Short monologue by Nick Stumbo about a husband’s use of accountability-reporting software (Covenant Eyes) and the emotional impact on his wife when she receives or reviews those reports. Stumbo emphasizes framing report-review conversations around growth, learning, honoring the spouse, and avoiding placing the spouse in the role of sole ‘accountability person.’
I've heard some folks say, yeah, my wife is on my Covenant Eyes report, and she shudders at the thought of reviewing the report. You know, it hits her inbox. What am I going to see this time? That's just a terrible position to put her in. Yeah, if the conversation is around. This is what I've discovered. This is how I'm growing. This is what I've learned about my past. Those are good things. This is how I. I'm learning to love you better in a way that honors you. Those are. Those are good things. But again, to put her in that position of accountability person, they're blank.
