Decrease Desire and Importance to Attract What You Want EFFORTLESSLY (Reality Shifting)

Aaron Doughty explains how decreasing desire and importance around your goals actually makes them easier to manifest. He calls this excess potential: the energetic overload from over-valuing something. His techniques include neutral visualizations called slides, expanding your self-image, and taking action to release attachment.
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This video will show you exactly how to decrease desire and importance in order to attract what you want. I'm going to share with you ways of applying these principles from the book called Reality Transurfing to radically change your life. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now this video once again is going to be on the principles of the book called Reality Transurfing. Now this is a book that I've shared with you guys many times. It's a book that I think is very powerful for understanding a deeper process for creating what you want in your life. Now the reason this is, is because this was written under the context or under the perspective of someone that was a quantum or is a quantum physicist from Russia. It was originally written in Russian, but now it's been translated to a whole bunch of other languages and not that many people know about it, but I've been applying it in my own life and I've seen a radical change in the results that I get. So because of that, I'm like, I feel like I have— I've just felt almost obligated to share this with you because it's changed my life so much. So this is a book that has to do with understanding a couple core ideas. Now, one of them that I've shared before is that we must decrease the importance that we give to whatever we want to create in our life. Now, this is a lot of times counterintuitive. This is counterintuitive to a lot of the law of attraction teachings that we may have heard of, maybe even some of the videos that I posted before. Now this is the other part of it, is that we must decrease the desire that we have in order to achieve what we want. Now what the book explains is that desire in itself is not powerful unless it is translated into intention. However, a lot of times desire in the LOA community just tends to be something that we continue to perpetuate. I want this, I want this. Now The idea behind this is to shift that from I want this to I intend for this. And let's look at this example. I share this in a lot of videos, just an easy example to get across in just a second or two. But if I have a desire to put up my hand right now and I don't put up my hand, the desire does absolutely nothing. But once I translate it into intention, then my hand can actually go up. Now that's how we can decrease the desire for something is by actually first off Simply taking action. When we take action, we are dissipating that what is called excess potential, which also goes into making something more important than it already is. Now think of it like this. If we make something more important than it already is, we immediately start to distance ourselves from that experience because what we're telling ourselves is, I don't have this and it's very important. And I really want it to happen. It really needs to happen. And because we need it to happen, we give it what is called excess potential. Now, excess potential— anytime we create what is called excess potential, there are metaphorically speaking, or maybe literally, who knows, balancing forces that come into play that balance that energy out. And the only way to balance it out is to give it the opposite so that it stays where it is. Because we're getting it and we're putting it on a pedestal. Now you may have noticed this anytime maybe you want something really bad or maybe you are, uh, you went into a certain person and what happens is because you're giving them so much importance, so much meaning, either they feel retracted or maybe they're not attracted to you because you have that and you're putting them on a pedestal or just simply the circumstances don't seem to work out because they're put on this high pedestal. Now the idea behind this is really just understanding it's all about observation and it's all about balance with this whole process. Normally we think of something that we desire, we think we need to have it at like a 9 or a 10 out of like out of 1 out of 10 feels like a 9 or a 10. We feel just completely blissed out. However, that's not exactly practical for us and when we have that high desire or that high, that high expectation, many times it won't come to fruition because it's so far outside of our own realm of experience. Now let me use this example. I've also used this example before. But I figured that when I got to, or when we got to 100,000 YouTube subscribers, it was going to feel so different. It was going to feel like this amazing thing, and it did for an hour or two. It felt really cool. It was like all those words, all those videos that were created, hundreds and hundreds of videos every single day, even back in the day when I had a full-time job and I was doing both, it all paid off. However, what happens is the mind jumps in. The mind then asks, what about 150,000? What about 200,000? It then sees, and then it always ups the ante. But also it just becomes part of who I naturally am. So when I was at 98,000 subscribers, I was like, this is, you know, I'm just somebody that puts out content that in exchange for the content there is a growth in views and subscribers. It's just a part of the process. It was very natural. But if when I got to, you know, 98, I put this 100,000 on a big pedestal and I couldn't really feel into it and I thought it was going to be this high, high expectation, it would have prolonged longer because of that. So the idea is to It speeds up when it is natural for you to have that kind of experience. So what I encourage you to do is to go over to your goals and to imagine that that is something that is comfortable for you, that that is something that is natural for you. And even if maybe it doesn't feel comfortable right now, the visualization that you have for it, you can make that visualization more comfortable for you by realizing and seeing yourself as that type of person. So a lot of the work on this channel when it comes to understanding our self-image, we can learn to translate that and then to habit, so our self-image