3 Ways to Decrease Importance using Reality Transurfing® (Law of Attraction Alternative)

Aaron Doughty explains Reality Transurfing, Vadim Zeland's alternative to Law of Attraction, focusing on lowering importance around outcomes. Three methods: fully accept reality as it is, reshape your self-image so desired results feel natural, and imagine possible failure to detach from outcomes.
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In this video, I'm going to be sharing with you 3 ways to decrease importance in order to really create what you want in your life. This is a Reality Transurfing concept that changed my life and that I think can absolutely transform yours and how to apply it. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, we're going to be going more in detail to that of reality Transurfing, which as many of you know is a concept I've been sharing a lot in the channel. It's completely changed my life in the way that I see the whole, you know, what we'd call the manifestation process. And it has to do with a more so philosophy than anything else, more so than just like a manifestation process. It's a way for seeing the world. And when you start to kind of adopt some of the principles that are within this concept or within this process, what happens is, is you start to feel differently. You start to understand more of how to follow your heart and more of, you know, when things are happening, you kind of see that there's a certain imbalance in energy and it makes you much more aware of how to go about actually changing that. So for the first part of this, I want to explain a little bit of a context of what Reality Transurfing is, just to give you guys, you know, an understanding so that you know what I'm talking about when I explain why we must let go of importance and decrease the level of it. And Reality Transurfing is a book that was written in Russia by a quantum physicist, quantum physicist named Vadim Zeland. Now it's now being translated to many different languages. It's been translated for a while, but it's not that well known of a book, but the people that do know it go crazy for it. I know I had a buddy that shared it with me. I read it and it was like I started to apply it and things just started happening. It was like things were happening much more smoothly as I understand it. Really the power of importance and how to decrease the level of importance. That's when amazing things began to happen. Because I more so began to resonate with the desires of what I wanted. Now let's first off understand that with Reality Transurfing, it comes with this awareness that there are an infinite number of parallel realities that exist. This is called the alternative space. When we make choices, when we make decisions, we are gliding and shifting through these different parallel realities. Now the idea with time is that we have this continuous memory, so we're able to piece together, and in general there's a whole whole bunch of us having a collective experience on earth. So we are shifting through these different parallel realities seemingly together, but we create our own layer. We create our own experience of it through our own eyes and through our own definitions and our perceptions. Now, one of the most powerful parts of understanding Reality Transurfing is to simply set more intentions. The idea is that desire in itself is not that powerful. If I had a desire to put up my hand right now, and I didn't do it, then the desire is meaningless. But unless— if that desire leads me to set the intention to put my hand up, then that's transferred into action and then it becomes something powerful because I intended for it. So set intentions because intentions are what shifts you to the life tracks of what you want to experience. Now the idea under— there's this concept called pendulums. Now this is one of the like overlaying understandings of the whole philosophy is that Our thoughts have an electromagnetic energy to them. They create a layer in the world which within we live. And what happens is, is when multiple people are thinking similar thoughts, have similar beliefs, we end up overlaying these and it creates what are called pendulums. Pendulums are thought structures that begin to develop their own level of reality. It's almost like they want to remain alive. So for example, thought structures around being American, you know, I'm American. That is a thought structure. That is a pendulum. And people sometimes think, you know, they feel pride with that. Many times it's also the pride of the collective consciousness of the United States. People being, you know, feeling a certain way about being American. Now there's pendulums around the government, whether you're a Republican or Democrat or a part of the system at all. Anytime you are fueling one side or the other, many times you may think you're having your own thoughts, but you may just be absorbing the thought structure of the pendulum. Because those thoughts in the collective consciousness have a certain momentum and you're kind of picking that up. Anytime you watch the news, those are pendulums. Those are ideas that are collectively being thought of that may or may not be true, but you know, it's the media. And the idea is that we can become aware of these. And the moment we become aware of these is the moment we start to take our power back because then we can think for ourselves. The idea is those pendulums create social conditioning and behind that social conditioning is the momentum of it, and that is propelling us to think in a certain way. Now, the reason I had to explain pendulums as well, because it goes into understanding excessive importance or excess potential, which is what I'm going to be talking about now. So the idea is that anytime we make something more important than it is, anytime we put something onto a pedestal and we say this is really, really important, we end up creating an imbalance of energy. This is called excess potential. Potential. When we create excess potential, there are balancing factors that come into play that balance that out. And if we are given it excess meaning, then what happens, or the excess importance, then what it does is it keeps us from experiencing it. Because what we're saying is anytime we say, I really, really want that, we're also saying, I really, really don't have it, because we're reemphasizing that in the present moment we don't contain it. If I want that over there, it's over there. It's not here. So it's a very different