90% of Attracting a Relationship/Love is Complete when you change this ONE belief

This video, I'm going to show you how 90% of attracting a relationship or love is complete when you change this one belief, and I'm going to show you exactly how to do that. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron, and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to show you how you— when you change one belief, 90% of attracting a relationship or more love into your life is complete, and it's something that happens quickly. Now understand, first off, our beliefs create our reality. So whatever we believe to be true on the inside is then reflected to us on the outside. So what a lot of people do is they go around and they try to change the outside. That's what I did for years. I would go around trying to change the way things were happening, almost trying to control things. Probably look like a little maniac trying to control everything in my life. However, When I then realized that it's not about what I can do out here, it's about what I can change or not even change, but let go of the limiting beliefs that were keeping me in a reality where I wasn't experiencing abundance or love or perfect or, you know, great health. When I realized that, that's when I changed my beliefs. Then my outer reality began to change. Now here's what I realized recently about this process. We're going to be focusing on that of understanding love and relationships in this video. However, more important than this in general though is an understanding for how reality works. Think of it like this. So we have that. And by the way, if this camera gets a little foggy, I might do this a couple of times just to make it so that it's not so foggy because it's so humid here in Tulum, Mexico. For those of you who don't know, I've been living in Tulum, Mexico for a month. After this, I go to Costa Rica for a month and then I'll be going back to the States for a while and then traveling and stuff like that, doing events and stuff. However, this is how it works, okay? Let me get back on my train of thought. So the— we have our beliefs about relationships, our beliefs about money, our beliefs about health. Now we can go through and look at our beliefs about health, say, what do I believe about health? I believe it's easy to lose weight. Do I believe that in order to do so I have to count my calories and I have to be very strict with myself, or that if I did do it, I eat food that didn't taste good? Like, what are my beliefs about health? Then we could look at that and we could let go of limiting beliefs beliefs and we become aware that maybe growing up we had a couple times where we had to eat our broccoli or something and we started to associate pain with, with green vegetables. You know, we could look at those beliefs and we can then let them go once we realize that at some point in the past we just agreed that this kind of food doesn't taste good, or we were just realized that we've been so stimulated by other food that that's what we thought we needed in order to be happy. Or then we could go to that of money and say, well, my parents believe this about money and I can look at my own beliefs about money and see, you know, maybe that's not true for myself and we can work on our beliefs about money and then we can go over love and relationships and say, well, one of the first relationships I was in, somebody was treating me like this and I then thought that I wasn't worthy or my parents treated me like this growing up and then see what those limiting beliefs are about that of, of relationships. However, this is what I found to be even more powerful. Instead of going under each individual category, whether that is love, money, or health, or whatever other category— spirituality, many different categories— what about understanding how reality works in general? What if we believe that things had to manifest, like things were hard to manifest? So we thought money was hard to manifest. We thought that relationships were hard to manifest. We thought it was hard to manifest a perfect body. If we believe things are hard, then they will be hard. You see, that's a self-fulfilling prophecy. That's a general core belief. So it's a core belief versus these individual beliefs. But what I found is when you get to your core belief, then everything else happens automatically because it's all connected. So if you start to understand that the way reality works is reality is so much more flexible than you can imagine it to be, then reality will become more flexible and it'll be easier to manifest a relationship. It'll be easier to manifest more money. It'll be easy to manifest the perfect body because you've let go of believing things have to be hard. So what quantum physics shows us as well is that we are constantly shifting through these different realities. There's every possible reality you can imagine. It already exists. There's a version of you that's already in the perfect relationship. There's a version of you that already has the ideal body that you prefer, that you are the perfect energy. There's a version of you just living an abundant lifestyle, doing what you love. All of these versions of you already exist. And the cool thing about that is then you can focus on, okay, this version of me already exists. You can then use your imagination to imagine what does that version of me believe? I call it belief hacking. You look at this version of you, what do they believe about money, about relationships, about health, about reality in general? But when you start to question your reality, instead of seeing it as this solid thing where this linear