Oso Trava argues you're stuck in a false choice between personal freedom and household responsibilities. Reframe the problem by asking what would have to change for both to coexist. This third path exists but requires work and real decisions to find it.
Changing your mindset from O to I. What would have to happen for you to be able to meet your needs and have the freedom to do something else? Because if you're having to choose between your freedom and meeting your household needs, then, well, it's one of the two. And you've already decided that this is the world you live in. What would have to happen? How would the world have to look for both to happen? And it's changing the question you're asking yourself. Look, it's not a miracle. It's just understanding that there's a third solution that's perhaps much more creative and not obvious. Of course it's going to require work, and it's going to require certain types of decisions and associated costs. But at the very least, keeping it in mind could be an option that you're not considering. M.
