The “Skinny” On Emily: Part One

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Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex. Eyes that, that mock our sacred institutions.

Bedroom eyes, they call them in a bygone day.

Hey Emily, you got a boyfriend?

Cause my man E here, he just.

Got his heart broken.

He thinks you're kind of cute.

A girl's gotta have her standards. Oh my.

Do women know about shrinkage?

Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean like laundry? It shrinks. Can we not talk about sex so much?

Are you kidding me?

Oh my God, I feel so good.

Being bad feels pretty good.

But you know, Emily's not the kind.

Of girl you just play with.

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I can't take credit for Dear Media.

Thanks for having me here.

Thank you for coming in. We always have the best time with you.

That's how I feel. This is like exciting. You know, some things in life are like, got to, got to go this, got to go this. I got have to. I'm excited.

I'm excited.

Sometimes you get some duds, you know, doing podcasts and guests and I always, we always, when we get somebody that we have fun with, we're like, when.

You'Re podcasting with the queen of audio who's been doing it for what did you say, nine, 14 years? I mean, you know, 2005.

I mean, we should get our notebooks out.

Feel good now. You know, we're all doing it though. You guys are creating this empire and you guys have Been blogging for. You started blogging the same time. Right.

Like, I started blogging in 2010.

Okay.

And we started a podcast three years ago. So.

Yeah, look at your.

We were early to the space, but not like you.

Right. It was ridiculous. Like, up until four or five years ago, we were like, I don't even know what a podcast is, you know? So it's. It's really. It's really changing.

It's a crazy time for podcasts.

I'm very. Well, thank you. But I'm very impressed at what you guys have done here with, like, with your. With your brand and lifestyle, how you. How you live together, work together. You're married. You've been together for how many years? Since you were 13. So I don't know the math, but.

We broke up for, you know. No, we broke up from 13 to 22.

Okay.

So we broke up for a long time.

21.

Excuse me.

Well, we have known each other for 20 years now, which is crazy to.

Think about, but we definitely went and had different experiences.

Right.

No, I'm glad this isn't one of those stories that, like, we hunkered down together and we've been. We've only kissed each other.

I'm glad, too, because we'd probably be thinking, if you don't, then you're wondering, like, I wonder what a third lips.

Have touched his balls.

Well, good.

You know what I mean?

That's true.

I agree. Because if it had. I'm so glad you clarified that, because I always say, don't get married before you're 30.

I got engaged, and then we waited four years, so it was like a long. I recommend soaking up the engagement period for everything you possibly can, like, soak it up.

I agree.

Let it sit. Enjoy it. Let everyone not ask you, when you're having kids, just be engaged.

Are people asking that all the time? Well, you guys are already. You got married.

It started like, when are you going to get engaged? Then it was, when are you going to get married? And now it's, when are you going to have kids? Like, I feel it's always going to be the when it is.

Just tell me. I was just talking about this the other day, and my producer, she was like. She's like, 25, 26 now. And they're like, oh, when do you have a boyfriend? It's like, everyone want. When. When you meet other people, they want you to match up. Up. They want you to get to where they are, get the kids, get the thing. And I agree with you that that's Also a great tip for sex.

The slower we go, the more we wait for arousal and the teasing. That's when the sex is better. And so the longer you wait to get to even the engagement and you prolong things and the tease and the buildup and arousal, that's what makes everything.

It's so much better. It's so much better. I think you should just be patient. Not everything has to be in a rush. And also you don't have to do what society tells you to do. If I wasn't with Michael, I would be dead single and I would be confident about it.

Yeah, exactly.

Do you? Everyone's different.

Single is such a sort of negative connotation. Like you're single until you can be a double. But I feel like if you are single, single's fine. I love single.

I have a lot of my single friends ask and I give. They're like, what's it like being in a committed relationship? You married? And I was like, you should not use me as an example. I think Lauren and I are somewhat unique case where it's like don't know each other for 20 years. Like we're talking about my partner Weston who runs Woo.

We love Weston.

Weston's hot and single and ready to mingle.

Yeah. And he should be single and ready to mingle because he's a 32 year old man with the lube company and he should just be out there, there.

Looking around you guys. So we talked about this on the show. So. Okay.

Woo.

More play. You guys have been listening. I truly am. And I haven't seen Lauren and Michael. So just so you know, like we, we all, we have a very mutual admiration thing going on. And then I think you reached out, you were talking to our business guy Ken about it and then we got it. So like a year and a half ago you sent me a bottle and I think it was probably the first batch or something or when it was coming out.

We just wanted your feedback.

At the time I loved, I think I told you, I'm like, I love it. And then my boyfriend at the time who had tried every lube was like, that's the only one I want to use.

Yeah, you get your healthy fats and you can multitask while you're giving a BJ exact.

Right? That's so smart. See that's so you throw it on.

Some salad dressing, use it as an under eye cream. Have you done that? Perhaps some lip gloss.

Yeah, you can use, you can use it everywhere.

We've seen like a woman wrote in and she ran out of. She didn't have her hair. What was it? Hair gel or hairspray. And she used it for her hair. It's coconut oil.

Coconut oil.

You can use it to masturbate. Whatever you want.

Masturbate for sex, for body. Just smells good. It's great to make your skin glow. So he was like, okay, that's all I ever want to use. Where's that one? Where's that one? And then it got to the point where, you know, when you run out of something and I cut the bottom off just to squeeze the amazing. And then I was like, ken, can we reach out to them? I want more. I want to work with it. So anyway, I'm obsessed with it.

I'm so glad.

And we all are. And so I think it's just. It is sensual and it's sexy and the branding around it and feminine.

It exists because we invented it by trial, right? We were using it.

We used coconut oil all the time. Like every single second we had sex. And then our friend Weston came to us, and I said, you gotta try coconut oil for sex. So he tr. And then he started to realize that he was going into Whole foods and getting this gallon of coconut oil and digging his nasty fingernails in it. And like, I don't want that on my vagina. You know what I mean? With, well, I don't want Western.

But it was. It was.

