3 Habits That Make People Immediately FALL IN LOVE With You! (Start Doing This)

In this video, I'm gonna show you the 3 habits that make people immediately begin to fall energetically for you. Now, these are things that, realize that in life, you get a reflection of who you are being. Who you are being is what you are getting a reflection of. And if you focus on what you want, which a lot of people, they're focused on, they want love, they want connection, They want, they might want validation with being somebody, with somebody else. That want means I lack. So the key to this transformation of understanding what habits make people actually fall in love with you is when you are being the real you. Now, based on how you think, act, and feel, you are getting a reality that is equal to that. So if you're thinking, feeling, and acting equal to a reality where you're working a 9-to-5 job you don't enjoy, If you're thinking, feeling, and acting equal to a reality where you're not voicing the real you, you're not being vulnerable, you're not expressing yourself, you're going to attract somebody else to reflect that back to you. You're not gonna attract the real, a person that resonates with the real you unless you are being the real you, the highest vibrational you. That doesn't mean that you have to wait to attract love until you have it all figured out because there's never a point to where you have it all figured out. However, when you begin to activate your own heart and be this version of you, you then begin to perceive of new probabilities and new synchronicities as a reflection. So the first habit to making people immediately energetically fall in love with you has to do with actually expressing what you are thinking and feeling and you making the choice to be the real you. For a long time in my own life, when I was dating someone, I was afraid to show the real me because I was afraid of rejection. I was afraid, there was also a part of me that wasn't really aware of this, but I was living in the energies of the past. This is like the past self. I was living in the energies of the past where I felt like growing up, I wasn't validated, I wasn't approved of. So I felt like I had to overcompensate and prove myself to whoever I was dating. I was coming from an energy of also not feeling worthy. So part of that was a level of not feeling worthy and an energy of shame, which means I'm broken or something wrong with me. So I was afraid to show somebody that I actually even had interest in them. I remember going through the process of dating someone and then after like a month or two, they're wondering if I even have feelings for them like that because I was afraid to express that I was actually attracted to them because I was afraid of rejection. So one of the things that held me back for so long from actually being and being in that energy of having opportunities in my life, synchronicities and opportunities in my life to reflect back that love. So one of the most important things for you to do is to actually begin to open up your own heart, which means being vulnerable, showing the real you. You see, shame likes to grow in the dark. It sees I'm broken, there's something wrong with me. I can't show certain parts of myself because I don't wanna get rejected. The key is to actually have the courage to show the real you and to know if you do get quote unquote rejected, then it means one, you're saving yourself time, but two, you can only really reject yourself. You can only, it's only really rejection if you internalize it and say there's something wrong with me. So what I ended up doing is after years of going through this pattern of like not having the right polarity in the people I was dating and the relationships, I realized it was because I wasn't being vulnerable. I wasn't sharing the real me. It takes vulnerability to go and talk to someone you're attracted to. The vulnerability is that you could get rejected, but I promise you, you will be more attractive. People will fall in love with you more if you have the courage to express yourself in that way, to express your emotions. I know that even when I met my girlfriend, for example, that was something that I had to, that right from the very beginning, I made the choice that I'm going to I'm going to show the real me. I'm gonna show that I'm attracted to her. By having that level of energy, it then also set the relationship out to where there was strong polarity, where I was leading, I was in my own frame. So the reason I'm sharing this with you is because the key to attracting someone that's really gonna resonate with the real you is you showing the real you by voicing how you're feeling, how you're thinking, and who you really are. This is like a pattern you have to become aware of too. I became aware of my old pattern of really holding myself back. I remember one time being, getting like IVs. I think I've told this story once or twice before, but I was getting IVs at this place where you go here in Austin to get like IVs and stuff like that for like health purposes and stuff. And I was getting an IV and I was there with somebody and there was like 3 or 4 other people that I met. I remember one guy there and he was talking about stem cells. And I remember I was holding myself back from sharing a perspective that I had. About stem cells because he owns a company about stem cells. He actually like partners with Joe Rogan and stuff like that. There was this cool guy and I was talking to him and I could tell the old part of me was afraid to say something that was a little bit esoteric. What I wanted to say is I wanted to talk— well, it's interesting because stem cells coming from like, you know, if you get stem