How to feel so worthy you become dangerously attractive

Aaron Doughty argues worthiness isn't earned but inherent, and that childhood survival patterns like people-pleasing and perfectionism create an energy that repels connection. Sitting with uncomfortable emotions and giving yourself permission to be yourself generates the magnetic energy that draws healthier relationships and opportunities.
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You are worthy simply because you exist. There's nothing you need to do to prove you are enough. And in fact, the more you try to prove you are enough, the more you infuse the energy of you are not. The more you strive to get anything, the more you actually repel that thing. That's because the more energy you put into that aspect of your life, the more you resist, the more you lack. So in this video, I wanna show you how you can completely transform your life from the inside out to go from someone who's proving your sense of self-worth, someone who feels maybe not worthy, not enough. I'm gonna show you how to make the shift. And it doesn't come from thinking better thoughts. It doesn't come from even trying to feel certain emotions in your body. It comes from letting go of this altogether, of this idea of worthiness and being enough. It's a concept that we take on early in life that we then compare ourselves to other people with. Am I enough? Am I not? Am I better? Am I worse? It's a concept. And just like with a baby, if you have a little baby there and you're like, you are enough, you are enough, you are enough, the baby doesn't understand that. It's a concept. The baby just is. And in the same way, when you begin to tap into this level of presence with you being your most authentic self, with you choosing you, your life will transform in a very powerful way. So in this video, it's a masterclass on becoming worthy and feeling worthy. It's a masterclass on understanding you and your patterns and how you can actually transform your patterns from the inside out. And this is what allowed me to go from working a 9-to-5 job I hate, stuck in relationship pattern after relationship pattern, or blocking love, and how I made the shift into presence, into doing what I love, into healthy friendships and relationships. And I'm going to show you exactly how you can have this shift too. So I recommend you watch this video all the way through. It's a whole video that takes on an arc of itself, but you will see— And plant the seeds of transformation so that from this point going forward, you finally start to feel worthy, whole, and complete because you've released the energy underneath the surface. You are worthy simply because you exist. There's nothing you need to do to become more worthy. And why is it in our life we get a direct reflection Of what we believe we are worthy of. So when it comes to love and relationships, we can only attract into our life dynamics that are reflective of what we believe we deserve, of what we believe we are worthy of. And what we will tend to do is to block out deep connections and relationships if we believe we are not worthy of it. Same with money. We can only attract abundance and money into our life to the degree to which we believe we are worthy of it. So in this video, what I'm going to do is a masterclass on feeling worthy, how to feel worthy, whole, and complete, how to let go of the belief and dynamics in your life that may have been normalized That keep in superficial relationships and that also keep you abandoning you. Because here's the thing, if you believe you are only worthy— okay, so actually let's look at it like this: you are worthy because you exist. Now, you are not your patterns, okay? Imagine if you have patterns like people pleasing, overgiving, hyper-independence, being invisible, perfectionism— which, by the way, perfectionism is like, how do you know something is good enough, right? It's this abstract thing. It's, it's worthy. Like, it's an idea, right? That is not actually you. That is a pattern. And what happens for many people is they stay stuck in that pattern because it's normal and familiar. And once again, it's the normalized role from childhood that's simply subconscious underneath the surface. And if you imagine it like, imagine it like whatever pattern you have, I think about it like on the scale of consciousness, like you have the scale of consciousness. Whatever pattern you have is reflective of a prior choice that you made about who you are and a role from childhood. And then what happens is you will see reality through a lens that is equal to those unfelt, unprocessed emotions. So, for example, if you're a people pleaser trying to please people, You will attract people into your life to replay back those same similar familiar dynamics because it's equal to the unresolved energy in childhood. So really, I guess you could say in a way that when you attract people into your life that don't see your worth, part of it is that because there's that unresolved energy from childhood, you attract people into your life to play out that dynamic with. until you realize your sense of self-worth, until you take your power back and integrate