Nick StumboExecutive Director driving healing from sexual brokenness

What Is Your 'WHY'?

6 Aug 2026 · 1 min

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This content was created by Nick Stumbo. This content was uploaded by Nick Stumbo. This is a YouTube video titled "What Is Your 'WHY'?" (published 2026-08-06) featuring Nick Stumbo speaking about marriage and personal change. In this excerpt Stumbo urges being present and emotionally engaged with one’s spouse and children, focuses on stopping harmful behaviors while grounding long-term commitment in a deeper why tied to how God shapes the heart and restores marriage. The clip reads like a talk/sermon or relationship-counseling message rather than a multi-person dialogue.

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And her question became, what are you doing? Show me how you are changing. Be present with me, be engaged with the kids. You know, connect with me emotionally, be honest about your feelings. All these things that I maybe wasn't making as much traction as I thought, 'cause I was too focused on the why of stop the bad behavior. And I wanna be clear, it is good and right to stop the bad behavior. But if our why goes deeper than that, to how God wants to shape our heart and restore our marriage, that is what can keep us committed to doing this work for the long haul.