3 Reality Shifting Techniques for Decreasing Importance (Law of Attraction Alternative)

This video, I'm going to be explaining to you 3 Reality Transurfing techniques for decreasing the level of importance you give to anything. When we decrease the level of importance, we increase the probability of experiencing it, and I'm going to show you exactly how to do that. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now on this video, we're going to be looking at 3 of the techniques for decreasing importance with Reality Transurfing. And let me first off just give a general overview for the Transurfing process because you guys are just now getting really to understand it. I'm starting to make a lot of videos on it, but I want to make sure that it kind of, you know, we're able to really have the context for what I'm saying. So first off, Reality Transurfing is more so a philosophy for life. Than it is just like a manifestation process, but it is a very powerful manifestation process as well. Now, Reality Transurfing is a book that was written in Russia by a Russian quantum physicist named Vadim Zeland, and it's a book that's now being translated to a whole bunch of different languages and it's now becoming more and more well known. Now, what it has the awareness of is that there are an infinite number of what are called parallel realities or an infinite number of the alternative space, different variations. And what this means is that any possible reality you can imagine exists right now in this moment. Now, if we simply have more intentions in our life, that will change our life in very powerful ways. Now, an intention is anytime you have a determination to do something and you follow it up with some type of action or some type of expectation, but once again, you're not attached to the expectation. So what you do is you set intentions, and as you set intentions and make choices, you are shifting yourself to the kind of life experience that you prefer. You're shifting life tracks in a way. Now, a powerful part of understanding this are what are called pendulums. Now, pendulums are understanding that our thoughts have an electromagnetic type reality to it, even though we may not actually see it. Now, the idea is because we have collective consciousness. We have a whole bunch of us that are constantly thinking thoughts. Some of us will think similar thoughts to other people. Those thoughts develop their own thought structure when they team up with other thoughts that are similar. So the idea behind this is what is called social conditioning. So many times we think we're thinking our own thoughts, but many times we are being carried with the pendulum of the mass consensus. So for example, there are pendulums around different sports teams. There are pendulums around different political positions. There are pendulums around any belief you can possibly imagine, any label or identification. There's both. There's a pendulum around being an American or being a certain type of person. And a lot of times we get these carry through us and we don't even, we're not even aware of it. It's just simply that's the way we see the world. So the idea is to become aware of those pendulums and to become aware that maybe we're thinking certain ways simply because We are feeling that from the mass consensus. We're kind of doing what we were always told to do. So a very important part of Reality Transurfing is to, to make your own path and to push forward and follow your heart. Following your heart is so important. You have to follow what you're really passionate about and you can't make the goal of what you want to experience just the money. It has to be something greater, something your heart can connect to because the mind doesn't understand just the money. It understands more, uh, the mind understands the money, but the heart isn't able to connect to it because the heart doesn't know the understanding that money equals freedom. It equals this emotion that you can feel. So the idea is to follow your passion, to find out what you love to do, find ways of sharing that with other people, and that then you begin to really follow that in a very powerful way. Now, the part of this video that we're going to be speaking about is the part that's about decreasing importance. Now, this is the transformational thing so many people get from this because anytime I post a video on it and I explain it, I get people over the next week or two that are like, that part helped me so much. I decreased the importance and everything started to happen. That's what happened for me. Somebody told me about this. I started to apply it. As I applied it, I started getting much easier results. You know, they told me about the book. I read the book. I saw this decreasing importance thing. I'm like, huh, let me try that. And as I did it, I started to really resonate with more so my desires. I thought I found things were happening so much easier. I was growing in powerful ways. There was both spiritually and also with like social media and stuff. It was just like, it was no big deal because it's a part of who I am. Just following my passion. That was the main goal. That was the main focus and it was just natural and that's when things started to really happen. So decreasing importance. The reason this is so powerful is because anytime we make something more important than it has to be, we put it on a pedestal and metaphorically speaking, there