"Dumbmaxxing" will make you insanely attractive

Why is it people that you see that sometimes can look kind of dumb have no problem attracting love, even money in abundance? You've probably seen people that are millionaires or very successful, and you look at them and you're like, how come they don't have blocks around this? But I do. You may see people like, I just attract love so easily. It just comes to me so easily. What do you— what is your problem? Why do you have so many problems? It's so easy. And you look at them and you're like, why is it so easy for you and so challenging for me? Well, in this video, I'm going to show you why this idea of dumb maxing is going to be your next reality unlock. By the end of this video, you'll understand how you can apply 3 things that will completely transform your life from the inside out and allow things to be easier. I'm gonna show you why being bad or embracing being dumb in the way in which I explain it to you will unlock more than you can imagine. I'm gonna show you how focusing more on the process will completely transform your results and let go of resistance resistance over the outcome. And I'm going to show you how you can allow the process to be way more simple by dumbing down rather than thinking you need to survive in the thinking mechanism that's been actually blocking you. So first off, let me share a couple quick stories from you. One of my best friends from high school, growing up with him, it was so interesting to watch him and how he would relate with who he dated because while he was a smart person, he's a smart person, when he's around people energetically, something that's always been easy for him is attracting love. And for him, one of the things that made it so easy is he would just literally be like, "Wah!" He'd literally say those noises in his house. He'd be sitting with us at a group of table and he'd go, "Wah!" You would just do that randomly. And he was just super goofy. And that energy was a lot of fun to be around. And what you'd find is that he had so many love opportunities around him at any given time. And blah, he would just joke around, have fun. It was this energy where it was for him. I remember talking to him and it was like, it wasn't some strategy to get women. It was literally like in his body, he was just more so just having fun. And it looked from the outside looking in, you'd look at like, it looks so stupid, it looks so dumb. And then we'd have other friends in the friend groups that were extremely smart and very intellectual. And guess what would happen? When you're really smart and really intellectual, you think that thinking is what's going to get you the result. You think that thinking is gonna be the thing that like gets somebody attracted to you. And when you're in thinking, you're in survival. When you're in thinking, you're in an agenda, agenda. And when you're in agenda, you could feel that there's something energetically blocking because people then become a manipulative thing as the process to get what you want. So very often when we talk about dumb maxing here, One of the biggest unlocks for you listening right now is that if you can hear this right now, then maybe there's an opportunity to simplify things and to stop thinking this idea that The Secret sold you. Thinking creates reality. Just think about it. Think about what you think becomes to manifest. While of course there's a correlation in your energy between what you think what you feel and how you act and what you experience. But thinking is just one of the equations. So could it be that when you look at my friend that's going, "Wah!" Going, "Wah!" like that, that what happens is it's not just thinking, it's a feeling, it's an action, it's like a visceral playfulness. And that's where there's an imbalance for a lot of people when it comes to this idea. And this is why dumb maxing is such a reality unlock. 'Cause dumb maxing doesn't mean to become a stupid idiot. Dumb maxing means to decrease the level of importance you give to your thoughts, to have more fun with it. Because people that tend to focus a lot on thinking and figuring things out are giving a lot of importance to thinking, and then feeling and acting are over here. Play is over here. And play, like the fun energy, is like— you could say the degree to which you are thinking a lot takes away the degree to which you're having fun in the moment. So stop thinking that thinking equals, I'm very smart and intellectual, I'm very smart and I can control things with my mind, and if I control things, it's like, you will like me because I am so intellectually smart. Never works. If you get a guy, for example, that is like just a little dum-dum he's kind of dumb, but he's having fun. And you get somebody over here that's like, looks perfect, and he's so intellectually well-spoken, and he's trying to impress you. What— like, feel the energy between those things. Like, I want to go over here. It's almost like a part of your inner child is like, I just have— I just want to have fun. I just want to have fun. And then over here, Mr. Smarty Pants is like, hmm, this is how it works. So feel the energy difference. So first off, understand that when you are being and you lessen the degree of importance, you