AVOID this mistake in your next date...

When you go on a date, if you're going on the date and you're asking yourself the question, how can I get this person to like me? That is an energy of subconscious manipulation. And also it's seeking something. It's seeking the validation and approval. Instead, you wanna ask yourself the question, do I have things in common with this person? Do we have shared values? Am I attracted to this person? You wanna ask yourself those questions. It brings about a different energy. You wanna focus on having, just having fun on the dates, having fun on learning more about yourself, enjoying the process, not focusing on the outcome. So controlling outcome is because you're trying to get something out of it. What are you trying to get out of it? Like, well, I'm trying to get a partner out of it. I'm trying to get somebody that resonates with me. When really the process of dating is also a process of self-inquiry. It's a process of you becoming aware of your limiting beliefs. You become aware of what you like and don't like in a partner, becoming aware of what are red flags and if you see the red flags, becoming aware of what characteristics you're really attracted to and where there's alignment and synergy. So you date with intention, with understanding what is your intention with even going out and putting yourself out there? Are there opportunities for you to be more vulnerable, for you to express how you really feel, for you to express the parts of yourself you might hold back because you're afraid of rejection? Like, that's when it can become also a process of you falling more in love with yourself. Remember, you meet people in a deeper connection when you show the deeper aspects of yourself. So giving yourself permission for that will allow yourself to bring that in.