whatever that emotion is. So this is something that happens. What's up everyone that's joining? This is something that happens as a result of your energy. Now, when I think of my life, you know, it's interesting. I think of I think of my— okay, so let's talk about energy and magnetic energy. And when you're in magnetic energy, you give yourself more permission to be the real you. You are more accepting and you give yourself more permission. And when I think of when I was becoming more and more successful on YouTube, I remember that when I would meet people that had big YouTube followings or that I've been watching for years on YouTube, and now I'm collabing with them or hanging out with them, I remember there was like a moment where something would stifle in my energy, where the pressure would seem very high, and therefore it's like I wasn't being the real me. So It wasn't even just like feeling worthy, feeling not worthy. It's simply I was in a pattern. Does that make sense? And part of the thing that would trigger the pattern is a certain projection of authority. So when I was around certain people that I thought of as like really cool because I'd been watching them for years on YouTube and now I'm like collabing with them or something, It's like for the first time, sometimes it'd be kind of like I could tell that there was like a projection of energy. But then what would happen is eventually that projection would go away because it would be more normalized. And also I started to like connect to my own worth, but connecting to my own worth was really me giving myself permission to just be me. Do you guys see that? That's all it was. Because the thing with worthiness is that worthiness is a concept. Worthiness is an idea. How do you feel enough? Is enough a feeling? Is worthiness a feeling? No, it's an idea. Think of worthiness. Here you go. This might be an unlock for some of you. Think of worthiness as the degree to which you give yourself permission to be the real you. That's it. Worthiness is your ability to give yourself permission to be the real you and to feel what you feel. And when we say we're not worthy, what comes in is a pattern. And normally a projection of authority, normally a projection of energy, a projection of energy that says, hey, there's unresolved stuff from childhood here. There's unresolved stuff from childhood. So I'm going to attract people into my life that I can prove my sense of self-worth to, like perfectionism. I need to do to be successful. People pleasing. If I please you, you'll like me. If I give you enough, I get to— here's the payoffs though. For every one of these patterns, you get a payoff, right? And you get a payoff thinking that that might be who you are, like you are the people pleaser, the hyper-independent person, the perfectionist. It's not you. That's a survival mechanism from childhood. But remember, The ability for you to feel worthy, whole, and complete is simply connected to your ability to give yourself permission to be the real you and accept it. So in an interesting way, you become worthy when you can accept yourself and allow yourself to let go of the game of needing to prove anything. Because this is the thing, worthiness is a concept. It's an idea. If I said, where do you feel worthy in your body right now? Right? Where do you feel worthy? What does that feel like? Be like, worthiness feels present. It feels calm. It feels, it feels like— what, what is worthiness? So feeling worthy is kind of a silly idea because worthiness itself is a concept. Do you think any baby, if you were to give a little baby headphones, you're like, we're gonna wire into the baby that the baby is worthy. And we have this little baby here, we're like, you are worthy, you are worthy. We put headphones on the baby so that the baby growing up, uh, until it's like 12 years old, is just like, I am worthy, I am worthy, I am enough, I am enough. Enough for what? Worthy— what does that mean? It's a word. It's a concept. Babies just are. Babies are present. Here's the thing: you will feel worthy when you recognize that if you can let it be okay that you are both worthy and unworthy at the same time, you will become free. I believe, I believe my concept of worthiness and understanding of worthiness is that once again, the degree to which you are worthy is the degree to which you give yourself permission to be you despite whoever you're around and what they think, etc. It's your acceptance of yourself. We have patterns that come into play when we're around certain people. And it makes it a little bit weird. We stop being our true selves. And when we come back to ourselves and accept ourselves— and it's so— you could think of worthiness in the same way. If you can let it be okay that people like you or not, that's when you're free. If you can let it be okay to whether you feel worthy or not, that's when you're free. Worthiness is a concept. Worthiness is an idea. It's a game that we think, I don't want to feel not worthy, which basically is I don't want to feel shame. But guess what? One of the biggest ways to feel more shame is to beat yourself up about the fact that you're feeling shame, because then you