are having more fun. And guess what? When you have more fun, you're more magnetic, you're more attractive. So realize that to be really, really smart is— might look— you might think that makes it look a certain way, but what I'm saying is to dumb max just means to take away the importance to your thoughts and to have more fun. That's a big part of this. But what I'm gonna share in a minute will also make a lot more sense because your resistance to this idea is the thing that's blocking you, okay? Because there's a certain level of not grandiosity, but there's a certain level of like, I don't want to be stupid or an idiot, but that's not what I'm saying, okay? Like I'm not judging these people. Like when you see people that have no problems with attracting love and whether it's men or women, by the way, I know women that look at other women like, why is this so easy for them? But it's so hard for me. There is the energy between that and the relationship to the thing. It's thinking that you think is the strategy to get there or being smart or performing, and that's what's blocking you, okay? So let's talk about that for a minute too. Now, first off, I'll share one more quick story as well with this. There's this guy I used to work with as well, at Barney's New York. And actually, his mom is someone that also worked at Barney's New York, I remember. And she like— I think part of it is, this is like a deeper story, deeper thing altogether, but like I can sometimes tell between like friends that I had from high school and their relationship with their moms, or how their moms treated them, that how much that went into their sense of self-worth or self-esteem. And there was this guy that I used to work with, and he looking in, not just my perspective of like the judgments, I guess you could say, but everyone at work that was like, wow, how does this guy date the most beautiful women? And if it doesn't work out with this beautiful woman, there's another beautiful woman. Like he only dated very beautiful women. But on the outside looking in, in the judgmental, like superficial way, I know it sounds superficial, you're like, this doesn't equate. Like how is that even possible? And how? The guy was an idiot. I'm just kidding. The way, the reason is this guy, it was equal to his identity. He was just very authentic. He was very authentic. He was very grounded in himself. And it wasn't on a pedestal to be around a beautiful woman. And it wasn't also something, he was probably also not seeing people as below him. This is when you create an imbalance. When you see yourself as better than other people, that's called grandiosity. And when you see other people above you, that's a projection. When you realize that everybody that you meet is fundamentally neutral, no one is better or worse than anyone else, that can also be a unlock because it's projection that says, "Oh, this person on the outside is so beautiful. I need to be weird around them." That's kind of subconsciously what happens, right? Think about it. Why is it that there's certain people you're around that you might consider very attractive, and you really want their approval or validation. And what happens is you want that over here, and they're like, well, what about these people over here that really like you or really want you? And you say, I don't want anything to do with them. I don't care about them. But over here, it's really important. Guess what also happens to you when you're around these two different types of people? These people over here, you don't care what they think. There's no projection of energy. You're just being yourself. You will let yourself be dumb. You'll let yourself be dumb. Reminds me of that, what is that lady's name? The Mel Robbins lady. She's like, "Let them, just let yourself be dumb." Let yourself be dumb. So what happens is you give yourself more permission to take off a filter. There's no performance happening. And what happens is you're just being you. And because you're not attached and because there's no agenda, there's a natural attraction there. But then you come over here and you look and what happens is then it starts to become this energy where you start being weird, you start abandoning you, you start projecting and performing, it creates resistance. That's the block. So it's like your job is to just be kind of like a little dum-dum and have fun fun, have fun with the process, not project up or down, not even like give yourself permission to express the real you. That is an unlock to allowing more energy to flow through where what happens is you then realize that when you embrace these parts of yourself that maybe you've been rejecting or afraid to become, that's your unlock. Okay, so this is really about— and when I say dumb, I'm not telling you to be a stupid idiot. What I'm saying is, and you're like, well, Aaron, I am actually very, very intellectually smart. Are you telling me not to be who I naturally am? No, I'm saying that be simpler, have more fun, and stop giving importance, the top level of pedestalization of your thoughts, because thinking Less thoughts is actually the key to having more fun. And by thinking less thoughts, it does it— it's, it's thinking that to be smart means to think a lot, to