Make The Money Of Your Dreams In Your Feminine Energy

Hi guys. Welcome back to my channel. In this video today I am going to be discussing how you can make the money of your dreams whilst staying in your feminine energy. I get asked this question a lot which is obviously very kind of, how do I stay in my feminine energy whilst building a business, whilst working in sales, whilst, you know, growing and working with many clients etc. And my first answer is oh, I just did XYZ and oh, it's, you know, it's pretty seamless for me but actually when I reflect on it, that's not true. It's taken time, it's taken becoming more self aware, routine etc. Because I truly believe you can have everything you want and really you can have it all at once over time with a structured plan, with routine and with making mistakes to then learn from them and get better. And that is what I feel I've truly done. And now I'm able to go from working a ton, making great money and feeling burnt out to working a lot, making great money but also being in my feminine energy. So let's get into it and I'm going to give you some of my tips. Number one is I learned to have boundaries. You cannot be all things to all people and you need to set the expectations straight very early on of who you are going to be in the season of life that you're in. For me, the season of life that I have been in for the past year, well two years actually is purely work season, work season to build the life of my dreams that will not only benefit me but my loved ones around me. And that is a very important responsibility that I love to have. But it's one that I can't take lightly. Like I have to have a plan in order to execute in order to see success. So setting boundaries really allowed me to stop having so much pressure on my shoulders. I remember when I got into sales and I was working so much I would feel so guilty and so run down, you know, when I haven't text my friends back in a week or two, when I wasn't as present with family, when I was turning down family events or when I wasn't showing up as the person that I used to be. But I remembered that I'm not the person that I used to be. I don't have a bunch of free time. You know, life gets a bit more serious and when you have serious goals and you have ambitions, you, you have to change your mindset and you have to change your priorities. So when I was able to tell my Family and friends. Look, I still care about you, I still love you. But I am not going to be out present. They 100% understood. So now when I see them and I spend quality time with them, I spend 100% quality time with them. Is that quality time less than it used to be? 100%. Do I reply to text same day? Absolutely not. But that is the boundary that I've set. I will get back to you as soon as I can. It's not personal, it's business pretty much. So that has been a huge one for me and something I'd highly recommend for you to do. If you feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders and that you have to be all things to all people, start setting boundaries. Start time blocking your day so you can actually have a planner of action so you can spend more time, you know, if you, if you live with your family and that's a priority. If you time block your day, you'll be able to time block specific time to spend with them. Which means you won't feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders. Trust me, being more organized and setting those boundaries will make you feel a lot more stressed. Which means you won't be acting in your masculine, you'll be more in your feminine, more calm and collected. The next thing that I did that allowed me to make the money of my dreams while in my feminine energy was I get ready for the day every day. Now with sales. Sales is a work from home job, right? And if you're not always camera facing, let's say if you're an appointment setter, it might make no sense to get ready for the day. You might think, oh, I'm just going to do my work in bed, in my pajamas and brush my teeth at 2pm in the afternoon. But trust me when I say this is not going to be good over time for your mental state and how you feel about yourself, it's not going to empower you. It's not going to allow you to turn up to be the best version of yourself. Now this is just my opinion, so take it with a grain of salt. But I truly believe when I started prioritizing my routine, when I started getting ready for the day, you know, for me that was doing a little bit of makeup, making sure I did my hair, putting on an outfit that made me feel good, even spraying myself with perfume if I was wearing like sweatpants and a T shirt, just making myself feel good about myself, putting pride into my appearance. Because how you look is how you feel, I truly, truly believe that. And how you look and how you show up to others is how they perceive you. So if you're on a camera facing role, that is so, so important in my opinion, and it will just allow you to be more in your feminine energy. And honestly, I did this even before sales. Now, now I have the luxury of not having to wake up to an alarm most of the time so I can have a steady morning where I wake up at my own pace, get ready for the day in my own pace, which of course automatically puts me in my feminine energy in a more peaceful mindset. Before this, when I used to work a nannying job and do sales, it wasn't like that. I was working crazy hours, waking up at 5:30am to get to my, you know, first shift and I would just wake up that 15 minutes earlier to get ready and take pride. My appearance, that's something that I've always prioritized, which has allowed me to feel good and feel confident within, which means I show up as the best version of myself. So I'd highly, highly recommend whatever that is for you. It doesn't have to be the makeup and whatnot. It can just be doing a bit of skincare or putting on an outfit that makes you feel comfortable or journaling in the morning. Whatever that morning routine is for you to make yourself feel better about yourself is a huge, huge part of your day and I'd highly advocate for it. If you want to, you know, take on the day, be prepared to close the deals, make the money and be the woman you want to be, be the best version of yourself in the process. The next advice I would give that allows me to make the money of my dreams in my feminine energy is I stopped telling myself I could not afford it. I cannot tell you how much of an impact the words that you tell yourself, the language you use, the things that you say impact how you feel, who you are and how you show up. Money is abundant. And it may not feel that way now for so long it felt like that just was a load of bs, honestly, that money wasn't abundant, that it only happened to certain people at certain times. But trust me when I say money is abundant, but you have to have an abundant mindset, an abundant approach in order to attract money into your life. And by attracting money, I don't just mean it flows from the air, right? It's attracting money in the decisions you make, in the actions you take, in the people you surround yourself with, in the choices that you choose. Every Single day. That is what creates abundance and that is what allows money to come into your life much more easily than it would. If you tell yourself things like money is not for me. I'm not the type of person that makes money I can't afford xyz. That is language we want to get rid of asap. For a long time I used to use the language I can't afford it. And it used to leave me in such a scarcity mindset. Even guys when I was making 20k per month, I sometimes would tell myself when I was a closer, I can't afford it. When I was making 25, 30k a month, sometimes I tell myself I can't afford it. When I was making up to 40k a month, sometimes I would tell myself I cannot afford it. It doesn't matter the income that you're making as a sales rep, if you don't have that abundant mindset, you are going to keep on telling yourself you can't afford it. Which is going to allow you to choppy your masculine, which is going to allow you to be in survival mode every single day. Every single day I felt like I needed to work my absolute hardest because I couldn't aff xyz, which was not true. It was just my mindset, it was just my programming. For me now I make sure that I provide myself with the things that make me happy. Now something that I used to do even before sales when I was a nanny is for me, I love a coffee like that is my vice. