3 Surprising Ways to Attract More Abundance Using the Law of Attraction

Aaron Doughty argues abundance is a natural state shaped by mindset, not just money. He shares how redefining his self-image from regular sales associate to top performer increased his commissions, and explains that giving value creates a feedback loop that returns abundance tenfold.
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This video will show you 3 surprising ways of attracting more abundance in your life. I'm going to share with you some practical tools and processes that can transform the whole way you see abundance so that you're able to be who you prefer to be and get the reflection that you want in your life. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to share with you a completely new way of looking at abundance and how when we start to see abundance in this point of view, everything will begin to change. Now I want to ask you a question to start off. How do you view abundance? Do you view yourself as someone that is abundant? What is your definition of what abundance is? Now the idea behind this idea of understanding our definition of abundance is that when we start to see that abundance is everywhere That's when we're really going to create abundance in our life. Now what I mean by this is that if we are experiencing lack in our life, realize that there really is no such thing as lack because there is an abundance of lack. Now what this means is it's kind of a play on word, but realize whatever you focus on will grow, and if you are focused on abundance, then abundance will grow. If you're focused on lack, then that lack will grow, but you're really getting an abundance of lack. So think of what determines whether you are abundant or not. It's going to have to do with your focus. It's going to have to do with whatever you're focused on is going to grow. So this new understanding of abundance is that abundance is everywhere. Abundance is a natural state of who we are being. Abundance is all around us, makes us relate to the idea of abundance in a new way. And you can also apply this when it comes to money. Realize you don't really ever have a shortage of money. If you're focused on money just not being there, you're getting more of that focus. You're getting more of that apparent lack, but realize that you're getting an abundance of that lack. You're getting an abundance of that not enough money. So you see, I know this is a small difference of the way of looking at it, but when we shift it, it then puts the energy within and we can start to ask ourselves, what is my definition of abundance? How do I view money? How do I view myself with money and my own relationship to money? Now the first story I have for you and the first problem process we can use has to do with understanding our self-image and how when we change our self-image, everything changes. And I'm going to share with you a personal story of something I went through that changed just about everything. Now, this is something I also shared in a video I did a couple of days ago on self-image, but it's something that's so relevant to this, so I'm just going to share it again. When it comes to abundance, a major game changer for me was when I changed my self-image. Now, just to give a little bit of a backstory, I used to work in a sales commission job. I worked at Nordstrom's for years in women's shoes. And I pretty much only got paid a percentage of what I sold. There was no hourly. The great thing about that is that if you worked hard or you hustled, you were able to make a lot of money. Now, I originally learned about the law of attraction when I was young, like maybe 15 or 16. My mom made me watch it and it was something that planted a seed. It wasn't something I was bought into right away, but eventually then years later when I had the sales commission job, I started to learn more about it because I could almost see a one-on-one reflection of what I was getting. If I was feeling abundant or I was focused on attracting a certain amount of money every day, I could see a correlation with that. Now there was a certain cap that I had though, because even though I was focused on creating a certain amount of sales that day and I would get, you know, somewhat similar results, the major game changer for me was when I changed the way I view myself. I came to learn about the self-image and this is the one difference I made that made everything so much easier. I started to view myself as a top performer. I started to view myself as somebody that always at the end of the day when the reports came came out was at the top of the list. I viewed myself as somebody that was abundant while I was working and somebody that always customers flocked to. Now the funny thing is that as soon as I started to see myself as this, this is when everything began to change. I would see that I was on the sales floor with other salespeople and customers would walk by everybody and come straight up to me sometimes, and I would ask myself, why is this happening? But I realized most likely it was because just I changed the way I viewed myself. I started to view myself as a top performer and immediately my energy became that much more contagious. So it was almost like customers would come flocking up to me versus going to people that they walked by that were also salespeople. And it was like there was a totally new energy about me from that point. I made, instead of just a certain amount that I would make per year because I worked there for maybe 5 years, I started to make about 20% more just from that one little change. So what I'd like to encourage you to do is to maybe not so much just focus on creating more abundance, but change the way you view yourself. Do you view yourself as a top performer? Do you view yourself as somebody that can do their passion for a living? As you start to create this image for yourself, this new self-image, that's where everything begins to change. So what you can do is simply realize that before, your self-image was on autopilot. It was just an accumulation of who you think you are, but now that you are aware of what that is, you can decide to simply let that go and to be who you prefer to