are balancing forces that come into play that make it so that that balances out. So the idea is that you can relate to this anytime you may have been attracted to somebody and if you made them really important, most likely you ended up somehow resisting them. So somehow you make it really important that this person, you know, likes you back. The idea is that either they either become not attracted anymore or circumstances just come up to where it doesn't work out. And that's because those balancing factors come into play anytime you really, really, really want something. You're also subconsciously saying, I really, really, really don't have it because the want is because it's over there and you're here. So the idea is to more so resonate with your desires by realizing it's natural for you to experience what you want. It's natural for you to be in the relationship you want. It's natural for you to be doing what you love for a living because that's who you are. So this is the powerful part of it. The other little part of importance is understanding desire. When we have a strong desire for something, if that desire is not met and followed up with intention or action, it remains just a thought. It doesn't really turn into anything because a desire also subconsciously is saying that I don't currently have it. So it's about being aware of that and transferring that into intention. So the 3 techniques for being able to get rid of what is called excess potential, which is what is— that's what's created. Anytime you make something more important than it is, you put it on a pedestal. It's now very, very important. That creates excess potential that must then be balanced out. And many times that'll be balanced out by literally not giving you what you want almost so that you are able to balance that energy out. You're almost able to learn from it. That's how kind of it can be looked at. So the first technique for being able to really let go of any of this is to learn how to observe and to have observation. Now this is a technique you can use, which you can do, and this is what I do is every morning when I wake up, I do a certain meditation. And the meditation is, is I stare at a candle flame and as I'm staring at a candle flame, what I do is I don't focus on anything else. I just focus on that one candle flame and I observe my thoughts. This has changed my life. I've been doing this since 2012. What it's allowed me to do is to really neutralize anything that's happening, not give charge to the negative thoughts that I'm having. And as I am from a neutral point of view, you can then choose your momentum. You can then choose where your thoughts go. Now understand that whatever you focus on, you will feel. So if you're focusing on a whole bunch of different things, you're not gaining any momentum. That's why that when the eyes wander, the mind wanders as well. So what you can learn to do and the way you can apply this is by focusing on one point. You can close your eyes or leave them open, focus on one point and observe your thoughts. And as you observe your thoughts, do not label them as good or bad. Do not give them excess meaning or make them really important. Just allow them to be there. Just observe them. And as you do that, it will change your whole awareness. You will start to see things from a more expanded point of view. Now the reason this is, is because simply you're seeing things for more of the way they are than the perceptual layers that we put over our perception. Many times when we look at things, we think we're seeing them as they are, but we're really seeing them with a whole bunch of beliefs and a whole bunch of little ways of seeing things that end up creating a certain type of pattern because we're looking at it a certain way. So the idea behind this is to realize that if you're feeling, especially if you're feeling like you're making anything very, very important, just observe it. Just allow that to be there. Let it be okay that you're making it more important than it is. As funny as that sounds, what you didn't do is you start to balance it out because it's okay. As you let it be okay, you drop resistance. Anything that we insist happens, we make it very, very important. On the other side of that, there's the level of resistance. That is created. That level of resistance will make it so that you don't experience what you want. So the cure to this is to observe those, observe those thoughts, observe what you're making important, and start to see it from the perspective of it is natural for you. It is natural for you to experience what you want. What you want to do is you want to expand your comfort zone but not step outside your comfort zone. Now the idea, the difference is that you're still doing the same thing, but you're doing it from a different level of awareness. One, you step outside your comfort zone and you come back and that's scary over there. I'm going to go try doing this. I'm going to go, uh, go into, you know, I want a certain type of job. I'm going to go in and talk to the manager of the stores and what I'm going to do is I'm going to give them my resume confidently, look them in the eye and tell them why I want the job and why I'd be the best fit for their company, what value I could add to them. You go and you do it once and you come back to your comfort zone and you say, you know what, that wasn't for me. Expand your comfort zone. I am the type of