In this instructional video, Aaron Doughty explains three common mistakes that prevent people from manifesting money, love, and success and offers practical ways to overcome them. The first mistake is pursuing goals that are not aligned with one’s true passion, which lowers personal vibration and creates resistance. He illustrates this with his own failed attempt at outsourcing Kindle books, emphasizing the need to follow the heart’s alignment. The second mistake is treating manifestation as a purely mental exercise, ignoring the essential roles of feeling and concrete action. Aaron shares his transition from merely visualizing success to committing to daily video creation, which led to rapid channel growth and a full‑time creator career. The third mistake is chasing external outcomes, which places the desired emotions outside the self and keeps the individual on the wrong vibrational frequency. He advises embodying the feelings of already having what is desired, resonating at the appropriate frequency, and “living in the end” through meditation. Throughout, he stresses raising vibration, responding rather than reacting, and taking consistent, purposeful action as keys to unlocking manifestation.
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Money, love, and success are doing everything they can to get to you, but what we do is we block it from coming into our lives by doing these 3 things. I'm going to show you exactly what to do to bypass them so that you finally start to allow what you want into your life. All right guys, welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you the The 3 biggest manifestation mistakes that are blocking you from attracting money, love, and success. And the first one has to do with this understanding of our energy in general and the things that we think we want versus whether it's actually in alignment with our soul or in alignment with our passion. Because sometimes what happens is we say to ourselves, we say, I want money, love, success. These are the things I want. However, we think the mode to getting there is sometimes ways that are actually out of alignment with who we really are. And let me give you an example of this. About 3, about 5 years ago, I would say, I was intending to learn how to make passive income online. And what I was doing is I saw this YouTuber, he was showing how to make and how to outsource Kindle books, like outsourcing Kindle books, and you hire people to write them and you get ghostwriters and stuff, and then you, you market them. And he was showing how to do this and how he was making like, I don't know, it was like $8,000 or $10,000 a month doing it. And he taught people how to do that. And I thought it was really cool. I was working my job selling women's shoes at the time. So I was like, okay, let me try, let me get inside this and let me see how I can do this. So I bought his course, it was like $60-something and I started studying it and I started to actually apply it. However, there were a lot of resistance There was a lot of resistance that came up. And the thing that I realized was that I was doing it for the wrong reasons. It was nothing I was actually passionate about. I wasn't passionate about writing. I wasn't passionate about getting these, you know, people to write books and marketing these certain ideas. I wasn't actually passionate about that. And what happened is I felt a lot of resistance and nothing actually really came from it. After about a month or two of trying to do it, it was a big hassle. I wasn't really making any money from it. And I decided to stop doing that. But now that I look back, I see the actual truth of that. What was actually happening is I, with my— we all have an energetic field around our body. I was doing something I wasn't passionate about, which was lowering my frequency, and it was something that wasn't a part of my natural passion. Now remember, your higher self and your, your body, your physical ego, your higher self is always sending you a signal. That is showing you whether you're in alignment or not. And when you're feeling passion, you're in alignment with what you're meant to be doing. As I make this video right now, I'm very passionate about it because I— this is what I love doing. So in the same way, what happens is, is this is the scale of consciousness right here. Just like an example, maybe you've seen me talk about it in my videos before, but the more you raise your vibration, the more— the easier your manifestation ability is and the better you feel. Remember, feeling goes into your manifestations. So sometimes what people do is they may be focused on the money, they may be focused on the relationship instead of focused on the feeling and the passion of knowing that it is in alignment, that it is in alignment. So let me get this, uh, marker right here. So in alignment. So the key to this is the first mistake we make is we're not actually passionate about it. We're not passionate about it. And because we're not actually passionate about it, what ends up happening is it's actually something that lowers our frequency. Plus in a way it's something that our higher self is showing us isn't actually in alignment. Like for example, if I were to do and be doing that thing that I was doing with the selling Kindle books, I believe maybe it would have taken me on a timeline where it wasn't actually what I was passionate about. It would have kind of veered me off of the timeline that I'm on now to where I eventually started making YouTube videos full time. And sometimes people do this as well. They're like, I want to win the lottery. And if we want to win the lottery, what ends up happening is we think that what we want to win is the lottery, but what we really want is the emotion that comes from the security and the financial freedom of winning the lottery. But the thing is, is what if from your soul's perspective, you winning the lottery would take you out of your power of you actually creating things from the inside out? Because winning the lottery is kind of like an outside-in type thing. So we need to ask ourselves the question, is this relevant for our life, for our purpose, for what we're passionate about? And that's why when I talk about manifestation, I always mention it in the form of make sure it's connected to your heart. So if attracting money, love, and success, if you're trying to attract money based on things that are principles that are out of alignment with you, then you might be coming up with blocks. You might think you just want a certain dollar amount, or you might think you just want a person because this person may make me feel better. But what if that person that you're trying to attract is actually gonna treat you in a very negative way? Or what if it'll be a very sour relationship or actually deter you from your purpose of you accomplishing your dreams? When I was going through my, and starting to become more well-known on YouTube and really going for my passion, I realized that maybe being single during that time was necessary for me to really get my momentum going. So that's something that really makes a difference is first off, understanding your passion and whether it's really in alignment with what you're meant to be doing and with your soul in general. Now, the second thing that may be blocking you from money, love, and success, the mistake you may make with manifestation is believing that it is all about thinking rather than also feeling and acting on whatever you want to create in your life. Now, I remember when I was first getting on YouTube and, uh, just also working