3 Things That DESTROY Attractive Energy & How To Fix It To Be Irresistible!

This video, I'm gonna show you the 3 things that kill magnetic energy. I'm gonna show you how to activate irresistible magnetic energy from the inside out, why this changes everything, and why it's actually good to actually repel certain people. Because think about it, a magnet has the ability to both attract and repel based on its polarity. And I would say that if you really want to have that magnetic energy, it needs to be important that it's okay to repel certain people. You don't wanna become a magnet for everybody. Do you wanna become a magnet for narcissists? Do you wanna become magnetic to people that are going to abuse your boundaries or that are gonna, people that don't share the same values as you? It's okay to be polarizing. Now, the first thing that I wanna share with you when it comes to having magnetic energy that you might be doing that if you let go of changes everything is understanding this one concept right here, which is pull your energy back. Now, what happens magnetically and energetically is when we are sending someone else energy because we're thinking about them, that is then having an effect on them that they can feel, sometimes even only subconsciously. But what happens is when people are projecting their energy at them, other people are feeling that and they're responding responding based on that energy. Now, one of the most powerful energetic things you can do is to actually pull your energy back into your own body, to bring it back to self. Because when you, when you think about it, like your energetic field, the electromagnetic energy of your heart is thousands of times more powerful than the head. Now what happens is when we're thinking of somebody else, we are projecting energy outside of ourselves, then what ends up happening is we are diluting our own energy. And when you bring it inside of your body, you are then also inside of your own frame. Now, for a long time in my life, I would project my energy at other people. I would want something, I would want their validation, I would want their approval, I would want that energy. And I could tell so many times that that neediness literally blocked that love from coming into my life. It was only once I started being present and bringing the energy into my body that the energy dynamic began to change. And I see this happen a lot, especially when people like go through a breakup or something and they want their, you know, I get a lot of people that message me on my channel and they say, I wanna attract this person back. How do I do that? And some people don't like to hear it, but really the only thing that may actually work, but also like is the thing that energetically puts the cards more in your favor is the one thing you don't wanna do. Most people do not wanna let go. But when you let go, that's when you allow the energy to be free. And that's when you allowed, if it is meant to work out, for that energy to possibly come back. But once again, it's not always guaranteed because non-attachment is one of the major keys of having magnetic energy, not being attached to outcome. Now think of this too when it comes to magnetic energy. When we are focused on an outcome, getting something from somebody else, we want the result a certain way. We want someone else's validation or approval. We want 'em to text us back, whatever it is. When we want that, what ends up happening is that is a means to an end. You might be going on that of a date, because you're hoping that they're gonna call you back, give you validation, go out with you, become your boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever. And whenever things are a means to an end, people feel that. People can feel that you want something from them. That's what's called manipulative energy. So the second thing to this process, the first one is to pull your energy back into your own body, doing something I call the frame technique. It's one of the most powerful techniques I've ever applied in my life. It's so simple. You put the awareness in your hands and your feet and you actually focus on the separation between you and the walls. You feel the separation between you and wherever you are. Maybe it's your computer, maybe it's you and your phone right now, watching it on your phone. Feel the separation. As you do, you start to feel safe in your own body. And as you feel safe in your own body, guess what ends up happening? As you feel safe inside of your own body, it's like the energy comes back to you and that energetic, that energy is then magnetized. I would do this exercise after, as I've shared this in many videos, I'd go out in public and the response I'd get from other people was profound because I was not attached to what they thought. I was not energetically projecting energy of wanting like people to say hi to me and all these needy things that back in the day was a part of my reality. So the second thing though, that's the first one. The second thing is understanding the outcome and how the energy of being present to the moment is simply about understanding expression versus impression. Expression is you express yourself 'cause it's who you are. You go on a date because you're excited to go on a date. You are maybe even like being playful on a date or being playful with dating or playful with your love life is much more in the present moment than attached and trying to control things. And I'll tell you from experience and from thousands of people that I've seen go through my, you know, my 21-day challenges that I've done, when people are attached, it messes up the energy. And a lot of times the reason people are attached, by the way, you wanna know why people are attached? Is because what is trying to be done is we're trying to meet our unmet childhood needs. So if mom and dad were maybe emotionally or physically present when we were kids, we are attracting people that may be emotionally and physically not really present. And then we're trying to get them to meet our needs. We're like, why don't you see my value? Why don't you see that I'm worthy? Because what we're trying to do is, close the loop from childhood. And this is why it's important to realize that a lot of times what happens that I find with magnetic energy is people are attached to other people because what they've decided in the past is that I must abandon myself in order to make others happy. I must change who I am and how I show up in the world so that somebody else will validate and approve me, so mom and dad won't be disapproving and my mom and dad will think I'm perfect. Maybe I need to be perfect in order to get love. This is all based in the unmet childhood needs of not feeling worthy, not feeling good enough. So one of the biggest changes for me was when I stopped abandoning myself, it made it easier for me to set boundaries because then what happened is I would normally be like, oh, I'll go do