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You are not failing because you’re weak

27 May 2026 · 2 min

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In this brief motivational segment, the speakers discuss how striving for perfection leads to self‑failure and harsh self‑criticism. They introduce the Hawaiian forgiveness practice Ho'oponopono, outlining its core phrases—"I love you, thank you, I'm sorry, please forgive me"—and explain that reciting these internally grants self‑permission, grace, and forgiveness. The talk emphasizes personal responsibility, urging listeners to stop blaming others and to recognize that their own mindset governs their quality of life. Finally, they advise seeking external support such as therapists, coaches, or supportive groups, noting that personal growth requires more than solitary effort.

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You fail because you're trying to be perfect. especially with himself.
You need to say, "I love you." If you don't know Ho'oponopono, you need to look it up. There's lots of songs, videos, everything in there. Joe Vitale has written books about it. So Ho'oponopono is, "I love you." And you can say them in any order according to Joe Vitale. But the way I learned it is, "I love you, thank you, I'm sorry, please forgive me," or you can say, I love you, thank you, please forgive me, I'm sorry, or any order. And it's very interesting, once you say those words internally, it's like you give yourself permission and you give yourself grace as well, and you forgive yourself. We're so hard on ourselves, which is why we are not very nice to other people, why we think other people are at fault. You're the actual person that is the main thing that's governing what quality of life you have right now. So quit the excuses, quit blaming other people. If your relationship needs help, seek the help you need. Go get a therapist, go get coaches. You need a group of people to help you. It's not just a one-man band because there's so many areas that you need to work on.