Give Me 7 Minutes and I’ll Make You Dangerously Attractive to Men

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In the next few minutes, I'm going to share with you a step by step strategy to make you dangerously attractive to men. Because attraction really is power. In many ways, it's addictive. And the sad reality is that you probably have been brainwashed by all of the media out there into thinking that being attractive to men is all about your makeup, your clothing, your weight, or your age. And that is categorically untrue. In fact, I work almost exclusively with women who are in the 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond. And within weeks of working with them, they can become dangerously attractive to men when they follow these simple strategies. The first one is to raise your feminine vibration. I want a man to feel your energy before you even say a word. Soften your tone a little bit, and that'll strengthen your confidence when you're around guys. The second way is to become dangerously excited about your own life. I mean, here's the reality. When people are looking for partners, they're not buying into the person necessarily. They're buying into that person's entire life. Like, I remember not too long ago, I was talking to a client and she has, like, what I'd consider to be not that exciting of a hobby, and that is knitting. She's really into knitting, and it's really sweet. And she makes these really nice blankets, and it's super nice. But she never wanted to talk about it on a date because she's kind of embarrassed. She's like, it's not exactly the coolest thing in the world. Guys are not really that into knitting. But after having a conversation with her and seeing her light up when she was talking about her hobby of knitting, I encouraged her. On the next few dates, she went on with a few different guys to just go all in on the knitting conversation. Like, just talk about the feelings you get when you're knitting, how it brings you calm and peace, and how proud you are when you make this beautiful blanket and you're able to give it to your friends or your family and the look on their face when they finally look at, like, go all in and express that you want to be. Become dangerously attractive, express your interest in your hobbies in that way, and is going to be magnetic towards men. And what we found once she started doing this is that the knitting didn't matter. Like, talking about knitting, that's not the most important thing. It was her conviction for it. It was her passion for it. And the fact that she was able to convey that on a first date. Oh, my God, these guys became absolutely addicted to her. And now she's in the best relationship of her life. So absolutely go all in on on those things that you are so freaking excited about that it just lights you up. The next way to become dangerously attracted to men is through curiosity, because curiosity, it creates connections. I want you to see dating as this amazing discovery process, Discovering what makes a man tick, who he really is. I don't want it to be some big evaluation process. I don't want you to be going through your checklist of every single thing that you're looking for a guy and trying to evaluate him. I want you to discover who he is. You can later, after the date, quote, qualify him for what we call your love vision. You can do that after the date, but when you're on the date, I want you to just go into discovery mode. And I think this is incredibly empowering. I remember I went on a date with a woman before I met my wife, certainly, and she asked me this question that was kind of soul punching in a way, and it was in a good way, it was beautiful. And she asked me, what's a part of you that's rarely seen but deeply important? And it kind of hit me like a ton of bricks because I'd never been asked that question before, and it was so long ago. I can't tell you exactly what I said, but I think it was something along the lines of spending time with my family and having those truly special moments. There's actually a really, like, kind of sensitive side to me where I can be kind of a SAP when it comes to the people in my life that are most important. But when I meet new people, I feel like I put on this kind of like this facade. And it was this incredible connection moment between the two of us because I was finally letting my guard down and showing her who I truly was. And in many ways, because I become so vulnerable on that date, it kind of became like an insider secret between me and her. Now, that relationship ultimately wasn't the right fit for either of us, but I do remember that question becoming incredibly empowering. And when you ask questions like that. She was trying to get a true, deeper essence of who I was, and I recommend you do the same on your dates. Another way to become dangerously, dangerously attractive to men is to create a very healthy balance of both a yes and a no. Both of these words are incredibly empowering. When you're saying yes, that is illustrating an idea of openness. You're saying yes to his advances, you're saying yes to maybe going on that date to a place where you're not that excited, but you're going to let him lead, and you're going to see whether he's a fit for you. The no is the boundary side of it. Being unafraid to tell a guy no through the dating process is incredibly empowering and incredibly attractive. Being able to say no. I'm actually wanting to move a little bit slower, perhaps, than you might be, because I want to set us up for success. All of this is very empowering. So learning when to say the yeses versus the no's is going to once again make you just so incredibly magnetic to men you won't even know. And the final strategy that I recommend for all my clients is to date with determination, not desperation. Determination means that you are focused on doing the right thing. To make it happen means that you're trying to get out there, you're trying to meet guys, you're open to that process. Desperation means that you're focused on the outcome. You're only focused on finding a boyfriend, finding a husband, finding that person you can spend the rest of your life with. You so focused on the outcome and that your actions actually appear desperate. So what we're always recommending for our clients is to focus much more on the actions of meeting people through what we call a social score, but not worrying so much about the outcome so that you're not getting into this desperation mode. Men are magnetically drawn to women who are willing to start a conversation. We are drawn to women who, on a first date, are willing to really open up and have conversation, are willing to go on those meetups. Of course, desperation comes from a place of you're only focused on getting that outcome, from getting that marriage or whatever it is that you really want. And that is going to turn off a lot of guys. So if you're really ready to make a shift in your love life, what I'd love to do is welcome you to apply for a complimentary love strategy session with someone on my team. They are trained by myself, and they're going to really understand where you are right now where it is you want to go and see whether or not we can help guide you in your love life. The way to do that is to head on over to loveapplied.com you can apply for a complimentary love strategy session and we don't have many spots available, so I recommend you do that as soon as possible so you can guarantee your spot again. That's loveapply.com thank you so much for watching and I'll talk to you very soon. Bye bye.

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