feel like you're not there. By the way, many people that are into personal development Many people that are doing the inner child work, there's a certain level of unresolved shame that's underneath the surface that says, I need to become better, because if I become better, if I feel more worthy, then I'll get what I want, then I'll attract love. Does this make sense? And instead, there's unresolved energy under the surface that if you were to feel integrate and let go of, you'd become free. But the degree to which we are trying to prove ourselves to people is the degree to which we're playing that game. We play that game. Is this making sense? My intention here is to give you a new perspective on worthiness and wanting people to like you, etc. Because it's a burdenful job to get everybody to like you, isn't it? It's a burdenful job to say, I need to feel worthy. Can you imagine you spend your life trying, like saying affirmations, like, I am enough, I am enough, I'm enough, I am worthy, I am worthy, I am worthy. And you imagine a baby saying, I am worthy, I am worthy, I am worthy. And it's silly, isn't it? Because a baby doesn't have a concept of what worthy is. A baby just is. A baby exists. And that's why worthiness is your ability to give yourself permission to be the real you. And think about it, do you feel worthy when you're around your best friends? Think about this for a moment. Do you feel worthy when you're around your best friends? You probably feel permission to be you, worthy, whole, and complete. But then I say, what about around this person that you really like? Or what about around this person that looks kind of like your mom or your dad? What about the person over here that's your boss or authority, or that reminds you of someone in your past? You say, oh, I, I don't feel worthy around that person. But what you really mean is around this person you give yourself permission to be you, and around this person the stakes are higher, importance is projected onto them, and then you get kind of weird and you're not being the real you, and as a result, you don't feel worthy. Interesting, right? So like back in the day when I was sharing, when I was first getting on YouTube and I started to meet people that I've been watching on YouTube for years, at first sometimes I'd go through a pattern of being not my true self because there was some form of projection of wanting connection or approval or whatever. And then eventually that would go away and I'd be like, wait, this is a person. Wait, I'm gonna give myself permission to be me. I would own myself more. As I would do that, then I would actually connect with people in a deep way. So in a way, it's like your ability to be the real you And to give yourself permission to be the real you is the degree to which you will then allow deeper connections into your life, because then you actually allow people to connect with you in a deep way. People can't connect to you when there's that projection of energy. I remember specifically there was a time— there's— this happens every now and then just because of what I do for a living. I remember one time I was going to get Like, um, a beard trim or something. And it was— the first time was cool. Got the beard trim, left. The second time, the person found out who I was on social media and stuff like that. And then it was like there was this hyper, like, wanting to please me, hyper, like, wanting me to really have a good experience. And that energy made it completely like uncomfortable because now it was no longer person to person. Now it was pedestalization energy patterns. It wasn't authentic. So there was a different energy there. Well, in the same way, when I was first getting on YouTube back in 2017 and I started to meet some people, it was like there was a moment that it would shift where I would take away that energy and just own who I was. And And then I could actually connect with people. And then, so take this same thing, right? There are certain people. So what's funny is look at the projection of energy here. You might go on a date with someone that you are kind of neutral with in the sense that you're not projecting importance onto them. And you're like, I'm just gonna be me. And then as you're just being you, That person probably is more attracted to you because you're just being you. But then you go on a date with somebody else, and what happens is you might have it very important that they like you. There might be a certain projection of energy, and then you might repel that energy, and you're like, why is this happening? What's the difference in those 2 energies? One, there's a pattern, and one, there's authenticity. Can you guys see the difference there? You see the difference in that energy? One is authentic, one is a pattern. One, there's no projection of energy. One, there is. So when you are around certain people, you are more authentic. And when you are around certain other people, you may be less authentic, less vulnerable. Less present, less courageous. And remember, how do you actually choose yourself? We've talked about this in some prior videos. You choosing yourself in your life— there is a direct reflection