fashion, this story that we tell ourselves about how reality works, where things are very hard, you have to do this and then you have to do this and you have to do this, and if you wanna be successful, then you have to go to school for 4 years at college and you have to do this and you have to climb up the corporate ladder, That's all a story. It's all a belief system that we may have been bought into. But when you start to see that there are other opportunities, start to spread the awareness out of that, you then see that things could be much more magical. But it's about challenging the belief that reality is so solid and real. Understand reality is a dream. You're dreaming right now that this is the real reality. You are in spirit right now. Dreaming, projecting your consciousness here on earth to have the experience. And this experience that you have— and you may have lived most of your life not knowing that you are an eternal spiritual being living a temporary human experience. And in these higher realms of consciousness, you have more ability to create magic. What we'd consider to be magic here, you create there naturally because that's who you are. That's the higher realms. Things happen quicker. Here we have time-space reality, so we can have the experience that things take a while to manifest, that you have to put your intention into something and then you have to focus on it for a period of time and then eventually you can experience it once you allow it into your life. That's a story. It is a collective thing we've agreed to, this whole time-space reality thing. But understand that you can create things easier than ever when you get into alignment, especially. So alignment is a high vibrational state. Alignment is about really letting go of the limiting beliefs. So what is the one belief that when you change, 90% of attracting love in a relationship is complete? Believing things are easy. Things are easy. If you believe they're hard, if you believe that it's something that takes a lot of time to do and it's something that takes a lot of resistance to do, then you create a lot of resistance because it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. But if you allow it to be easy, it will then become and be easy. If you allow yourself to realize that it's really about alignment more than it is hard work, that changes everything. It's really about the vibrational state that you're going into it. You've probably seen me share that vibration, that vibrational, vibrational, the vibrational scale of consciousness that I've shared before. And you have at the bottom like shame, fear, guilt, anger, all the way up to joy, love, and peace, enlightenment. As you raise your frequency, manifestation is easier and easier as you raise your frequency. What happens though is some people, their beliefs, their limiting beliefs— I'm not worthy, I had this pain in my past— that might keep them in a lower vibration. So then they're trying to attract love in a relationship, but they're trying to do it from the states where they don't feel so good. The key is to let go of that, to let go of the belief that things have to be hard. And a lot of that has to do with realizing that you can stop putting things on a pedestal, stop putting a relationship on a pedestal, love on a pedestal, and also just start focusing on your own worthiness, on being in the star of your own movie. You see, a lot of people, when they want to attract a relationship, what they're doing is when they meet people, they're already vetting them for, are they, are they gonna last or not? Can this be the perfect person for me? It's putting on this huge pedestal and giving them a lot of pressure too. Imagine you meet someone, you're like, hey, so what are your plans for the future? And it's like, it's like they can feel that, you know. Attracting a love in a relationship is about you first being the star of your own movie. Remember, this is a cause, this is a dream that we're having right now. You're an eternal spiritual being, a high vibrational being who's dreaming. This is who you are. But then what happens is we believe at a certain point that in order to be happy, we have to have someone else in our life that is certain, is a certain way. And if we could have them then be a certain way and then provide us a certain level of happiness, then eventually we can be happy. But this is a dream called life. And in this dream called life, you are already whole and complete. And you can enjoy this dream of life by not having the belief in the rule that you even need someone to begin with. Now, yes, it can be nice. It can enhance your journey. You could have a soulmate. Or somebody that you're meant to be connected to. However, what I'm sharing is that beyond, if you come at it from that frame that you need someone else, it automatically puts them on a pedestal. If you come at it from the frame that I am the star of my own movie, I know this is my dream of life. I'm not gonna be the cameo in someone else's movie at the beck and call of someone else, hoping they'll just like give me some attention because then we could be in a relationship. But when you start to realize you are the star of your own movie, and that things can be easy. How do you know things can be easy? You realize that everything that is hard is self-perpetuated. It's because we believe things need to be hard. So it's about letting go of the belief that things need to be hard. It's not about believing things can be easy. It's about letting go of belief that things are hard. When you realize that the more you raise your vibration, the more in alignment you get, it then becomes