Aaron Doughty explains how focusing on lack (wanting more money) creates resistance. Instead, identify the core emotion behind your desire—security, freedom, joy—and cultivate that feeling now. Changing your posture and taking actions that match your desired identity makes manifestation more likely than visualizing the end goal.
Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you how to align your desires and your emotions with the law of attraction to really be able to merge these two together to then embody the complete kit of who you prefer to be, knowing that who you are being in the present moment is going to be the reflection that you get in your life. So the power of this video is in understanding the different components of what we desire, how sometimes what we desire outside of ourselves, the feeling of that desire can sometimes be negating us from being able to embody the characteristics of what we want to experience. So we can apply this towards if we had a desire to maybe have more abundance in our life, to have a certain amount of money. That desire can be a good thing, but at the same time, if we become too analytical about it, we can then have that desire be a reflection of us not having something that we want. So it's almost like as we say, I want that, I desire that, what we are doing is if we emphasize that that is not already in our present experience, we then create more resistance around it. And will then create more lack around the whole concept. So the power of understanding our emotions and how do we feel something that we don't already have is about understanding that this is much more about the process than it is about the end result. And I've done a video recently on a process more powerful than the law of attraction, and that video is going to be part of the answer of what I'm explaining today. Now in that video I talk about how we can, instead of have that be the end destination of what we want to acquire, what we can do is break that end destination down into an emotion. So if we want more money, for example, we can break that money down into security, into the freedom that that emotion would bring us, and then focus in the present moment on what we can do to feel more of those emotions. And as we start to resonate with more of those, we're more likely to see opportunities that weren't there before. We are more likely to perceive and have that be who we prefer to be in the present moment, and as we resonate with that from our inner being, we're then able to experience the reflection of that in our life. So desire is an important thing because it allows us to focus. It gives us a barometer for the kind of action that we could be taking, for the kind of outcomes that we want. And on the other end of it is the emotional side of it. Now, our emotions and where we get emotions from is from the meaning that we give things. From the focus, the perspective that we have, and that influences the kind of emotional state of being that we have in our body. Now, the key to this is gratitude, understanding how we can more so embody the emotion that we prefer and really coming into terms with the definitions that we have about who we are, our self-identity, the way we see ourselves, and as we start to get more in tune with what those are, we can then see how certain definitions may be turning and allowing us to feel more of what we do prefer or what we don't prefer. So if we have definitions that say that this is the kind of person that I am, or this always happens to me of certain circumstances, or I won't feel happy until I get that, those definitions are things we can become aware of. Then what we can do is realize it's more about the process itself. Now let me give you an an example of how I do this. Now my intention is to continue to create videos. It's to eventually be traveling and doing like speaking in front of people in public or in, you know, more of a one-on-one, like a physical way versus just online. And what I realized is that part of me doing these videos is the flow state that it puts me in, but it's also a flow state is an emotional state of being. So by me doing this, It's not that this necessarily is going to get me there, but this is a part of the process. And because this is a part of the process, it allows me to embody that state of being. It allows me to really be it. And with that consistency of me taking action, it's only a matter of time before I see the reflection of exactly what I want to create. So the idea behind this is that being in the moment, being present to the moment, is a part of the process. Aligning the emotion is about knowing that what you do in the present moment, the state of being that you're in, is a very strong determinant with what you experience. Now, in order to really change your state of being, understand it's about knowing that you first off have the ability to change your state by changing what you're focused on, but also by changing your physiology. You could change the way that you're moving around. You could change your body posture. A lot of times if people are closed in like this or they're looking down, it makes them feel a certain way. But when you start to present yourself in a new way, when you start to do certain body poses, even we could do what Amy Cuddy calls, who did the famous TED Talk on how our body language changes, like who we are. We can learn how to do what is called the Superman or the Superwoman by standing like this with our hands on our hips and standing up with like our chest out. There's different things we can do to change our physiology, which changes our state of being, which then aligns us to the emotions that we prefer to feel in knowing that all we have to do is give ourselves permission to feel it, that as we do that, we are embodying the process more, and that desire is a determinant for us becoming aware of our outcomes. So begin to merge these two together by knowing that whatever you're doing in the present moment is part of the process and that you can simply give Give yourself permission to feel the emotions of what the outcomes you want are in the present moment now, and then just simply start to take action more and more. So with that being said, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you liked it. Subscribe if you haven't already, and as always, I will see you guys on the next vid. Peace, much love. Namaste. All right, bye.
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