be. That made the biggest amount of change for me, and really from that point going forward, I've always viewed viewed myself in a much higher light, and therefore because of that, I've gotten better results. Second surprising way that we can create more abundance in our life has to do with looking at our whole definition as to what abundance is. Now, under the prior definition for abundance, most of us would say that abundance means money. Money equals abundance, or abundance equals money. And the idea is that when we have that expectation or that definition, we might actually be blinding a whole bunch of other opportunities that could come into our life that could be something that is also abundant. So what we can do is expand our field and our definition of abundance. Now let me share with you my vision of abundance or the way that I view it. I view abundance as opportunities. I view abundance as a state of being, and because of that, more opportunities have come into my life over the last even 6 months than ever before. Because I've been focused on this form of abundance. Now when I say opportunities, I'm talking about there's been opportunities of me going and traveling for free, even though it's not like there's a company giving me money. There's a company that reached out to me that said, hey, you can stay for 7 days at our resort in Costa Rica. If you just vlog that experience, then you can stay here. That is an example of abundance. Now I might not be getting money for going there, but I'm getting about $5,000 or $6,000 of value in that week for an all-inclusive stay that includes daily massages, that includes, that includes detox programs to clean out parasites. All of these amazing things are included in that package, and even though it's not money, it's still a form of abundance. I started to view abundance as opportunity, and that's where everything began to change. So what I encourage you to do is to start not limiting yourself with just thinking abundance equals money and start seeing abundance equals opportunity. Abundance equals a state of being that you prefer and choose to be in. And as you start to do that, you will start to get a new reflection in your life. Abundance can be somebody giving something to you. Maybe someone offers for you to travel with them. Maybe somebody just gives you the idea of something rather than maybe you attracting the money to buy something. Maybe somebody, maybe somebody just gives you that something. Maybe somebody just gives you something. So it's as we start to redefine what abundance is, That is where everything will really begin to change. Now, the third surprising way to create more abundance has to do with understanding that the giving is the same as the receiving. Now, what I mean by this is if you give someone a compliment, there's a certain feeling when you're giving a compliment that is also the same as receiving the compliment. When you give someone abundance, when you give someone opportunities, that will come right back to you. Now, the way that I used to do this is when I go to work every day, when I used to have my sales commission job, I'd be focused on adding value to other people, on increasing people's state of being, on making them feel more abundant with their emotions. And as I would do that, I would have the most amazing days when it comes to the commission I would make that day, and I would feel really good throughout the whole process. So what I want to encourage you to do is to realize that you can give that which you want to receive, and as you give it, as you are putting it out there, you will then see that come back at you tenfold. Now, it might not come in a one-on-one reflection to where you give somebody the compliment and that same person compliments you back, but realize you're not giving to get back. You're giving because it's your natural state of being. As you are somebody that adds value to other people, you will be creating more abundance in your life. And if you're like, well, I can't just give money to other people, remember, abundance isn't about just money. Give opportunities to other people. Give people an emotional state of being. That's something that I always encourage people to do because as you are engulfed in that energy, it is contagious. It becomes a part of who you are being and that changes everything about the reflection that you get. So realize it's also about what you give. As you are focused on whatever your gift is, focus on how it can add value to the world. You know, the way I view my YouTube channel is it's an opportunity for me to give everything that I know about the processes that I explained. It's a chance for me to give things that have transformed my life, and as I have that intention, I really think people can feel that about me. I'm not in it just for the subscribers or for the views. I'm mainly in it because there's a message underneath what I say and I want to influence people in a positive way and similar tools that I've used in my own life. I want to be able to give those to other people. Realize people can feel your intention when you have the intention to add value to other people. That's where everything begins to change. Remember that as you start to see abundance in this completely new way, you can decide to change your self-image, that as you start to view yourself in a higher light, you will start to get a new reflection in your life. That secondly, as you expand the scope of what abundance is, you can see that abundance is opportunities. And you'll find that then you don't limit yourself to the kind of expression of abundance and many amazing things will begin to happen in your life. And thirdly, remember that what you put out is what you get back. You can always put out positive emotion and as you put out that abundant state of being, you will start to find more abundance coming into your life. So with that being said, I hope you guys enjoy this video. Feel free to like this video if you liked it. Subscribe if you haven't already. Also remember, to hit that little notification here next to the subscribe button so that you're able to see the daily vids that I do. 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