to the degree to which you choose you, to which you allow other people to choose you. And remember, you choose you when you are vulnerable, authentic, and present. Regardless of what other people think. That's when you choose you. And whether other people choose you or not is not your thing to manage. You no need to manage that. We'll go back to our caveman bit, right? When I myself, I choose me, I accept me, I have more fun. When I have more fun, people want to be around me. When I in pattern, people no want to be around me so much. I try to please them. I try to be perfect. I try to prove myself. That feel like pressure on them. They feel burdened. It heavy. No feel good. Can you feel difference there? When you are more authentic, you are more magnetic. When you give yourself permission to be the little bit weird esoteric you, You are more magnetic. When you are in a pattern trying to prove yourself and you want something from someone else, there's an energy of expectation and projection happening which repels. And let's be honest here, if the pattern is on autopilot from childhood, that pattern might also come with a payoff, baby. There's a little bit of a payoff there. You wanna know what that payoff is? You get to be right about reality. Payoff is like a dirty high that you get if you're good. If you're the good boy or girl and you please someone else and you fix someone else, you get to be good because good as a kid was to fix. Good as a kid was to please. And when you're good, you don't get negative tension of bad, of something bad. You don't— which is their disapproval. But many times people that are being good end up abandoning themselves over and over again and then wonder, why do I keep getting abandoned by people? When you were initially abandoning yourself. Remember, people treat you the way you treat you. And if you allow toxic dynamics in your life, if you allow other people to walk on you. And if you don't stand up for yourself, other people will feel that off of you. And that, in a way, lack of worthiness, that lack of respect for yourself becomes something that other people take advantage of. Do you see? So this is why you choosing you is so powerful and is a very important part of feeling worthy, whole, and complete. But remember, you are worthy because you exist. Now let's look at tension and worthiness for a moment. Okay, let's take this a step further. Tension and worthiness. The ability you have to sit with tension knowing it's not your thing to manage, you will then begin to respect you more. Does this make sense? You begin to respect you more, and instead of approval and validation, you then get and have respect for yourself and also acceptance of yourself. So I always say that when it comes to like transforming some of these patterns, it's you, you exchange out validation and approval, you exchange out for authenticity and vulnerability. But it's like you get respect for yourself and from others as a response to you choosing you. Does this make sense? So you can go and put in— go ahead and put in questions if you have questions about all of this. Okay? Yeah. And when we were talking earlier— okay, so when I was talking about The payoffs you get. So anytime you break a pattern, there is going to be a certain level of tension that comes with that. Now here's the thing, even if you don't break the pattern, there's still tension under the surface, right? So if you live and feel stuck in the pattern of people pleasing, if you stay feeling stuck in the pattern of perfectionism, You do get payoffs from that. The payoffs are, um, if you criticize yourself through perfectionism, someone else is less likely to criticize you, so you become the oppressor. Also, these roles from childhood— your inner voice is a combination of your mom and dad's voice for how they used to speak to you. And that became internalized. Does this make sense? The way you speak to yourself, your inner thoughts— like, if you want to avoid criticism of mom and dad, a very powerful way to do that is to internalize the voice of mom and dad and to make it your own. So this is where you might be really, really hard on yourself. So if you are really, really hard on yourself and you criticize yourself a lot, that may be a way avoiding— a way of avoiding tension and disappointment from mom and dad. But then you become the one doing it to you. Do you guys see? It's hard to walk around with that energy, isn't it? It's hard to walk around criticizing yourself. Yeah. But it's a way of avoiding the disapproval of mom and dad. Yeah, exactly. Children internalize by default. As kids, we internalize everything. Like, if mom or dad was not physically or emotionally unavailable, we assume something wrong with me. I'm not enough. There's something wrong with me. That was a powerful realization for me when I was even, you know, recently at my week-long transformation that I went to where I had like no phone, no computer, no working, just 14 hours a day of transformation, all teachings and meditations and expression and all of that. Part of that was just realizing how much as a little kid, when I was 3 or 4 years old, when my brother was born and he had a