You know what I mean?

We looked at it and we're like, it's missing something too. So that's why we added the stevia for flavor, for taste. And, you know, we added a little bit of the beeswax for, like, that soothing feeling. And then, you know, the vanilla is just for smell.

The beeswax also has a nice grip. So it like grips the penis. You know what I mean?

Yes, it does.

Like, a little grip.

It does have a grip to it and the taste and the texture of it. So it's not just straightforward. Like, it has.

I mean, we just literally had like, batches mixing it in my warehouse, just like mixing lube. And people are like, what the hell are you guys doing? We're like, don't worry about it. We're just making something here. And that's how it came out. It's like, you know, it works.

We gotta get those, like, toothpaste things, you know, that squeeze the toothpaste out, like, for woo. We need to like, make that, like a prototype of, like, cute things that have the Instagram handle on it.

1 Weston, if you listen to this, he's probably going to listen and he's going to be all shy and nervous.

Stat come over to our office.

And Weston's single. And I can confirm that Weston has a big penis because I pantsed him in 12th grade in the Fidel's bathroom.

If you were gonna confirm that for another reason, I was gonna have some questions.

Exactly. Well, we got that clear. So anyway, we love your product. It's true what you're saying about coconut. People always say to me, I just use coconut oil. I'm like, well, just be careful. It's not the one that you're using for the stir fry and for your penis. Like, just. You don't wanna mix those things.

You don't wanna pube in your stir fry.

You don't wanna friggin pube. You guys, we know you've known each other for 20 years and you've been together a long time.

We've been together a long time.

And last time you were on the show? Well, the first time I met you, I was on your show. We did a little sex therapy stuff. And then you were on, we talked about role playing. And you were excited about that. I was maybe doing a little Sexy Stranger thing.

I have to admit, I can't lie. We've been so busy moving up to LA that we need to do the role playing.

So for my birthday, Emily, I will say this, though. We haven't even had to pretend to play Sexy Stranger because she has been such a terror during this move that I'm like, who is this person?

You never know.

There you go. What move you guys are moving from?

We were in San Diego and now.

When we podcast with you, we lived in San Diego.

That's right. So you were driving up here every day. So now you're living here in la.

Now we're here.

Oh, thank God.

That was stressful on the relationship. But now it's when we're moved in. Moving is the worst.

Moving? What is it? Moving? Death and taxes the worst thing for people to deal with.

Yeah. Or biting Michael's balls like I did last night on accident.

Did she bite the balls on accident? Cause the woo tasted so good. You were trying to lick it off that.

And I maybe had a margarita.

Too many.

Too many. I was like, what is going on here?

Sometimes you gotta bite the balls.

I love it. Spice it up, keep it interesting. So you guys have been busy, I get that. So how is everything going? How do you guys keep it fresh? People work together, they play together, they live together, they move together. You make a Loop. How do you keep it? Really?

We have separate offices.

It's important.

It's important, I think, that we have access to so many incredible sexual authorities like you. You know, we had Doc Johnson on the podcast Love Them.

Wednesday Martin was on.

Yeah, Wednesday Martin. Our audience and our community. And both of us have access to these people that, you know, know their shit when it comes to sex. So, you know, like, Doc Johnson brought us every single toy you can possibly imagine. Toys are always fun.

Yeah, toys are fun.

That was interesting when all those toys came into this office and all the women were like, what the hell is going on? And there's just dildos everywhere.

Michael, a lot of great things. Yeah, they love you. He also gave you guys some toys. I kind of remember. Love all the toys. I wanted to bring you more, but I couldn't remember what I'd given you.

We have so many fucking sex toys. It's like it's Mary Poppins in the.

Drawer next to my bed. Like, you need it. So you don't need that. He's got a lot of products. But, you know I'm always here for you.

We know.

And can you walk us through what Michael's going to do on my birthday for Sexy stranger?

Go ahead.

Okay.

Thank you. Let's bring it back to the.

Can you tell us, like, what we should.

What if you're coaching me? Okay. Let's just pretend Lauren's not here for a minute.

Let's pretend I'm not here.

Go.

I'm going to sit back and relax.

So she wants to go to this restaurant, and so we're going to book this nice restaurant that she likes. And then I think I have to. I have to show up looking completely different.

Yeah.

Like I have to maybe grow a mustache.

You could do that.

I might have to wear a cowboy hat or something strange.

Okay.

I might have to wear some.

What if you don't have slick hair?

I think yeah. Might have to change the hair up.

What if you just unslick the hair? Oh, is this. Please unskick.

Hold on. Is there two things going on? Is one of you over the hair?

I'm not over. I'm just saying that would be a total different look. I dated a guy like that, and when he unslicked, it was, like, totally different. It was like, you're a different human.

I look a little strange without it slicked.

You think you do, or maybe you don't.

I could use no slicked for sexy stranger.

It's a sexy stranger.

I think it's perfect. Or, you know, a hat.

Should I do a wig?

No, no wig. Well, Lauren does. Here's the thing.

I don't need a wig.

Okay.

For him.

So. Okay, so don't slick the hair.

Extracting a wig. But just same you. But just the hair's on. Okay, you go.

No, I think this is all good feedback. Don't slick the hair. Maybe a mustache or two.

No.

What else? We need more. We need more.

You got the costume. Okay, so you need work where you guys. You already know where you want to go for dinner. Yes. And it's in la.

Yes.

Okay, so we got to show up separately, obviously. Should I be there first or should she be there first? She should be at the bar or should I be at the bar?

I think I should be there first.

I think you could be there first. And then, Lauren, you're gonna have to do something a little different, too. Your alter.

I'm gonna get creative. I'm gonna be way more fun than you are. I have 20 ideas on how to get creative.

Well, I have to go through it now. I have to. Okay, so if you're there and I'm.

Approaching, that's the best idea for you guys, too.

Okay, tell us the idea.