has that within its reality as well. Now the next tool I want to give you has to do with understanding how to decrease the importance for something and what steps can we take in order to actually, actually do that. Now for me, this is something I've recently actually done. Now I have been investing in what is called cryptocurrency. Now cryptocurrency are coins that you can get that all have different purposes. Some of them are bigger than others like Bitcoin. There's so much, you know, a lot of people may be invested in Bitcoin, but there's also these things called altcoins. Now altcoins don't have— aren't currently as big as Bitcoin, but that means there's also a big potential. Because if any of them do blow up, like they can and like they have been doing, then there's an extreme upside, but there's also a higher risk. Now, the idea behind this is I am very well diversified in about 8 different coins, and I have belief. I believe in whatever the coin's purpose is, the problem that it's solving. But the idea is that if I— and I considered this— going all in on one coin that if that coin blows up, I would then have hundreds of thousands of dollars. However, what I learned is that through Reality Transurfing, what is actually better is for me not to increase the deep importance of that one coin. So what you do is you can set what is called a Plan B. You can set a safety net just in case. So for example, if it's like you feel like it's so important that you get a certain type of job, What you could do is to make it so that you actually vibe with that more and you don't resist it. You could have another job interview set up. You could put into play a couple of different things that make it so that if that absolutely for some reason does not go through, you have something to fall back on. And even if that thing isn't like, even if that thing does go through, at least you are able to neutralize the importance and the excess potential that you're giving it because in a way subconsciously you're more at ease. You know that if even everything goes the way, you know, in a negative way, things will still work out for you because you have that safety net there. So when it comes to this process, understand that what's also important is understanding our goals. I'll kind of summarize Reality Transurfing right now so that you guys can get a better grasp of it, but it has to do with understanding parallel realities, which I share on this channel. It's called in the book Alternative Space. The idea is that any possible reality you can imagine exists right now in this moment, and that the idea is that what we must do is have more of a goal, have more of an intention for the outcome to happen more so than anything else. So have a slide. It's just called a slide. So what you do is you take the outcome, you take, you take like a snapshot, a snapshot of something you want to create in your life, and you imagine what that would be, and you take a frame from that visualization What would one ideal part of that represent to you? So it could be you doing something with your passion, which is what the book also talks about a lot, about being passionate about what you do, making sure your heart is connected to it as well, because that energy is what shifts you onto different life tracks, to different of those parallel realities that you actually prefer. But understand that this is about having an intention to have rather than an intention to act or have an intention to be. So when you exist in that way, things happen in a much more powerful way because you're not coming at it from a place of lack. So it's about realizing that if the— imagine you can imagine the best possible scenario for what you want to experience, you living your passion, living in the kind of house you want, having the kind of relationships with the people around you, that is something that you can focus on. Put it into a snapshot, and then as you put it into a snapshot, think about that snapshot throughout your day. Now do it from a neutral place. Place though. Don't do it from a place that it's on this pedestal that it feels like it's like an 8 or a 9 out of 10 and you're at like a 5 or a 6. It feels too far away. Make it something that is comfortable for you. Maybe expand your own comfort zone. You could go out and do things you've never done before. Expand the way you view yourself, but realize that it must feel somewhat neutral for you more so than anything else. Now this is why I like Reality Transurfing. It's more about, and it brings in the Eastern philosophy. Of observation, which is something I think has just totally transformed my life back in 2012 when I learned meditation. So it's like, how can I apply that to the law of attraction process? And by applying and decreasing the importance for the things I want to attract, uh, decreasing the desire that I have in the sense that I still take action, I still do have some desires, you know, of course, to achieve certain things in my life. However, I'm learning how to die I'm learning how to dissipate that desire into action and learning to come at it from a frame of I'm already whole and complete and I do not need for that to add onto me, onto my self-image, onto my ego. It's more so about just being in the present moment and enjoying myself with where I am right now. So this I think is such a powerful process. This is something that can really help you to raise your vibrational set point, to create from a higher paradigm, and that's why also I created a free MP3 that will help you to raise your vibrational set point. When you raise your vibrational set points, you then exist in a higher vibration to where you can create from a higher level paradigm. So I've created a meditation that uses binaural beats, that uses NLP, that will help you to become and to embody a higher level frequency so that you raise your vibrational set point to create from that high level. So that's something you can download for absolutely free. I will leave it in the description box below, and then you can create from that higher level paradigm. It'll be easier. For you to let go of the importance, it'll be easier for you to dissipate the desire into taking action. And that as you begin to do that, you begin to create from a much more powerful place. So with that being said, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. 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