energy structure. It's a very different vibrational frequency. So this is about becoming aware of that balance. And that's why this video is about the 3 things that we can do to decrease the level of importance, because I believe when we decrease the level of importance, we increase the probability of us experiencing it. It's almost like things become natural for us to experience it. So the first part of decreasing importance has to do with accepting the world the way that it is. Now, the idea is that we can set intentions to experience what we want, but we must accept it for the way that it is because then it allows us to let go of control over the outcome. Now, in Reality Transurfing, there's also this difference between what is called inner intention and outer intention. Inner intention is any intention that we can will ourselves to have. If we're like, I'm going to go take massive action to go do this, this is what, you know, control I have over the actions I take and you know where I put my energy. That's inner intention. Outer intention is more so the intention of the universe, more so the intention of the collective consciousness, more so the intention to have, whereas the intention, the inner intention is more of the intention to do. It's more of the intention to, to will yourself towards something. So the idea is that what we can do is we can begin to accept the world for the way that it is, because when we do that, it changes our energy. composition. It changes the way that we're going about what we are doing. So acceptance allows things to happen rather than us trying to control everything. We don't have to control everything because think about it. The idea is that every possible reality you can imagine exists right now. You don't have to control anything. You just have to choose that which you want to experience. You make choices and your choices and your intentions are shifting you to the life tracks, to the probabilities of what you want to experience. But anytime that we feel resistance for what is, we say, that is over there. I want that. I don't currently have it. That resistance is building up and that resistance will reemphasize in the present moment that I don't currently have that which I want. So begin to realize you can allow things to happen. And a powerful way to do this is to imagine yourself in the reality of what you want to experience. And imagine yourself having that kind of experience and what that would feel like and how natural it would be. But I'll talk about more, like more about that here in a couple minutes because that's actually one of the other points. So begin to have this perspective of shifting through these parallel realities, through this alternative space, more so than you having to create it from scratch. It already exists. You know, this is the power of understanding parallel realities. It's more so that not so much that you have to create it, that you have to attract that from over there to into here. It's more so about being who you prefer to be and understanding that that reality of what you can imagine exists right now in the present moment. There is the perfect version of you that is doing exactly what you want to be doing, doing your passion. And when you begin to tap into this, it's like everything begins to change. It's like you're able to really, you know, start to allow things to happen and things start to come towards you, but it's not so much it's coming towards you, it's you're perceiving of it already being here right now in the present moment. Now, the second way to decrease the level of importance is to start to just see that it is natural for your self-image to be experiencing that which you want. Now, let me give you an example of this because this is something that I went through. This is one of the major game changers that I had when I came to understand the power of decreasing importance. I used to think that hitting a certain goal, maybe it's a certain amount per month of how much money I would make, or maybe it's a certain subscriber amount on the YouTube channel, that that amount would make me feel a certain way, that I would get some type of emotion from it. And I used to give it so much importance. Oh, when we hit 100,000 on YouTube, it's going to be this great feeling. And what I realized is the closer you get to your goals, the more natural it is. You know, I went to bed one night at 98,000 subscribers. Subscribers on YouTube. The next morning I woke up at 101. I had a video that went viral overnight and I grew by 3, 3,500 subscribers in just one day. And then I was like, oh, you know, I thought I was gonna have another week to make it because I wanted to make a Q&A video for it. And it was like the next day and I was excited and it was a cool feeling for about an hour. But then after that it's like, wait, this is just natural. This is— I create daily videos, I put out this kind of content, and then the brain steps in and says, well, what about 200,000? What about 300,000? Starts kind of playing this game of always trying to up the ante. But what you can begin to do is to realize that as you shift your self-image to being the kind of person that gets the kind of results that you want, that's when everything will really begin to change because then it's more natural. So it's not so much about, you know, stepping outside of our comfort zone and staying there. It's more so about expanding our own comfort zone to where that becomes the norm. It's a little bit different of an understanding, but it makes all the difference. Over the course of us experiencing what we want. Let me give you an example. If you are giving excess meaning to that of money, you can diffuse the importance of money by realizing first off that money isn't the goal. With Reality Transurfing, the goal is something that your heart can connect to. Your heart can't connect to money because money is a symbol for something else, so the heart doesn't really understand. It's like, oh, money means that freedom, money equals freedom because with money you can buy stuff. It's not that. It's more so you have to focus on the stuff that you would get or the feeling you would have when you were doing your passion. It's best if you connect it to something you're passionate about with your heart. That's how you really begin to connect to it. And then you can see that money is a side effect of you doing those things. Maybe, you know, for me, adding value to people and like sharing ideas gives me a lot of fulfillment. Uh, me