so we can take that model because it is the best dildo out there. And we're gonna model this rave after this toy that's just like 1 million awards. And everyone loves. And that's why where they got the design from.

Yeah, the weighted. I remember you were telling me, like, the weight of it, it' put the perfect amount of pressure on your G spot. That's gonna make the magic happen. And while the tip is made to seek out your G spot, the edges are really, like, they're soft and ridged, and they transmit the vibrations all throughout the inside of your vagina.

I just kinda turned on. I know.

Transmit.

Yeah.

I'm also doing hand motions. But what I think is really interesting, not a lot of people know is the fact that your vaginal opening is super sensitive. Like, mine is almost as sensitive as my actual G spot. That's why those first minutes of insertion are like, because that's what it's stimulating. Well, this sends those vibrations all along the inside of your vaginal opening, which feels incredible. And Emily, I know you mentioned the rumbly vibrations. This thing is twice as strong as the tango and the touch, which are both, like, really strong vibrators.

They're like, you choose to go up Betsy Strong. Yeah.

And so this one has, like, a bunch of different intensity settings. It's got the 10, you know, 10 different vibration functions. You can use it as a wand. I was talking to somebody at Hustler, Hustler Hollywood, where Emily recently did her Valentine's Day workshop. And she said that they sell a lot of them as wands, people. Then when they first came out with the rave, people were buying the rave instead of, like, the wand vibrators for a little bit. Just because of how strong and how powerful it is.

Exactly. Like, it can be.

You don't.

If you're not. You could. Exactly. You could use it as just a clitoral. And that's what I used it as first. Before I used it, I did the clitoral, knocked that out, and then used it for the G spot.

Yeah.

It is a very. I mean, I've tried a lot of G spot toys, and I do think this is just. It's kind of like they knew. They knew that they know their way around the G spot. Like, there's no. It's almost like there's no way. You can't. You can miss it. Like, it is like, I'm like, oh, I wish I thought of that. Like, it's so intuitive, the way it knows your way around your. Your vagina. Would you. What you girls think about it?

I think if I. Between the two toys, the rave is the one that, like, awakened my G spot. Like, if the nova was the one that, like, batted me home, the rave, like, awakened it because I used it as instructed and, like, little tiny twists. Feel all of it. It was crazy. Like, it's not. It's unassuming in appearance. Like, it's not so intimidating. It doesn't look like, oh, that's so asymmetrical or anything.

Right?

But when you put it inside, like, the tiniest little twist, like, you can totally feel your G spot.

Right.

I think it's. And it's, like, really sexy looking.

Sexy eggplant.

I liked it.

Sexy eggplant. What about you, Jamie?

Yeah, no, like, once you find your G spot with it, it's true. It's like, you very minimal movements, and, like, it's really powerful. And when I was using it, when I. It took me a couple times to use it to, like, have a G spot orgasm, but once I did, I kind of, like, took it out a little bit, and I used it as, like, a clitoral orgasm. And I had, like, three orgasms.

Wow.

Boom, boom, boom.

Yeah, that One, that one. I really like the rave, like, a lot. And I just like, last night I was like, having the time.

I love it. We were all so busy last night.

We were all, like, in sync. Masturbation.

I was almost late going to Loveline too, because I was like, I got to try it again. I got to get my notes down on this. What do you think, Madison?

I mean, I agree with both, mostly with Lori, because I haven't actually been able to have a G spot orgasm just with the toy. And that's my problem. I've never had a G sp. I mean, that's my mountain that I'm climbing. Yeah. Is that I've never had a G spot orgasm from just a sold G spot toy. I could feel it. I was almost there. I got the pee feeling. I was trying to explain it yesterday. And it's like, if it's like when your Uber driver is coming to pick you up and you watch them circling the block and circling the block, and then right when you think like, oh, they see me, they drive away. Like, that's what it was like. And it kept happening over and over again. It's not. I mean, the rave is amazing. And I could always take it out and have like a thousand clitoral orgasms just sitting there like nobody's business. But I'm gonna keep going back to it.

Keep going back to it. That's good. I, like, I had, since I am very. Been very good at keeping with my New Year's resolution of doing my Kegels and sticking with it, which I've been doing. I just feel such a different. That it's a lot easier for me to have G spot orgasms easier than it's ever been before. Because the combination of having strong pelvic floor and then this toy was just. So now I'm like. I'm even getting kind of like tricky with mine. I'm like, whoa. I'm just gonna, like. I'm trying different spots and different ways of reaching out, of reaching it. And I played with like a lot of the different vibration patterns. Cause I had more time. And usually I'm just like a one trick podium. I know you give me like 8 million. How many vibrations patterns does it have?