cells from a certain person, what if that person— we talk about like ancestral trauma or we talk about, um, you know, trauma that's stored in the body. What if that energy is then in the stem cells, whereas there's certain people that may have stem cells where that energy is not as active. So when you're putting something inside of your body, that stem cells that's going to heal, I bet you there's a difference between different people with different energy states, right? That's what I wanted to share, but I was afraid because I thought it was kind of weird. I then caught myself in the moment not sharing that I really wanted to share that, and I said, you know what, I'm just gonna have the courage to share that. So I shared that perspective. I was like, so what do you think about like, you know, energy fields and how like the energy fields go into the cells of the body and how when we're putting that into our body, then it's like, what if there's a similar energy in that? And I could tell he thought about it. I could tell he then started, he thought it was interesting. Not that he was like, oh, that's the best thing I ever heard in my whole entire life. But he was like, he thought about it. I could tell from that point going forward, there was a little bit more, there was like either more respect there or more intrigue. There was more of like interest there because I was expressing what I really thought. Now in that same way, the reason I share that story is because you may find yourself in a moment when you're on a date with someone and they say something, you wanna like express something about that, but you're afraid of what they'll think. You're afraid of being a certain way, being perceived as a certain way. What I would encourage you to do is to say it anyways, to go into it, to lean into it, because when you're expressing the real you, it may be a little bit more polarizing, but guess what? Polarizing is also the key to being magnetic. Polarizing is the key to you really being in that magnetic energy. And we talk about magnetic energy as well. If you haven't seen it yet, I have the 5 things and the 5 traits that make you extremely magnetic. There's a free PDF/training video below if you haven't checked it out already. Go and click the link below, check out that training, and I'm gonna show you step by step how to create that magnetic energy from the inside out so that you're really able to create what you want in your life or to have that attractive level energy. So with that though, the second thing, the second most attractive thing that will help you to have somebody else fall in love with you is something that I learned that I've shared, and it's completely changed so many people's lives that have applied this technique. But it has to do with embodiment, has to do with actually bringing the energy into your body. When you bring the energy into your hands and into your feet and you are more present and you are in your own frame, you are more magnetic. Now, when I say your own frame as well, this is both from a body perspective and an energetic perspective where This is the question. Are you the star of your own movie? Being the star of your own movie. Now this doesn't mean being a narcissist, but what a lot of people do when attracting love is they try to become the cameo in other people's movies. Especially when it comes to like making videos online where I'm talking about like attracting love, it tends, if you're watching this, you may be somebody that wants love. And if you make love your center focus of the thing you need the most, it's gonna create a lot of resistance. And a lot of energy that ends up repelling love. I'd encourage you to not have that be the main focus of your life and to focus on you enjoying your life, focus on following your purpose, focus on elevating your frequency, your vibration, focus on your own like friend group, focus on your own environment, focus on these things, and then love will come as a side effect of that. But the thing that you wanna ask is, in childhood, was it the case where you were the cameo in everyone else's movie? 'Cause sometimes that has us playing the same patterns over and over again where we're trying to be the cameo in someone else's movie. We're trying to find the star of some movie so that we can then feel safe. And the key is actually feeling safe within your own movie, feeling safe within your own frame. Be the star of your own movie, which means have your own vision in your life. Have a way, have something that you're focused on. That's why also I talk a lot about like the key to creating your dream life is becoming aware of this old patterns, the old version of you. Normally we're living in the past and to then energetically become familiar with a new version of you. Familiar, meditation literally means to become familiar. Energetically meditate, feel the emotions as this new version of you being this version of you. How would you think? How would you feel? How would you act? And have the habits and feel grateful that it's here right now. And then take action, make choices as this version of you right now. And you will begin to energetically tune to a reality where you get new reflections in your life. So what you want to do though is using the power of meditation and choice, meditation and action, meditation and following your purpose, you are able to literally energetically tune to this reality that we're talking about right now. Now part of you becoming and tuning to this reality means becoming aware of your values. What is important to you? The old version of me, what was important to me was people's approval, people's validation, and it had me feeling like I was always seeking other