3 Things to Remember When Things Aren't Manifesting (Law of Attraction Secrets)

This video will show you 3 things to remember when things aren't manifesting. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you some perspectives and some understandings that can change the way you view the process of the law of attraction so that you're able to embody the best version of yourself and really get what you want. Now these are also good reminders for if you're feeling negative resistance or you feel like there's blocks in the process. This can help refocus and realign a lot of those perspectives, and the first one has to do with understanding and remembering that it's all about momentum. So you may be experiencing right now that there's some blocks happening or that you, you keep seeing things that you don't prefer to happen that are happening. Realize that everything in this process is temporary. So if you are having certain experiences where that blockages are there, what you can do is realize that eventually they will go away. It is only temporary and that with momentum and as you build momentum in the positive direction of what you want to experience, that's where everything will change. Now in order to really do this, and the easiest way to do it is to start off small. If you're finding that you feel negative emotion or that you feel like there's negative momentum, It's not like we can jump from this side of the scale to this side and do a big quantum leap right away. What we instead want to do is move up the vibrational scale. Now what this means is think of it in the form of the scale that I've used many times on this channel, which is the scale from the book called Power Versus Force. It's understanding the different levels of emotions and how the different levels of consciousness that they invoke. What happens is as we move up the scale, we move up in the way that we feel. Now, if we have certain thoughts that are tied to the lower emotions, we're not going to jump from feeling maybe shame, guilt, or anger. We're not going to jump from that to feeling joy, peace, and enlightenment. The idea is that what we can do is first off move to neutrality, move off to willingness. Well, as we move up the scale, that's when we feel better. So the simple way to do this and the easiest way that I found is to first off observe those thoughts. If you're feeling negative thoughts, what you can do is observe them rather than react. Observe them and not judge them as being negative. And as you look at them from a neutral point of view, that's when you start to take the charge out of it and then it starts to slow, slow its momentum. So the power is in knowing that in looking at the situation in a neutral standpoint, you then neutralize it, which then stops that old momentum, and then you can start to focus on what you want. Focus then on what you're grateful for. Focus on the direction of what you want to experience instead of focusing on what you don't want to happen. Focus on what you do want. Play to win and don't play to not lose. They sound almost the same, but it makes all the difference because it comes from the focus. So remember, everything is temporary. You can shift your focus by neutralizing those negative thoughts, by seeing them and observing them from a neutral point of view, and then refocusing on the direction of what you do want to experience. Now, the second thing to remember is that if there's a change you want to experience in your life, what you must first do to change your personal reality is to change the personality. Now, this sometimes has a negative effect with people when they hear it because they're like, what do you mean I'm supposed to change my personality? Our personality is changing all the time depending upon our state of being. Think of your personality as how you think, how you feel, and how you act. Now there's a certain level of consistent patterns that will be within there, but in order to change the outer reflection that we get in our life, we must first change these aspects of ourself. If we find that habits are hard to change, if we find that we keep getting old patterns of what we experienced, and maybe because even though we're thinking about those things we want to experience, if we haven't changed the identity, if we haven't changed the personality, we won't then change the personal reality. So this comes from understanding that we must change our self-image for the way that we view ourselves. We must start to view ourselves as somebody that is able to accomplish what they want when they set their mind on it or they set their goals on it. We must see ourself at the ideal weight that we want to be and doing the activities that would get us there, the ideal body image that we have. If you want to make $100,000 a year and right now you're making $40,000, The idea is you can think about the $100,000 all you want, but that $100,000 and thinking about it might bring up negative emotion. So the idea is that what you can then do is start to view yourself as already having it. What kind of actions would you take? Find other people that have created that pattern in their life that have already done it, and you can literally mirror their actions. You can do similar things. If you want to be somebody that has their own art studio, there's people that have done it before, and if you follow the steps they've taken, you will start to get similar results. Think of all of this in the form of patterns. There's a pattern to the thoughts that we think, the feelings that we feel, the actions that we take. There's a pattern to our personality, and what we do is we can change the pattern by changing the self-image, and as we change the self-image, we will get a completely new reflection in our life. The third thing to remember if you aren't manifesting what you want is that it's It's all about the state of being. Remember, the one thing that you always have the ability to control is how you respond to events in your life, how you feel, and you do that by focus and you do that by decision. Simply choose that you're going to lighten up about the process. You know, so many times for me when things aren't happening, it comes from a seriousness. It comes from the intellectual ideas like, oh, I got to refocus my mind. That negative situation just happened. I got to refocus my mind and it comes from resistance that builds because I'm so trying to control everything. Let go of control by going into your state of being and simply deciding to have fun with it. The more you focus on that light feeling, the more malleable things come in your life. Think about it in the form of solidity and malleability. Things become malleable when you become light about it, when you become lighthearted, when you start to have fun, when you feel better about it. As you elevate your state of being and your emotion, things happen much more flexibly because what happens is you're letting go of the rigidity. You're letting go of the control. Stop trying to control, start trying to allow, and the way you do that is by lightening up on yourself, understanding that as you go out and you do something that maybe recharges your batteries, you go hang out with friends, whatever it is for you, realize, elevate your state of being. Sometimes we think so much about things and we develop resistance about it, and if we simply shift our focus to something else, we allow it to work itself out. And then when we go back to it, it's from an elevated state of being and it becomes much more powerful. So remember, you can easily change what you're getting in your life. And remembering these 3 things, if you're experiencing negative momentum, it's coming from just a more— it's coming from a momentum of focus. Everything eventually subsides. So understand it will eventually go away. As you neutralize negative emotions or negative thoughts by observing them rather than reacting, you can then decide to put it on the focus of what you do want to experience. Remember secondly that we must first change the personality in order to change the personal reality, that as we change the patterns of what we are thinking, how we are feeling, and the actions we're taking, then we change the results that we're getting in our life. And if we change our self-image by having the best self-image we can imagine, That's when things really begin to change. Remember thirdly that as you elevate your own state of being, things become much more flexible and things will start to happen for you rather than you having to try to control everything. So with that being said, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you liked it. Subscribe if you haven't already. And as always, I will see you guys on the next vid. Peace, much love, and namaste.