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't go to the club, which there's nothing wrong with those things per se if you do. But for me personally, that's not my thing. For me, I love coffee and that's what makes me happy. So when I was a nanny, things were very, very tight. I was making less than 2k pounds a month. I lived by myself. You know, it was a very tight situation to be in. But the thing that made me happy was buying a coffee a couple times a week. So for me I would make sure that I budget and that I set aside for that coffee. That coffee made me feel abundant, that coffee driving to work, getting a flat white made feel like I was at one step closer to the woman that I wanted to be. Now that may sound silly. You may have your own vice, whatever, not vice, sorry, you may have your own thing, whatever that is, whether it's buying the skin care or the lipstick or that piece of clothing that makes you feel good or that Expensive perfume that maybe it's a little bit more than your budget, but, you know, that makes you feel like the woman you want to be. For me, it was being able to pull in and buy myself something as simple as a coffee a couple times a week that made me feel abundant. And I would highly advocate for you to find the thing that makes you feel abundant and to set aside a budget to be able to allow yourself to do that instead of telling yourself that you can't afford it. And cut to. Like I said, when I was closing and I was making, you know, 20, 30, up to 40k per month, I would still battle with the mindset that I can't afford it. But as soon as I confronted myself with that and as soon as I realized that in order to attract money, you have to be at peace with spending it. And yes, I was making good money, but I kind of felt guilty. I kind of felt this tension in me that I kept on having to work harder and harder and harder. And I was in my masculine energy big time. And the moment that I released that and I realized it doesn't matter how hard I work, money will come to me because of my skill set, because of my mindset, and because of the person that I am. And it allowed me to make more. So to wrap kind of that up. Money is abundant. Stop telling yourself you can't afford it. Make the things that you love in life a priority, because that is going to allow you to be more in your feminine energy. Because feminine energy is abundance. It's not scarcity. It's not working as hard as you can. It's not grafting for your money. Yes, there are seasons of life where you will need to do that, but for the most part, it is a mindset and is a feeling. And when I embodied that mindset and when I embodied that feeling, that is when everything changed for me. Last but not least, I invested in my setup and I kept my surroundings clean and tidy. For me, I am someone who I'm quite sensitive in the way that I need to feel inspired by my surroundings. Whether that's keeping my car clean, whether that's keeping my office clean, area clean, and lighting a candle on my desk, I need to feel inspired. I am not someone with the mental resilience that I could work from a tent in a muddy field. Sure, maybe if my income and my life was on the line and I needed to pick up my laptop and work in that environment, sure I could. But that is if I absolutely had to. For me, in order to show up every day and to put in the work. I need to be able to serve my clients and to be able to give them the best support. Support and to be able to grow my business and to be able to feel my best in the process. I need to feel inspired by my surroundings. So for me, that was investing in my setup a little bit, which I find a little bit tricky at the moment because I'm traveling quite a lot. So I have to really try and make the most of what I've got. But for me, it's like filming the YouTube video in a studio. It's making an effort with what I do. Like I said, when I was in my first apartment, it was quite a small apartment. There was no office area. There was no, like office that I could go into. I set up my desk in the corner of my living room. I had my back to a wall so no one else could see the kitchen and the sofa behind. But I made the most with what I had. I always had a candle lit by the side of me. I always had my cup of green tea. I always romanticized the work that I was doing in the area that I was like, that I was working in. And for me, that super important. And then for every, every evening when I would finish up, I would make sure my space is clean and tidy, ready for the next day to start my work on the right foot. And I would highly advocate for you to do that too. You don't need a thousand, two thousand, three thousand pound office setup. You just need to make the most of what you've got. Whether it's lighting that candle or whether it's buying or investing in a comfortable chair. Whatever it is for you, it's making sure you feel inspired by your area, by your workspace. Because feminine energy is to feel inspired. Feminine energy is to feel at peace and happy with your surroundings. Feminine energy is to make yourself the best version of yourself with what you have. You don't have to have the newest gadgets and, you know, the newest piece of tech to do good work. It's just making the most with what you have. And that's exactly what I did. And my income has grown. That has changed in different ways, but you don't have to wait until you're at that 10k a month to feel inspired, make the area that you have now the best it can be and feel inspired by that. It will make you want to show up every single day to work hard in peace and be very grateful for what you have. And that is it. Guys. Those are my tips of how you can make the money of your dreams whilst remaining in your feminine energy. It has definitely been a journey for me to manage my stress levels and to really act out of that abundance mindset rather than the scarcity mindset. And to be honest, I still have days where I battle with that. It's an ongoing journey, especially with years of programming, but I am closer to the woman than I want to be more than ever from implementing those tips. So I really hope that for you to implement them, they will help you too and assist you on your journey. And that is it for me. Guys, I hope you've enjoyed the video and I'll see you in the next one. Bye, guys.