doing my passion, making videos gives me a lot of feeling fulfillment. Me speaking in front of people gives me a lot of fulfillment. So that's more so my focus. Than just the money itself. But the funny thing is, is when I'm not focused on just the money, things happen in a much more smooth way. So what you can do is you can decrease the meaning you give to money by realizing that it's natural for you to be abundant. It's natural for you to get the kind of experiences that you want in life. You can also redefine what money is in general. Instead of thinking that money is the only way that you can attain abundance, realize money is just one of the ways. You could be given opportunities. You know, I, get opportunities to go travel to exotic places, to stay places, to document my experience. You know, I'm going back to Costa Rica here at the end of November of this year and some I did last year as well. And it's just, you know, that's an opportunity. That's not like straight, you know, there's a dollar amount I guess you could put on that, but it's a way, you know, I believe that because I've expanded my definition of abundance that now things like that are able to happen in a much easier way. So begin to see it's natural for you. It is natural for you to be getting what you want, to be who you prefer, and as you set that intention to be that version of yourself, you will start to see those things happen in your life. It can be very simple once you start to see it from your self-image because, uh, it's also about understanding that that reality exists right now, that the perfect version of you doing exactly what you want to be doing exists right now. You can use your imagination, you can tap into that, you can imagine how you would be acting. How you would, you know, I met me myself just as an example. I imagine myself in front of people on stage and I imagine myself going and talking to people and seeing people, people's response to what I'm saying and, you know, see people afterwards that want to talk to me and that are excited to tell me about something that, you know, the videos, how my videos helped them. And then I imagine myself going to a restaurant afterwards and meeting up and networking with other people that do what I do. I imagine all those things and as I do that, it makes it easier and more natural for me to pick up on that life stream that exists right now and to bring in characteristics right now into the present moment of how that is. But it's natural. It's not that important. It's just who I naturally am. Make your goals natural. Expand your comfort zone, but realize that as you expand it, that's who you become. That is a part of your new self-image. And as you do that, everything will change. The third way is actually a technique that's given in the book for understanding if you really feel like there's a lot of resistance around what you want, you're really giving it excess meaning. Excess potential and increased importance, which is all kind of the same thing. What you do is you imagine, and you just do this for a minute, you don't have to give this more importance, but what you do is you simply imagine if you did fail. You know, I know in a lot of law of attraction teachings it says don't do this, don't do this, but just imagine if you did and let it be okay if you did. If you did, it's not that big of a deal. With every failure comes the ability to rise up, comes with this ability for you to transform the way you see it and maybe there's a lesson in there for you to let go of some type of outcome. You know, if you find that you're giving excess meaning or excess potential to maybe a specific person and trying to attract someone into your life, the idea is that you can balance that out by accepting people for who they are and giving them the free will to do what they want. And imagine if it doesn't work out, it's okay because there's always abundance. There's always more out there. You can realize that that's a lesson to detach. From other people. That's a lesson for you to really take your power back and to understand that as you accept the world as it is, as you allow that to be the experience, that then you lessen the degree of importance and you release that resistance. So realize that, you know, excess importance, excess meaning comes from the ego wanting to control things, comes from the ego, the blueprint in the mind of the ego that says this, this, this needs to happen. And many times we have an expectation or an attachment to how when things will happen, and because we have an attachment to how things will happen, it's almost like if it doesn't go according to that blueprint, we start to feel that resistance, you know? So that's one of the reasons I created a free MP3 guided meditation that uses Reality Transurfing to decrease the level of importance for things in your life. You'll learn how to wire in a lot of these ideas of Reality Transurfing. It's something that you can download for absolutely free. It'll be in the description box below. It will help you. To decrease the level of importance, to understand it's okay, it's natural for you to be who you prefer, and that as you begin to accept the world for what it is, you then allow yourself to be in the energy state for you to shift the more positive timelines of what you want to experience. So realize first off that every possible reality you want to experience exists right now in the present moment, that when you accept the world that it is, you increase your state of being and you allow yourself to then intend and choose for the things that you want to happen, that as you change your self-image, you start to see yourself differently. You start to realize it is natural for you to hit your goals. It is natural for you because that is just who you are. Realize the perfect version of you exists right now in the present moment, and that as you begin to realize that, you see that it's not so much about you trying so hard. It's just simply about you shifting and making choices as that version of yourself. And then what you can begin to do is just to let go of how things are meant to happen. Allow things to happen in an easier way and watch how your life changes in profound ways. So with that being said, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you guys liked it. Subscribe if you haven't already. Also hit that little notification here so that you guys can see the daily bits that I do. And other than that, as always, peace, much love, and namaste.