lot of like health issues because he had asthma. How much I had to kind of shift into a helper role, being the eldest child, helping everybody else in the family, helping mom, helping dad, helping my little brother. And then eventually having a whole bunch of other brothers and sisters where I'm the eldest is like my role as a kid was I must help, I must be strong, I have no— I don't have any needs myself. But in the internalization of that is that this is my role. This is— if I want attention, love, or affection, I need to be good. And to be good means I don't have needs. It means I am fixing other people, and it means I am the strong one that is there for everybody else. And part of it is that that energy there Because if you imagine going into that energy, how much play is allowed to be in your life? Like, your sense of worthiness is basically connected to how much you can help others, be strong for others, et cetera. With that energy, you feel, I am worthy if I do all of these things. Am I worthy simply because I exist? So part of it for me, that healing journey has been actually releasing that stored energy underneath the surface To which there was quite a bit of, I guess you could say, like anger, anger for not having as much of a childhood or for not in a way feeling like I had that same level of support that maybe I saw other siblings have because I was the eldest and I had to hold it all together. There was like an inner child part of me that was like, oh, I wish I had that. Oh, I'm kind of resentful of this. So releasing, expressing out that energy under the surface is so powerful. So, but as kids, we don't have a strong intellect as kids to understand that, like, hey, mom and dad are working and busy and your brother needs this attention. And like, it's just they don't— there's not that time for you. Like, intellectually, we get that as adults, but as little kids, we internalize all of this and we say, this means there's something wrong with me. Does this make sense? Yeah, some of you experienced something similar. You're saying that you had to take care of your siblings because they were working all the time. So realize that— so the degree to which you heal, many times this energy is the degree to which you can release the unresolved energy under the surface. So for me, having anger that was there, that was something as a kid to be and to have and to express anger was not very acceptable. The thing is, is anger is a very powerful emotion. Anger is a way of establishing boundaries. It's a way of expressing energy so it doesn't stay stored in the body. You can either express it outwards or it stays internalized inwards with resentment and other emotion, other, you know, aspects of your life. Now, this is why, by the way, the mother-father-child dynamic is so powerful to begin to become aware of and to heal. And when you heal it and you release the energy underneath the surface, then you can start to embody the new values at the identity level Of vulnerability and authenticity. So something that we're going to be doing soon, by the way, on Wednesday, is a 3-day Magnetic You Challenge. It's completely free, and we're going to be doing breathwork. I'm going to be showing you embodiment exercises and, and ways to really shift things I've been learning recently. It's so powerful. And if you do want to join, that's completely free. You can comment the word shift, S-H-I-F-T, and I'll send you the invite. It'll be at 10 AM PST Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. So, so, so it says, I attract men I'm into, but I'm attracting a different physical body and I like it more. Hmm. Okay. Not sure what that means. Let's see if you guys have any questions. Go ahead and put it in. Can a child have a right to be angry without being called bad? Misbehaving parents, obvious why. Um, see, as a kid, if you learned that to be in anger was bad, you will then repress it and reject it inside of yourself. And what you're really— you're not really rejecting the anger, you're rejecting the expression of the anger. And the expression of the anger then has it stay stored inside of your body. Does it make sense? Still there. So it's funny because people that have like people-pleasing patterns and they say, I'm not very comfortable with tension, I'm not really comfortable with tension and anger— that's not true. You might be uncomfortable with expressing the anger towards other people because you feel responsible for what they feel, but deep down you are so comfortable with it that you've normalized it under the surface. Think about that. You don't tell yourself you're not comfortable with it. You've familiarized it and normalized it. It's just that it's not expressed out. Now, part of the reason you don't express anger outwards is because you're afraid that if you were to express how you really felt, someone else would feel tension. And you don't want them to feel tension because their energy feels like your responsibility. You learned as a kid that you had to expand your energy field to include other people, and then you feel responsible for them. And then you might remember— you might wonder why subconsciously you block relationships