Well, in a minute, we're gonna get to that part. It's a sex toy accoutrement that you do not have yet. Cause nobody has it, but it's gonna blow your mind. Okay, so. Okay, so you come in. Here's the whole. The premise of the Sexy Stranger. And it sounds kind of silly, but I'm telling you, I've mentioned it on my show, and we've had people call back, like the next day and say. Cause that say, emily, we did it. And it was amazing. And this is what happened. So the whole premise of it is that you guys have been together for a long time, and so you kind of suspend belief and you think, okay, well, she's sitting at the bar already, Lauren. And you go up to her and you're like, hey. And she's never seen you in whatever outfit you choose in your hair on slick. And you're like, hey. You know, kind of like, come here often? Can I get you a drink? Have you been waiting long? You waiting for someone? And she could say, no, I'm not. I'm just, you know, I was gonna get an appetizer at the bar, and you could say, well, I got a table. And then I think, what would be sexy is if you figure out, have you guys ever talked about fantasy stuff or what you would be into Just either you could. Here's your two choices. Either you replay when you first met, and you're like, my name's Michael. I've got this business. I'm Mark.

So Michael was 4:1, and I was 5:7. So you'll have to.

We were 12, so we might have.

To switch her legs off.

We might have to play that. We might have to fast forward that. Because I was literally, I think, playing handball the first time I saw her.

Okay, so we gave that one option. What's the other option?

The other option is like a completely. Like a totally different. It could be something from a movie. It could be playing a character. It could just be. You don't even know where he's going. You're gonna come in, you're gonna be like, I'm Bob. And I. Yeah.

Like, I wanna invent a whole different backstory.

I'm a singer. I'm a. Whatever. I've got a rock band. Do you guys. Could you.

I wanna be who I was meant to be. So I'll give a whole backstory.

Half.

Yeah. No, I'm gonna have to develop a whole backstory. We'll storyboard it. I'll get my team involved. We'll figure out, like, who I was gonna be.

But do you have someone that you kind of wish you would be or someone you remember, like, as a child?

I mean, I was always American Psycho, maybe.

No, no. I was always super into. And I never had any musical talent, but, like, you know, the Guns N Roses of the world. I grew up on, like, rock and roll music, so, like, if I could, if I had that talent, I would drop everything to do it. I just don't. So maybe I can pretend I'm doing something like that.

Watch, like, a biography on someone, like a Netflix.

Don't dress as George Washington or some shit. I don't want to have to.

He's gonna be a rocker.

Yeah, maybe I'll do that.

Okay, we'll have to see.

So I think. What do you think about that? A surprise. That if you don't know what he's gonna be, just gonna show up.

That's what I think. I like. I love surprises.

Okay.

I tell him this all the time, and he wants to tell me my birthday gift. I like surprises.

Are you gonna hear this?

Yeah, I'm hearing it.

She wants a surprise.

I'm just surprised.

And my love language is touch. I tell him every day.

Okay, that's cool.

His is different. His is Acts of service.

Oh, God. Okay. That's a tough. Okay, so touch.

Oh, God. Oh, God.

That's a hard one. Yeah, it is. Well, you know, the hardest is I'm touched too. I'm touching words of affirmation. Because usually there's two. Do you know what your second one is?

I know it's not words of. It's not words of affirmation, but you.

Do look nice today.

Thank you.

Acts of service and gifts.

No, I don't. I don't want to receive gifts. I get very awkward. Taylor, back me up on this. I get very awkward. My office just gave me birthday gift, like, balloons up and I don't know how to respond. No, no, no. It was a while ago. But I get. I get very flustered because I. I feel like, okay, then I gotta reciprocate and I gotta do as much as well or better. So I. I get flustered with gifts. Yeah, they make me anxious.

Acts of service are good. It's more just like if somebody writes me a handwritten card, like, I appreciate that or like if somebody acts of service.

So I guess that's okay.

But no, I don't need, like, words or gifts or time.

Quality time. God knows you guys probably have quality time. Maybe you don't. No, we got quality time. Maybe it's not quality. Okay, so. And yours is touch.

Mine is touch.

I like touch.

You have to remind him a lot because you like it, but when you see. So touch is the one love language that's the hardest to reconcile. When someone's not touch and someone is touch. Because, like, I'm touched. And I realized my last guy boyfriend was touched too. And it was like, I love. Cause I could be, like, touching climbing. Like I need it. Like, if I'm with someone and we're not touching, I'm like, I think I'm dying right now. Without touch, I might just die.

That's how I feel. But I only want to be touched by. By the person. I'm in a room. I don't want to be touched by, like, every. Like, I'm fine being, like, not touched by anyone else but by him. I want touch.

Yeah, you want to come behind you, kiss your neck, take a tip, be connected.

Or 3.

It is hard to reconcile because I know it's not my natural state. Yeah, I'm not touching a lot of people.

So.

I mean, I love touching Lauren, obviously, and we've been in a relationship for a long time, but.

Great massage oil.

Yeah, we have a great oil. But I forget sometimes to just, like, go up and like, touch her neck or, like, kiss her neck or like, touch her back. So I got to do that more.

I'm like, that meme that's on the ground dead, and like, just wants more attention and like, like wants to be touched every second. You know what I mean?

I actually know what you mean. Deep in my heart and soul, that's how I feel.

It's like, why are you dying? And they're like, I need, like, just touch me. I need attention.

Like Cinderella thing. Like, just kiss me, touch me. I need it.

The problem with me is I go like in and out of people's lives where I'm like, really, really in. And this is. All my friends know this about me where I'm spending a lot of time. And then like, I'm also the guy that'll go away for three days into complete isolation. And I'm fine with that. We're just alone.

Have to do a touch.

No, but I'm saying.

So it plays into. Sometimes I forget, like, that you need more attention.

That's why Emily comes on the podcast.

And reminds me of a refresher. So here's a good anchor. So you guys, I know you guys do a lot of. I've been so impressed. You guys do a lot of self help and always looking at new habits in your morning routines and just all the. What's it called?

What's kind of productivity hacks.

Productivity hacks. Like the Tim. What's that?

Living your best life. Biohacking.

Biohacking.

