3 Soul Contracts You Signed Before You Were Born (You Forgot This)

Aaron Doughty explains three soul contracts you supposedly signed before birth: forgetting your spiritual identity, choosing your life's theme and challenges, and attracting specific relationships to catalyze growth. He uses his own painful childhood as an example of how suffering can trigger spiritual awakening.
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This video will show you 3 soul contracts that you signed before you were born. I'm going to share with you ways of remembering this so that you're able to have more awareness in your daily life and really be who you prefer to be. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video we're going to be talking about soul contracts and the different type of themes that we chose to have in our life experience. Now this is something I've shared in a prior video and that video got such good response that I thought I would make a follow-up video that kind of went a little bit more in detail with certain things that I was explaining. And the first one of the soul contract has to do with understanding that first off, we are an immortal spiritual being having a temporary human experience. And this is really the underlying theme of all 3 of these. The idea is because we will always exist, there were certain intentions that we had when we came into our life and certain things that we wanted to experience. Now, the analogy that I like to use before I get to the first one has to do with understanding the idea of a hallway, and I forget where I learned this, but think of it like a hallway and you are walking down the hallway and that going down the hallway is part of your purpose in life. It's part of the theme that you chose to be a part of. Now the free will that you have is the way that you walk down that hallway. So the idea is that you could skip, you could jump, you could hopscotch, you could run backwards, you go through different doors, whatever it is. The idea is that you have the free will to choose how you go down that hallway, but go down that hallway you will. Now think of this like the hallway going down that hallway, the feeling of passion, the feeling of what you love to do. Is guiding you down that hallway. So that's why you will kind of in a way always go down that hallway because the emotions that you have are guiding you in that direction. Now me, for example, I enjoy speaking. I enjoy sharing ideas. Now that is the hallway that I chose to go around is the expression of the ideas that I like to share. Now the way that I go about that, maybe the certain things that I'm teaching, maybe the certain things that I'm talking about or how I do it, whether it's expressing it through books or expressing it through speaking or through like seminars, that's up to me. That's my free will. But go down that hallway, I will. Now in the same way, I believe that everybody has a hallway that they're going down and the idea is to align with that and to follow the feeling and the passion of, uh, of that feeling of passion that you have within you to follow that and know that as you follow that, you are going down that hallway in a much more smooth, conscious and deliberate way. Now, the first one I want to explain to you of a soul contract that you signed but totally forgot was that you signed a contract that said that you were going to forget who you are at a deeper level. Now, this is also something I talked about in the other video, but it's important for understanding everything that I'm going to explain. The idea is that the purpose of your life and the purpose of everyone's life, I believe, at a certain level is to awaken to who they already are. Now this means that you become aware that you are a spiritual being having a human type experience, or you are an immortal spiritual being having a temporary human experience. Now this is something that you kind of have to learn by going within. It's not something, you know, you can read it in a book, you can read it in maybe some spiritual texts, but the only way you really find this out is by going within and starting to become more present within yourself. This is something that I learned because as I went more within, a lot of the things I went through earlier on in life was a lot of pain. I went through a lot of pain. With my ex-stepmom and how abusive she was. And because of that, I see now that a lot of that happened because it allowed me to go within to ask why does stuff like this happen? And then what happened is as I went in, that's when I had what is fundamentally called a spiritual awakening. So realize that you are an immortal spiritual being having a temporary human experience. And that if you find yourself that you went through a lot of pain growing up, that you went through a lot, that may be just to give you the pressure to go within to remember, to remember who you really are. So think of this also kind of like a video game. The idea is that if you're playing a video game, you don't feel as connected to the game because you know that it's not real for you. But the idea is that if you were to go into the video game and to think that it was you, that experience becomes that much more real. Now I know this is a metaphor, but if you think about it in this way, it makes it so much easier to relate to why We forgot who we were, and when we then can start to remember why we went through that, then we can see that that's really who we are, is we are the consciousness underneath that versus thinking that we have to identify with the ego and think that it's mortal and that it's going to— and in a way, the ego, we will transcend the ego after our life experience, but at the same time, it's about understanding that there's much more to that than thinking that we are the ego, which is why observation is such a powerful thing. Now, the second soul contract that you signed but may have totally forgotten has to do with the theme that you chose in life. So it's kind of like that hallway, but realize that the things that you went through in your life were all there for a specific reason, and the reason that you derive from that will depend on you and the meaning that you give it. Now, in the prior video that I did, there were a lot of people that were saying, that, uh, that they thought that there is no way they would have chosen their life because of the pain they went through and then assumed that I had a very