There's 10.

10.

They're awesome.

So, like, there I was like, oh, because I've got the G spot thing down. I'm going to try all of them. And they all like. I love, like, teasing myself, like, with the one that builds. And then the one is like. And used to drive me Crazy because, like, no, don't go up and then down again. But I realized that. That this is more for, like, a slow, sensual searching of the G spots. Like, when I want to, like, tease my own self and have a longer orgasm and draw it out, that I just like to play with the different ones. And the thing is that it is so powerful and they're so precise. Like, I think with a lot of different other vibrators that say they have 10 different patterns, you can't really tell the difference between the patterns. And none of them are that memorable. Or maybe there's just two that you like. I found that I liked surprisingly, like, a lot of them worked for me, which typically, that's not the way, like, I would say I. There weren't any that I didn't like. Like, usually there's one that I'm like, oh, never that one again. But I kind of like. Like, I was kind of a good time moving around through all of them. And so I did a thing where I was trying all of them, and I don't even know which one it was. You know, it's kind of like when you're trying to open a jar and you ask everyone in the family to try open that. And then someone like your little brother opens it, but you're like, yeah, but dad tried it first. Is it bad to use family with toys? But it was like, I don't know which one of the ones I like best. Cause it was all part of my play. So I liked all the different intensities and the levels.

So, yeah, that was the rave.

That's the rave. What?

Oh, no.

Were you gonna say something?

Well, no, just, like, I like, you know, different times you're having sex or you're masturbating. You want different orgasms. So that's what it's there for. So that's why it's good. Sometimes, like, I'm like. I kind of, like, masturbate. Just help myself go to sleep sometimes. So I just knock it out real quick. And you can just use, like, the powerful, like, constant rumble. Or if you're like. Sometimes you're like, no. Like, I got time. I, like, really want to enjoy it. So you just use, you know, the ones that build and go, and then you kind of, like, play through it. That's why I like it.

Cool. The eggplant. Okay, so should we also talk that both of the. We're also going to get into the Nova.

Yeah, yeah.

And that they can both be powered by the We Vibe app.

Yeah. Which Lori Is going to report on Lori.

I became an expert on this.

Okay.

Today.

So the app can control all of their vibrators, all the We Vibe.

No, not all. Only the We Vibe four and four pluses.

Right.

And the Nova.

And not all of them, but the models, but not the Revive 4 Plus. And it's the same app that. Because I originally tried it with the four plus, which is great. Which you can use, like, with a partner can do. And same with this one, though you could still do. Your partner could be vibrating you from elsewhere or on your own. Right. So talk about your experience with this app. This free app that you can download.

I downloaded it last night. It's called We Connect, and it's available on iPhone and Android, which I really appreciate because I don't have an iPhone, but my boyfriend downloaded it, and he's a sound engineer. So the way that the app goes, like, you're dealing with waves of vibration. Like, if you look at it and it's. He's like, oh, this is just like the software he used to make sound. He, like, whizzed through it really quick and was like, learned how to do everything. And then today, like, I downloaded it myself.

Would it be weird if I asked your boyfriend to help me understand it?

No, I mean, he understand it.

But I appreciated it when using the Nova because you can independently control the internal and the external vibrator on it. And I wanted to have a G spot orgasm, or at least a blended orgasm. So I turned the external one way down because I know that I can't really come clitorally unless I have a lot of intense vibration. So I wanted to stimulate it, but not have it be my main focus. And I turned the external one way up. And then through navigating the app, I found that you can make your own patterns, but in such an easy way. Like with your touchscreen, you can just draw the line.

Yeah. And it remembers exactly. And it can remember.

It remembers it. And while you're masturbating, instead of having to try to press the buttons on the toy that's inside you, you can just swipe, like, up or down on your app. It's so cool.

It's so cool. That's amazing. Okay, so let's talk about the Nova then, because that's where you mostly use it for. But we just wanted to mention that the app. But we'll bring into how you use it more. So. So the Nova is dual stimulation superhero. Yeah. And so it combines the pleasure of the G spot with intense clitoral Vibrations. So it's got the G spot and have the little external clitoral thing. And I remember when they were telling me about it when I first saw them last year at a sex toy show, they were like showing me that there are a lot of toys that are dual stimulators. But this one, the challenge with a lot of them is that while you're internally stimulating yourself, externally, if you're pulling out, you loses contact. That little external part loses contact with your clitoris. And this does not lose contact. This never leaves your clitoris. It curves and it just stays there a little snuggly. And you're like, oh my God. This is exactly what we need. We don't want it to leave our clear just because we're going in that we're just trying to achieve the blended. So that's why it's really unique.