in your life. You're like, I feel like I sabotage relationships in my life. Well, on one hand, relationships may be something you want. On the other hand, relationships may be something you think means you need to regulate someone else's nervous system. So you'd say, I'd say, do you wanna attract love? You say yes. And then I say, well, do you wanna regulate someone else's nervous system 24/7? And what do you say? No. Because if you believe it is your responsibility to regulate your partner's nervous system, guess what? That's a big burden. You'll carry that with you. Can you see the difference there? This is how some people sabotage attracting love, relationship, or going deeper in their relationship. They're stuck in a pattern of believing it's their responsibility to manage someone else's nervous system. And if you believe that that is your responsibility, that's heavy, and that's making something else that's not your job your job. So, but remember, people that are in that pattern may have normalized abandoning themselves to make others happy, and then you end up resenting yourself. Does that make sense? Sipped on a little sticky thing. But tension, tension is not bad. Anger is not bad. Anger is just an emotion. So realize that what are your beliefs? Because here's the thing, you will attract people into your life that you feel you need to regulate their nervous system, and you will normalize it until you realize it's not your job, until you stand up for yourself, or you use something called the frame technique where you feel the separation between you and them. That's theirs. That's not your job to manage. And the key to this is recognizing that and not putting that pressure on yourself. But here's the thing, you do get payoffs for that, right? You get payoffs for being in that, um, that energy. You get to be the good one. You get to be, uh, it creates a certain level of codependency where then people need you. Right? That's the role that you know. But the role you know is not your soul, okay? You're not the role, you're the soul. You see? Yeah. Do you see? So if you have questions, go ahead and put it in there. Do you guys see a little bit about what I'm talking about with worthiness here? Like, how do you feel worthy, whole, and complete? You feel worthy, whole, and complete when you accept yourself and you choose yourself by being vulnerable, authentic, present, and courageous. Worthiness is not an outcome, it's a way of being. It's an expression. Worthiness is an idea. It's a concept. You would never take a baby and put headphones on it, and as it grows up, it says, I am worthy, I am worthy, I am worthy. They're just words. Worthiness is a concept. It's a concept that projects into life this comparison of I am worthy, I am not worthy. Which is why when I mentioned it earlier, when I was first getting on YouTube and then collaborating with people that I'd watched for years on YouTube, think about worthiness as it's comparison. It's like, oh, this person's more important because they have large following. That projection creates a lack of connection. Can you guys see how that's basically what that is? Worthiness is basically a comparative sense of value. You see, we like to say I am worthy or not worthy based on comparison, but a baby doesn't compare itself. Like if you were to say, here is a baby, right? And here's another baby right here. We're going to have a baby, a worthy baby contest. I've actually done this at a live event before where I took baby dolls and I said, everyone has to in this room pick one of these babies that is the most worthy baby. And the other 2 babies, you have to boo and you have to go all out. And it was this, I said, it's going to sound silly, but you will always remember this. So I had a baby. I said, this is the worthy baby. Cheer if this is your worthy baby. People go, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. People go, boo, if it wasn't. And then I'd take the other baby. What about this? And people go, boo, or yeah. And it looks ridiculous, right? But the idea of— would you compare 2 babies together and say this one's more worthy than this? Silly idea, right? So when it comes to worthiness, worthiness is only worthy It's only more worthy or less worthy based on a comparative sense of value. This baby more worthy than this baby. Silly. But as adults, we give ourselves complete permission to say, this person is more worthy because they've made more money. This person's more worthy because they have a good relationship in their life. And then we compare ourselves to that and say, I'm not worthy. There's something wrong with me. No. It's just comparative sense of value. No baby is more worthy than other— than any other. And your sense of self-worth is not connected to what you do. Can you guys see what I'm saying here? Does this maybe help you look at the idea of worthiness in a little bit of a different way? And when we project worthiness as someone's worthy or not worthy, what do we end up doing? Things are worthy or not worthy. We either give ourselves permission to be our most authentic selves or not based on the projection of whether someone's worthy or not, or how we feel