What Men Find Deeply Beautiful in a Woman (It’s Not What You Think)

Ladies, forget the hair, forget the body, forget the outfit. What makes a man pursue a woman is when you tap into your feminine energy at just the right moments throughout the dating process. And look, if you're a successful single woman looking for love, you probably heard the advice to just lean into your feminine. And in my experience, there's typically one of three responses. First is, what the hell does that mean? The second is, I'm not going to pretend to be some girly girl that I'm not. And the third one is usually sounds good, but I don't know how to actually do that. Now, regardless of your response, I just want to say feminine and masculine energy can actually shift depending on the situation and what it is that you're actually doing. It's not like you always live in your feminine or you always live in your masculine. And in my experience, when it comes to dating, and having coached tens of thousands of the most successful women on the planet, I'm talking doctors, lawyers, politicians, entrepreneurs, you name it. I've seen firsthand that both the masculine and the feminine energy are incredibly powerful and vowed throughout the dating process. The key isn't to just shut one down completely, but instead to really know when to lean into your feminine and when to lean into your masculine throughout the dating process. And generally speaking, we want to use our masculine to get out there and find the guy and use your feminine energy to create the spark when you found him. And this is absolutely possible. As I mentioned earlier, we use feminine masculine energy in many different situations. For example, when I go on date night with my wife Jessica, I will step into my masculine because I want to create that spark. But I will tell you, if we're doing something else in this household, for example, I'm not a planner, and if she wants to plan a vacation, she is stepping into her masculine. I'm leaning back, letting her take control, because you know what? She's really good at it. And whatever you want, honey, that sounds great. And this is even true professionally. Like, I'm the CEO of a company with over 20 team members. When I'm working with my team members, I'm typically stepping into more of a directive masculine role. But I'll tell you what, once I'm done with my workday, if I'm driving in my car and I get pulled over by a police officer, I'm definitely stepping into my feminine in that moment. So if you really pay attention to it, you'll notice that depending on the situation, you may step more into your feminine energy or you may step more into your masculine energy. And this can really shift depending on who it is that you're with or the situation you're in. And what I've found for a lot of really successful single women, they tend to lean a lot into their masculine energy because what has made them so successful in their career is that masculine energy, like when you're looking for a raise or a promotion, you're typically in the masculine. If you're trying to meet a deadline or hit of goal, it's typically in the masculine energy. Pushing through problem solving, taking ownership of the situation. Or let's say you have a crazy crisis at work, typically that is going to be leaning more into the masculine, very logical and process oriented under pressure. Or in the worst case scenario, let's say you have to fire an employee because that employee has been stealing from you. You're not going super compassionate and nurturing and stepping into your feminine energy during that moment, Heck no. You're gonna be stepping into your masculine, decisive, you're done. Leave the office. So the key idea behind this video is you do not have to change who you are to lean into your feminine or to lean into your masculine, depending on the dating situation. We just need to know when to lean into which energy. So let's start with the masculine energy and where we want to lean in. For starters, it's going to take a lot of masculine energy, a lot of kind of pursuer pushing energy to set what we call a social score. Goal to get out there and meet lots and lots of people. Our clients, when they're working with us, they set a very specific goal each month on the number of new guys that they're going to go out there and meet. This requires a lot of pushing energy to get out there, to get your beautiful behind off of the couch and go meet lots of people. We initiate conversations here at Love Strategies. We don't just lean back and hope someone comes up to us. No, we're going to get out there, we're going to talk to as many people as possible. We're going to go on meetups from online dating because that is what opens up our dating options. Another example of leaning into your masculine energy, and this is totally appropriate when you're dating or in a new relationship, is to set boundaries and standards. Just like in your career or in your friendships or even your health, your love life deserves really high standards and boundaries. Protect your energy and filter out the men who aren't worthy. If a guy is being inconsistent, respectful, or he's just not putting in the Effort, he's out, period. Like, this is not the moment to kind of lean back and just kind of go with the flow. Heck, no. We're going to lean into our masculine energy and cut him off because he doesn't deserve you. And finally, when you're in the first couple steps of what we call the seven little love steps, you need to be persistent while