person that goes out there and has value to add in the world because I believe in myself. Therefore, I'm the type of person that goes to different companies and expresses how I want to do that. You see what I mean? It's different perspective. It's coming from a different level of awareness, but as you do it like that, that's where everything really begins to change. So observation is one of the most powerful ways to decrease the level of importance. When you do this, you will start to find that things happen in a much more powerful way. I promise you, you'll start to see that things just are natural for you. You'll start to see that things that for years maybe you resisted, all of a sudden you let it go and there's this space and you feel like you just look and there's like things are just popping in your life experience. The second technique that you can use to decrease the level of importance for something is understanding emotions and forgiveness. Now, forgiveness dissipates an imbalance of energy. Now think of it like this. We're constantly walking around living out different patterns of our lives based on the meaning that we give things. So Susie or Carl or whoever did something to you. When you— maybe 5, 6 years ago— stole money from you. And what happens, you haven't been able to forgive Susie or Carl, whoever it is. And the idea is because you weren't able to forgive either of them, you subconsciously carry around a pattern inside of you that says that people do things to you like that. That's something that you are in a way worthy of. You're worthy of these mishaps happening because of some reason. And as you carry that energy along with you, you will link up and resonate with experiences in your life. Of that. It's almost like you're saying, I don't want this to happen, and this has happened before, so therefore it links up with people in the alternative space and different parallel realities there are. It links up with people in the alternative space that can give you exactly that. As harsh as that may sound, the key to this is to forgive that person. When you forgive, you let go of the excess potential and you allow yourself to then be free. You're not free anytime you hold a grudge. You may think you are because you get emotional stimulation and you get mental stimulation when you're thinking about what this person did, but that's only from a certain level of consciousness. What you want to do is neutralize it by forgiving whoever did anything to you, and when you do that, you stop seeing those kinds of people in your life. Now, this is kind of funny. But, but okay, I hadn't— I've explained this story many times before. I'm not going to go too far into it. I know a lot of people went through a lot of shit when they were younger, so I'm not saying that I'm any different than that or like, you know, I had it worse than anyone else. But anyways, I went through an experience between 9, 15 years old, an abusive stepmom who had like bipolar issues. And my dad was a firefighter, so he wasn't home very often. So me and my brother were with her and she was very controlling, very manipulative. It was like we weren't allowed to have friends. We weren't allowed to do anything. We're always working outside. Um, and we weren't allowed to eat very much. We were very malnutritioned. At 15 years old, my dad divorced her. Um, and basically what happened is then we had all this freedom and we were able to eat what we want. We were able to have friends again, able to do school activities. Like, it was like a whole new world. Then that period, that was very painful because we were very controlled. She's very abusive. But then this is what happened after I came out of it. For years I felt resentment. Because I was like, this happened. Why did this happen? I didn't understand it. Now, general, long story short, it was one of the best things that ever happened to me because it led me to my spiritual awakening. It led me to go deeper within myself and to see it from a new point of view and to understand that it made me who I am today in the sense that now I'm somebody that, uh, I very much preach freedom and I want people to become free of their emotional ties and maybe I wouldn't have such a desire for that if I didn't go through that when I was younger. But I had to learn how to forgive my ex-stepmom because this is the thing. This is the funny thing that I realized. There were a couple girlfriends that I had after that experience of that. I had a couple girlfriends from, um, probably when I was probably 16 or 17 years old until about 21. And there were 2 or 3 of them that were— had similar traits to my ex-stepmom and I didn't even notice they were controlling kind of like her. So what I had to learn to do is I had to learn how to take my power back. I had to learn how to become really like a man that's on purpose, with a vision, and somebody that goes forth and that doesn't let anything else really kind of— not in an egotistical way, but like I'm very much more centered now and I'm very much more focused on what I want, who I am. So it's a little bit different perspective, but now I'm almost a rebel. Like it's almost like somebody tells me to do something, I do what I want to do. And I believe that one of the reasons I have that is because I was able to grow from that, but also I was able to forgive. The moment I forgave her, I really meant it and I really did it and I realized it from a