around someone else. Do you guys see? Yeah. So that's how we really tap into more and more worthiness. It's more acceptance in the present moment, the ability to give ourselves permission to be our most authentic selves. Yeah. So anyways, but worthiness is a belief system we learned growing up. So how do we move on from what we learned? How, how we deserve it now? Like, what I'm saying here is I'm saying go beyond the belief of needing to even prove that you are worthy. So someone's asking like, okay, worthiness is a belief system that we learned growing up. It's a com— it really, it's a lot of it's comparison. I compare myself. Am I worthy? Am I not worthy? A lot of it is worthiness is based in a— the desire or the drive that you have to prove worthiness is in direct correlation to the unresolved shame that is underneath the surface. So the level of unreleased— like, shame does not want to be seen, accepted, or felt. And shame is an energy of there's something wrong with me. And this is why, by the way, this is why it's kind of a paradox because we say you need to be worthy to attract millions of dollars. You need to be worthy for these things. You really don't. You want to know an interesting secret? A lot of the most rich people you see in the media, the people with billions of dollars, do you think they feel worthy? No. You think they feel worthy? A lot of times it might be shame that propels them to try to become successful. The pattern creates a certain level of success. And then there's, there's, there's people that are billionaires that feel like it's never enough. It's never enough. So is it even ever even true This whole notion that like you get in life a direct reflection of what you believe you're worthy of, part of it is just if there's a pattern there that's driving you to become worthy so that you could finally be enough, maybe not even being true. It's like you, you, you— the concept is I need to fix my sense of worthiness, and once I fix my sense of worthiness, I will then have love and all of this stuff. You can still have a lot of those things even feeling not worthy because some of the most successful people in the world feel not enough and it's never enough. And there are some of them, some of the most successful people in the world are— there's billionaires that are penny pinchers. Penny pinchers. I switched that around. Okay, not even necessarily true. However, once again, my definition of worthiness is a little bit different. Worthiness is a concept. If you give up needing to prove worthiness, okay, there's a whole other thread, maybe in a future video I'll talk about it. Okay, worthiness, I am enough. Okay, really worthiness is just, you just exist, you're present. That's it. Wanting to become better and superior than other people or being inferior to other people is both the side effect of this energy. And you either compensate by trying to become better than other people, Sometimes narcissistic people will be like that. Superiority, grandiosity, or feeling inferior to other people. Okay, the game is how do you— a lot of times we'll try to compensate up here, compare ourselves to others to feel better about ourselves, but really you just are. You exist. So this is why I say if you can let it be okay that you are both worthy and not worthy at the same time, You didn't become free because it's a concept. You guys see? So anyways, we'll be talking more about this inside the three-day challenge that I'm running that's free next week. If you do want to join, you can comment the word shift S H I F T. We're starting then. Anyways, had fun with you guys today. You guys have fun. Yeah. Awesome. What else is going on? So in the next couple days— what is today? Yeah, I've been getting settled in here in LA. I recently moved in a new place, then I went away for a week for a transformation thing. Now I'm back getting grounded in. That feels pretty nice. Um, getting my routine set up out here, which is cool. I've got a cool, like, separate office Where I live, which is nice because I can separate work life and everything a little bit. Yeah, parenting puts your parents and parenting into perspective, I bet. Yeah, I've been filming in the backyard a lot. I'm gonna mix it up though. Some of the things in the house are still getting like set up. Being inside is nice because sound and stuff. It wasn't that bad today, but there are times where It's loud. There's like dogs and stuff. But anyways, cool, you can hear the birds. Other than that, thank you guys for being here. I'll see you guys on the next one. See you guys next week at the 3-day challenge if you're there. Other than that, thank you guys for being here. I'll see you guys in the next one. Peace, much love, and namaste. And if you want to learn step by step how you can choose yourself so deeply that it transforms every area of your life, this is a video that recently has gone viral. People have really been resonating with it, and it will show you how to transform your personalized core pattern to actually become the version of you on the other side. Check out this video right here next and watch what happens.
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