Kindness and niceness aren't the same thing. Niceness is transactional and manipulative, a way to control others and get something back. Real kindness comes from self-worth and responsibility, operating on a frequency that doesn't need anything in return.
To be kind is attractive. To be nice is an energy of, I'm going to be nice to get something in return. Everyone has a friend that's nice, right? You're like, oh, he's nice. Oh, she's nice. They're nice because it's an energy where there's this energy, it's not completely authentic. There's a subconscious pattern there. It's like, I'm gonna be nice to get you. It's controlling. And when you can feel someone that has that nice energy, you can feel that energy coming onto you and you're like, I don't want, I don't want things attached to this. You don't need the same thing that you used to need, want from them need from them, you no longer need. So it's like you're operating from a different frequency where you're able to tune to more your energy. You like you, you value you, you don't abandon you, and then you're not tied to what other people do or don't do, and you've taken responsibility.
If you can see this, you're about to become so magnetic you are unrecognizable