my 9 to 5 job that I wasn't passionate about. I actually— people look at me now and they say, wow, Aaron's got a lot of willpower. Everyone's able to like make a lot of videos on YouTube and all this stuff. And the truth is, I used to be somebody that was manifesting really by kind of just sitting on the couch, to be honest with you. I was like thinking about what I want, and I would sit here and I'd be like, oh, I really want this in my life, and I really want that, and perfect relationship, and doing what I love full-time, one day being able to speak like some of the people I look up to. That's what I want to do one day. And I remember I was I was thinking that I would go into work every day and just nothing was really happening. Um, there were a couple synchronicities. One of the synchronicities is I met Jack Canfield. If you guys don't know him, he was in the book, he was in, uh, he's like the author of the Chicken Noodle Soup for the Soul books. And he was also in the movie The Secret. I met him at work synchronistically. He came up to me to buy something for his, uh, his wife, but there was no one in the department he needed to buy clothes in. So he came to the shoe department to get rung up. And then I talked to him and stuff and he was really cool and I told him one day I'm going to do what you do. So it's kind of funny because now I do kind of what he does for a living, you know what I mean? Um, but there were certain synchronicities there, but nothing actually really happened. But then what I did is I, I had this, this, um, I kept hearing people talk about taking massive action and at the time that's probably what I needed to hear, but I was, I wasn't really doing it. I was, um, I'd hear it and I kind of feel resistant about it, like take massive action. Sounds hard. What about law of attraction? Like, you should be able to just make it easy where you don't have to really take action. You just think it, you know, or believe that you just think it. But a big change for me was what I did is I ended up going to, I ended up going to, I was at my, at my house walking around and I just had this feeling. If you make a video a day, every single day, well, for a year, your life was completely transformed. So I committed to that. And within a short period of time, I, my channel went from 3,000 subscribers all the way up to over 100,000 subs and 4 months later I quit my job and I've been doing it full time ever since and it's been amazing. And that happened though from me moving out of just thinking that it was about thinking with the law of attraction or thinking about my goals or money, love, and success to actually lining that up with also feeling and acting, being that version of me, taking massive action. So it's a huge mistake I see a lot of people make and you know, sometimes for this too It's what do you need to hear in the moment? Like right now I'm at a place to where I'm actually taking less action than usual because I've been realizing that for 3 years I've been taking massive action and now I need to actually go more within so that I can creatively come up with, with new things so that I could also start doing my live events and stuff like that. Like I'm having to redirect my own energy. That's what I need to hear now. But my guess is that maybe there's many of you that were like me a couple of years ago and you hearing take massive action, I promise you do one thing every day that brings you closer to your goals and that by doing it every single day, you're going to be able to experience more of in your life and, uh, it compounds over time that eventually that becomes something that you can do in your life. So, uh, the second one right here, I'm gonna go and write it down real quick. One sec. Okay, here it is. Thinking right there. Just thinking. The top one is not actually passion. It's not actually in alignment with the soul. And the third one has to do with something I've been talking a lot about on the channel recently. However, I'm going to share with with you where it's really practical, and that is understanding that anytime we chase something, we immediately put it outside of us, but also understanding that it's also assuming that those emotions don't already exist inside of us. So for example, we have our energetic body right here, and what we do is we say, when I accomplish the money, love, and success, then I'll feel happy, and we externalize it, and we're always chasing it. It's like we got a stick on a string and we're chasing that money, love, and success, but we're never gonna catch it 'cause we got this stick that's too long. Instead, instead of chasing it, what if you just felt the emotions on the inside of money, love, and success? What if you felt gratitude for what you have now? And by feeling those emotions on the inside, then the outside begins to change. And remember, life is like a mirror. It's reflecting back what we feel on the inside. So if I go over to the mirror and I'm like looking for it and chasing the mirror, It's like chasing the mirror. And if I chase the mirror, I'm always, I'm always going for something that's external from me. But remember, the mirror of reality is just a reflection anyways. So if you change the inside, which doesn't mean that you necessarily— it means that you, you learn how to respond instead of react. That's the biggest change. Respond instead of react. If you respond, then you're coming at it from a level of awareness. And if you react, you're coming at it from the level of the, uh, the survival mode. So the key to this is knowing that if we're chasing anything, if you're chasing a person— I really want you— then it's saying, I really don't have you, I really don't have you, and I really need you, which means I'm not complete without you, which is sending a subconscious symbol to yourself that you're not good enough already. So the key to this is understanding that vibrational resonance— in a way, it's like a radio station. If you have a radio station that's at 92.7, which is the frequency of love— let's say that was the frequency of love— and you want to experience more love in your life, you have to first off resonate and be at that radio frequency. Then you can perceive of that what else is on that channel, which may be your soulmate coming up to you, you meeting certain types of people, business opportunities, whatever it is. But you must first off be resonating at that frequency. And anytime you're chasing money, love, or success, you're not at that frequency. You're— it's like you're at 87.2 trying to perceive of 92.7. So the key to this is that awareness of feeling it with inside now, giving yourself permission now to feel that love, giving yourself permission now to really get to that state, knowing that as you do that, then really things begin to change. And one of the biggest things too is learning how to live in the end reality, live in the end reality. That's a concept by Neville Goddard, but imagine the perfect version of you, how you would think, feel, act. Kind of books you would read, that version of you, and live in it. Feel as if that is you now. That feeling on the inside will then change the outer mirror. I just recently did a Living in the End meditation, which is very powerful. You can read the comments to see what's possible. Go ahead and you can click below, or actually I'll put an end card right here. Listen to that meditation for 21 days. Watch how your life begins to change, because once you do that, everything changes, I promise you. So with that being said, I'll see you on the next vid. Peace, much love, and namaste.