Yeah, it's pretty incredible. Like that thing. I doubted it when I first saw it. I'm not gonna lie to you. I had my doubts. It looks kind of goofy. It's got this like big swirly looking thing.

For the swirly outfit.

Yeah. For the clitoral.

It's cute.

Yeah. I looked at it and I was like, I don't see how this is gonna work. Like I really don't get it. And they have a. They sent us like a cool video to explain it and I was like, alright, I get it in theory. Wow, that thing does work.

It does work.

I was amazed that like immediately I was having orgasms. Like immediately upon insertion. I did a lot of masturbatory work last night. A lot. Like I was masturbating consistently. I went back for seconds cause it was so good. And I was amazed that right when.

I did G spot though.

Yeah, I used like a little bit. I used it against. Cause it's not as. It doesn't feel as like intense on your clitoris as the rave does. But I was using it externally first to warm myself up. And once I felt like I was like on the verge, I put that thing in and immediately had an orgasm.

But. So this was the first time you had a G spot on orgasm? It was blended.

It was blended because I needed that like clearer one too. So then I'm like, I'm having like a couple orgasms and I pull it out. I'm like, what? What is going on here? And then I realized the G spot vibrator isn't even on.

Oh my God.

That was just the shaft touching my G spot with the clitoral stimulation at the Same time, G spot vibrator not even on. So I went back later.

Amazing. Yeah. Well, see, this is what we were saying last night before I went home. We were talking to Lori and I was saying you might not need the vibration. Like a lot of women don't need that to have a G spot orgasm. You actually don't need to turn. That's why it's great that you could control it. The different extra external.

The Nova is so awesome. It's like the design of its so smart. Cause I felt that the way that I needed to stimulate my G spot is like really small but quick.

What do you call that?

Yeah, it was easy.

Like a jimmying.

Yeah, like I'm jimmying. Exactly.

Trying to shake a gumball loose.

Yeah.

Like I would have to do like.

Really quick, short, fast movements. And my clitoris was never not paid attention to. I think, dude, I'm so like. I really like the Nova. I think it's such a good toy.

The first time I used it though, I couldn't because I. Which now I'm gonna download the app because now you can like control them separately, but because I need like low clitoral stimulation and then intense G spot stimulation.

But I couldn't control them separately at first. So I'm like, okay.

Like, it was hard to figure out. You mean at first the buttons are.

Well, yeah. No, because I didn't know that if you press it again, you can do just the G spot or just. Yeah, I didn't read the instructions first, which I should.

No one reads instructions. I know.

So, but so when I was doing it the first time, I was having like crazy clitoral orgasms. Just like, I was like, oh, my God, this is super intense. Just. Yeah, but with both. But I couldn't get my G spot orgasm because I was just too focused on my clitoris. So then finally when I like looked at it and I actually read the instructions.

Oh, okay.

So now I can just have the G spot vibrate on which that was strong enough to still kind of do a little bit of stimulation from the clitoral orgasm. Or I mean, the clitoral vibrator. So then that was when I was like, okay, this is the ticket. This is where I'm at. This is where I need to be.

And just FYI, for people who are like, who have the toy and aren't really sure, there's like a little like circle and they're like up down buttons and like different function buttons on the sides. You press that middle button and it changes the kind of stimulation you have. So it changes it from just clitoral to just G spot to clitoral and G spot. And then there was one where I changed it and it was like lower clitoral, higher G spot. And I was like, what? I was not expecting that at all. And that was nice.

Yeah, it's got exactly lower, higher trigger.

Check this app. I mean, I'm, I'm like you're all.

About the component of the app.

I couldn't figure out the button thing. Like I'm, I'm dumb about that stuff.

So the app makes it much clearer for you.

The visual swipe up or down internal X external. Like turn it like so that only one of them's going like, I'm. I like play with this app when I'm not masturbating.

But. And your partner long distance could use it as well. So if you were in a long. If you're in a long distance relationship or you just want. You can't see your boyfriend that night, your partner FaceTime, they could have the app on their phone and they could be controlling the vibrations for you, which I think is super hot.