being patient at the same time. Persistence means doing the same thing over and over without expecting an immediate result right from the moment, but still doing that thing. And that is what really helps our clients get the results that they want want. They have to be consistent and persistent throughout the process. There will be times where you go on a date and it's not the best date in the world. There will be times where his online dating profile is magnetic. He's the most handsome guy in the world, and you meet him on the first date. It turns out that he's 52 and has gained a few pounds since the last time he took those pictures. This requires some persistence throughout the process, and that's where I want you to lean into that energy that got you successful in other areas of your life. Be persistent and consistent in your love life, and that's what gets you the results you want. And by the way, if you want to learn all the seven little love steps, the seven steps that will get you from where you are right now to attracting that love you truly deserve, just head on over to the love steps.com or we'll leave a link in the description. It's a free training. I think you're going to really enjoy that. Now let's shift over to the feminine energy. When are we going to want to lean into the more feminine, soft energy through the dating process? For starters, letting him lead when it comes to date nights, let him, especially for the first couple of dates, let him decide where it is that you're going, when it is that you're going, and then you can kind of lean back, sit back, and judge the decisions that he's making. I had a client the other day tell me about a new guy that she was dating. It was like the second date that they were going on, and he was planning to take her bowling. And let me tell you, based on her reaction to this situation, she does not like bowling. But I encouraged her to, in this moment, lean into the feminine, go with the flow and see what happens. Lo and behold, she comes back the next week and she says, adam, that was one of the most fun experiences of my life. This wasn't just some like rinky dinky bowling alley down the street. This was like one of those really fun ones. They had, like, fun lights and everything going on at the bowling alley. And she had an absolute blast. And she also got to see him in his environment. This guy happens to like bowling. Guess what? This created a lot of spark between the two of them. And she was so excited for the third date. Lean back early on through the process. Let him decide on those first couple of dates. It's going to set you up for success and allow you to have a little bit of fun through the process. Another area is with flirting. And flirting isn't about being fake. It's about being playful. It's about being soft. It's about making great eye contact. It's about smiling and being warm and maybe teasing a little bit. All of this is a very feminine energy when you do it the right way. Way. And for our most successful clients who are kind of in the corporate world, I mean, we have VPs, we have CEOs that we work with. This is a very, very different energy than they're certainly bringing in the workplace. So I highly encourage our clients to really shift their energy from that kind of work mode to a more playful, flirty mode. And we have some clients that they might practice yoga before their date. They might only go on dates on the weekends. They, they typically don't love to do it right after work because they're still in that kind of masculine energy. It's really bring that playful, flirty side that is truly within them. We just need to extract it and bring it out. Another way to radiate your feminine energy while dating is to be sensual, but not sexual. Sensuality is about presence. It's about warmth, it's about femininity. It's not about overt sexuality, like a gentle touch leaning in the way that you smile at the right moment. This is what creates the type of chemistry between you and a more masculine guy. And finally, onto what we call little love. Step number five, I encourage you to pace the progression of the connection, slow it down. You don't need to rush and push things forward. In fact, the feminine energy is the most powerful energy. Throughout the dating process, the feminine energy is moving a little bit slower because you're kind of leaning back while he's trying to pull you forward. So take your time and really get to know a guy before really committing your heart to him. So go ahead, get out there, give this a try. And a few different interactions over the next couple days. Let me know how it goes. In the comments right there below. Let's balance that masculine drive with that feminine radiance and really create some of that space for the right man to step in. And if you want some guidance to walk you through this process step by step, and have the right accountability with some of our feminine coaches as well as our male coaches, that's what we do here at Love Strategies. We're an executive love coaching company that helps women just like you radiate that feminine energy at the right moment while getting out there and getting what it is that you truly deserve. If you want some help, head on over to a secret link. It's@loveapply.com where you can apply for a complimentary Love Strategy session. Speak with someone on my team and see whether or not executive love Coaching is right for you. Go to loveapply.com and I will speak to you, you beautiful lady, very soon. Bye bye.