We're not like as scientific as Tim.

Ferriss, but yeah, I don't wanna say like, what's the word? Just, yeah, living your best life. Self improvement, optimizing self improvement, optimization, self help.

Sounds like we wanna inspire everyone to live their life as the best version of themselves. Like, take every second that you can capitalize on it. You, you know, get good sleep, have a productive morning. Like, we just want to inspire people to be the best version of themselves.

Right, and that's what you guys are doing across all your. All your platforms, your podcasts and your blogs and your. I mean, like, you just have to follow Lauren's. Social media is amazing. Like all this information, it's so real, it's so authentic.

Thank you.

We're gonna. Don't worry, I'm tracking. I'm going back because it's gonna relate to remembering this. So what I'm saying is like just. Yeah. To give this back to you. That it's just, it's so impressive and you are just this. I feel like everyone just love, loves you and you're universally not Everyone loves my trust. Well, you get it. You've got the people, maybe we all do. But sure, you are real. And you're. Yeah, you know, but I don't know that. I just think it's amazing what you guys are doing. And I love that you've brought that into it again in recent times about what you guys sharing, what you've done to be productive and the self improvement. So what I'm gonna say to you is that you get. You go into your. I get it. You go into your three days, I.

Go into my little shell and I just go away.

You're building a frickin empire. You're in the middle of it, you got 10 people working for. I come here, I'm like, oh my God, it's amazing. So that Lauren requires that. So when you come home now and there's something called. Have you read this book called Atomic Habit just came out.

It's white. It's a white cover with a soap. I just got it, but I haven't read it yet. But a lot of people seem to like that book.

It's not like a totally new concept about habits, but essentially what they say is if you want to build a new habit, for example, one thing you do every day is brush your teeth. So let's say you want to start every day. You want to do sit ups or push ups. You're like, okay, I want to do two push ups. And then I'm gonna brush my teeth. Or I'm gonna write one page in my journal. Cause I wanna write more and then brush. So you build on things you already do.

So smart.

So you walk in the door. So you walk in the door every day, right? Let's say Lauren's there, but you're like, I'm in, but I gotta go up to the room and you're gonna tack.

It onto something I'm already doing.

So you're walking in and you're like, okay, Lauren, this is when I'm opening the door to the house. I'm gonna go up to Lauren and I'm gonna kiss her neck. I'm gonna give her a kiss, I'm gonna tell her she looks beautiful. And I'm just straight for 20 minutes. Straight for 20 minutes. I was gonna say five, but for 20.

See, she pushes the boundaries. I think that's smart because Lauren. So on the show, we try to interview every walk of life in so many different genres and not all of it's applicable to our lives, but at least we can present it to somebody that it May be for. We've had a lot of skin experts on the show, and before I knew anything about skin, I looked like an old, weathered saddle. It was just like my forehead was falling over my face. I looked like I'd been ridden hard and thrown away wet too many times. Just terrible. And when I had all these conversations, I was like, oh, and they told me, like, you could just. Just put a little serum on it, like, wash your face in the shower when you're washing everything else. I was like, oh. So it's just basically building that habit by tacking on the stuff I was already doing. Now it takes maybe one or two minutes, but I can identify with this. Sorry. Long way to talk about this now, because I'm tacking it on to stuff I'm already doing.

Like, what's. What the is going on? He's, like, doing toner and, like, a mist and ending with an eye cream with his index finger because you don't want to use it.

But I learned. I learned. I learned by tacking it onto stuff I was doing.

Okay, well, why don't you take advantage of having Emily right in front of you to get some tips and tricks on?

Yeah. Where are you guys challenged right now? Around.

Emily. Here's what I need. I need you on speed dial.

You know what he told me the other day? That I am only allowed to come give him a blowjob or have sex with him between the hours of 8 and 9:30.

No, no, no.

At night.

No, that's not completely true. Okay.

I can't wait for that.

That is ideal. That would be my ideal.

So happy Emily's here.

That'd be my ideal. What happens is I'm an extreme morning person. I'm up at 5 every day. Lauren is up later.

I'm up at 7, 7:30.

What happens, though, is around, like, 10 to midnight, I'm done. I'm, like, spent. I'm finished. I'm just so tired because I'm doing shit every day. A million miles an hour. And so I said, listen, it'd be ideal if you came down a little earlier if you want to be with me. And then after, after, you could go watch your reality tv, because the problem is the shit. She'll watch the reality TV and then come down, like, 10, 11. And honestly, I'm just done. And one, I want to give a good performance, and I don't want to be all dead in the saddle.

I want to tell this to all guys. And I told this to him earlier. It doesn't always have to be Riverdance. Okay.

Right.

Sometimes it's not going to be some gnarly performance. Sometimes we can just do a matinee. That's not like afternoon sex.

She told me that. And we've actually been having a lot more sex. I realized I always want to please. Right? Like, if I'm with a woman now, my wife, I want to make sure that, like, it's not just me getting pleasure. And so every time it was like this big performance. Right.

It's a lot.

It was a lot of pressure. And so she told me, hey, it doesn't need to be this every time.

I never have ever put that out there. That it needs to be some huge.

I don't know where I picked that up from. I think a lot of men pick that up.

But you're like, yeah. You come in and you're like, what are you doing? What was the performance?

Well, I just thought that every time it needed to be this, like, long thing, and I'm like, I go down.

On her and kissing the thing. Not every single thought.

I don't want to get lazy. Right?

Right. No. Well, not as long as I'm done. I'll never let you get lazy. So he said. So the 8 to 9:30, it's done. It's happening. So the 8 to Lauren's giving me a. Looks like. Yes, Talk to him. So 8 to 9:30, how did you react to that? That almost feels someone like me. I'd be like, oh, no, it's eight. Should I be doing it now? I don't want to. I'm in the middle of Bravo.

I mean, I don't even know him and I are so different when it comes. I'm just like, go with the flow. I love spontaneity. Like, it was not.