more of a spiritual point of view that everything happens in life for a reason. Not everyone likes to hear that, but I believe that at a certain level I agreed to an experience like that. And what happened is immediately after that, the next girlfriends that I had were much less like her. It's almost like I learned the lesson. Take your power back. Don't let people control you. And that maybe turned me into the opposite of that because then I became a rebel, like somebody that can't really tell what to do. But that's who I am now and that's what I enjoy. I enjoy paving my own path and inspiring other people to live their own truth and to not let other people control them. And I had to forgive, not make it that important. And as I forgave, no more of that pattern is coming through in my life, at least that I'm aware of. And that's something I think can be very powerful for you. Maybe find out where that is. Maybe it's a— has to do with money, right? Maybe you find that money's not coming into your life. Maybe it's because you haven't forgave someone of something that happened and you're carrying around this, this feeling of unworthiness. And as you carry that around, it continues to breed something that you see more and more patterns of in your life. So it's about really just being aware of what that is, making the decision that you can forgive whoever did anything to you, that when you forgive, you dissipate that excess energy, and then you also at the same time let go of that pattern. Now the third one has to do with something I talked a lot about on the channel before. It has to do with understanding action and desire, really has to understand with letting go of desire. Now first off, let me say. That if you want a powerful technique, one of the ones I created, a free guided meditation that will show you exactly how to decrease your level of importance, which will then increase the probability that you experience what you want. It will also wire in some of the Reality Transurfing ideas. It's something that's absolutely free. You can download it in the top of the description box below. So it has to do with understanding that desire and desire in itself is not powerful. What is powerful is when you translate that desire into either intention or action. So this technique has to do with simply setting more intentions throughout your day. This is what most people just aren't doing. They don't have a focus of what direction they're going into and what they want to experience in their life. And because of that, they're therefore not experiencing what they want. Have intention and direction. Find out what do you really want out of life? Who do you want to become? What kind of experiences do you want to have from your heart, from following your passion? What do you want? And as you become aware of that, set intentions that you will experience more and more of that. And if you don't know what that is, that's cool, but start to set the intention that you will find out what that is. You can follow this as long as you want, but intentions are one of the most powerful things that you can really apply into your life. You can set an intention around just about anything. And what I recommend is something called segment intending, which is like an old school thing, like an Abraham Hicks type thing, but it's very powerful. Is you realize that your thoughts have an electromagnetic type reality to them, that when you go throughout your day and you do certain activities, that it almost primes you for the path of least resistance with the neurosynaptic connections in your brain. So think of this. You get into your car and you're getting ready to drive somewhere. What you do is you think, I intend to get where I want safe. I intend to have a great, you know, feel, feeling while I drive wherever I'm going. And I intend that when I get to this place, I'm going to feel this certain way. You set that intention when you get into your car and then once you get to where you are, you're like, okay, I'm going to meet up with this person. I have intention to have a very good meetup. You know, you don't have to do this all the time, but this is the thing. The more you do it, the more momentum you build. And then the next time you get into your car, guess what the path of least resistance with the neurosynaptic connections in your brain is? To be thinking about a safe drive. Subconsciously it starts to run itself. You're thinking about a safe drive, feeling good while you get there. When you get there, you're going to. Connect to other people. Then when you get somewhere, your pattern to feel connection with other people in that segment intends those life tracks of what you want to experience. So set those intentions and I think you'll find that things really begin to change in your life and you'll really be able to decrease the level of importance that you resonate. You start to realize it is natural for you to experience what you want in your life. So with that being said, Feel free to download that meditation that is on the top, Decrease Importance to Increase You Experiencing What You Want in Your Life. And as always, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you guys like to subscribe. If you haven't already, also hit that little notification here next to the subscribe button so that you guys can see the daily videos that I do. And other than that, as always, peace, much love. Namaste. All right, bye.