Nick StumboExecutive Director driving healing from sexual brokenness

Help Women Start Healing From Betrayal #podcast #puredesirepodcast

8 Jul 2023

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This is a YouTube video monologue about helping women start healing after betrayal. The speaker emphasizes awareness that rumination after discovery/disclosure is impairing productivity, parenting, and self-care, and argues women need to recognize something external is impacting them and take steps to change. The talk stresses simplifying focus to prioritize the first two foundational phases of healing, which create space and time for recovery and prepare women for later steps in their journey.

If your brain is just ruminating over discovery or disclosure and all of these things that are happening, and all day long, you're not productive, and you can't take care of yourself well, and you can't take care of your kids well. And by the end of the day, your brain is still in the same place. You need to have that awareness that something is wrong. Not with you, but something is impacting you, and you need to make a change, something that's going to help you to find healing. And so it did take all of those really great things that were in the original version, but then, because we had taken out some other things, it gave us more space and more time, essentially, to really help women to get a strong foundation in these first two phases of their healing journey that really are going to set them up for whatever comes next for them.