I mean, hearing it back, it's. We can make this a segment. But what I was more trying to get at was that by 10 to midnight, I'm just dead. And like, I would say if you want to come down and be intimate, like, there's obviously a bigger window. But when you get into. When you get into 7:30. Yeah, but when you get into those hours, I'm just like a corpse.

I'll be booking with his assistant.

Exactly. Well, people schedule sex. All right, guys, we're gonna take a quick break. And we come back more. Lauren and Michael.

Is the reason why this came up is because you feel like you hadn't been making time for sex with the move and then the madness.

No, it just this year. So because we're busier and busier. And like, what happened for me is I get up early so that I can have some alone time right from 5. Because as soon as 9am hits, everybody's just flooding me. And so I said, okay, I'm gonna just get this time, four hours where I can just knock out all my stuff and be like, my time. And then what happens is because I've shifted my time up, I'm a lot more tired at 9, 10, 11. So I was like, you know, hopefully we can get together before that. She likes to watch reality TV later. And so what happens is she'll do all that and come down and I'm just dead. So I was saying we gotta try to sync our schedules a little bit better.

So what's the ultimate time for you to have sex, Lauren?

I'm not so clinical about it, like I said. And that's like. I think that's hard when you're too. It's like yin and yang in a relationship.

I'm more like, morning's a good time too.

Morning sex.

Morning sex is great.

She might be asleep, though.

Well, I don't want to have sex at 5 in the morning.

Nobody. But you could come back at seven.

Well, maybe, you know, come on down at five.

Come on down at seven when she's getting up.

Yeah.

So here's what I tell couples all the time. And people think this isn't sexy. What do you mean? If you literally schedule sex like you do everything else because how many times a week do you think you need it and you both feel good?

I could have sex every single day.

Oh, I love it.

I could have sex every day. But I noticed as I get older, it goes up, not down. Is that normal for women that you.

Want more than less? Yes, it's. Nothing is normal. No, but I love that about you. No, I think it changes for every woman.

Yeah, I could have sex every day, but I think that's because my love language is touch, probably. I think so.

You want to connect with them. So here's the other thing. Is it actual sex or is it more like. What if he did your the woo and gave you a massage and it wasn't anything while you're watching Teach?

Yeah, I just want to be touched every second.

I get it. So Right.

Loud and clear. Loud and clear.

Okay, I got it on a microphone. Touch me. So few. Yeah. So a few days a week, maybe you could set the alarm. There's like two days where, like, we're going to set the alarm early or you're going to come up at 7, he's going to come back upstairs after he does his meditation or whatever you do in the morning. And then you know that, like, on Wednesdays is our day, even if that's too much for you. But some couples never have sex. So I'm like, put it on the calendar. And then you said, well, to look forward to, you know, what's happening. And then maybe on the weekends it's an afternoon thing, but I get the 8 to 9 thing. Could be like, restrictive. Cause you're like, I've got 20 more minutes of my show. It's almost nine.

Let me see if I can pencil you in.

Yeah.

I mean, I think for us, what's been interesting is that we work together. So it's like, at what point do you shut it off? Like, we'll be home in the kitchen, and instead of talking about, you know, maybe things other couples are talking about, we're talking about work all the time.

All the time. How do you not work?

Our biggest problem right now is sinking, is thinking. Right. It's like.

Our schedules of like, when we're waking, when we're sleeping, also thinking when we're talking business, when we're not. And I think what we should both try to get better at right now, because a lot of this stuff has presented itself recently.

Because before, it's growing a lot.

Yeah. And so we gotta get in with the move. And so now it's deciding. Like, I'm trying to get into a space where between like 6, 30 and 10. I'm not doing anything with work. I'm trying to do that. And I think if we could get on that same page, it's gonna leave a lot of room for intimacy, you.

Know, I think would be great. I've heard couples do this who work together. And what I always recommend is, is have a time. And this will definitely be on your role play night because you're not even working together at that point. But in real life, say that when you guys do certain things, go to dinner. When you're having dinner, you can't talk about work. Like, have limits. Like, we are not allowed to talk about work at dinner on my birthday.

I'm gonna fucking milk the shit out of this so bad. I want sexy stranger. I want to go to the restaurant I want to go to. I want to order the wine I want to have. And I don't want to talk about.

Listen, I'm going to have such a deep backstory. You're going to not. You're not going to want to talk about work, because you're going to be trying to figure out who this person is.

Exactly. That's what you're gonna do. And then I've got this thing for you. Okay. The toy that you're gonna bring, it's called the Moxie. Okay. The Moxi by We vibe. And it's. It hasn't even has it come out yet. It's. It's. It's selling for sales now. Okay. We got a few of them in the office. And it's a wearable bot. A wearable. So it's. But it's not like those weird panty vibes they had back in the day. It's a really strong, powerful vibrator that you put inside your underwear.

Okay.

And then you'd have it on the app.

I have the remote control.

The remote control. There'd be a robomote or the app. And you control it, but it's like, it's the most amazing.

So wait, is this something that I'm gonna wear out to the grocery store and he's gonna be controlling it?

Anywhere you are in the world, he could control it, but that's pretty cool.

Is that what you do? Or do you also use it when you're having sex?

All the things during sex, but it's more like at your dinner. It'd be fun.

Oh.

Even though he's your sexy stranger, he might also happen to have the We Connect app. Oh, okay. I might happen to have it inside of your thong.

In my thong?

Yeah. Or.

Oh, it's inside of you.

You're wearing it. No, not inside. It's resting in your underwear.

I'm gon to have Emily send me her schedule, so I know when to press the button anyway.

I think that would be cool.

You love that. To have control over that button.

Yeah. It could happen another time. And there you'd get more connection, maybe.

Yeah.

Okay. So this is. I just think more talking then about this, scheduling it, or figuring out what works, because most couples don't, and then they get frustrated. So just knowing that you need more touch and would a massage be okay, or would something else be sufficient?

The one thing we have. Well, we have a few things going, but the one in our relationship is Lauren and I are both very open talking about sexual. You know, it's. You want to do this. You want to do this. Like, we never. There's never that thing.