It has a video chat feature in it. I was reading about that last night. I haven't explored it yet, but it does have that. And it was like on the website, if you go to like we vibe.com and you look up their We Connect app separately from all the toys lover or something. Yeah. It's like you can FaceTime through the app with your partner while they're pressing all the right buttons. Like it's, it's pretty insane. Like, I kind of wish that my boyfriend would leave town so we could try it.

Right.

Or just, Just leave the bedroom.

No. I mean, no, leave town.

I'm just kidding. Right? Right. You can only get that. So. Yeah. It has two powerful motors and we just want to emphasize they are controlled independently. So again, that's what's really cool. And then you just play around with it. There's so many settings in here. I didn't realize it had the upper and the. Even the appendage.

The swirly.

The swirly. You could do the lower and the upper.

Yeah, I think so. That's what I was noticing last night. Maybe at that point I was just drunk off of orgasms and I didn't know what was on. Going, going on. Maybe I thought it was buzzing because it wasn't, but.

Holy.

If you make your own pattern, you can make the clitoral one do like cha cha cha. And the internal one just Do a straight through.

That's probably exactly what I would want.

You need the cha cha cha.

I don't like the cha cha cha. I like the wave.

You like the wave? Yeah. I like that all their patterns are named too.

I love that.

Yeah. Here's the other thing. How would my partner. If I can't like, I want my partner to do that because he's not going to know. You could make your own pattern and be like, email or be like. You could share your pattern with your partner and then be like, do this pattern. Because I know this works for me. So kind of takes the guessing out.

FYI, this is what I like now. Do it.

Yeah. Send your lover. Send them an invite to connect to the app. So it's. It's cool. So we had a good time with it, huh? Anything else? I mean, I think they're just. I just love. They're easy to clean. They love their cleaner. Yeah.

They have cleaner. They have their own cleaner that comes with it. That is amazing. It's just fantastic. I've used it. I used it on the toys before I got started. And then afterward, I love the cleaner.

Because then you have to go in the sink.

Called We Vibe Clean.

We Vibe Clean. And I love their lube, you guys. Have you tried their pure lube?

I don't think I've tried their lube.

Yeah.

It comes a little sample of it because I have their pump. No, we got them at the show. They gave us those two bottles. Remember? I got you guys the bottles. Isn't the lube great?

It's great.

I love it. And I love the pump.

I just. I just love alder.

We Vibe's killing it. I'm, like, really impressed.

I know. Well, you. Right. I know.

They've always been my favorite.

Literally. You've changed your sex life.

Yeah, straight up.

And I do feel like you're still going to have that. I think you just have to report back.

I feel like every time I do it. Yeah, I'm one step closer. I've had my first blended orgasm, and I'm just gonna keep on jimmying. Jimmy and midges.

You just can't give up.

It really taught me the hand motions. I think using the Nova was the first time I understood the hand motions associated with the. The best way to work my G spot, because of the way it's shaped and because of the way, like, to have it keeping constant stimulation with your clitoris. You kind of like get into this, like, almost like this wrist action mode. And I was like, it all makes Sense, like, I had, like, orgasm epiphanies last night.

That's amazing. So you had your first blended then?

Yeah. Oh, no.

I mean, I've had with a toy.

I've had blended with toys before. But my goal is I'm hitting the rave hard when I get home. I'm masturbating right now. That's what I'm doing. Don't bother me.

Yeah, I might bother you, but if you need to. I'm doing work. I'm masturbating. I love that art. Cause she's like, I'm sorry. I was masturbating. I couldn't get it done. That really is our work in here. Our work is done then.

Yeah, we're good.

Okay, guys. So everyone. Yeah, check it out. We will be bringing you more sex toy reviews. We've got a lot going on in the office. A lot of masturbating to get back to.

And to find these toys, you go to sexemily.com, click on the rave or the Nova banner, depending on what's there. It'll take you right to the site. Use code Emily for a special discount.

Yeah, I think you'll love them. And thank you all. Thank you for being here, my lovely team. Thank you, intern Nina as well, for taking all that. We're on Snapchat now, so you should all find us on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook.

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Also, Emily's gonna be doing a live show with Brian from the Great love debate on March 10th at the Hollywood Improv. I'm pretty sure.

Exactly. March 10th at the Hollywood Improv. Thank you for reminding me.

Just happened.

Great Love debate literally happened five minutes ago. So I want to see you all there. We've had some great shows lately, too. We do two weeks, so check them all out. And yeah, thanks, everyone, for listening. Was it good for you? Email me feedbackexwithemily.com.

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