people's approval and validation. I was the cameo in everyone else's movie. Once I became aware of the values I choose to live by, which is the values of vulnerability, showing the real me, the values of courage, of expressing the real me, the values of authenticity, of all of these things are more important to me now than validation and approval. And because of that, it's a different identity. Different way I'm showing up. My purpose is very important to me. Making videos, doing what I love. That is attractive because I am in my, I'm the star of my own movie. So the key to the transformation and making people fall in love with you that I highly recommend you do is you start to bring the energy more inside and you start figuring out who the hell am I? What am I passionate about? Meditation, by the way, is a very powerful way to connect to this energy, to become aware of the patterns that are blocking you, but to also become aware of the old self so that you can then create space to figure out what are you really fucking passionate about? What are you really excited about? And as you start becoming aware of that, you begin to tune to it. You begin to have a vision for the future. You begin to energetically tune to this energy. Meditation allows you to tap into what is called a theta brainwave state. Theta is the subconscious mind. You are literally able to access the subconscious mind, feel the emotions as they exist now, and realize this, tuning. It's like a radio dial. You wanna tune to the reality where you're in a loving relationship or you're doing what you love full-time, you must energetically become it and feel like it's already here now. And the way you feel like it's already here now is you love your life and you focus on creating the vision of the way you prefer to show up in the world, living your life purpose, creating an ecosystem of an environment where you love being around friends and family, not focusing just on the relationship. So that's the second thing that changes everything. And also, I don't know if you've heard about it yet, but there's something called the Magnetic Mastery Membership. This is a monthly membership where this is exactly what we do. We tune to this version of ourselves. We literally become in it using the power of meditation and then choice following our purpose. We remove the blocks to doing that. Every single week we do live calls on this, live meditations. I don't know if you've ever tapped into the power of group energy, Group energy allows us to create a safe container and also to transform from the inside out. If you haven't checked any of this out yet, you can go, you can join below. It's month to month, cancel anytime. Go to www.magneticmastery.com. Check it out. Super excited about this. We have hundreds of members already in it and we just launched it a couple weeks ago. So I'm excited to see if you join. But also here's the third thing. The third thing that helps people to instantly fall in love with you in a very powerful way has to do with you, how you're showing up in the present moment, whether you're showing up in the present moment and you're trying to get something out of the moment or you're doing it because it's who you are. This is another core principle of who you're being. Now, what I mean by this is, are you being present to the moment? Are you enjoying the moment? If you're going on a date with someone, you're like, I hope they give me their number. I hope they give me validation. I hope they give me, I hope they have sex. Like, that's manipulative. Manipulative energy is resistant energy. When you are instead going on a date because you're curious if you're gonna connect with this person, that is very attractive. And think about the question in the mind too. Will this person like me? What kind of energy does that emit? Most likely needy energy. I hope this person likes me, needy energy. I'm curious if we have anything in common, very different energy. I'm curious if we share similar values, I'm curious if this person's living their purpose or what their passion is. And that curiosity is very attractive. Also, I wanna have fun. I wanna have fun. I wanna enjoy the process of dating, not just doing dating 'cause I know it'll get me the end result. Am I enjoying the process? How do I feel in my body around this person? This is being present to the moment. Present moment energy is one of the most attractive kind of energies you can have. And it comes from bringing the energy once again into your hands and your feet. Actually feeling the separation between you and other people. Separation helps you to feel safe in your own body. A lot of this also has to do with healing some of the old energies from childhood where we didn't feel safe, so we tuned to others to get that validation, approval. And a lot of this is healing that kind of energy, letting go of the, the energies of the past so you can then tune to this new quantum probable you. These are all things that change everything as you begin to to embody it. So one thing that you wanna realize as well for this is there are confidence secrets that help you to feel confident, 'cause when you're confident, you have more magnetic energy than you can even possibly imagine. And one of the most powerful ways to tap into this is to activate that magnetic energy inside of you. So if you want the 3 confidence energies and secrets to really becoming the most attractive version of you, watch this video right here. It's one of my most popular videos to watch right now. People feel what you feel about you. The energy inside of our bodies are contagious, and based on how we feel about ourselves, that energy is being emanated out and other people are responding to us