easier. Then the focus is, how can I increase my vibration? How can I enjoy myself more? How can I be the star of my own movie? How can I have fun? How can I feel worthiness? You see, this mindset shift that I'm sharing in this video changes everything because most people that are trying to attract love in a relationship, and I know that was myself for a while as well, was assuming that someone else would make me happy, but then I would be happy, then I'd feel whole and complete, then I would be worthy. But if we don't realize that we are the star of our own movie, and this is why one of the things I say as well for attracting love in a relationship, make sure that you're first doing what you love. And if not, then fall in love with yourself and fall in love with what you could be doing to add value to other people, or fall in love with what your passion could be. Because when you fall in love with what your passion could be, or you start asking the question— some people say, well, I don't know what my passion is. Set the intention. Just set the intention. I intend to find out what my passion could be. I intend— and then be open to what happens. Be open to different synchronicities, but understand when you set that intention, you'll start to get feedback as to what that could be. Then as you get that feedback, you can then, you can then direct it and say, oh, maybe it's this, maybe this, and then act on certain things and figure it out. Set the intention. You trust yourself. You set the intention, you'll find out more of what that is. And then when you're doing what you're passionate about, you're most like, you're at your true frequency, and then you're gonna meet somebody else who's at their true frequency, who's in a match. But if you're working a job you hate, you're not in your true frequency. How can they find you? You're not putting out your call. Imagine when you're at your true frequency, you're putting out this mating call, and this mating call, then they can hear it, and then they vibrationally come towards you. But if you're not doing what you're passionate about, then you're putting out some mixed signal, and you're attracting other people that are putting out mixed signals, and then it might not be the most fulfilling relationship. So 90% of attracting love in a relationship, when you change the belief that things have to be hard, when you change the belief that you even need them, then you're more likely to actually attract them because then you're in a relationship with yourself. You're feeling self-love, you're feeling gratitude for you, you're in your star, you're the star of your own movie. And because you're the star of your own movie, you can then perceive of them. You can then— and then they'll feel that off of you as well. There's a certain gravity that you, that you have when you realize that you're the star of your own movie. So the point of this video is to understand what do you believe about reality itself? Do you believe that reality is hard to attract love or relationship? Do you believe it's hard to attract money or hard to have the perfect body image that you'd like to have? If you believe it's hard, then what you can begin to do is to question that belief. Question that belief and understand that the more you let go of the beliefs that no longer serve, the more you'll allow in amazing things. My life, as I— yes, I do what I love and I do work hard. Work hard? I don't really work hard. I work time because I love what I do. But I'll tell you what, the more momentum I've built, the easier things are. The more success comes with way less effort, it's because I built up that momentum. And what I encourage you to do is to build up the momentum of you being passionate in life, you doing what you love, you increasing the excitement and the passion, you being the star of your own movie. Give up the belief that things have to be hard. Give up the belief that you're not worthy already, that you're not the star of your own movie, and realize you are the star of your own movie. You are worthy, whole, and complete. Change the meanings you gave to certain things in the past. Of a girlfriend or boyfriend breaking up with you, of a way that your mom or dad or family member may have treated you, and realize you're worthy for being you. And the more you focus on perspectives like this, the more things really begin to change. Now, something that I have— and just read the comments to see what I'm talking about— the most popular meditation I have has over 1 million views, and it's titled The Most Powerful Meditation for Attracting Love in a Relationship. If you listen for 21 days, I do believe it will change your life and you'll start to experience more love in your life than ever before. Read the comments. There's hundreds of comments of people that have attracted love after listening to that meditation for 21 days. And what you could do is just click on that meditation below, check out the comments. That will increase the belief inside of yourself. And then when you listen to it, you'll find that you then start to experience more and more of this love. You give yourself permission, really. But that meditation is something that's very powerful. You can listen up for 21 days in the top of the description box below, and also link in the comment and section as well. Other than that, if you do me a favor, if you like this video, if you want me to do more videos on belief systems and understanding how to change our core beliefs, then smash the like button. Let me know what you thought of this video. And other than that, as always, I will see you on the next video. Peace, much love, and namaste.