this, I'll go do that. I can't say no 'cause if I say no, I'm gonna disappoint, they're gonna be, disapproving, and their emotions are my emotions. But everything changed when I began to let that go, and I realized that that was their shit, not mine. And when I stopped abandoning myself, I started living by my own values. I started living according to my own virtues. I started living according to the values of vulnerability and authenticity over the values of validation and approval. That changed everything. I was then focused on doing what I'm passionate about. Another huge part of attracting love and being magnetic is are you doing what you love? Because when you're doing what you love, there's an energy about you. And when you're doing what you love, you're more likely to attract somebody else that's doing what they love. It's always a one-on-one reflection. When I was working 9-to-5 jobs I hated, I only would synchronistically attract women that were working 9-to-5 jobs they hated. And we were able to talk about it and vent about our days with each other. Whereas now that's not the case. Now my girlfriend, she does what she loves. And for me, that's been the pattern since that shift in myself. When I started doing what I love, I would only date women that were doing what they love. And this is the more real me than the other version of me was where I was working a 9-to-5 job I hated. So that's another important aspect of this is really committing to you becoming the best version of you and even going after your own passion because as you do that, it changes everything about the dynamic. Now I'm gonna also make sure, there's one more that's very important, but I'm gonna make sure this video goes out. There's something new called the Magnetic Mastery Membership where every single week we're getting together, all focused on becoming the most magnetic version of ourselves. It's the community, the accountability, and the coaching to help you become magnetic from the inside out. A big part of it is we look at the abandonment wound, we look at shame, we look at these emotions, We do inner child healing, we do shadow work, we do a whole bunch of different practices that get us into the most aligned state. And having the support of a group and all focused on the same attention has been so powerful. This video's gonna go up when it is available for you to join the Magnetic Mastery membership. So if you have not joined the Magnetic Mastery membership yet, now's the time to join. It's the cheapest price you will ever see it. And you become a founding member when you join now as well. You're gonna be one of the first people in, so it's gonna be much more intimate. If you've ever thought about joining a community, this is the time to do so. Go in and join now because on Friday at 11:59 PM PST, registration and enrollment closes, and I would love to see you in there. So with that being said, the next one is the third part. The third thing that blocks having magnetic energy that's very important to become aware of is this one word right here. It's not the most attractive word that people like to see, but the thing that changed everything for me and made me more magnetic and also allowed me to attract in love, it was when I let go of shame. Shame is the belief and the emotion that says there's something wrong with me. It's the anxiety that we may feel that there's something wrong, there's something off, I should be different than I am. And the shame that I felt, I didn't realize came all the way from childhood, from feeling abandoned growing up and thinking there's something wrong with me. From even when my ex-stepmom came in my life when I was 7 to 15 years old until my dad divorced her when I was 15, she was so mentally and physically abusive that I literally was like, oh, there's something wrong with me. And then the fact that my dad kind of let it happen, it was like, oh, there's something wrong with me. We weren't worthy of like being protected. And that then wired into belief that said there's something wrong with me. So then I would date people that would also in a way reflect that back to me, maybe not choose me, or maybe I would feel like there's, I had to sacrifice myself in order to make them happy because I felt a level of shame. Now the cure to shame is vulnerability. It's when we have the ability to like share and show the real us, to go into our heart, to open ourselves up. And yes, it is true that when you start being vulnerable, somebody, it takes courage to be vulnerable. When I started being vulnerable, that meant that like if I was attracted to somebody, I would express that to them. If I had emotions for somebody, I would express that to them. And as I started to do that, I started to lay down a completely new way of being. And that in a way you could get rejected. Like you could show your heart to someone and they could reject you. It was actually something that did happen to me, but I didn't internalize it. And what ended up happening is it became a new way of going about things where when I was expressing that me, it felt so much more free. And I wasn't doing it because I was attached to outcome of what it'll get me. I was doing it because it's who I was and it was what was real for me. That's why also letting go of the outcome is so magnetic because then you're present to the moment. You're in the moment. Imagine you go on a date and instead of like, oh, is this person gonna like me? Is everything gonna go well? I hope they like me. It's, I wonder if we're gonna share similar values. Be curious. I wonder if we're gonna have fun. I wonder if I'm gonna enjoy my time with this person. These are all different questions that reframe your own level of worthiness. And the big thing and the big aha moment when it comes to magnetic energy, it's about being in your heart, being present to the moment, and activating that heart center by choosing courage and vulnerability over the shame. And it's really about feeling worthy from the inside out. That's what really changes everything for this process is realizing you are already whole and complete, realizing there's nothing you really even need to fix about yourself. It's just about a game of awareness. And as you do that, it changes everything about your energy. So like I said, if you haven't joined the Magnetic Mastery membership, you could do so below. Go to magneticmastery.com in order to join. Enrollment closes at 11:59 PM PST on Friday. And then also, if you want a video that shows you more about confidence and the 5 secrets to confidence that help you to really elevate how you feel about yourself, how you show up in the world, really to reframe insecurities, this video right here is one of my most powerful videos I've ever made. People feel what you feel about you. The energy inside of our bodies are contagious, and based on how we feel about ourselves, that energy is being emanated out and other people are responding to us based on that.