Stop waiting for permission to change your life. The speaker argues that most problems stem from inaction, not circumstance, and that you need to start now: dress up, have the hard conversation with your spouse, get out of bed. Waiting for someday guarantees nothing changes.
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What are you waiting for? Permission? I give you permission. I give you the permission for you to be sexy. I give you the permission for you to lose weight and start being yourself. I give you the permission to go and talk to your husband or your wife. I'm talking to all of you here and to mend that relationship and to stop being so scared to talk about things. Stop ignoring. Problems don't go away. Problems just compound and get bigger. So why not start solving them so they can start diminishing? Because I can tell you at the core of all your problems, it is you. You don't want to hear this, but I'm just going to be frank. It is you. If you don't feel like getting up in the morning, well, there's some decisions you need to make to change it. If you don't feel like fixing yourself and glamming up and— I know it's not for everyone. Like, I have makeup-free days too. But when I dress up, I feel like myself. I feel feminine. And this is just the beginning for me. This is like version 10.0.