overanalyze everything. And very often, people who are doing inner work, they may get stuck in their minds, be thinking a lot to figure things out. You might be looking into your childhood trauma and saying, oh my gosh, this thing over here, oh my gosh. And the more you look, the more you find. So you stay in the thinking realm, which also, by the way, a lot of times is an avoidance of feeling. So you're not feeling emotion because you're thinking so much and you're figuring everything else. Once again, it's become a survival strategy. So what I'm saying is you can be incredibly smart. And my friends, by the way, these two people from, uh, the one from my job I used to work with and my friend from high school, they're not stupid idiots, but they're kind of dumb. You know, like they're dumb in the sense, like let's give dumb a new connotation. Make America dumb. We're going to be dumb again, okay? Let's allow dumb to be this thing that just means more simple, more present, and less thinking that thinking is the strategy or performing is the strategy because those things create resistance. Now you've probably seen it as well when you look at people that have a lot of money or success. They're like, it's really— some of the most successful people I've seen, it's not that they're the smartest, most intellectual people. It's even sometimes a certain level of delusion. There is this guy that owns this drink company that I've met that literally, uh, they do like $100 million a year. and I got to talk to this guy. It's very interesting. He's a very strong visionary. Uh, it was very inspiring in some ways because the way he leads his team. But straight up, this guy is delusional. He's straight— I'm not kidding, he is straight up delusional. We are going to change the planet with this beverage company. This beverage company that has this like thing in it, the CBD, this is going to change the planet as we know it. And we are create like Now, I'm not judging and saying that that's not possible, but he is delusional in the current reality he's in. And he makes $100 million a year selling with his beverage company. So he's delusional, but he's extremely successful. Like, the way he talks about himself right now in reality is probably what got him to where he is, is to actually be delusional. And he's very smart, but he's also very dumb. Dumb in the sense of what we think of as like, that's not based in reality. And it's like almost not naive, but it's like, you really think that? And from the outside, it will look that way. And the reason that you're not maybe getting the success with abundance, money, or love is because there's this— there's that attachment to being either right or thinking that you need to think and be smart about it and intellectually understand every process. And that's actually the black. So even like, for example, even me making these videos, for example, a huge flip that comes that we'll get to in a second— actually got one more thing to talk about— but a huge flip that comes is when instead of focusing on the intellectual of how can I share all of these ideas in such a profound way that blows your mind and come up with a whole bunch of intellectual studies, etc., there's a process, there's a part of me that's like, I'm just going to be a little dumb dumb and have fun in sharing and expressing an idea that I think that if you allow yourself to like play around with will completely transform your life. It's process versus outcome. And when I say be dumb, I'm saying focus on process. Put it like a caveman. Focus on process. Focus on fun. How do you feel in your body? Focus on process instead of thinking is the way to do it and you figure it out and you intellectually carry the 7 to my childhood trauma of when I was 6. You see people doing the inner child, like healing stuff, and they're just still caught up in their mind 6 years later 'cause there's more and more and more to always find. What if your next breakthrough isn't around thinking, it's around feeling and letting it be simple? So this is the second part of this process. And going back to here for a sec, you gotta be bad. I have a video on YouTube that I put out a long time ago. You gotta be bad to be magnetic. And that video really resonated with people because it kind of flipped this idea on your head. Because think about this, this one idea I think can transform your life. When you were a kid, who did you have to be to get mom or dad's love? Whose love did you crave more? It's what Tony Robbins will say at one of his live events. He'll say, whose love did you crave more as a kid, your mother or your father's? And then someone will say, mom or dad. And they'll say, who'd you have to be And that's the question you wanna ask yourself because if who you had to be was smart, a performer, never get the answer wrong, and then you had this thinking strategy mechanism that comes into play, to be bad is like a no-no. So if you as a kid had to be a people pleaser, you will then please other people to make them happy. Guess what? To be pleasing other people you abandon yourself to please other people. You might be avoiding being authentic. And there's times where you realize like you're overextending yourself and you're literally like squashing