Vicky Samios argues that real confidence comes from being comfortable with yourself, staying calm in relationships, and making decisive choices. She says ego can sabotage or empower you, and that surrounding yourself with people who uplift you matters more than staying in toxic relationships.
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For you ladies, I want to be that voice, and I want to voice everything that you're thinking about but you're too scared to say. And by that I mean that I wanna help you have courage and help you be comfortable in your skin. I wouldn't normally be in a bikini on screen. Super happy now, I'm just gonna be me. But the thing that's gonna make you chill is having a calm partner and you being calm around your partner. That is the key to you doing really well in your career, in your business, and you to being fulfilled. Without those ingredients, you just keep pushing and pushing. And like I tell everyone, all my clients, I'm like, it's like you're running uphill and going nowhere. You don't want to feel like that. What are you working hard at for you that's going to make you feel good? That's where I want to get with this, because to make you feel good, you need to make some decisions. And if you don't make those decisions, you don't take actions. And for me, it was investing in top-tier coaches so that I could find myself. And I know that is you, because you, you're either judging me now because I've got my boobs, my cleavage out, or you're thinking, oh my God, I want to be so confident in my skin that I just turn up as me no matter what. No polish video though right now, speaking to you as a woman, as someone who is in your industry, who has found my calling finally and who has embraced a new identity of the relationship coach. Because I realized my personality is all about relationships. I, as much as I can withdraw and retreat, and especially withdraw from negative relationships, that's how I protect myself. And that's how you should protect yourself as well. Start seeing what's really happening around you and start engaging in conversations with people who are going to change your life and people who make you happy. Your ego is stopping you right now from getting the help you need, from walking through the doors you need to walk through, and from being you. Your ego can either destroy you or it can create you. It's time to recreate. It is time to make this year the year that you are true to yourself. So start doing everything I've told you in this video. Go back and re-listen and unite everything in your life. First of all, you need to find out who the heck you are, because I know all of you here are in a position where at some point you have lost, or you are lost right now, like you've lost yourself working in this routine. I've had it for 10 years. Heck, you can do whatever you want. I want you to be here for yourself. Let's change your life. It's one decision. You're just one decision away from a new future.
