attract new people into your life by doing this one thing

The people we attract into our life are reflecting back the energy that's on the inside of us that's active. Even if it's subconscious, it's still there. The question you wanna ask yourself is what emotion am I avoiding by having this pattern alive? So for example, someone that's a people pleaser is somebody that avoids tension. They don't want people to feel tension because tension is bad. Tension will lead to people that are not happy and maybe in childhood people weren't that happy. So it was like, I need to ease this. But normally people pleasers can lead lean more into feeling the tension of even anger. 'Cause normally deep down, I think people pleasers also, there's a lot of anger that they abandoned themselves to make people happy for so long. So the key is becoming aware of what emotion are you avoiding by keeping that pattern alive, and then lean into feeling that emotion more often and let it be okay to feel that. That will transform.