great upbringing because of the way that I was explaining this perspective. And the truth of the matter is I had a very painful upbringing. I was completely controlled. I wasn't allowed to really eat that much food. I was real malnutritioned between the ages of being like 9 to about 7 or 8 to 15. I wasn't allowed to have friends. I was constantly forced to work outside. I wasn't allowed inside. I was constantly beaten by my ex-stepmom. Now I'm saying this not to give you or make you feel pity for me. I'm saying this because I went through a lot of shit growing up and because of that, that made me go within myself to learn more about who I am because then after 15 when my dad divorced her and found out about all this stuff that was going on and after that happened, then it was like I had to reintegrate into being normal again. Then I was allowed to watch TV, I was allowed to have friends, I was allowed to be normal. And because of that, I had all this freedom and I kind of went, you know, and I really embraced that freedom because it was so different than what I was experiencing before. But then I would go within and I would still feel this underlying anxiety because it's like, why did all of these things happen? But I realized that those things happened because then it allowed me to go within myself And once I was really able to forgive her, to be able to forgive the situation, everything began to change. It's almost like I had to have that pressure to then propel me up so that I could be who I prefer to be and I could realize things at a deeper level and go with more within myself. That was a theme that I believe I chose. And even though it wouldn't seem so, it's like, why would I choose something that's so painful? Everything has a purpose and the soul, I believe, knows that before going into the experience and the purpose and the meaning that we give it is the effect that we get out of it. It. That's something that we learned through self-awareness. It's something that we can have compassion for and understanding that and realizing that everything's about that larger vision of that growth of that soul journey. Now that's something I believe that everybody has at certain levels. I know that maybe if you've been through a lot of pain, it may seem like, how would I ever choose this? But, uh, understand that it all has a deeper purpose and that when you start to tap into that, the biggest setbacks, the biggest obstacles people in your life can actually propel you to being and growing the most. So the third soul contract that you made that you may have forgotten of has to do with the relationships in your life and the people that you are around. Now I believe that we choose our parents whether we're consciously aware of it or not, even if it's a very painful experience. I believe that we do make that choice and that with that, the relationships that we have in our life while sometimes may seem completely synchronistic is something that we also chose at a deeper level. So maybe it's a significant other in your life. Maybe it's having a soulmate in your life. Maybe it's having many different soulmates in your life. Maybe it's realizing that there are, you know, certain times when you meet somebody and you think it's completely synchronistic or not even synchronistic. You think it's completely chance. It's actually something that could have been very much planned on a different level, and because of that, you can become very aware of what those are and see that any relationship you are in is there to help you evolve. It's there to reflect something back to you. And when you realize that, you start to embrace the relationships in your life in a different way. And if you realize they no longer serve you, then maybe that is the purpose in itself. But nonetheless, I believe that the relationships we have in our life, even if you've been through maybe a divorce or really bad breakup, understand that that may have been a soul contract at a certain level to show you who you are at a deeper level and to make you go within and to understand more about who you are. And remember, you're an immortal spiritual being having a temporary human experience. So these things that look like hiccups, that look like a lot of pain, maybe just there to give that pressure to you for you to come out of it and really realize more about who you are. Maybe if you had a bad relationship in the past, now that made you much more certain of what kind of relationship you do want in the future. And that helps you grow to a certain level, even though it may not appear to it because there's so much pain involved. A lot of times with pain comes the spiritual growth, and that's where we can really begin to tap in and understand that that's something that, that really is meant for us. It's something that really helps us evolve at a deep level. So the other thing that I did is I created a free MP3 guided meditation that will help you raise your level of consciousness. It's something that uses NLP. It uses more so than just that. It uses certain terminology and it helps you to raise your vibrational set point so that you're able to feel better majority of the time. It's something that's absolutely free. I downloaded it in the description box below, or I put it there in the description box and you can download it. And other than that, yeah, remember that you are an immortal spiritual being having a temporary human experience. There are certain themes that you chose in your life to have. And with those themes, they may change from time to time, but there's always something to learn from it. And beyond just that, also remember one of the things you forgot is that you kind of logged into this game of life and that when you become aware of that, you see that you had to forget who you are to then remember and to then awaken to who you really are. And then also remember that every relationship in your life is serving certain type of purpose. When you start to become aware of that and you start to treat every relationship as if you chose it at a different level, it will completely transform your life. So with that being said, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you guys liked it. Subscribe if you guys haven't already. Also hit that little notification gear next to the subscribe button so you can see the daily videos that I do. And as always, I'll see you guys on the next vid. Peace, much love, and namaste.