authenticity to make other people happy because it's bad to choose you, because it's bad to say no, it's bad to set boundaries, it's bad to not fix. So when I say to become bad, to manifest what you want, it means to embrace the dark side that you've been avoiding because you've been afraid of the tension. And even as you watch this video right now, there may be a fear that if you let go of the thinking, that you're going to end up not attracting what you want or things are gonna get very resistant. Now, thinking less thoughts is actually the key to elevating your vibration. Now, something that we're gonna be doing soon is a 21-day Raise Your Vibration Challenge. We're going to be running this live, doing live meditations, step-by-step process. This isn't just like watching random YouTube videos. This is a process you will go through. We will go through it together with live hot seat coaching, live meditations, and etc., to help you raise your base point vibration. I've had over 20,000 people go through this process in the past. We're running it for the first time in the last 5 years live If you wanna join, click the link below, join the next one that we're doing very soon. With all the craziness in the world, I believe now is the time we come together to create mind and heart coherence and we elevate our vibration. And a big part of this is allowing ourselves to think less thoughts, which is what we will be talking about in the challenge. I'll be showing you how to do, giving you a meditation practice that'll completely transform it for you as well. So when we talk about being bad, this means becoming what you think of as dumb is a version of that. Dumb means simple and fun, not intellectually lots of importance to thinking. Does this make sense? So let's look at these, these elements then when we're thinking about this whole entire process of how to really unlock this for us and how I've used this in my life is I focus more on the process and having fun which allows it to be equal to my identity. And it's almost like more source pure energy flows through. It's like your job is to become an empty vessel to the divine to flow through. And as you do that, there will be less thinking. Doesn't mean, here's an unlock. This just came to me. This is like a really big unlock, I think, if you allow yourself to receive this. When you think of the ego and thinking, it's trying to solve things. The thinking is a survival mechanism that the ego is using to figure things out. And when it's out of balance, there's a lot of resistance and importance because there's a lot of pressure on the ego to figure it out. When you think less thoughts, you allow more of the divine to flow through. When you're having more fun, you're allowing more of the divine to flow through. And when you're in that energy, you are then connected to everything. So you don't have to be smart from the brain's perspective because you are connected to an energy that is connected to our collective consciousness. You then become connected to an energy greater than you, and that's what we're all really connected to. So this is about understanding that for this process, to embrace your bad side, to be dumb, it means to have fun and to let it be simple. Stop giving so much importance to thinking. Let it be easier for you. Simplify the process. Have more fun with it. Let yourself be a metaphorical dumb dumb and know that thinking and being smart might be a strategy that creates a lot of resistance. It's not about being smart. When you are actually dumber and thinking less thoughts, you will be connected to everything because there's more flow there. There's more being in the right place at the right time. There's more of a trust, and it's like the information is in your field instead of having to figure it out in your brain. So realize that the more you have fun in the sun— have fun in the sun, which means simply stare very strictly into the sun for 20 minutes once a day, just like that. I'm just kidding, I mean sarcastic, don't go do that. But like have fun in the sun. Like what is that energy for you? Have you more playful? Just have more fun, be playful and realize that to be delusional, there's this thing in the manifestation community a while ago that was like be the Lulu. I always thought it was so dumb to hop on that trend. Be the Lulu, but it probably somehow works because you're being delusional on your current reality. Current reality, which is probably kind of like a part of being dumb. I'm just like, I'm a rebel in my identity. So when I see a whole bunch of people making content like be the Lulu, I'm like, no, just be dumb, Maxine. I haven't seen this video yet. I feel a little more original even though we're all connected, collective consciousness, whatever. So these are the 3 things that will completely unlock your life. Join the 21-day Raise Your Vibration Challenge if you haven't already. Go through it. We're going through it brand new. And if you want a meditation, meditation that will help you to completely transform your life and to help you raise what is called your base point vibration. It's one of the most powerful meditations I have. Listen to this meditation for 21 days, read the comments to see what's possible, and watch what happens.