I think Emily is too.

Yeah. Well, that's was great having conversations, because a lot of my friends, they. They get in these relationships, and then There's a partner that's maybe shy about talking about him and saying what they want. So, like, we. We can have a very open dialogue with each other about that. It's just more like sinking and get on the same page. Like, maybe one day I'm like, hey, I want to talk about sex. She's like, I'm talking about work. And then the other way. So we just got to get same page.

So maybe that's what you guys do. You're like, this is good. Maybe when you go to dinner, you talk about sex. I have some great things for you guys. Have you guys ever done a yes, no, maybe? Like, no. Okay. So I'm gonna send this to you, too. Yes. New baby list is a really cool thing that you do, and we have it on our site, if you guys can download.

Essentially has all the sex things that you could ever imagine. Like, are you into spanking? Yes. No, maybe. Are you into cosplay? Yes. No, maybe. Are you into vibrators? Yes. No, maybe. Are you into bondage? Yes. No. Maybe. And then you guys each fill out the form, and then you compare. I didn't know you'd be into dirty talk. I didn't know that's a maybe. Well, let's explore that together, because I think that we get you especially. You guys have been together for so long, we get limited in what. We don't even know what's on the menu.

It's true.

Having sex the same way. So if you make this, like, a project, like, oh, I didn't know. We both want to have sex outdoors. How do we make that happen?

That is gonna be a no on your list.

He is not into the sex.

I think it would depend where the outdoors were.

I mean, we've had sex in the car, but you're not, like, having sex on La Cienega or something.

Well, I don't. I would. Yeah. There's certain locations. I think we'd have to define the locations.

Okay, well, you.

Right.

But whatever it is.

Yeah. I want to know what's on your menu.

I like this idea.

I like this idea.

So it just kind of presents because with the reason why so many couples get into a rut and get bored and have mismatched libidos and the scheduling is because everything's gonna get boring after a while. Right. Like, same food every day. Same things every day. And so. And people just know missionary and doggy style and what time we're having it. But if you've other. It'll become like a new. I promise. You, when couples get into this, it's like a new passion. It's like your new hobby. Your sex life can become another area of self improvement.

I love it. So why we have you here and we have Taylor. Taylor needs some tips.

He's your producer.

Yes. Taylor, specifically describe what the tip is. Now that you have. You have Emily here, you have access to the best. Describe your. I don't want to call it a problem.

No, it was a problem. It was a problem. But still, it's. I think it is relevant to talk. It's something that realistically, if you do the research, it's there. And I had heard of edging for a long time and just for everybody listening, it is called edging.

Yes.

And.

Or stop start method.

Yeah, it's the. It works.

Why don't you just tell us your problem so that Emily can actually tell you what's going on?

Well, I had. I had rampant premature ejaculation.

Okay.

Like very bad.

I mean, your whole life. How old are you?

I am 32.

Okay. And so, like, since you were. Like since you first had sex.

I mean, to be honest, it was. I would say it kind of came to fruition after I had a catheter put in. And that's. That's when I can. I think it came from.

Okay, but like, because of a medical condition.

Yes.

Like a sex thing?

No, no, it was not a sex. No, no. Fuck, no.

Not like a penis thing.

Yeah, no, definitely not. I know there's a thing called sounding that we learned from. No, no, I. Trust me, nothing's going down there. That was so the. One of the most painful experiences.

Actually something did go down there.

Yeah. Well, for the catheter. Yes. So I think it was because of that. So then it was. It was really bad. I mean, so bad that one point that there was this time. This was years ago, but this also had. I think I was drinking a lot at this time. And the. I was. It was like a summer I was in Rhode island and there was a lot of. Just again, a lot of lot of drinking during that summer.

We don't need your whole life story. Let's just get to the issue here.

I put a condom on and immediately, like, it was like. I felt like I was getting a BJ and I just bust in the condom and I hadn't even. There was no penetration. It was embarrassing.

Okay, so.

And then there's a lot of the, like, okay, here we go. And then like, literally, like right when it, right when insertion happens, it just, you know, it's same thing. It ends right then and there. It's embarrassing. So yeah, I had it for a while, but the edging definitely helped.

So that. Okay, so that helped you. And the thing about edging is. So that's when you basically when you're masturbating, you practice and you masturbate. So it's essentially to get ejaculation control, ejaculatory control. So you know when you're about to go over, when you're about to ejaculate, you slow down again. Right. Is that how you edge?

Absolutely.

And then you keep doing it and you would do it a few times during a session and then you. Then you were able to build up to the point where you last longer. Bed now?

Yeah, because I would say the easiest way for it now is now that or prior to this when the urge to technically ejaculate or you know, shoot the load out.

You could have just said the first part. You could have just said the first one.

There was no way to kind of combat that. It was like once it. Once it's coming, it's coming.

Right.

And. But now once it start, once I feel that, that the urge, it's very easy for me to resist it.

That's amazing.

So I did it for. I want to say I did it for a month or two.

Okay. Like every day. Because I feel like it's a practice and some men don't have that. They just, they won't stick with it.

Oh yeah, absolutely.

The first time you had to do it for a month or so.

Michael, do you over edge only for pleasure?

What do you mean?

Does that make sense? No, it's like if. I know, like sometimes it's like. Yeah, sometimes it's good. It's like pleasurable. So you can like, you know it's coming and then you could stop and then keep going.

Yeah, it's like delaying orgasm, delaying marriage, delaying all the things.

If you delay, do you do it during sex or alone or both?

Both. But if you delay during sex, then it makes, it makes the end result more pleasurable.

Learning new everywhere. Yeah.

When you delay, even when you delay your orgasm, like even for we can edge. So we're about to get there and then we breathe, we bring the orgasm back down and then you bring it back up and then your orgasm become more intense.

Oh, I didn't know that.

Yes.

I'm multi orgasmic. Like I can have so many orgasms when I have sex. So every time, Every time, every time.

Internal, external, everything. That's amazing. You've always been that way.

Yeah. Ever since I was.

Yeah.

Ever since I started having sex.

Yeah.

Every time, no matter which way.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I have to do certain positions to do.

What are your positions on top?

I mean, who, like what girl is? I feel like that's like every single person. Doggy style with a vibrator.

With a vibe. Yep.

I mean, anything with a vibrator works too.

Yeah, anything, Anything with a vibrator.

We talk about this all the time. That girls, men and women should be competent bringing vibrators.

Absolutely. Like just don't even. Like. I answer that question a lot. How do I. What do I do to get the wait? Why? I want to finish up with Taylor real quick.

Sorry, sorry.

There like 16 hours. No, but it's fucking great. Wait, Taylor. So here's the thing. Did you. So right now. Because for a lot of men, they do it for a month and then they don't stick with it. So now, how many months has it been?

It's been a while and it's definitely. Yeah, I don't have any more. And it's not something that I. Of course now, like Michael was saying, it definitely. It enhances the end result for it. So now it's more or less I just unintentionally edge. Because I do think that it makes the heightened sense towards the end. It does, but I'm not technically going through where I'm going. Okay, listen, you know, you're supposed to go and then repeatedly do it and then kind of wait and then it says, you know, maybe like at the fourth day or so you're able to like release.

How long is sex with Taylor now?

Honestly, I. I could make it last as long as needed. And that. And that's the honest truth.

Really.

That is so inspiring.

But with. But again with. With the notebook. And you have to. I have to take little pauses in it. But like for instance, a 20 second pause can give me easily like another five minutes of go time.

That's the thing. Learning to pause and not freak out, like, oh my God, I'm gonna come. But you've learned that, so.

Exactly. Yeah. You don't wanna get past that point of no return because then you're just fucked.

Exactly. Well, I'm really impressed. Cause most people, guys can't stick with it or they do it for a week. So it's edging. And we have a lot of stuff on our site. We have a blog, how to last longer in bed. Another one is promescent. You don't need this. But it's the only FDA approved treatment for premature ejaculation. So if that comes up, it's a quickly absorbing delay spray that doesn't transfer to your partner.

You know what's interesting is I 100% have tried this. That.

Oh, okay.

It's, it's. It comes in a little black, like a black spray tube with like a white top. I've tried that. Yes, it again. It worked. But I, I don't like the feeling of it because it. I don't want to say it's weird because it definitely works.

Right.

But again, it's. I, I don't want to have to go and put something on every time before that. And that's like the. That's like the main thing. Yeah, exactly.

I'm just proud of you. That's good work. I'm just telling you from all the men I hear from. My God, you know, thousands of men, they just, they. They don't want to do the work.

Let's give yourself a round of applause. You can. You can start that.

And I think that's inspiring.

It really is work. Because you have to realize you have to kind of unlearn. Because of course, like when you're pleasuring yourself or you're, you know, you're having intercourse, that the orgasm is so enticing, like you want it. And when it's like right there, it's hard to go. I'm now going to delay this. And once you can kind of condition yourself to realize that once that feeling starts to come, all. Or not. Of course, like, literally and figuratively, you have to resist it. And it doesn't enhance. It's made so sex more pleasurable and all good.

Taylor, I have a really good idea for you. You should release a sex tape called on the Edge with Taylor.

Please don't. Please don't.

There you go. Everyone's gonna want to see it now, but I'm telling you that. Yeah. And here most of our sex problems are in our head. Like, they're learned behaviors that don't serve us anymore. We gotta unlearn them. That was good, Taylor. That's inspiring. Was there anything else, Lauren, that you've been feeling like. Or. Michael. That you're like, you know, I. Yeah, Michael, let's be honest with me. Like.

Yeah, Michael, let's go.

Is there anything like that you. Because I feel like whenever we're together, we've gotten into.

Yeah, Michael, we talked a lot.

No, I'm pretty satisfied lately. I've been pretty turned on by My wife lately not pretty. I mean, I'm fired up all the time. Last night she was a little bit tipsy. Bit the balls and it wasn't in a good biting kind of way.

Did you know you were biting him or was it like a teasing? No, I was a little.

No, she didn't know. I don't think she knew which planet but she was on last night.

Well, you look great. You feel like you're on it.

You know when she, she was a little tipsy and she thought she was being super sexy. And then she bit me. And then like she almost flipped off the bed and I was like, the.

Problem is I had three margaritas and then I took. I had a little CBD mint which by the way wasn't too strong. You were freaking out.

Maybe the anti HC or just CBD.

Little hint of THC.

Okay. Oh, those little 2.5 mints. Yeah.

I told her though, I said the edible will hit you different than the, than the. Than the tree.

It'd be a fun combination.

It was a fun combination for me.

But I think she had the spins.

It was a great time.

She had the spins and wood in the middle. She wouldn't admit it.

She just waited half off that she just bit on your dick so she wouldn't roll off the bed.

She was going like this, like bobbing like a boxer.

I was holding on to yourself.

You're satisfied. I feel like you guys are okay. So you're good?

I think we're pretty good. I think that the more attached the better is is the summary. The more sexy stranger.

Sexy stranger.

We need to try the moxie.

I'll tell you when we travel.

Kissing. You could kiss a little more. You know what? I have actually a public service now.

Oh no.

All men need to kiss a little bit more. I think every single man get so lazy with the kissing. You know what? You need to kiss a little bit more. Yeah, let's talk about that.

Kissing is the first thing that goes in long term relationships and people because they just think I'm going to get right into the sex. We have a lot of time, the housewives coming on and you only have your windows closing and you don't kiss. So kissing is the thing and it's so intimate. And that's also when people worry about their partners. I'm not turned on. He just wants to stick it in for women that arouses us. Kissing, tongue and fingers are the three things that bring women to orgasm.

You could work a little bit on that.

Kissing, kissing, making out More.

Yeah.

Taylor, I hope you're taking detailed notes of what I need to do.

Grab a nipple.

Yeah. Boo play.

I don't have a problem with the boo play. I like it.

It's not just like, turn me over and like, stick it in. Well, see, I got new implants.

Yeah, let's talk about that.

And that. Honestly, this sounds weird, but that was like a fun element of our sex life. Like, getting new implants because. Because I had the same ones for 10 years and it was like getting a new pair of tits.

Yeah, right.

Like when I took the bandage off and they were still, like, bloody and everything, he, like, popped the biggest bandages.

It was like, we got a new pair of.

But we got a new pair, Right? Look at this, babe. We've had the same pair, right?

And the doctor that did them, like, I'll show you them before you go.

Yes, please.

He did such a good job.

He's one of those guys that just write a handwritten note. Thank you so much, Dr. Barrett.

Yeah, it's. He. I'm very, very, very. And I'm like, perfectionist.

You get them replaced because. Because you were. Was there problems with the other ones or you were just.

I had them for 10 years. They were saline and now I have silicone. And when saline, they get old, they sort of get like a ripple.

Yeah.

And I felt that ripple with silicone. Now they feel more like a real tit.

I think technology's come a long way in 10 years.

Yeah, it's come a long way.

And you feel good about it?

I feel great. The scar is the most. I mean, did you even see the scar? You can see the scar.

Wow.

He did such a good job with, like, just going like, if this was my nipple. He just went like.

I mean, regardless, the other ones had to come out.

Yeah, they just had to.

Yeah, they had to. And I'm gonna get them framed for Michael. My 10 year old.

The old one.

Really? Yeah. They're in the process of being framed on, like a leopard? No, like a leather snakeskin.

I saw you do an Insta video the other day and Weston was in your office playing with them. Those are mine. Weston? No, I'm just kidding.

You guys share everything. Oh, speaking of Weston. Speaking of Weston and Luke, we need to talk about your freshies too.

So we.

We.

So we've just had fun with this Woo brand to say, okay, like, what would be, like, what do people really want and need? Not just in the bedroom, but around in the bedroom. Everybody's dating. They're dating quickly. They're meeting online.

People are meeting while they're out through these apps. We're saying not everybody is going to feel comfortable running home and jumping into the shower and you might be out and things can get a little funky. We thought, let's have these before and after sex. Wipes. Really? That's what they are. They're the freshies. And it's to get you ready for the bedroom or to maybe clean up.

After the bedroom, because we needed it both ways. And hygiene is one of the biggest killers. People are always like, what's your biggest hurt off? And they say hygiene. And so because what you do, you got to go to the b. I always like, if I'm going to do something sexual, I go into the bathroom and I wipe up. So. And I just love the. I love your design. I love the matchstick box that you open up.

Yeah, the old cigarette box.

Freaked out.

Like, have they sent you them yet? No, no, we don't have them yet.

So buy like one box. He's like, you can't keep them. I'm like, ah, these are amazing. Like, what does it say? The things, the little things on the outside of the box?

Well, there's some that.

So clever.

The quick you say, like, rip my top off.

Rip off and do rip my.

Yeah, yeah.

And play with my nipples. It should say play with my nipples.

There's a few. There's a few.

The packaging says play with my nipples. You guys need a reminder? French can make out.

Play with the nipples.

Make out. Play with my nipples.

Don't you feel like, Lauren, that we were told that men are obsessed with breasts? And then after a while, like, you're with someone and they skip your mouth, they sip your boobs and they're sticking it in. You're like, what?

I will say, Lauren, I never skip the boobs. I don't.

You don't? I don't. That's good enough. Now you've got four boobs to play with if you'd like.

Yeah, but you play with my boobs for your own pleasure. Not for my pleasure.

Well, that's another.

Oh, this is what it says.

Okay, this is what I love. Get dirty, get clean, repeat. Woo. More play. And they're just so cute. And on the back, what does it say? Is there something funny on the back?

There's different ones. Let me see.

I'm like, where's the funny part? But it is funny. I mean, this is partisan funny. Wasn't it say like, ugh, find me anyway. I love them. I'm Excited for them.

I think on the instructions it said if you have to ask, you don't have a vagina.

Yes, yes.

Yeah, exactly. Exactly.

The whole thing. So you guys are gooey. I think we've got some good self. We got some good things for your relationship right now. Then I'm just going to ask you by. Would. Would you rather. Questions?

Yeah, go.

Okay, ready? I guess I'll just go back and forth. Or you guys can each. You guys can each answer this. Would you rather your partner found oral sex disgusting or was obsessed with anal sex?

For me, I have nothing against anyone who wants to do anal sex, but I don't want. For me, like, it's not my thing.

Okay.

I would be devastated if you found oral disgusting. So I'd have to go the other way. But I'm not. I'm not super into anal sex. I mean, it's fine, you know, done there, been there. But you guys like oral? Yeah, I mean, I think both ways. Both, you know.

Okay. Would you rather have drunk sex or stone sex?

Well, if it involves biting my balls.

I would rather have stone sex.

Okay, same. Would you rather have sex doggy style all your life or missionary style all your life?

Doggy style. Doggy stuff.

Would you rather have sex with just your entire family watching or with your entire neighborhood watching?

My entire neighborhood?

Wait, would the entire neighborhood also include the family or just the neighborhood?

Gotta pick.

But what I'm saying is, would my family be in the neighborhood?

No. Hopefully. No.

Yeah.

What?

I would probably have the neighborhood. I don't want my family watching. That's weird.

That would be weird. Okay, guys, Lauren and Michael, you're awesome.

We're gonna put part two on our podcast.

Okay, you guys, check this out. We have so much to talk about and we know with limited time, so now you gotta go over to their podcast to hear the rest of the this. It's the Skinny Confidential at the Skinny Confidential. Skinny Confidential dot com. Woo. More play. You guys know I'm obsessed. You can go to our site, their site, everywhere you want to find it and. All right, guys, thank you for being here. All right, guys, I hope you enjoyed the show for part two. Remember, go to skinnyconfidential.com it's an awesome interview. Thanks to my amazing team, Ken, Kristen, Michelle, producer Jamie and Michael. Was it good for you? Email me feedbackexwithemily.com com.

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